10 DO’S & DONT’S WHEN VISITING MALAYSIA! 🇲🇾 | RULES | PEACE ♥️ 

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11. If you are driving, don't honk unnecessary. Honking is the signal to take a fight.

No need to bow like Japanese. Just a slight nod as a sign of acknowledgment with right hand on your left chest ( greetings from the heart). Its an alternative handshake for those who dont wish to be touched ( be it becoz of religion, hygiene, covid etc.

We address each other as brother, sister, uncle aunty i know western don't like being call as uncle or aunties. We treat all regardless of race or religion as family and teach our child to do So. We ourselves been taught so too.

If somebody gave you money in an envelope PLEASE don’t open the envelope right in front of them because it’s kind of awkward and “no manners” according to us not according to you. Same thing when somebody gives you a present or a gift DO NOT unwrap them immediately unless asked to do so.

as a Malaysian i think most of us doesnt really care how tourists greet us, we don't force anyone to practice our culture either, just follow the rules i.e. clothing, PDA, no entry signs, no recording signs etc. you're good to go, one more thing that don't get offended when someone called you 'mat salleh' or 'negro' or 'uncle/auntie' that's how we used to apeak.😊

A lot of the things mentioned is mainly based on Islamic principles. But Malays are fantastic people and as you rightly said, very chilled, happy and relaxed.

In Malaysia, the do and don'ts for foreigners are very simple. As long as you try to follow the customs or manners, your host will feel happy, even if you make mistakes or are wrong. Politeness and civility always wins.

might i add.... when u go to someone house.. it is rude not to eat at their house bfore u leave... so make sure u eat at the house u r attending bfore u leave... even just a bite and a sip of the drink .. in fact some people love it if u eat everything they make... its make them happier... especialy elders

Assalamualaikum sister Saira Hayati me as Malaysian appreciate much your kind effortless updates and information and explanation to ppl fr new comers from other countries.. Keep up semoga Allah SWT permudahkan segala urusan anda dan murah rezeki anda.

Also the finger. To point an object you can using index but not to a person. To do on a person can point using thumb fingers.

We do talk about the 3Rs with close friends. If you are lucky to have close friends from your opposite race, do have that conversation. It helps we understand & respect each other more :)

as a Syrian, costumes here are exactly the same. I don't have to do anything new LOL. I was relieved to know, it's exactly the same! hopefully it'll make things very smooth and easy for me. "I'm studying in Malaysia"

If you don't like certain food just tell them you have allergic....most malays like to force you to eat the food they like. ( I'm malay..sonetimes I also feel annoyed too )Most Westerners don't like fish or dried fish..but in malaysia almost everybody eat fish ..

In a Malay household, if you're walking in front of people, esp. the elderly, just slightly bend your upper body with your right hand extending slightly in front of you. It's polite and a sign of cultured upbringing. Btw the greatest insult to a Malay is to be told one is "kurang ajar". Transliterally it means one is uncouth, uncultured, lacking in decorum. It reflects on one's upbringing and effectively it is therefore an insult to the parents - a double whammy'😢

You really fit well in our community appreciated your effort sister and for those who are interested she sound perfect❤️

Jzk dear for the wonderful briefings . I had never thought to visit Malaysia but watching ur videos ... just want to get there... May Allah(s.w.t) protect all muslim states. Stay blessed always ❤ 10:41

dont worry sister..as malay..i can tell u absolutely belong here in msia..we already fond of u..hope u get your visa..n stay with us forever😃

Hi Saira. Love your enthusiasm of our country 😊😊😊 hope your mum and princess are settling in perfectly. Looking forward to more of your videos 😃😃😃 By the way, the proper pronounce for Malaysians are..."Malaysian" 😁 When you say "Malays" you are only addressing 60% of the population, the other 40% prefer "Malaysian Indian", "Malaysian Chinese", "Malaysian Iban", "Malaysian Kadazan" etc. So for ease of addressing everyone here, we all say "Malaysian" 😃😃😃 we are in fact one big happy weird family (every sibling has their weirdness 😁😁😁)

Pretty good and comprehensive guide. One more to add, since we drive on the left side of the road, we also tend to walk on the left side of the pavement. So please do that when walking to avoid clashing into the opposite foot traffic. Same with the escalator.. If you want to stand on an escalator, stand on the left.. The right side is for people who want to walk and overtake others. This is especially important in the MRT/LRT stations.

To add point 7, if you happen to go to Govt Agencies Office, there are a dresscode that you have to obey i.e you have to dress properly like no short pants, no sleeveless etc2

The last one about showing affection is to avoid kids to see thing they are not supposed to do. You know kids is like monkey see monkey do? And you would understand why we are so protective to our kids, and it works to middle ages generations. But now with internet explosions, we are not sure we could protect our kids like our parents does to us as all those things is what Islam teach us.

Thank you for explaining important things about Malaysia to foreign guests..thanks again saira..😊😊

Love this lady!

Our hot dry season are usually in February and March. But we're experiencing extended heat due to El Nino, similar is happening in Thailand and Singapore currently.

I agreed with u. And agreed with the comments about bow. Just nodded your head is well enough. Malaysian understood foreigners not get to used that. And don’t forget to smile. 😅. U smile u will get the same as Return. Any races loves smiling. When I was in Sydney then I am smiling then that Aussie guy said what are u smiling at lol oopsss lol 😂 they don’t like ppl smiling at them. But for most ppl in Malaysia. Especially Muslim smiling is donation and u will get the rewards and ppl look at u release the stress. I agreed about malay calm and relax but don’t disturb the race , religion and royal because it’s the value of this country. We called rukun Negara.and it’s is secured under the law. U can google rukun Negara and that is why Malay is sensitive. This country independence from the British they have to sacrifices and give the citizenship for the immigrant by British. And Malay king 👑 want this country protected the Malay and royal also Islam religion. And Malay is the one kicked out the colonies. For a couple of century. From portugese , Dutch , Japanese and British. Many has died the Malays warrior has died in order to protect this country and Islam religion. That is why Malays is sensitive about the 3r. Because Malays had sacrifices a lot for the centuries.

I think you’ve almost nailed evting here.. you have done a wonderful PR job here Saira.. welldone 👍

11. If u need help, do not hesitate to ask the locals for guidance. Since english is widely used here, most locals would happily help u out. If u encounter a "local" looking person but doesn't speak a word of english, they are likely a foreigner/immigrant workers from neighbouring asian countries. Not saying every Malaysian speaks english but there is a high chance that they do.

Malaysian always respect any one come here no matter where you come from we Malaysian always treat and respect those other come from other countries 😊

Thank you for your advice❤

I really appreciate your channel and it is so informative. Thank You much, I love listening to you! Even your sense of humour is Fab. Jazak Allah Khairun. ❤❤

i am Indian working and living in Singapore for nearly 15 years and have visited Malaysia at least 15-20 times. There are exceptions everywhere but i find Malay people one of the best in the world, humble, easing going, happy-go-lucky, respectful ,non-hypocrite. I may be a bit biased due to religious alignments but love them wholeheartedly. One complain though , they smoke a lot.

You are 100% correct! 🎉

Yes.. Alhamdulillah. We love you Mrs Saira Hayati.

If i may correct you slightly on the greetings. Ladies with ladies will offer handshakes with both hands together, then bring both hands to the chest (as like receiving your hands and taking them to the heart). Children with adults will shake hands and bring the adults hands to their forehead or if with close relatives, kiss the hand. Men with men will do the usual handshakes. The double hands is only with close relatives. Opposites sex, yes hand to heart with a slight nod. Not so much of bowing. Finally in business settings, handshakes are common between every one gents and ladies alike. But always allow the ladies to offer their hand first.

And dress modestly when going to government places like the immigration department etc

Thank you for this Saira Hayati. As a Malaysian perhaps the most important value for us is the respect for elders (regardless of family/non family, race or religion). We expect our young to show respects to them- smile, giving up seats and generally helping them whenever they need help- addressing them as uncles, aunties, pak cik, makcik etc.. Thank you for sharing your contact i'll be in touch with you i hope you're ok with that.

Keep it pumpkin… you are doing great.

It was really very important and helpfull . Thanks a lot for yoyr great efforts notes

I really agree with the right hand point. Only if we really cannot use our right hand to pass something, we will say “sorry guna tangan kiri” meaning “sorry i use my left hand”.

Love and respect

Malaysia is divided into two parts it was formed in 1963: West Malaysia, also known as Semenanjung Malaysia, and East Malaysia, which consists of Sabah and Sarawak on the island of Borneo. East Malaysia offers a unique experience with its diverse ethnicities, exotic islands, and rich cultural heritage. In Sarawak, the majority race is the Dayaks, while in Sabah, the majority race is the Kadazan-Dusun. The lifestyle in East Malaysia is more laid-back, and the people live in harmony, embracing their cultural diversity. Sarawak is renowned for its delicious layer cake dessert, while Sabah is famous for its fresh seafood. Additionally, there are various dialects spoken in Sabah and Sarawak, adding to the cultural richness of the region. Visiting Borneo provides a completely different experience compared to West Malaysia..

Hi Sister, please do a Vlog on how to book holiday accommodation in KL and other places as able to!

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Thank you sis for your sharing.. the knowledge are important 👍.

The best part is tips is not compulsory....

What a nice homework... Congratulation easy to get U assimilate with Malaysian ❤❤❤

Best of the best.....from Malaysia with love👍👍👍

As a Malaysian so thank you to bring out this topic even Malaysia is multi races that you might know you will know about other races in Malaysia that make Malaysia really special 😊. ....

Good one. Thank you for sharing....***Am a Malaysian.

Well done sister...🎉

Thank you for this great information about Malaysian culture

Tolerence.. is what we call. We mind our business, you mind yours. But like any tolerance, theres a breaking point... So, we don't talk about it, as long as it was not effected our business.

Salam aleicum U r great Thanks 4 your advise Inshalah i will do my hijera in malesia

Terima kasih puan untuk penerangan

Great analysis pls also make video on small business ideas and taxes in Malaysia

In Malaysia the word Boss can also be use in daily coversation as replacement for bro or sis. Eg. When ordering food you call the waiter boss. "Boss order please".

What i loved was that the Pakistani cuisine is incredible... better ingredients make all the difference

For the sensitive topics, apart from the 3 Rs, its also quite sensitive for a foreigner coming from a 'richer' countries and bragging how everything is cheap here. Trust me, most Malaysians are so annoyed to hear that when we are working our butts off to make a decent living here despite being a professionals or holding multiple degrees. Our salary is just too low. A doctor here probably earning just more or less 1000pounds.

With peace and tolerence

When in doubt, just go about things slowly and humbly, Malaysians will accommodate and explain what to do

Hey! 1000 marks for you. ❤

Most importantly be respectful and when in doubt just ask. Most Malaysian will assist or advice and appreciate that you are trying to learn.

Thanks you so much ❤❤❤❤

There’s probably more chance of me moving to the moon than Malaysia unfortunately but a girl can dream 💭love your videos x

Regards From Scotland 😊

Thank you...sister.

It's more of a rule of thumb than the norm. It depends on the individual. You can address senior folks sir, Mr/Mrs or uncle/aunt. In Malay language we hv different pronouns to address certain persons like pronouns for seniors/elders; another pronoun to address strangers and another pronoun for when you speak with acquaintances/friends/colleagues; a certain pronoun when Malay folks speak to the opposite gender.

Hi mate, malaysia do affected by elnino and la nina, and currently we have very high moisture due to that too

Useful advise. As a general rule.

Salam sister Saira lots ❤ n watching your video from Jkrta

Go to East Malaysia and learn they culture..it quite different ..too many culture

U literally can call anyone ‘boss’, even waiters at mamak restaurants

maybe one I'd like to point out, when you want to refer to Malaysian as a whole, you should say in full - Malaysian - not just Malay, because as you have pointed out we consists of many races i. e: malay, Chinese, Indian, borneo ethnics, the orang asli ethnics, siamese etc. so if you just say Malay, it just refer to only Malay (race) 😅

You're very much appreciated sister. When you are about to use your index finger, may it be for pointing at someone or something or showing the way, use your THUMB instead of index finger. With only that, as a foreigner you'll be definitely shock at how the locals show their appreciations & loves on you.

We're Malay muslim was so kind and generous, that why British easily invaded us as their colonized more than 200 yrs and before that by Dutch and Portuguese

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She is brilliant

Salam Saira.. one point need to share is that many foreigners are always mistaken is that there is a different between Malays and Malaysians. Malay is a race, the majority of the population. Malaysian is the nationality, there are Chinese, and Indian Malaysians as well. I've notice many western RU-vidrs tend to misuse those 2 terms mistakenly. Eg. Malaysian food may also include Chinese and Indian food, but Malay food doesn't.

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Malaysian people are all about being respectful. Many foreigners in Malaysia don't respect their own culture, no wonder some local don't like them. I am living in Birmingham, UK nearly 20 years, I never seen Malaysian makes trouble to local people in the UK.

It is absolutely fine to shake hands with Malaysian women who are Chinese or Indian.

One more thing about making payments, we hardly carry much cash around anymore, as a result of covid. Commonly used now are digital payment systems, TNG, Grab, Boost, Fave, Duit Now etc. Even the night markets and hawkers accept. So convenient. Never again do we fumble with our wallets and carry boatloads of coins. Bigger amounts, use debit or credit cards.

Omg abt touching head!!! I married outside of culture and in his culture touching head and playing with it is SO NORMAL. I was SO SO SO OFFENDED at first and I hv to tell him to cut it out or cut it down because I've been raised to feel offended by this

And also…especially ladies, hide your barefeet when sitting down especially in Malay houses. Even you are seated in the couch, you must find the way to curl? To bend side ways? To hide your toes. If sitting on the floor, use your blouse to cover them. It is not compulsory but the act will signal that you came from a noble family with a good upbringing. For men, not so much but retract them a bit if you are sitting in front of elder persons. Big NO to show the sole of your feet to anyone. That’s considered very rude.

Talking about spicy, do you know that spices is the only torture we could have during the meal and that brings adrenaline and excitement while enjoying the food. And the torture will go away after your meal. How awesome 😂😂😂 If you live adventure and challanges, spicy is way to go to challange yourself 😅

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One more point to add..no smooching, kissing or over affectionate act with your partner/couple/girlfriend/boyfriend in front of malaysian public. And no wearing of revealing clothes too. Malaysia is strongly against LGBT...so avoid the scene in our country...

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Received and give with both hands.

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Our dental office too we take our shoes off and have slippers they provided i found this amazing ❤

Wonderful ,nice and well spoken woman.All the best and may Allah bless you

Salam, Can you please advise on which website is best to look for renting a condo in Melaccha ? Thank you

Please allow me add, when one wants to point at something, we Malays use our right thumb to point at the object, or the direction we want to point you to. We do NOT use our forefinger to do so. We also never use our left hand to eat, or to feed someone with it. Even when using a knife and fork, we use the right hand to put food in our mouth ( after cutting the piece of food to size, we transfer that peice of food, at the end of the fork, to our right hand, before putting it in our mouth). Malays are very conscious of this. As you said, we use our right hand to hand over anything to another person, BUT if for some reason we are unable to, we apologize for using the left hand before handing the item over. Hope this helps.

can you do a video on the actual application process for MM2H please?

Don't forget to say Lah in last your sentence..example..comeon Lah..okay Lah..🤣🤣

Thank you for the video! Can a head nod replace the bowing? Some scholars are against this practice as any kind of bowing is reserved only for Allah SWT

when give present especially to Muslim, give those item best have halal sign, do not smoke in shopping mall and restaurants, do not shake hand or hug only apply to Muslim people, non Muslim is alright with it

Salam sister I'm coming to Malaysia for a short 4 days visit with my children. Will land on 9th May. Would love to meet with if you have some free time. Staying at Corrset Hotel Kula lumpur. After watching your videos decided to this short visit on kids uni break. Hope to hear from you. 👋