10 NICE GUY Mistakes Men Make

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Being nice is not always a recipe for a fulfilling life. In today's video, Jeff from The Style O.G. discusses 10 nice guy mistakes men make.
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@jasontutorials4809 4 месяца назад

Being too nice just gets you taken for granted and unappreciated , worst position to be.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Indeed!

@RobynJ729 4 месяца назад

True! Same for women.

@walterhunter3353 4 месяца назад

I’m going through it right now. I know better but after this situation no more.

@nigellewis2132 4 месяца назад

1000%

@jandlstacy9740 2 месяца назад

People don't respect nice; they respect assertiveness and leadership.

@longbeachmaumba7059 4 месяца назад

Unfortunately most women in 2024 simply don't want a good man. They say they do but deep down they don't. They like drama. Some will literally get turned off if you treat them too good. Imagine that.

@Eazyfunnymoney 4 месяца назад

That's women 4 ya Dammed if you do.....

@prestonmcleod1726 4 месяца назад

So true

@therocketshow 4 месяца назад

Yall ain’t wrong but also I think your looking in the wrong places and wrong types of women there are realy good quality women out there still!! Keep looking and stay a gentleman!!! And keep all the advise the style of is giving us men!!!

@TrillBill 4 месяца назад

@@therocketshow Truth be told, alot of guys don't want Good women either. Both sides are being gaslit

@Jac735 4 месяца назад

@dcoldestjenkins5868 passports are getting worse too I know a few people who brought their women here and got dumped right off the gate for they green card church girls are were it's at unless they aren't hypercrytes

@Larry-qz3es 4 месяца назад

Tupac said when a woman rejected him for being “too nice.” When he changed his image and asserted himself, women desired to be with him.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Assertiveness is key!

@swannyriver75 4 месяца назад

A loving woman will show you she appreciates you whether she writes you a note or buys your favorite snacks or send you a surprise gift, you'll know if she never does this walk away..

@halfnorfolk5310 4 месяца назад

Agreed! Women want a man that is assertive and won’t let people walk all over him. Women feel that an assertive man will also be assertive in protecting her if the need ever calls. And an assertive man most likely will be respected more because people respect others who set boundaries and won’t let themselves be walked on.

@biggibby54 4 месяца назад

Be authentic...set boundaries...those two tips alone will propel you forward in life.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Indeed!

@clarencegibbonz4770 4 месяца назад

Being nice isn’t always bad or stupid. A woman can TELL if you are being a Gentleman or not. There has always been a bad-boy element that woman love. But the majority will marry the empathetic nice man for stability and nurturing and balance. Key. Know when to turn nice - on or off! But always be a Gentleman at all times…

@imightormightnot 4 месяца назад

Agreed!!

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

well said!

@therocketshow 4 месяца назад

I concur!!

@prestonmcleod1726 4 месяца назад

Excellent advice!!

@nightlifeking 3 месяца назад

Another nice guy trait, asking for a date on a Friday or Saturday and you’re under 30. Even if you’re not doing anything you need to look like you have a social life. Trust me, it works.

@ericrobinson1789 4 месяца назад

Being too available and over accommodating is one of the worse things a man can do. Especially in the interest of a woman.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

For real!

@toddgaak422 4 месяца назад

A wise man once said, "Be nice, until it's time to not be nice."

@waynenice 4 месяца назад

Thanks Uncle O.G. I Myself needed this one!! I can always count on you to come through.. Thanks! W.N.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

You are very welcome!

@roronoazoro-136 4 месяца назад

Dated a girl. I respected her. We talked every day for three weeks, and BAM. She sent a long ass reject message. I was hurt for weeks, but today I feel stronger.

@1852live 4 месяца назад

Strength to you King! 💪🏾 Take care! 🫡

@imightormightnot 4 месяца назад

Wow..

@Jac735 4 месяца назад

Get this I got out of my 5 year relationship and engaged this 1 girl I met she kept flirting wirh me and kept playing with me now when she found out I broke up with my ex she blows me off completely plays around with me and dosent take a hint I want to hang with her more long story short it's not like she is a 7 or 8 she only a 6 and still plays around claiming she only had 1 bf before and always wanted to find love she only calls me or dies whatever only when she wants something but some people make ex uses for her listen if you show me who you are and your bring a hypercryte I just won't respect you anymore

@JustMe-999a 4 месяца назад

Youu should have enough going on that you can't talk to her every day

@Jac735 4 месяца назад

@@JustMe-999a dayum you right

@ellevee6919 4 месяца назад

Know balance. Takes a minute if you don't have self discipline. Be courteous but not a pushover.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

appreciate the input!

@apeele298 4 месяца назад

Yes. Sooooo true. Always be on your purpose. She will respect you more

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Yes Sir!

@jamiewright4704 4 месяца назад

I need to watch this everyday this week until I think it through a few times.good advice

@mnewby82 4 месяца назад

I've made all of these mistakes. I wasn't taught any of this growing up. I grew up stupid when it comes to women

@christoforoslefko4387 4 месяца назад

Man & women can’t be just friends

@RobynJ729 4 месяца назад

Jeff, you're 💯 on point! This can apply to women as well. (Looking 🔥 dapper as always).

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Yes! Thank you!

@zengreen7 4 месяца назад

NEVER BE NICE, BE KIND. Btw Style OG, what color is that jacket???

@mikereese15 4 месяца назад

So many of these relate to just ordinary working relationships too.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

They do

@therocketshow 4 месяца назад

Man iv been taken advantage of pretty bad trying to be a nice guy and not standing my ground and let her go even when I knew she was using me…was the worst thing I ever did. The cold part was, that part of her game was sex. And I was too blinded and quite frankly In high sight I was also desperate for a relationship ship and she strung my simp butt along and got as much as she could untill she let me know she didn’t want to be with me. I spent years afterward being a womanizer…now I have a loving fiancé that cherishes my love for her and she has spent everyday showing me the same love back even through our problems and feeling like it won’t work out we still manage to work through it all!!! We are starting counseling through our church really soon to work out some issues we have together our 2 year anniversary is next month june 2nd!!!

@chrisb3902 4 месяца назад

Great video Jeff & sharp jacket! 🫡

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Thanks! 👍

@jmorgan0829 4 месяца назад

Lol.lol, this is a good topic. I love me, a nice guy, but i like what you pointed out. It could be family or friends as well.

@TrillBill 4 месяца назад

8:44 This one hit close to home. I'm glad I put in the work to outgrow that, because it put me in ALOT of bad spots as a kid, and also as a teenager.

@rlazz 4 месяца назад

I've been slippin on your videos Brother but I'm paying attention now, SALUTE!!!!

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Welcome back!

@roderickcoffman4185 4 месяца назад

Please tell tell me where you got that jacket and what is the exact color. That jacket is cold blooded!

@kyamlegend 4 месяца назад

“Nice guys finish last” & “No good deed goes unpunished”…keep these phrases in back of your mind and act accordingly. At a certain point of life you should know difference of being taken advantage of or when your actions are truly appreciated and reciprocated

@ralphsica657 2 месяца назад

So true.

@jong7513 4 дня назад

Let's be clear, these are mistakes when dealing with mercenary women who are in it for themselves.

@thomastripp9002 4 месяца назад

This is WHAT I NEED TO HEAR!!!! Although I’m getting better at it, it can still need a whole lot of work

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

You got this!

@Eazyfunnymoney 4 месяца назад

Its jacked up we live in a time where you dammed for being to nice.....but if you a jerk, that dont fly over well either.....unless you a jerk with 🤑 for some

@Jac735 4 месяца назад

Mane these women are laughing at all of us now cuz they are in control they be doing that in most videos

@ewayne1918 4 месяца назад

Great insight sir. Truly appreciated

@o751106 4 месяца назад

There's someone for everyone. Be yourself.

@jasonellis9777 4 месяца назад

It’s too bad it has to be like this but it’s true. The better you treat a woman, the more you fawn over her, the less she will like you and the worse she will treat you. And that is a fact. You actually have to do the opposite of what you feel. If you really like a woman then you have to not let her know. Once she knows you “love” her your stock drops with her. Facts.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

I think the true answer lies somehow in between,,

@bagramfacilities 4 месяца назад

Preciate the guidance OG. That jacket is straight ❤‍🔥.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Thanks!

@sleepergs430 3 месяца назад

I’ve been a nice guy for the longest and I am just now breaking out of all of these bad traits. Thanks OG for the confirmation that I’m doing things for myself the right way.

@TheStyleOG 3 месяца назад

My pleasure!

@Jalyng01 4 месяца назад

Man, I have been dealing with all 10 of these. Thanks for this video. I am going to do better starting today.

@dennismolina9033 4 месяца назад

Nice guys don't get no respect, before u know it ur just being a simp and the relationship is just 1 sided.

@brent1387 4 месяца назад

O.G. Great video…Looking sharp in that jacket…take-care!

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Appreciate it!

@DexterKing-gz6gs 4 месяца назад

Real women like strong wise men. Being kind is definitely the right way to go but stand firm and let her chase you.

@Wandrew223 4 месяца назад

Thank you brother! Much Appreciated! 💪🏼🇺🇸🎉

@SimplyTomasTheCollection 3 месяца назад

This are excellent points.

@TheStyleOG 3 месяца назад

Thaks!

@jrvthatsme 4 месяца назад

Good advice for men of all ages. Especially guys in their teens, as it's very easy to make these mistakes when you haven't yet had the life experience to know better.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

appreciate the feedback!

@cjjohnson8567 4 месяца назад

My guy🤝🏿

@kennethyoung4892 4 месяца назад

Great content! Salute

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Salute!

@aaronaustrie 4 месяца назад

Real talk!!

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Salute!

@corybrookins6996 4 месяца назад

Solid 💯Beginning to the end. BTW, congrats on the marriage! Blessings to you and the Mrs. Salute 🫡

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Appreciate that!

@michaelbullock8011 4 месяца назад

Great video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Thank you! You too!

@MugabiJB 4 месяца назад

I've been a nice guy to family members, they started taking me for granted

@kerry-j4m 4 месяца назад

Stop trying to please others,put your wants & needs first and learn to say-N-when you don't want to do something ofr others.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Family will do it as well!

@Bklynmason72 4 месяца назад

Great video as usual, OG. Another one would be making yourself always available to her. That is setting false expectations that a man would get a hard time from later on during a relationship.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

No doubt

@leonearly9593 4 месяца назад

Nice guys finish last bad boys finish on there face 😆😂

@aaronflowers8881 4 месяца назад

Lol

@rooski4049 4 месяца назад

I never tell a woman no, i prefer hell no, or no sirr....

@kevinhollingsworth7823 4 месяца назад

GEAT VIDEO AS ALWAYS O.G. YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT DOING A SEMINAR IN MAJOR CITIES.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

One day..

@averagevotersmith3326 4 месяца назад

Thats a sharp jacket my friend! Excellent video and information.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Thank you kindly!

@luernzojackson7825 4 месяца назад

This is a mistake I made keeping it real

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

It happens!

@JamesWhite-cr5ys 4 месяца назад

All good !

@genepitts4665 4 месяца назад

Have you been spying on me sir? I am a recovering nice guy and I hope that young dudes are getting this message early. It took a lot of messing up for me to get it. This is an excellent video

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Thanks Gene!

@octomoda 4 месяца назад

Great video and sharp ensemble. I’ve found Going back to failed relationships, professional or personal, is also mistake of the nice guy. It’s not wise to give people a second to abuse and manipulate you. Believe who people show themselves to be. I’ve learned this lesson.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

appreciate it!

@anthonylee1740 4 месяца назад

Hello Jeff, hope all is well. Great video!

@damianlopez7630 4 месяца назад

It is good to be nice many people appreciate it then again it is bad to be nice many people take you for granted and it happens among male friends and it happens among female friends to females also even in my AA group I'm friendly I'm nice and they take me for granted they don't even say hello many times then there are a few members who appreciate my kindness but I noticed that the members who are fiercely independent and don't show up to group meetings almost every member phones over them and it's really kind to them but to me they tend to give me dirty looks or they try to pressure me to be in group everyday different treatment than what many other people receive

@Eazyfunnymoney 4 месяца назад

Just continue to be yourself

@damianlopez7630 4 месяца назад

@@Eazyfunnymoney okay

@Daddy2025HQ 4 месяца назад

I tell them no get a job grown adult

@Cheez3Wagen 4 месяца назад

Much love Style O.G!

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

much love!

@therealcoolchris 3 месяца назад

This is wild! So, I was struggling with a decision this weekend over an invitation I received after I already made plans for another engagement. I was thinking about trying to split my time between both events, until I came across your video this morning. Serendipitous to say the least. lol Your advice helped me make the right decision and realize to not overextend myself to friends and family. I appreciate you much brother. Thank you for all the great work you’ve been doing on your channel!

@maureencora1 4 месяца назад

Like That Song By Alice Cooper "No More Mr. Nice Guy". (smile)

@ronmurrell8 4 месяца назад

Be your authentic self. Don’t be a nice guy or an asshole.

@aaronflowers8881 4 месяца назад

100

@Waltjoh100 4 месяца назад

The gen z arent running nice guy game that went out in the 90s. No1 is in the Olympics to show nice guy virtue. That was 90s sitcom where the nice guy gets the girl and the girls rebuff the bad boys

@Qthepug 4 месяца назад

These things are basically true. But many appealing women want someone they can take advantage of, who will give them constant validation, and who can help them achieve their goals. Good, fair women who seek a fair reciprocal relationship aren’t often the ones men desire. What’s healthy isn’t usually proportional to it’s appeal. Avoiding what looks and tastes good for something that is good for you can paradoxically lead to being unfulfilled and unsatisfied. A person’s tastes and values has a lot to do with how easy it will be to find a healthy and happy relationship. Your advice to respect yourself and to “go out there and find yourself a nice girl” isn’t as easy as it used to be. Especially if your attracted to certain kinds of women who are outside your race or socioeconomic position. The only old school advice that still remains as true now as it was a hundred years ago is : a man’s best friend is his dog.

@cliftonsledge962 4 месяца назад

Nice guys finish last and women don’t respect them. They respect the shark at the company, the man who has dog in him in a fight, or he’s a beast. My personal thoughts and salute 💪🏾

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Salute!

@o751106 4 месяца назад

That is personal. Women like what they like. Some women like nice guys. Some don't. Nice guys just need to find the ones that do.

@Jac735 4 месяца назад

@o751106 you barely see them though if you do they are church women or just somewhere far from you

@cliftonsledge962 4 месяца назад

@@Jac735 so true the good ones are hard to find 🙏🏾

@Jac735 4 месяца назад

@cliftonsledge962 appreciate it homie

@craigwright101 4 месяца назад

#Salute

@kennguru 2 месяца назад

Word!! 👏 💯 🤝

@Pault3788 4 месяца назад

I thought about dating,but I realized I have nothing to offer

@mustangdaddy4125 4 месяца назад

I am glad I found your channel 😊in 2024😊

@texasorange285 4 месяца назад

*** Jeffrey….just hit this out of the Park…clean out of Globe Park stadium!!! ( Texas). Personal Boundaries!!!!!

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Appreciate it!

@dholmesjr 4 месяца назад

Great advice and nice jacket... You should always set your boundaries and stand on them at all times.. Thanks again, Jeff. Salute.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Thanks!

@questioneverythingtv 4 месяца назад

Great tips OG 💪🏿💯

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Thanks!

@mngkyouGoD 4 месяца назад

Good to know...👍🏾

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

💯

@swannyriver75 4 месяца назад

Please gentlemen know that the right woman won't take you for granted. Believe me if she likes or loves you, you'll feel it reciprocated. Truth be told, she'll protect you from those who try to take you for granted that's how you know she cares.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

appreciate the input!

@mcgowananderson7405 4 месяца назад

We just try to offer a different perspective so that women can see that good men are out here, but it's not accepted . Thanks, OG, for sharing

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Absolutely!

@TheJimmyardon 4 месяца назад

Glad I heard this don’t wanna fall in this trap again I’m realizing my mistakes

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

that's the first step!

@zachsmith3903 4 месяца назад

100% champ!

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Salute!

@tenshihayashi1966 4 месяца назад

Where did you get the SMP?

@MidnightWanderer 4 месяца назад

I'm kind😊....NOT NICE. 🤨

@locutz 4 месяца назад

Being too nice don't get you no pum pum .

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Indeed!

@o751106 4 месяца назад

From women who don't like too nice guys Chad

@keithmurray3827 Месяц назад

Zero

@prestonmcleod1726 4 месяца назад

Many do mix up assertiveness w/aggressiveness, especially when it come to women. I like you broke down the differences. Just like when you say be kind not nice. Some think that mean the exact same, however they're synonyms meaning the same or nearly the same. Everything you said was so true bout being the nice guy. @ one time I was that person, but then I decided to become an ass. Then the women loved me. Over the years, between maturing & Watching your vids, it helped me become a better man, & increased my game more & more.

@TheStyleOG 4 месяца назад

Happy to have added value!

@bantuwarior 4 месяца назад

Read the book "don't be a nice guy"

@TheLegend-uq1gz 4 месяца назад

It’s okay to be nice but don’t be a pushover. For example, it’s okay to take your significant other out & pay for everything. However, don’t let them push you to do things you can’t afford or comfortable with. Or disrespect you.