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Hi I’ve got a crush on a girl a lot younger than me! We had at coffee drop in group and I gave her my number and to my surprise she txt me later! But I asked her out for a coffee after from group but she had to get home for her dog as her elderly parents were away on holiday! Should I ask her out again? She has other male friends and I’m not sure she just wants me as friend or back up??
If you want a serious relationship commited then you will need to inviste in her as much as she inviste in you too thats a healthy relationship but if she not or your not then its not healthy, You must both love one anthore on the same level that's love ... not so common in today day of modern dating where ghosting breadcrumbing n other toxic behaviors seem to be the norm now an ok.
@@jsjesse7867 Well read my comment again … key word ( Too Much ). Yes l agree any type of relationship you have to put in some type of investment. However don’t get lost in an idea or your emotions that you don’t remember that you are dealing with a human being with ranging emotions … nothing is guaranteed to work out even if you try your best. This is why l said doing invest too much .. invest enough to keep it healthy and going but not to the point that it over takes your life and well being… That person can wake up one day and say they don’t want to be in a relationship with you anymore .. and you have to be ok with that , and that happens when you invest a healthy amount in the relationship. A lot of people lose themselves because they invest too much into people and forget we are all humans and have flaws.
Broken women need constant attention and approval. They want men to chase her but do nothing to reciprocate. Zero effort on her part. That's when you take your ass out of there and leave her to her miserable controling self. She's unavailable, emotionally, and physically, for sure. She's broken and too damaged, and it's NOT your job to fix her.
Gentleman every single one of these great points being made should not be ignored. My personal antidote to these red flags with humility of mind and heart is simple only when practiced. Love, respect and focus on yourself first and NEVER deviate from that baseline...You never need to eat when you're not starving and you'll NEVER starve when you know how to emotionally feed your heart and mind. Meditate Often, keep your mind, body and spirit in balance and in shape..PICK UP A DAMN BOOK, audiobooks and educate yourself to positive ways of thinking and being, and practice, educate yourself on a variety of interest to expand your mind because once you wake up and realize only the creator can co-create your greatness within you, you will be desiring a woman to define you as her greatest love, fulfill your physical needs and Stroke your EGO and that's when you are STUCK like chuck trying to buy a Venti latte at Starbucks with a $2 bill. Build your mental and emotional heart foundation on love and respect for yourself first as no one can give what they do not first possess for themselves. 🤨😁
If you see that the other one , not giving respect back to you and gives you unrest then walk away silently, do not feed her toxicity, just walk away silently...thats what i did ...and you know why? Because of self respect and selfworth, i showed her that nothing of her deeds or actions can crumble me or make me toxic towards her...with walking away you show her that she is the one that loses a good man ...women like that will always have boys ...never a man!
Wow this is very informative 😔..made a lot of mistakes some of these points were very visible but i choose to ignore 😮💨 ended up paying for it... thanks man
I co sign all 10 of these objectives for men. Fellas normally by now you'll know that I fully agree with D here. And I would have my 3 to 5 points to elaborate more on what D has mentioned. This time I don't have too. I'll just add this, pay clear attention to what his saying, understand what he's saying and learn and study yourself so you won't become succumb to the bs that's being pushed out here right now. BE BETTER, BE BETTER, AND DO BETTER. FOR YOU. 🔥 to brother D. Keep being you. Champ. I'm done.
What's up D. Thx again champ for bringing to the forefront the essential matters that will matter for men. Continue to run with that baton you've been passed.
Agreed. I wasted 13 years of my life trying to do right by a woman who turned out was just using me. Those people that say "man up and take it" just don't know how bad they can mess up your mind, if you love them and are focused on trying to make them happy.
I'm better informed to catch them now. I think a lot of men are like myself. We feel in our gut something is off, but we ignore it because we want the relationship to work. I always conflict with my gut instinct thinking I'm just being paranoid or insecure, but I should have _always_ listened to it.
