@@moejohnson8459 yo I’ve had this crush on this co worker and she does this now this new guy came in and she’s all over him in front of me glad I watched this cuz I know shit like that was a red flag
Great video, Darwynn! I'm dealing with a woman now for 5 1/2 months who has acknowledged she has emotional trauma. It's surfaced several times. The main issue is that when she gets overwhelmed or conflict arises, she doesn't handle it well. After putting distance between us, she wants to get help. I will support her, advise, and care for her through the process, but I've stated to her that it's her fight. She has to put in the work. My love and care aren't going to heal her. Only she can.
Thanks! You are absolutely right. You have shown compassion and patience for her. It’s already hard enough to accept someone with trauma and also take breaks on relationships. You’re willing to do all that you can to support and see her through. Now it’s time for her to allow the therapy to help her manage and heal. Great comment. Stories like this are important. Thank you for sharing, this is a wonderful example.
Fellas anytime you have to exert waaay more energy than you really want to then pay attention to that. Ask yourself is she REALLY worth the potential trouble.
@@darwynnmcpherson After we got married. She was good at hiding them. She pretended to be submissive, nice, caring, and a loving person who will make a good wife. After we got married, she became disrespectful, rude, arrogant, manipulative, always playing the victim, never accountable for anything. She also told lies about me to tarnish my image. My fault is that I knew she was emotionally immature but thought it was because she was young (26 years old) at the time we got married. I sent her back to her parent's house thinking she would have a rethink. When she decided to slander me to her family and be very disrespectful (her mother supported her actions). I changed the locks to my house, divorced her and sent all her stuff back to her. Good riddance. I hope others can learn from my experience.
It was not a pleasant marriage. I was 100% the provider. She was so entitled and never appreciative. She wanted me to be walking on egg shells in the marriage (like her mom does to the father). Showed her it's not gonna happen. I believe she is a narcissist. When I discovered that she has narcissistic behaviours, I was able to predict her actions and always be steps ahead of her. That frustrated her and the mom as they were unable to predict or control my actions. They were mad that I did not react or respond to their slander and empty threats (of her leaving the marriage). Also, they were hurt that I became secretive and always had a plan B. I made a clean exit and blocked her on whatsapp and social media. One of the best decisions in my life and a learning experience.
@@darwynnmcpherson over 2 years. The dad is hardly home so it was not easy to know the family dynamics. They always acted like the dad was the head of the family. About two years into our marriage I observed that my ex never had anything positive to say about her dad. Also she talked about how the mother treats the father and hardly appreciates his efforts. On several occasions, I would tell her about how the dad takes good care of his family but it fell on deaf ears. The mother always told the kids that the dad 'can do better.' She also told me how the dad used to be close to them but 'changed' over the years and secluded himself from his family. There were also instances of how the mother would openly disrespect the father in front of the kids. The father has no say. I noticed that the mother makes decisions and the kids (except one) are loyal to her and don't even respect the father. I really feel for the man.
Great video brother, you sums it all well! 👏🏿🔥. In my experience I've dated many of those type of women described in the video and I've seen them dating and behaving with other people in our respective circle and one main problem is: they never see any value in changing thinking they are right and if they needs advice, they will go to their female support group/ friends for advices. Such friends will always agree with was she says therefore avoiding any accountability. People shouldn't expect/ hope to see them changed but rather see the reality and addressing it as it is and accordingly.
"And if you still can't get her to change her behavior, click the link below. I can help you..." caption simultaneously shows up and reads: let her go! 😂😂😂
I had dated a high maintenance woman before as you speak on facts that I did pay attention to her and the energy doesn’t sit well for me. I find out she was dating multiple men at same time with me and we no longer see or speak since 3 years. I had blocked her few times on facebook she still popped up posting about herself so I closed Facebook. Can’t deal with entitled, emotionally damaged women.
After 13 years been together, every arguments since 2011 between me and my girl no matter what it's about, she always brings up my past relationships with my ex for some reason she does this cos I'm always on the right....
“She should expect you to be kind, compassionate, and generous.” --- Why generous? I agree with most of what you have to say. But I think this is probably the - if not one of the - most pernicious, entitlement themes expectation women seem to have have today. And it’s doing them no favors.
One red flag I always paid attention to D was if she talks about how fine a celebrity is. This means she has a wondering eye. And it's only a matter of time. It's nothing wrong with finding other people attractive hey that's real. But if she disrespect you them you better keep a side eye on her. If you like her that much.
@@marlboropiked Yup. And a dude decides to stay you better make sure you don't put any extra effort in any thing. You just gotta really pay attention to her and how she talks about other dudes. Hell yea Marlboro. It's very easy for them to have access to sex. We still gotta put in a lil work 😂.
It’s has been 3 years we are together,but communication is a problem especially since she got a friend from school. She can defend him and said she knows him they are just friends. This one friendship made me feel insecure especially we are in a distance relationship. She always blame me. No gift for two years now.
You hit it on the head entitledment I had one who told me she's spoiled by her exes and I told her as long as we can compromise we good she said you said that I didn't lol all Red flags bye
Man this list was very well needed. Fellas I hope you'll learned what you needed to. D is a solid man and he's on point. He's not a one hit wonder. Subscribe and hit the like button. Let's build up the real dudes that's in position to make change. Putting men in a better light.
Social media is the new pandemic.I dated a woman sometimes ago.After all sorts of toxic behavior,I saw she's constantly getting relationship advice from social media and belonged to countless sextalk pages. A big red flag
Be wary of sarcasm that sounds sweet. It is the most dangerous because it sounds endearing, but you may find out after you have already invested in her that she cares about you not one whit.
Any women who continually need Men. To validate them. Get out!! Never be afraid to lose them. I look for reasons to leave them! Stop wasting your time. Watch their Best Friends. If they are Trashy and Toxic! Guess what? Side door and block them!
Great content. Well put together. And I noticed you have the Style OG in the house. What a way to support one another. I love to see you guys performing at this level. Keep up the good work by sharing your insight.
