10 Important Details That Baby Reindeer Left Out 

Which Baby Reindeer moment shocked you the most? The Chilling True Story Behind Baby Reindeer ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5LsLnkusp0I.html

My fav character is actually Keeley's mom who is super kind to give Donny a place to live despite no longer being in a relationship with her daughter anymore.

I also liked the fact that Gadd did not paint himself in the best light. He made sure that his flaws were also on display and that’s brilliant for me.

Both the real and Netflix Martha are disturbed and tragic as well as dangerous, but where is the rapist? As a response to the show, stopping him seems more fruitful than ridiculing her

I am flabbergasted at the amount of protection the real Darrien O'Connor has received. Supposedly people in the industry know who he is, and he just gets away with it without consequences? WTF?

Didn’t MsMojo just put out this exact video the other day? Did Ashley just re-record the narration?

Her name is Fiona Harvey. She is even going on Piers Morgan to talk all about it.

No, none of these were important for the show, truthful or not its absolutely perfect

Why would Gadd write into the show that Martha was charged, convicted and imprisoned? And why would Netflix say it was a true story without checking out all the details? And not very good at disguising Martha’s real life identity.

He said that he had changed the stalker so that she would not recognise herself, that's was a lie, she looked exactly like the actress

Wasnt he the also SA’d by a man? Why is all the focus on this female? Do males get a pass on SA? I am flabbergasted. No is saying anything about the male SA. Why?

Be careful to those who are defending Fiona, she might take it as you are in love with her

Does anyone else feel sorry for the real life 'Martha'. Of course we don't know what truly went on, who knows if he perhaps led her on or made her feel like there was some kind of connection. I just think she was/is clearly mentally unstable, and he in some way allowed it to continue for sometime, which he admitted. He has now profited from it and she will now get lots of hate, which will only continue to make her mental health worse which was probably never even addressed. I honestly feel sad for her and think she needs help

Definitely BASED on real life but since Fiona Muir Harvey has come forward, it’s obvious she never went to jail, she IS a lawyer, and she was never previously arrested for stalking. It’s okay to exaggerate for drama but he now has to take responsibility for people believing that the real person did everything that was portrayed and is now being harassed and abused. Also it bothers me that he never went after the rapist which can be argued is a far worse crime than anything she ever did.

An important detail left out is that the real Martha was never convicted of anything

So is Martha actually American? The actress I mean . I haven’t watched this yet

I don't see how any good came out of making this Netflix series.

Wonderfully written and dark comedy. AKA How to get Revenge while Somehow Hiding in Plain Sight.

I came away from the show like, what the hell was that I just watched. I did not like him any more than I disliked her. I feel he kept it going when he could have shut it down. I totally just don't know on this one. Why did he go back and visit his abuser? I feel no one would allow for a woman to be acting that mental in a pub and screeching and shouting at him all the time when she was having her angry mental moments, but then again, who knows, people are not the same anymore. Definitely food for thought. Didn't leave me with a good feeling afterwards.

Actress who played Martha was absolutely brilliant, totally unhinged, and frightening to think of 👏 👏 👏

Baby Reindeer opened the door that men can be victims of both sexual assault & stalking by someone of the opposite sex.

this show broke me. can't imagine the amount of courage he had to find to reenact certain scenes. i personally skipped those, because i really couldn't bring myself to watch them. the cast is excellent. jessica gunning, who played martha, oh my god she's brilliant, and nava mau, who played teri, she's fantastic!!! they're all brilliant and i hope they win all the awards.

It was truly courageous for Richard Gadd to reenact his own harrowing experiences of having been stalked, as well as his brutal sexual assault. I hope that there were plenty of emotional support counsellors on the set to help with any possible PTSD.

It’s interesting how the most mentioned part of the story is the stalking but in my mind being raped by that guy and his father’s story about the Catholic Church are huge in comparison!

It's odd how Richard protected his stalkers identity and now she's exposed herself to piers Morgan and is screaming at the world that Richards a liar. Why would you expose yourself then cry foul? Now we know who stalked him.

This show is the best/worst thing to happen to reindeers since Rudolph

Richard Gadd took tragic experiences and transformed them into art that millions can appreciate. He was vulnerable and strong in the very best way.

I was destressed but could not stop watching.

The way police treat stalking is almost as if they give stalkers guidelines to stay out of trouble... Do what you like as long as no threats are made. It needs to change.

Martha’s acting was brilliant….

The actress who played Martha was absolutely fantastic. She deserves all the awards.

Where do these stalkers even find the time?!

Excellent writing. Truthful storytelling. Great acting. Gives visibility to men as victims of assault, not just men, bisexual men. Turns your entire wold upside down while it takes you from seeing a person that seems not to be able to help themselves to a point in which you can see what most of society sometimes seems not being able to see. Men have feelings, bisexual men exist, sometimes people are just going through more than one terrible thing at a time to a point in which they can feel the whole world has let them down. Baby Reindeer makes history. From Mee too, to Hannah Gadsby to the future: which is learning that anyone can be a victim of such crimes and we must not ignore these situations no matter what the aggressor or the victim look like.

I was mesmerised & horrified at the same time. The groomer was despicable. The stalker was mentally ill & had such a skewed view of the relationship she created in her head with Donny. She took away his control over his life. He had nowhere to go to get away from her. We read about people being stalked but cannot imagine what it really is like. How dangerous it is & I hope the police can act quickly & listen to the victims.

As a survivor who wrote about her own story, I want to hug Richard Gadd and share a laugh with him. It's hard-core adulting, but we give purpose to our pain through art. We're not defined by our trauma. We're the embodiment of having survived it.

I’m thankful Gadd shared his sexual assault. I didn’t find out about my son’s assault until he had tried several times to end himself. He was too scared to see me hurt/upset and didn’t want any of his peers to make fun of him. By the time I found out (during one of his mental treatment sessions) that the information was disclosed. By that time he had turned to drugs to deal with the pain, sadly passing in 2018.

The father’s story was the part that had me near tears. I couldn’t understand why he fed off the creepy attention of Martha and that industry guy, but I liked how he explored the nuance of the blurriness around consent.

The series was pretty good. The worst part was the torture of watching his bad onstage comedy gigs.

I just hope the person that assaulted him isn’t still assaulting people.

It's incredibly admirable how Richard Gadd bravely shared his personal experiences, even those that might make him vulnerable to prejudice. His courage in opening up not only helps him in his healing journey but also extends a supportive hand to others who may be going through similar struggles.

She gives some amazing Kathy Bates vibes in this 😱

The real “Martha” was recently interviewed on Piers Morgan. The comments tell you all you need to know. 😂 While trying to defend herself, she comes off JUST like the women who portrayed her.

Wow…so he wrote it and STARRED in it! SENSATIONAL! ❤😮

I was stalked at high-school.. similar situation of being kind to someone with mental health issues. It truly messed me up for a long time , and even now i always take in everything around me on high alert. 1 out of 12 woman are stalked in their lifetime and 1 out of 45 men, whether known or not known. Be careful out there. Stats are more so woman, so it is harder for a man to be taken seriously which is sad indeed. Anyone should be able to take protection orders regardless of gender, however. Sometimes those thing's fuel the stalker and makes them more dangerous like in my case

Her performance was so convincing that she scared me. I don't care easily either but parts of that were chilling, the it it's flipped on its head. Brilliant

The show was so good what an amazing man to come out and speak about breaking the cycle of Silence

Absolutely loved this series!! Gadd is a phenomenonal writer and actor and to have to act from his own experiences makes him even better because he had to show sides of himself that many people would feel embarrassed or traumatized by. Gunning and the rest of the cast are amazing too!! An amazing job done by everyone involved!!

Baby Reindeer is a stunning production.

Baby Reindeer was brilliant, was very difficult and triggering to watch at certain moments but I will certainly say that it's one of the best series I've watched on Netflix and I've subscribed to Netflix for years now...👌👍🌟

The main thing that stood out to me in this show is the depiction of his loneliness. Many say why did he keep going back to the abuser? Why did he initiall like the attention from the stalker? Gadd's character comes across as incredibly lonely and that may be the reason why he initially held onto these relationships

I totally get that he doesn't want people to speculate who the real people are, but he was a bit naïve to think no one would want to find out. I mean, you say it's based on your true story, people are naturally nosy, of course they are going to try and figure it out! I'm sorry for anyone accused that actually never did such things, but it was inevitable it would happen.

I read the real life Martha is filing a lawsuit against Netflix and Richard G for depicting her as ugly , because she is extremely beautiful and she also denies things that happened. She also posted nonstop on fb and other social media. Nonstop. 😂

I have one more episode left to watch tonight and I can’t wait to watch it. I have to say that the series has been excellent. Gadd is very brave to choose to put his story out for all to see. There have been incredibly funny scenes (I love Gadd’s dad, he is freaking hilarious) and truly sad, heartbreaking scenes. I wish only great things for Gadd in the future, he is very talented and deserves success. 😊

i’ve been saying “baby reindeerrrr” •martha voice• for a week solid & i cant fckn stop. 😂

Crazy good show. Lots of personal things hit home for me. This topic SA abuse needs to be talked about more.

Having been a victim of SA myself, I found it pretty triggering if I'm honest. Upon embarking on the series i didnt realise it was autobiographical, hut i could tell through directorship that the protagonist had experienced drug related SA before, and the way it depicted events was exactly the way it happens and feels to be a victim of drug related SA. In some ways I felt relieved that someone had been through almost exactly the same experience as me, but i also think there needed to be adequate trigger warnings for victims of SA at the beginning of the movie, in that I had no idea what kind of turn it was going to take and by the time i got that sinking feeling of the direction in which it had segwayed, i was already invested in the protagonist enough to want to know if he survived it and the effect it had on his life. Had it had adequate warning at the beginning of the series i might not have watched it, but I'm also in a very healed place about what happened and have processed a lot of the PTSD of the event. That being said, i think people need to feel a sense of discomfort in order to actually realise what SA survivors go through, as society is quite niahlistic about the conversation and it impossibly niahlistic about male survivors of SA, which is a conversation which very much needs to be had. There was also a sense of cathartism at the purging of everything that happened to the protagonist in a very public way, in that 99.999% of survivors will never be able to tell their story that way and have peopoe listen, and it inspired me to want to write my own memoirs about my experience, but also gave me a sense of doom that people might never listen to it. All in all it was incredibly brave of the writer to tell his story, and in the end if it helped someone then it was worth it, i hope it inspired more male survivors of SA to come forward

HG Tudor has done an outstanding job analyzing the Martha character on his channel in a series titled, Baby Reindeer. He's beginning another analysis on the Damien character. Well worth watching.

I really enjoyed this program and recommend watching it... it was thought-provoking and I could only watch one episode at a time

This was SUCH a good show. I binged the entirely last night, and I’m in awe. One of the best shows I’ve ever seen. ❤

His acting was pretty impressive tbh

“Oliver” award-winning - really, Mr Narrator? 😂

The lengths victims have to go through to protect themselves from a stalker is insane. Waiting until someone becomes dangerous to you…

I binged watch this .not knowing the hole story to watch was intense superb acting from all.thecl insight to abuse .and the metal health that occurs being stalked .help me with recognising behaviours after the fact I thank him for being venerable again it take alot of courage. I found out after the fact this was truth for him ❤

And then some-AN MP yesterday told of his horror after a stalker falsely accused him and his wife of abusing their disabled son. Labour's Jimmy Wray and wife Laura were visited by social workers investigating claims they had beaten four-year-old Frankie. The couple received death threats after Fiona Harvey, 36, was dismissed from Laura's former law firm. Wray, 63, said: "It is upsetting enough for Laura and myself, but for Frankie to be dragged into this was hugely distressing." FULL STORY - PAGE 5 COPYRIGHT 2002 Scottish Daily Record & Sunday

After watching this show, I am more stunnned and disturbed by the brutal sexual assault instead of the stalking. It's what I'm left thinking about the most.

Gadd has admitted himself that he made a lot of mistakes, even lightly encouraging Martha a bit in the beginning. He should have shut it down immediately.

Richard Gadd should pay for my therapy sessions. But no, he had been through a lot and even had to recreate his situation back then. I just want to give him a hug and tell him that everything is gonna be okay; it’s not his fault 🫂 *Good Will Hunting hugging style* to be specific

The most disturbing thing is his personal choice to ALWAYS have that horrendous haircut! Get rid of that fringe from the D_mb and D_mber movie, ffs!

except that she was not convicted...so how much is real?

All of this could have been avoided had Netflix added a couple of simple words at the start….”based on..”

He offers her a cup of tea because she couldn't afford it. Straight afterwards she prattles about being a successful lawyer. At that moment, why didn't he have one or two thoughts. 1, She is a bloody liar is as poor as dirt or 2, She is a grifter who finds ways to get things for free ... either way, i'd not want anything to do with Martha

6:25: Oliver award?

Parts of this show was truly disturbing. I had to turn away... the s abuse and drug taking especially.

I watched the "real life movie" and I think Gadd is using everyone and everything to get noticed. Just because the real woman might have some issues, doesn't give Gadd permission to fictionalize their relationship. I think he would sleep with anything that he thinks would get him fame.

Both are unhinged

Richard is an absolute inspiration and I wish I was as brave ❤

IDK who's cutting Richard's hair, it looks terrible.

none of this explains his attraction to trans men.

Latest news she loves keir starmer. Emailing him now.

cant stop thinking about the book a million little pieces, and how ppl LIE for fame. there are THREE sides to every story.

Definitely a compulsive-addictive show! Loved it. But I can be Dark…

It did not take me long to find out. Who “Martha” was. Her FB is unhinged…..sad!!!! I have not found out who his “groomer” is. I found the whole story sad!!

Hold stalkers accountable. Stalking is a CRIME!!! Stalkers lie because they know full well what they are doing is WRONG!! They are hoping the public is both sympathetic and gullible.

If Gadd really wanted to disguise who "Martha" really is, why did she so closely resemble the woman who claims to be the "real" Martha? She's obes, she's Scottish, she's a lawyer. Why not make Martha a slimmer woman from, Liverpool or Birminghan for example> Why not change her profession from lawyer to something else - an accountant or teacher? It would have been so easy so I wonder if, maybe, Gadd is seeking some level of revenge for the treatment he, allegedly, received. Or maybe the real Martha is, in fact, a slim young redhead with a disability and a degree in accountancy, and by sheer coincidence, Fiona Harvey thinks it's her. I do actually believe she's "not telling the truth" - to quote her own words, I'm just playing Devil's Advocate" - again, quoting her own words which, by the way she misuses.

Brilliant writing, excellent performances

If this was happening to a woman,everyone would wonder why haven't he jailed❤

I binged BR today. FANTASTIC.

One thing that gets rarely discussed because of the controversy is how sexual abuse can confuse someone’s sexuality and even their gender identity. This series did a great job of portraying that. His attraction to Teri was a consequence of the abuse he experienced. Let’s not deny that. Of course, Teri had no idea and called it his “prejudice” ie transphobia, that he wasn’t sexually attracted to her.

Fiona just wants her piece of the profits, in my opinion. She doesn't seem phased by the truth.

Fiona Harvey is the real life Martha.

The 'big screen' acting roles came after the Edinburgh show.

350 hours of voicemails?!?!?!? Bruh

Only problem I have with this is why I didn’t take a man to be stocked for them to show how ridiculous the police are about it. It’s almost like mansplaning this to.

Beautiful show. Loved the way Gadd is taking a piss at himself. He doesn’t spare himself at all. Terri was my favourite character ❤❤❤ Beautiful actress and strong role.

The lady concerned has give her version of the story in the Scottish paper, The Daily Record, claiming she has never been in jail, police never came to her house, she has never been taken to a police office, never charged with any crime. Claims the film is full of lies.

I enjoyed this vid, I was 14 min in and was looking forward to a 10 count down. Maybe it happens later? I am very interested in what was NOT included in the Netflix series.

This is a bit of a dangerous show. I hope it is all based on the truth and not twisting it and making the people who were suposed to be unknown criminalised falsley

Funny how it was so easy to find her... Yet ... No one can find the writer 🤔🤔🤔🤔 interesting, that. Almost as if ... He doesn't exist 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 kinda like Fiona's prison record

"A restraining order was taken out". Based on what? Nothing? An unproven claim in his legal filing? Or perhaps a claim in an interview? Next question - was she investigated? Next question, did he report her to the police? And I'm not even suggesting she didn't stalk him.

Seeing the texts come out ( which shows that 'martha' was really racist) makes me think that he downplayed how horrible she was