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10 Reasons Why Empaths and Narcissists Make a Toxic Relationship
Yet, it's not a partnership of equals because empaths and narcissists make a toxic relationship. Opposites attract, and the pull between an empath and a narcissist can be intense and enduring. When the self-centered life of the party ends up with the selfless healer of the world, one wins all the time while the other person loses everything. You don't want to be caught in this kind of trap.
In this video, observe, and listen to solid arguments on why empaths and narcissists make a toxic relationship.
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00:00 10 Signs of a Broken Empath
00:39 Empaths Lose Enthusiasm in Everything.
01:49 Empaths Experience Sleeping Disorders.
02:39 Empaths Have Eating Disorders.
03:37 Empaths Isolate Themselves From Society.
04:28 Empaths Suffer From Emotional Exhaustion.
05:14 Empaths Become Emotionally Numb.
06:03 Empaths Lose Themselves.
06:41 Empaths No Longer Have Anything To Offer.
07:14 Empaths Develop Some Trust Issues.
08:09 Empaths Become Depressed.
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@PsychBuzzy
@PsychBuzzy 2 года назад
10 Reasons Why Empaths and Narcissists Make a Toxic Relationship Yet, it's not a partnership of equals because empaths and narcissists make a toxic relationship. Opposites attract, and the pull between an empath and a narcissist can be intense and enduring. When the self-centered life of the party ends up with the selfless healer of the world, one wins all the time while the other person loses everything. You don't want to be caught in this kind of trap. In this video, observe, and listen to solid arguments on why empaths and narcissists make a toxic relationship. 🙏🙏🙏Please support my work and buy me a coffee through this link: bit.ly/3s0RFPO ☕☕☕ If you enjoyed this video, hit the LIKE button and make sure to SUBSCRIBE! I really do appreciate your support. 🙏 ⏱️⏱️VIDEO CHAPTERS⏱️⏱️ 00:00 10 Signs of a Broken Empath 00:39 Empaths Lose Enthusiasm in Everything. 01:49 Empaths Experience Sleeping Disorders. 02:39 Empaths Have Eating Disorders. 03:37 Empaths Isolate Themselves From Society. 04:28 Empaths Suffer From Emotional Exhaustion. 05:14 Empaths Become Emotionally Numb. 06:03 Empaths Lose Themselves. 06:41 Empaths No Longer Have Anything To Offer. 07:14 Empaths Develop Some Trust Issues. 08:09 Empaths Become Depressed. Thanks for Watching! How did you find this video? Feel free to share and like our content and invite others to subscribe to this channel. We're branching out to other compelling topics, so stay tuned. 🔔🔔🔔SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE VIDEOS: ▸ ru-vid.com/show-UCkopSR5Cyy7h7rTUK6Wz9Dg
@chrissyeberhard2778
@chrissyeberhard2778 Год назад
woaw, I Am taken aback by this take on Empaths. I Am Empath. I Am far from one of these weak victims U speak of. I Am sure there are a few of us that suffer from depresion. After all, we are playing humans. Depresion and sadness, are not the norm howerver. i Am going to dare to say, the mosy rare empath is the, oh poor poor me. everybody, uses and takes advantage my oh so kind heart poor poor victim me. I Am meaning no offence to anybody. I Am just saying. thank you. Namaste"😊
@MissyStarren-hk4ls
@MissyStarren-hk4ls Год назад
Wow that's my life story over and over
@Conduitgene
@Conduitgene 11 месяцев назад
Also if everyone has turned you away you always have your spirit guides and your higher self
@jamesearlcash1758
@jamesearlcash1758 11 месяцев назад
I just think this is a subjective socially constructed concept. The concept is presented as if a person can instantly feel other people's emotions and that is not always true. Not everyone who identifies with this socially constructed concept catches on to the real feelings and emotions of others. What is referred to as an empath to me is an overly sensitive delusional character who often misreads the environment they are in and the people they think they can feel. They go in with preconceived ideas of what they think is going on but fall short of knowing the real deal. Even those who do read an environment or people well, how many more times do they get it wrong? Ahahahaha. Empathy is a socially constructed concept telling someone who feels a certain way who they are and what they are supposed to do and how they are supposed to feel. We live in a society that encourages people to stay in bad relationships and work it out as opposed to leaving at the first sign of trouble and not looking back which is a more proper response than hanging around and ending up like the idiots you are talking about in this video. Ahahahahahahaha.
@halisithawizdomwordsmith7653
@halisithawizdomwordsmith7653 10 месяцев назад
​@@chrissyeberhard2778s😂z😅🎉😅😂😂tea😂
@sahara4555
@sahara4555 Год назад
Check, check, check and check... no joy, no sleep, no eating, over thinking, over feeling, no feeling, no interest, depression, so tired. But no rest.
@librasky
@librasky 11 месяцев назад
😢
@chinhphan4787
@chinhphan4787 11 месяцев назад
Oh please, people who claim to be "Empaths" are nothing but self centered attention seekers who do not know how to regulate their own emotions. They blame others because of this. They can not relate to others the only thing they see is their own emotions. I wouldn't be surprised if they have a Cluster B Personality Disorder.Hah! "I'm an Empath..." if you hear people say that run...
@snowyowlz5992
@snowyowlz5992 11 месяцев назад
😵‍💫😵😢 definitely …
@kericannon5925
@kericannon5925 11 месяцев назад
Same here, been like this for so long it’s become the norm🙄
@snowyowlz5992
@snowyowlz5992 11 месяцев назад
@@kericannon5925 with the resulting self-gaslighting it takes longer to choose, discern, decide the correct course of action. I pretty much have minimal contact with people. Too many years dealing with narcissistic ex in-laws and resultant drama upon my wife and me.
@FilipRanogajec
@FilipRanogajec Год назад
"Don't break a bird's wings and then tell it to fly." "Don't break a heart and then tell it to love." "Don't break a soul and then tell it to be happy." "Don't see only the worst in a person and expect them to see the best in you." "Don't judge people and then expect them to stand by your side." "Don't play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe." Quotes by Najwa Zebian.
@sligo34
@sligo34 Год назад
Wow
@FilipRanogajec
@FilipRanogajec Год назад
@@sligo34, impressive, huh?
@uriamudeltoro5075
@uriamudeltoro5075 Год назад
Word to my granfathers....don't think that fat meat ain't greasy
@MagicalCreations-fw7pj
@MagicalCreations-fw7pj 11 месяцев назад
That is so honestly true. I was reflecting a while ago on how people just expect truth while also wanting everyone to believe a lie. That is what society by large actually expects. Believe MY Lie while I ignore the truth.
@FilipRanogajec
@FilipRanogajec 11 месяцев назад
@@MagicalCreations-fw7pj, wise words, my friend. And thank you!
@mindfulness1118
@mindfulness1118 9 месяцев назад
YES YES & YES. For almost 50 years, I was a bubbly, loving, open hearted, emotionally available and super kind person. Always gave 100% of my time and energy to those around me and anyone who needed help. I didn’t want people to suffer or ever feel lonely. Always there for everyone and always giving and giving my energy, heart and soul. After getting knocked down over and over and over…..by ‘friends’, family and people, something inside me shifted. Being trampled on, discarded and betrayed by many people I adored, my heart just broke to a point that I am now a very different person. I didn’t choose to change: it just happened. I am not cruel or rude, nor do I hurt others. I just cannot and do not view the World like I use to. I focus on myself, keep to myself much more and no longer go out of my way for others. I spend more time on my own and make decisions based on my preferences, not others. It’s called loving yourself enough to realise that you should not waste your precious time and energy on most people. Not being rude, just being honest. Sending blessings to everyone reading this ♥️
@PsychBuzzy
@PsychBuzzy 9 месяцев назад
Your journey and the transformation you've experienced are truly remarkable. It's clear that you have a deep well of kindness and compassion within you, which you generously shared with others for many years. However, as you've mentioned, there comes a point when one needs to prioritize self-care and well-being. Learning to love and prioritize yourself is a crucial part of personal growth. It's not about being rude but about setting boundaries and recognizing the value of your own time and energy. You've undergone a profound shift in your perspective, and this newfound focus on self is a positive step towards your own happiness and fulfillment. Sending you blessings and well-wishes on your journey of self-discovery and self-care. It's important to remember that taking care of yourself doesn't mean you've lost your kindness or compassion; it means you've learned to direct them towards yourself as well. Thank you for sharing your story, and may your path be filled with peace and joy. ♥️
@mindfulness1118
@mindfulness1118 9 месяцев назад
@@PsychBuzzy Thank you for your kindness, insight and for taking the time to respond. Sending you blessings, light and love.
@lauramarzen7081
@lauramarzen7081 9 месяцев назад
@heartnsoul9093
@heartnsoul9093 7 месяцев назад
Omg! Same here!
@vic2e652
@vic2e652 7 месяцев назад
This bought me to tears . Thank you for sharing your journey. I too now spend a lot more time alone , I help my grown children still , but that's it . I'm to exhausted now to give anymore .
@pernille8893
@pernille8893 9 месяцев назад
I can relate to everything in this video. I just got out of a 35 years toxic marriage. He told me to pack my bags and get out at 2 o'clock in the middle of the night and when I did as I was told, he regretted. The day after he called to tell me that he forgave me and he would allow me to come back. So I told him I didn't do anything that needed forgiveness and I wasn't stupid enough to go back to him. And when he asked me if I hated him I answered with: " No I don't hate you, you're not worth that kind of strong feelings."
@MkBl-ll5zp
@MkBl-ll5zp 7 месяцев назад
Hell of a response! BRAVO!! Proud of U..
@skwervin1
@skwervin1 6 месяцев назад
My ex of 16 years did the reverse saying he was going to leave, and for the first time, I said..".well, why don't you?" He had this stunned look on his face, said," alright, I will! "packed his stuff and left. I felt like a 2 ton elephant was lifted off my shoulders when I realised his car was gone. Changed the locks the next day, a Saturday, and on the Monday calling lawyers while he was begging me to let him back in the house. I told him to eff off, and the kids and I didn't need his abuse anymore. He was a gaslighting, manipulating narcissistic prick who made me feel lower than the sludge under the doormat. I earned almost twice what he did yet I was the dumb useless one. That was 2006. I still have trust issues, but I have been able to embrace and enjoy the real me rather than the facade I had to hide behind.
@teresadvorak6145
@teresadvorak6145 6 месяцев назад
...Excellent 😂❤!!!!!
@stevenwylie2060
@stevenwylie2060 3 месяца назад
Swap the words for he to she 😂
@sherriv4860
@sherriv4860 11 месяцев назад
Don't lose hope, empaths. The world needs us 💕
@khismet
@khismet 11 месяцев назад
It's becoming harder each day. The heaviness is so acute, I'm numb.😔
@glendaschilder3048
@glendaschilder3048 11 месяцев назад
I went numb too..can't even cry at a funeral 😢
@ananamu2248
@ananamu2248 11 месяцев назад
@@glendaschilder3048 late at night ,when the psychic emanations are quiet ,reach out on the feeling plane and feel the other empaths support them ,and recieve
@sherriv4860
@sherriv4860 11 месяцев назад
*hugs We are in this together. It is okay not to cry at a funeral. It is okay to become numb. It happens. Your hearts need to heal.
@esterriesparabe
@esterriesparabe 11 месяцев назад
I agree Sherriv ❤
@Loretta318
@Loretta318 11 месяцев назад
Absolutely 💯. I've "survived" a 20+years marriage to a psychopathic narcissist, and all I was , was a punching bag., I also survived two different cancers. But, I'm still standing.
@racheldoesacrylic4089
@racheldoesacrylic4089 11 месяцев назад
You need to fight these sick messed up souls because we empaths are so needed /i know how much they can try and destroy you ,my way was to do research and get into my head your not going to kill my spirit and how dare you even try , i went downhill ,had my moments of sheer despair ,but came back fighting i had too and still do xxx ps i cant get away from them so i had no choice but to fight back in various ways x
@Tyrannosaurus_STFU_III
@Tyrannosaurus_STFU_III 11 месяцев назад
Someone has a story about "surviving" a 20+ year marriage with YOU too... Two sides to every story. Easy to come here and be a heroic victim and pretend you had no responsibility in anything.
@frolleinvonsoundso7044
@frolleinvonsoundso7044 10 месяцев назад
Wow. Someone didn’t get the “abusive” part in the abusive partnership…
@Tyrannosaurus_STFU_III
@Tyrannosaurus_STFU_III 10 месяцев назад
@frolleinvonsoundso7044 someone believes everything they're told like an idiot.
@anaibarangan4908
@anaibarangan4908 10 месяцев назад
Physical or verbal, or both? Usually it's verbal abuse, lack of respect, but expect respect.
@sar_e_bear
@sar_e_bear 10 месяцев назад
I am a broken empath. I can't cry anymore unless it is for an animal. When I sleep my dreams are so vivid that I feel like I have run a marathon upon waking. I have gotten so good at hiding my feelings, that everyone thinks that I am happy all of the time. I don't show them because my narcissistic, sociopathic ex-fiancé told me that I was a burden on him and everyone around me after I had just spent a week in the hospital for my severe asthma. I don't want people to think I am a burden, so I hide everything. He said horrible things to me all of the time but that one broke me. Now the only company I keep is with animals.
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 6 месяцев назад
Animals are so healing. My favorite are my son’s dogs. I am done with this world. I see my children, but I don’t want anyone else in my personal space. Stay away from me! lol. I am still kind to others when I walk out my front door. I do what needs to be done errand wise and come right home. I don’t need company or connections. Just peace and quiet. 😊
@donnagpalk912
@donnagpalk912 6 месяцев назад
Same here. Animals are life savers. 🙏♥️🙏
@hollymerchant9550
@hollymerchant9550 6 месяцев назад
Please tell me... He's still your ex?..
@tammystevenson4710
@tammystevenson4710 9 месяцев назад
I just isolated for 6 weeks. I called it regrouping. I lost a friend because of it. She said friends don't do that. Well, this one did. It's a solid door slam (a term I recently learned) for me. I just learned 2 weeks ago that I'm an empath. I'm 57 and I've spent most of my life believing something was seriously wrong with me. I wouldnt wish my emotional journey on my worst enemy (my sister), but it is amazing to know I'm not the only one who has experienced this crazy world not only from the inside out, but also from the outside in.
@PsychBuzzy
@PsychBuzzy 9 месяцев назад
That's quite a journey you've been on! Discovering your empathic nature later in life and finding understanding can be really liberating. It's unfortunate that you lost a friend, but sometimes, people don't grasp the need for self-care. Keep focusing on what's best for you, and remember, you're not alone on this path of self-discovery.
@jodifisher2183
@jodifisher2183 9 месяцев назад
I also came to this understanding in my late 50s. I've been treated for depression for decades but it never went away. I've lost friends as well due to self-isolation but you eventually come to terms with that. Hang in there and be kind to Yourself. You deserve to show yourself the same kindness you show to others. (((HUGS)))
@Laura-nl8df
@Laura-nl8df 6 месяцев назад
The INFJ door slam is always earned!! 🚪 Zero regrets. I see dead people everywhere.
@DeadCat-42
@DeadCat-42 6 месяцев назад
I'm lucky, I literally disappeared for five years (lived in a forest). My friends understand my divorce hurt me so bad I had to. In great full the my friends, I don't know what I would have done without them.
@iamjustsaying4787
@iamjustsaying4787 Год назад
“I am a rock. I am an island. And the rock feels no pain. And an island never cries.” Simon and Garfunkel
@Loriburnett
@Loriburnett 10 месяцев назад
Yes
@christinemccoy4471
@christinemccoy4471 10 месяцев назад
Yes
@moniquelewis7839
@moniquelewis7839 10 месяцев назад
Lol, I have quoted this every time I have been hurt for 50 adult years. I have yet to do this as a rock who never cries, but sort of feel like an island that never dies.
@holly0297
@holly0297 10 месяцев назад
OMG, now I realize why that's my theme song!!!
@kenadams5504
@kenadams5504 9 месяцев назад
The coping strategy can become the problem. Like when some use alcohol to cope ,and develop a drinking problem.
@MissaPality
@MissaPality 11 месяцев назад
This was me 5 years ago. BEST thing I did was to isolate myself for a couple of years. I highly recommend it. You need that time to heal, find yourself again, trust yourself again, feel again. The worst thing you can do is find a new relationship. You can't have a healthy relationship if the individual is not healthy.
@jeanag3279
@jeanag3279 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing your success story!!!
@sherynkowatsch2970
@sherynkowatsch2970 11 месяцев назад
I've been in isolation for several years now and am finally coming around but the more I go out the more I want nothing to do with people anymore... A lot of people are just not worth getting to know now a days. I'll be okay once I move on from this place, and knowing that keeps me going on! 👍
@ems8717
@ems8717 11 месяцев назад
@notunicornsandrainbows2054Fr I’ve ben isolate since Covid 😅
@ems8717
@ems8717 11 месяцев назад
⁠@@sherynkowatsch2970true the last 2 new friends I made where bat shit crazy
@MetalSStar196
@MetalSStar196 10 месяцев назад
Very true. That said, having a core set of friendships with fellow empaths is better than finding friends in the dark triad personality types.
@jamiepacebateman1996
@jamiepacebateman1996 10 месяцев назад
So hard to pull yourself out of the dark sometimes after people use and abuse you until there's nothing left
@bbghoul_x
@bbghoul_x 6 месяцев назад
It is:(
@mimosaamk1954
@mimosaamk1954 9 месяцев назад
Wow, so as an empathic person, I now understand what I'm going through. I understand now why I've built up this brick wall around me to where I no longer feel things at the depth I used to. I don't trust myself to protect myself from the cruelty of those I get involved with.
@guiom77
@guiom77 9 месяцев назад
Exactlty the same for me
@angeliqueschuch1174
@angeliqueschuch1174 8 месяцев назад
Same here.
@christinemott8799
@christinemott8799 7 месяцев назад
Stay single
@rhondajohnson9753
@rhondajohnson9753 6 месяцев назад
Its really sad
@pamelaschutz1248
@pamelaschutz1248 10 месяцев назад
Yes. I've actually been wondering for a while, whether what Doctor's label "Chronic Fatigue Syndrome", "Adrenal Stress Disorder", and "Irritable Bowel Syndrome" are not just, in fact, the natural physical results of being a serially emotionally neglected and/or abused empath.
@emmapegley6307
@emmapegley6307 9 месяцев назад
Agree. I have been labeled with CFS, ME, Post Viral Syndrome, and now long Covid. I was an abused child and found some refuge in being ill. My body has been trying to either protect me from abuse or respond to whatever difficult stimulus it encountered. now in my 50's I finally started to put up boundaries to the takers who drain you like a Gelfling by the Skeksis. The emo Vampires who suck all the joy from you, everyone wanting something that I found impossible to say no to out of my kindness and concern for them. I have been burnt out and broken a long time, and only now, during the flipping menopause, I find I have no patience for any of it any more. Just leave me alone and let me breathe. I want to be in the forest. I believe the more distance, on every level, I place between me and those who wish me harm, the healthier I will become. As will you my fellow empaths 🙏🏼
@kokoskokso
@kokoskokso 9 месяцев назад
Internalized old anger turned against self instead of the perpetrator
@pamelaschutz1248
@pamelaschutz1248 9 месяцев назад
@@emmapegley6307 , I so absolutely get that. I also found that my power started returning as I went through and left the menopause behind. Quite an awful menopause, but it focused me. Funny, it's supposed to be such a terrible thing, but it has been my strengthening. Ja, I also want to be in the forest. With the animals. Er. Not the human animals. Can't say I'm too fond of monkeys either, the apes, chimps and monkeys remind me too much of the games people play, but the other animals.
@burtknighten4438
@burtknighten4438 9 месяцев назад
Nah I know a narcissistic that haf IBS
@stephenkarla7113
@stephenkarla7113 9 месяцев назад
Yes they don't know. They were not taught this in med training. Diet plays a role as well. And just look at our food industry, sad.
@debraannedimezza8075
@debraannedimezza8075 Год назад
My enthusiasm has bottomed out. I’m living in hermit mode for a good part of nine months. I only leave the house when it’s absolutely necessary. I’m not even working. I need to get a job but I can’t even push myself spiritually I’m not ready to deal with public I’m so damaged.
@lotusquinn101
@lotusquinn101 11 месяцев назад
I truly do feel the pain and suffering you're going through. I'm currently in a similar situation. After my narcissistic abuser drained me for all that i had (not just financially, and of all my materialistic belongings, including everything but the clothes i was currently wearing .... but he also drained me of what was the very essence of what made me ME). And it is being drained of this essence of what made me ME, that i feel i am struggling to recover from the most. But i know i can, & will, eventually replenish my heart & soul to what it was before.... because that inner spark can never truly be extinguished - sometimes it just lies dormant. Like how after putting out a wildfire, it can reignite because under the surface the embers are still burning hot...
@khismet
@khismet 11 месяцев назад
@@lotusquinn101 😭 Me too. Trying to recover the ME that was stolen. Took me years to build it up and even came close to envisioning my healing process.. all for it to be ripped away from me. I know there's still a spark somewhere in my spirit but currently, I can't feel it. I'm a hollowed shell.
@returnofthegmac9203
@returnofthegmac9203 11 месяцев назад
Me too
@teeaymusik9811
@teeaymusik9811 11 месяцев назад
@@khismet I think in the essence it's the destroyed believe in people and the self worth who is completely destroyed. REALLY not easy to build this up again.. But we need these experiences to learn and to watch out for red flags.. Most times even a covert narc is exposing himself at some point.. It's easy for me these days to detect who you really are and if you are good for me or not. But idk if i can trust someone again in a loving relationship.. The fear of getting crushed in pieces again is too big i guess.
@kaja231
@kaja231 10 месяцев назад
I think we just need revenge on those evil creatures that broke us. I also think in this future years it will somehow come on them. That will un-break us, to see the justice and some rewards for us for being so good.
@sammyjaneg
@sammyjaneg 7 месяцев назад
Omg!!! Finally I don’t feel completely alone. I have literally been broken down to nothing that I don’t even know who I am anymore. Feeling lost, frustrated, sad and drained. I just want to feel my old self again.
@kimmolaine8069
@kimmolaine8069 10 месяцев назад
Getting emotionally numb is one of the worst things that can happen to a person. It's an understandable coping mechanism in some scenarios but extremely hard to switch off. When a feeling person gets numb, their purpose in life feels gone.
@nickf9392
@nickf9392 2 года назад
After being discarded by a narcissist I can say this is all true. I didn't treat my girlfriend like a princess, I treated her like I loved her. We never had a fight in 5 years. Little did I know how she was holding grudges.... and the put downs, jealousy and just flat out using me as a good time all seem perfectly clear now. After 15 months of no contact, she just recently tried to hoover me back in....all she got back from me was silence. No more.
@spmoran4703
@spmoran4703 Год назад
That's is what you do. Ignore her. Now let me ask you a question. Did you take this woman because she looked a certain way , it is said , " the devil appears as the most beautiful angel." I think that is what happened to you. There is also a quote ," good things come in plain packages . Think about it. Because you will heal this present wound and although you will have the scar . You will date again Take your present situation and learn from it.
@Dana-712FifthAve
@Dana-712FifthAve Год назад
@@spmoran4703 are you suggesting that beautiful women are less trustworthy than those considered plain? Isn’t this just a reiteration of that old song “if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife”?
@isaiah6659
@isaiah6659 Год назад
😎 fdb brutha... Fdb
@oossum
@oossum 11 месяцев назад
👋🏼
@Dana-712FifthAve
@Dana-712FifthAve 11 месяцев назад
@@TielMama777 exactly. Agree 💯 percent.
@jenp342
@jenp342 11 месяцев назад
This is true. Many of us do not, cry the victim, we just realize the signs, and continue to learn and heal ourselves. It doesn’t happen overnight, but it’s possible.
@silvergirl7810
@silvergirl7810 9 месяцев назад
It’s almost like when you’re healed and have all this wonderfulness to offer the world is when you attract the very opposite worst person!
@ark.0616
@ark.0616 9 месяцев назад
I am a broken empath and when I’m broken I find my comfort through sleeping and living alone . Even there are people around me when I isolate my self I can only see my self and I will be very happy feeling alone . And also when I’m broken just like what you said I will be become cold and and distant . I will become very very numb . When I’m broken I can’t offer anything anymore and I will become emotionally unattached and calculating . All you said are true !
@2_blAck
@2_blAck 11 месяцев назад
I went from one Narcissist to another worse than the first. Until I met the one that finally broke me down. Now I’ve got nothing left😔😔😔😔
@PsychBuzzy
@PsychBuzzy 11 месяцев назад
Stay strong friend
@ananamu2248
@ananamu2248 11 месяцев назад
That's the time to start collecting up each tiny piece,cleasing it and finding a place for it ....the rebuilding a strong identity .. I made atlars with things I loved and had meaning ...when I get lost I look there
@2_blAck
@2_blAck 11 месяцев назад
@@ananamu2248 I started doing my facials again, and getting dressed up again ❤️ Thanks
@RS-ms1bz
@RS-ms1bz 11 месяцев назад
Same here. I broke away from my covert narcissist wife of five years just a month ago. She wore me down to where I felt absolutely nothing. I don't think I will ever be able to trust another human being for the rest of my life.
@annaolausson6862
@annaolausson6862 11 месяцев назад
Understand but life is so much better. I am now happy single, I don't date (have zero interest) but have so much love to friends and family, hobbies and work. Having fun, peace and are happier than ever. You don't need a partner. It will come or maybe not. All fine. It will take some time but you got this. (2 years after narcissistic relationships for a decade)
@annekedupreez3829
@annekedupreez3829 11 месяцев назад
Broken, unloved and alone, shunted despite reaching out, even whilst being kind and considerate...so drained at the moment...feels like I am in conflict with the world and myself...feeling depression coming my way and still trying to act like all is ok....cannot even get to be cruel to those that continuously step over and degrade me.
@user-cq8fk8ej4h
@user-cq8fk8ej4h 10 месяцев назад
I am exactly the same. Just trying to hold on.
@fallen605
@fallen605 10 месяцев назад
What you said
@fallen605
@fallen605 10 месяцев назад
@user-jl4br6tf7d I'm not going to do that to my self I'm just over done but thank you I don't believe in taking my own life
@mimosaamk1954
@mimosaamk1954 9 месяцев назад
It's not in our nature to be cruel to others. I can't even try to think the way cruel people behave.
@Bryan-rr5he
@Bryan-rr5he 9 месяцев назад
This is exactly how I feel only I am also starving for human touch and connection. She literally starved me. Stay strong.
@PS27760
@PS27760 9 месяцев назад
Empaths absorb everyone elses energy. It takes me a few weeks to cleanse that bad energy from mean people.
@sweetpealee056
@sweetpealee056 10 месяцев назад
Sounds like severe depression to me. I'm an burnt out empath in the self isolation stage... however I've needed this desperately, it has helped me get through some major losses and grief and reestablish an appreciation for myself.
@shaeholden1743
@shaeholden1743 11 месяцев назад
I tend to be empathetic to everyone else except ME, and your video was VERY helpful giving me insight into the fact that I am indeed broken and hurting due to effects of 24-year marriage to a textbook narcissist. I've been treated for CPTSD and am seeing a very competent Counselor who deals with narc abuse. I'm making good progress except that hypervigilance is still there. I appreciate knowledgeable people like you who are here to help us. Thank you.
@bbdn5123
@bbdn5123 11 месяцев назад
💗 Wow, that first sentence!! Just realized this not too long ago. I still can't believe anything, too much shock and gaslighting of self. I thought perhaps I hate myself? Why would I take myself serious? Everyone treats me bad, especially "family attachments". Why would the kind people be kind, they must be manipulative!! Everything seems to be total opposite, confused and heartbroken, my soul seems lost because it's shattered in a very dark place. I don't think I feel so very well, how does one process? I thought I did everything right and then doubt immensely now all the time. I just wanna sleep a forever sleep. I'm too exhausted, yet I can't "get to sleep", because I stay awake, tensed up. ☝🏽🌌💖💫
@isaacmcallister5649
@isaacmcallister5649 10 месяцев назад
You will be in my prayers and legions of angels are rooting for you.
@jacquib256
@jacquib256 10 месяцев назад
@@bbdn5123omg I’m living this nightmare too right here right now! I’m so glad I came across this!
@leannmeddings4068
@leannmeddings4068 10 месяцев назад
​@@bbdn5123find someone you trust to talk to. Maybe bybtalking about it you can straighten your thoughts out. Make them not so jumbled. Or get a notebook and start writing your feelings down. Work through them. I think thats what im going to try. I am so grateful to have watched this video. I really needednto see this today. Well, i really needed to see thus 10 years ago...
@stephaniea1185
@stephaniea1185 9 месяцев назад
Wow. Very smart words. I appreciate your comment and I hope things get better. Definitely sounds like you are doing the right thing working with your therapist. Good job! 😊
@delilahhart4398
@delilahhart4398 11 месяцев назад
Maybe I'm an empath and didn't realize it. When I was much younger, I was sensitive and cried easily. Years of bullying have made me become numb and indifferent towards most people, though.
@PS27760
@PS27760 9 месяцев назад
The reason we're bullied is because people KNOW we can read them and they don't like it nor the fact that we KNOW what they're really up to. Hence the bullying so THEY can try to gain the upper hand and control.
@stephenkarla7113
@stephenkarla7113 9 месяцев назад
We don't realize it in childhood. It took me forty years to see. I looked back on my life and saw exactly what I had been through and why my body was physically traumatized. I couldn't walk. Don't let it get to this point.❤
@lauramalizia9636
@lauramalizia9636 9 месяцев назад
@@PS27760it’s also like we’re mirrors. Our eyes reflect how much they really hate themselves and the bullying continues.
@johnlombardo7816
@johnlombardo7816 9 месяцев назад
Give it time.. I'm 42 and cry at random now! 😂
@tailsthefox6568
@tailsthefox6568 9 месяцев назад
Truth me too! I use to cry easily when I realize someone is upset with me for no or petty reason! Now I don’t give a damn about your feelings especially if I didn’t try to hurt them.
@user-dj2pq8xp6k
@user-dj2pq8xp6k 6 месяцев назад
The thing about being an empath, learnt recently its important to withdraw and spend more time alone because as much as we like interracting you realize it's very dangerous. You might as well just do what you love and shut the noise for safety purposes.
@manuelferreira4345
@manuelferreira4345 10 месяцев назад
When I lost the urge to get drunk I knew something was wrong. I recommend counseling to everyone before you get to that point. I was self medicating to escape the situation and literally gave up. Counseling has taught me to set boundaries and be firm with them.
@sueelliott4793
@sueelliott4793 10 месяцев назад
We help our enemies when they are in need. We are a magnet for narcissists and bullies. I am broken, my daughter hates me as she missed my strength when I performed miracles but sees me as weak now as I am down and empty until I fill up again but I still have the capacity to love. This is spot on.
@christinemott8799
@christinemott8799 7 месяцев назад
Stay single
@ChinaBossChinaBoss
@ChinaBossChinaBoss 7 месяцев назад
You are not alone… Eye am the same with my daughters…
@massiahgrom
@massiahgrom 2 месяца назад
My story .
@Alicia-if6hm
@Alicia-if6hm 10 месяцев назад
A big reason we develop these things is that we feel and emotionally absorb the emotions of others. Even if others try to hide and deny negative energy, we still feel it and it is overwhelming.
@oldsoul9453
@oldsoul9453 9 месяцев назад
Truth
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 6 месяцев назад
I felt this from a neighbor the other day. I was shocked by his evil presence. He hides it well.
@beatrice1234ful
@beatrice1234ful 10 месяцев назад
I was married to a narcissist for 13 years, my doctor told me that I was hurt to the soul. Even 20 years after the divorce, I am still struggling to recover because he took away my children and set them up against me. I'm sure that even after he dies, they will continue what he started and it's tearing me up inside.
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 6 месяцев назад
My x did this to the children. They are now healing and have gone no contact with him.
@daralynndehnicke5112
@daralynndehnicke5112 10 месяцев назад
You don't owe anyone years of your life in exchange for the decline of your mental, emotional and spiritual health. In order to make a relationship with a narcissist work, you would have to take the blame for everything while also not making any mistakes. You would have to admit to being a total screwup while also doing everything perfectly. In other words~it's IMPOSSIBLE.
@GayathriGaa-vc4ix
@GayathriGaa-vc4ix Год назад
I am a broken empathic. But now i am recovering.
@dddux
@dddux 10 месяцев назад
How many men would you like to kill?
@penguinZ85
@penguinZ85 11 месяцев назад
I lost my ability to cry after being married to a narcissist for 10 years. It felt so good when I was able to cry again about 3 years ago.
@capriquarius9861
@capriquarius9861 10 месяцев назад
Not being able to cry is the worst.... and so liberating when tears flow again... like your soul being released from a prison we made to protect ourselves
@ginakelley749
@ginakelley749 10 месяцев назад
More power to you!
@kimjones1007
@kimjones1007 9 месяцев назад
Yes it does. Even better when we laugh again.
@Keziah32
@Keziah32 9 месяцев назад
Not being able to cry is so painful
@kenadams5504
@kenadams5504 9 месяцев назад
@@Keziah32 not being able to stop isn't a lot of fun ,either.
@jacquelinem6609
@jacquelinem6609 9 месяцев назад
This is SO bang on it’s freaky! I’m still in the thick of it, it’s so hard! I’m definitely trying to work through it and am seeing the right people to help me. Thank you for the message and to all the broken empaths out there, I understand and I’m cheering you on.
@Pennyyourfavorite123
@Pennyyourfavorite123 9 месяцев назад
Man. This describes me to a tee. It often is hard always feeling others pain it's a lot to carry, yet, I've been this way my whole life. The hard part is having others say, you worry to much , or analyze things to much. They just don't understand that this isn't a reaction to others on purpose. It's just the way my heart works. I care so much for others it often hurts, however, I am who God made me to be and when I see soany that have no compassion at all or concern for others that I'm glad I'm who I am. Because what the world needs is love, The kind of love our heavenly Father gives us.. Don't tell others God loves them, if you can't love them too. God will continue to give us empaths the strength we need to keep being the person he made us to me. When it's seem life is so painful. Give it to God he will carry you through and by his Holy Spirit give you comfort when needed. Don't let the darkness, in the world, turn off the light God put in you.
@sandycares2995
@sandycares2995 Месяц назад
Yes I agree.🙏 Heavenly Father help us keep our light shining.
@skinnyway
@skinnyway 2 года назад
Well I have finally found my tribe. All the reasons for who I am today are outlined so very succinctly here. That number 10 where you say there are people who love you. Yeah I don't have that. My family hates me and I don't have any friends. if there are people out there who care about me they hide it really well. Because all I ever get - still - is invites for sex. Or stupid conversations about sex. That's all a man thinks about, still, is sex. Why can't they just get a damn life? Lust is cheap and doesn't last. Thanks for your channel.
@Not-the-usual-BS
@Not-the-usual-BS 2 года назад
😢I’m in the same situation, a narcissist family that doesn’t support or care about me at all unless it’s beneficial to them and no friends to speak of at this time… users and liars out for themselves it’s really scary out there!
@trineandersen1196
@trineandersen1196 2 года назад
I know exactly How u feel, its like that for me to. I have just got out of a bad Relationship with a abusive narsissist, and when i trues to come back home it was a disaster. And i cab not trist annyone. It sucks
@Anunes7777
@Anunes7777 Год назад
I too understand ..what you mean by saying that..I too experienced the same..
@athena3865
@athena3865 Год назад
Same. I learned to give myself the love I gave everyone else, and once you arrive at that relationship, you will guard it with your life. I am 64, and if I had to go back in time, I would avoid relationships with everyone else. I missed so much by giving away myself; now it's me time. Ross Rosenberg's work helps tremendously with self love.
@spmoran4703
@spmoran4703 Год назад
I often feel this way . So at least you do have friends that understand .
@MagicalCreations-fw7pj
@MagicalCreations-fw7pj 11 месяцев назад
This is ALL true! Empaths are the light to all truths. Sadly, the world is selfish and always pushing individual selfishness! The Empath has an inherent attachment to the truth to which they will not let go of nor compromise for the sake of someone else's lie. Most people are not attached to anything other than themselves. Once we accept the basic motivations of truths and lies, we can solve many problems.
@khismet
@khismet 11 месяцев назад
Wow! They say the Truth will set you free. Yet, realistically, protecting the Truth brings down the wrath of ruthlessness from negative energies. After experiencing such a battle and being battered, I'm always left in a state of perplexity.
@kaja231
@kaja231 10 месяцев назад
​@@khismetso true.
@selinaogorman8380
@selinaogorman8380 10 месяцев назад
This is what we enjoy being in the truth sadly toxic people like narcissistic people don’t want to be in this is why there toxic to there in denial and always wrestling with themselves and there never happy they fake it we can make the world a better place regardless of the toxic people in this world we will make it better they the toxic people can’t stop me being me and I may be knocked down but I will always get up and rise up ❤❤❤❤
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 6 месяцев назад
Speaking the truth, all the time, is what keeps me moving forward. I know I am here at this time for this reason.
@BigBlueTurtle-cu9sv
@BigBlueTurtle-cu9sv 8 месяцев назад
I've honestly always admired empaths and wished I was one myself, but after learning more about them I came to realise how much they actually struggle with their gifts sometimes. If you're an empath, remember that it's okay to feel hurt and not get everything right. Even if we aren't empaths, we can still help in our own ways (or at least try) even if we aren't able to feel other people's emotions.
@tavareoswan
@tavareoswan 7 месяцев назад
You are a hero❤
@cair124
@cair124 6 месяцев назад
All of these symptoms you've mentioned are also signs of depression, especially persistent depressive disorder. I've had it for decades, so I recognize all this.
@azrielmateria8050
@azrielmateria8050 11 месяцев назад
ive been all over the spectrum here. im an infp with extreme cptsd etc. anyone needing to read this. you got this and anything negative you're enduring remember that this too shall pass.
@samsmom1491
@samsmom1491 10 месяцев назад
This is me! Going through this now. I desperately need a sabbatical, a refuge from people right now.
@llm8268
@llm8268 10 месяцев назад
Same here. It’s perfect timing. Feels difficult but might be leading to a spiritual transition to help us let go of the old and align to the higher.
@quirkychelle
@quirkychelle 10 месяцев назад
My ex best friend was a narcissist. I was so blind. I upset her when I told her I was disappointed that she wasn't here when my mom died. She was out partying. Then said I never supported HER depression...I have always been there for her and helped her through so much. I felt like I was swirling...I will never allow another person that close to me again.
@massiahgrom
@massiahgrom 2 месяца назад
I had a best friend . But she wasn't there for me . 50 years later she tried to reconnect . I don't trust her at all . The scar she left never healed .
@constanceschroer4068
@constanceschroer4068 9 месяцев назад
Agreed.❤ empath surviving....not giving up.
@wisewomin
@wisewomin 11 месяцев назад
Having been born, married for 43 years , & my first relationship after my husband passed away, recently left yet another narcissist… I’m totally exhausted & 💜🙏 for healing
@kryptonarie6367
@kryptonarie6367 11 месяцев назад
This video is 100% on point. Today we know there were and are numerous empaths in my family: i.e. my daughter, sister, aunt, cousin/s, grandmother and myself, and unfortunately all of our life affecting stories of pain and survival are very similar too. It's like we all had to individually experience the apathetic cruelty of a self-serving narcissist; the moral, ethical and cold emotional deficiencies and manipulations of a psychopath; and the internal and external violence and constant chaos of a sociopath ourselves. Its like we needed to individually learn from the aforementioned types of people first-first before we could even realize that we were/are empaths. Being empathetic wasn't/isn't something most of us are told about or taught growing up, nor is it a typical topic of conversation at most families' family gatherings. Most of us, somehow, we figure out ourselves we are empaths.
@PsychBuzzy
@PsychBuzzy 11 месяцев назад
Thank you❤️
@Starry_Skye22
@Starry_Skye22 9 месяцев назад
Don't forget empaths and addiction. It's awful but I'm in recovery.
@ianstewartorr8455
@ianstewartorr8455 6 месяцев назад
I’m a recovering empath alcoholic after I’ve been through I’m 11 years sober greetings from Scotland 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
@AnnaMarieLar
@AnnaMarieLar 9 месяцев назад
I’ve been through EVERY stage of the broken empath to the T. It got so bad just over a year ago with drug abuse and then trying to end it with me being in a coma for 3 days at the ICU trying to stabilize me😢 I want to say there is a light at the end of this dark tunnel. Seek help and do your best to raise your vibrations and do shadow work as well with professional help which was the turning point for me❤️ and remember to always live life from your heart ♥️
@isabelleboulay2651
@isabelleboulay2651 11 месяцев назад
What you are describing is the Human response to abuse. It's not only related to empaths. Anyone can be going through this. Empaths only react quicker in that direction because of their sensitivity.
@katarinatibai8396
@katarinatibai8396 10 месяцев назад
💯💯💯🎯
@stephenkarla7113
@stephenkarla7113 9 месяцев назад
I also believe we are sensitive people and see things that others don't. And the frustration that comes with trying to tell someone that doesn't believe some people are more sensitive to the world will make you frustrated.
@mastervic6230
@mastervic6230 9 месяцев назад
Not all. Sociopaths aren't so are Psychopaths; and narcissists but to a certain degree.
@Takisan111
@Takisan111 9 месяцев назад
I was thinking that too. I'm pretty sure I'm not an empath and I've experienced all of these symptoms. It feels like Hell and it's hard to come back from without an actual effort. Even now I still fall into old habits whenever something starts going wrong.
@mr_dunne_author
@mr_dunne_author 7 месяцев назад
​@@stephenkarla7113spot on!
@jocelyngingras4000
@jocelyngingras4000 Год назад
yes the narcissist did a lot of damage to me
@PsychBuzzy
@PsychBuzzy Год назад
Stay strong
@hallieadams4225
@hallieadams4225 Год назад
Mine tried, I am so drained though.
@elizabethhannah4704
@elizabethhannah4704 11 месяцев назад
Narcissists are "the walking dead". Do Not let them destroy you. Concentrate on yourself and your own Healing. Practice Spiritual Healing. Live from your Heart.
@marchangel7462
@marchangel7462 11 месяцев назад
​@@PsychBuzzyis that the answer?
@rdhawke
@rdhawke 9 месяцев назад
The only reason as an empath I’m not ‘broken’ is that I’m a Sun/Ascendant Scorpio with a very helpful Leo moon. Sleep is very comforting for me, though at my age (78) l find I need less…not to mention I don’t want to sleep away what time I have left to my life. Spending time in nature also gives me the strength I need to cope, it’s magical, even mystical. One has to figure what’s the best way to recharge for YOU. You are what you are…it’s a very good way of being.
@gargoyleb
@gargoyleb 6 месяцев назад
54 years old and I'm just now figuring this out. Sincerely, from what's left of my cold, dead heart, THANK YOU for this video!
@paranxietyoia587
@paranxietyoia587 2 года назад
That's why I can't cry when someone die...
@Anunes7777
@Anunes7777 Год назад
Yes ...here the same..
@fireyams
@fireyams 5 месяцев назад
I lost my sons father this September 13, i cry everyday. I can't breathe every day. I don't eat or sleep. Or barely shower i try my hardest but i neglect myself so much .
@RadiantSkin
@RadiantSkin 11 месяцев назад
One reason empaths suffer a lot of emotional pain is that they empathize with how other people feel about them. If another person attacks them emotionally they tend to think they did something to make the person feel that way. That's why they can make such perfect partners for narcissists. Narcissists blame them for all their woes, and empaths empathize with the narcissist's point of view.
@jimbo2834
@jimbo2834 11 месяцев назад
Very true!
@selinaogorman8380
@selinaogorman8380 10 месяцев назад
Very true however I come to realize that it’s not our fault that the abuser or whoever the toxic person is it’s not our fault it’s there own fault or could be what they went through like there parents it all starts at there home so has to be there upbringing if a toxic person says it’s your fault it’s really not there lashing out and they can make there lives better but instead they choose to live in misery and suffering and don’t want to get help there going to get worse as they get older so it will be there fault unless they do something about it there stubborn to that tells you a lot! Don’t ever listen to this lie they say there miserable everyday!❤🙏🏻
@Valkyriepedersen
@Valkyriepedersen 10 месяцев назад
Going through it now very badly. Thanks for putting it in perspective for me. I did not have the words.
@lauramarzen7081
@lauramarzen7081 9 месяцев назад
me too ❤
@dunnrhonda49
@dunnrhonda49 6 месяцев назад
Same here. I’m isolating, not eating, i find no pleasure in anything…..nothing. I don’t watch tv. It stays off. Too much “noise” and people chattering too fast. Hard to explain our brains while in a deep ,dark hole. Seems like there is no escape. Prayers for us all. 🙏🏻💔🙏🏻
@soundcloudrapper8874
@soundcloudrapper8874 9 месяцев назад
This is incredible and heartbreaking to watch because I’ve went through life without knowing there were others like me.
@LenartisChris
@LenartisChris 2 года назад
How do I heal from this? I'm losing my mind trying to fight this. It is the darkest I have ever felt in my life. I'm trying but I don't know how.
@steffijosek
@steffijosek Год назад
Now you know you are an empath. That’s all you need to begin the recovery
@bfreeume
@bfreeume Год назад
So much love and support to you. 🩷 I’m sitting in the “I don’t know too” and am going within to remember my love and strengths. It’s so dang challenging. 🩷
@elizabethhannah4704
@elizabethhannah4704 11 месяцев назад
Go into your Heart. Pray, learn everything you can about empathy, traits etc. Look within, not without. The Healing is in the purity of your connection to the Divine. I have been protected throughout my life and its only in retrospect I join the dots. Take Care. God Bless You Always.
@elizabethhannah4704
@elizabethhannah4704 11 месяцев назад
@@bfreeume It's very challenging. I've told the narc that they cannot touch my Soul. She tried to break me. I became so very much stronger. Take Care.
@ananamu2248
@ananamu2248 11 месяцев назад
Melancholia is the empaths healing time .. don't fight it keep internal ,protected but also keep expressing it though creative art and music
@myrahouse2368
@myrahouse2368 Год назад
Why does it seems narcissists have all the friends and are surrounded by people 😮‍💨
@uriamudeltoro5075
@uriamudeltoro5075 Год назад
Constant supply....that's all....unless...you know...a more extroverted empath....just a thought...m
@netosampaio8548
@netosampaio8548 Год назад
Because they're fake and manipulating all in order to get what they're after. They don't really have friends, only sources of supply. Whoever sticks around them, are most likely as shallow as these demons.
@netosampaio8548
@netosampaio8548 11 месяцев назад
@@realtorvivian What can we expect from narcs and their friends? They can leave whenever they want but can choose to stick around. They're not trauma bonded. On top of that, my narc ex-wife had money to spend. Not hers, of course, but the color whas green. What she took, I can't even imagine, and the money wasn't the most important.
@billstone8451
@billstone8451 11 месяцев назад
Because they are fake pretending to be what ever they think you want them to be ( no real self) to get close to you so they can learn your secrets to use against you later all about control
@angel4animals956
@angel4animals956 11 месяцев назад
Bc they are not capable of being alone..even if they wanted to. But they don’t, bc they need constant supply/excitement/DISTRACTION from being alone with themselves…& their own dark thoughts/empty lives (& souls), self-hatred, & basically, facing the reality of who they really are under their “life of the party” mask.😱😫🤯😳🥴
@justme-tj3jt
@justme-tj3jt 9 месяцев назад
We have never become broken. We become wounded and need to do the work to heal. Empaths have incredible resilience and the capacity to heal self and others. However, healthy boundaries and making time for self-care, a spiritual practice, as well as protection rituals. We can and do heal. Learn to bend and flow like the wind.
@OnlyRandi
@OnlyRandi 10 месяцев назад
This is very true .....as an empath im tired of narcissistic people......not only am i broken but im fed up too. I sleep often to avoid issues i also have an eating disorder too. Im exhausted indeed.
@SoulofAlice
@SoulofAlice 11 месяцев назад
This is what I've been looking for...no other empathic related video or self-help guide, medications, etc...has made such perfect sense. I don't like to draw attention to myself but do wish more of my family n friends could understand this.
@Modeltnick
@Modeltnick 11 месяцев назад
“Sometimes I feel like a corn stalk standing alone in the middle of a field, after the harvest; nobody left to play with.”--Mark Twain
@WowTravelDesigner
@WowTravelDesigner 10 месяцев назад
This is the most spot on article I have read in so long and everything about it is perfectly succinct and true and I couldn’t be more thankful for somebody recognizing that this is an issue and we need to find a way to heal through it. That’s a healthy way. Thank you!
@erincrsmn
@erincrsmn 10 месяцев назад
I'd always thought myself empathic but didn't "recognize" as one. This video ticks all the boxes for me and described EVERYTHING to a T. It makes it make sense, and that's such a validation. I've been married to a narcissist for over 20yrs and while we love each other I've definitely and continue to suffer- from all these symptoms and more( I've got 3 different therapist lol)Thanks for making this video. Not gonna divorce my husband of 20yrs but this is definitely a huge help for therapy. Thanks❤
@stevelindsay3643
@stevelindsay3643 11 месяцев назад
Well, Done. That covered a lot of areas. I'd not been able to find a clinical diagnosis of what I've been going through over the past 15 years slowly getting worse. All the things I was so passionate about that got me up early every morning with a renewed vigour to get at it have left me. I kept thinking/hoping it would pass but it never did. I went from a house full of people to now being a recluse on my own. I live in a Log House I built originally as a cottage. It's on my property where I had built shops to fix, repair, invent, and repurpose things. I have a completely furnished Mechanical repair shop, every welder known to man, machine shop equipment, an auto lift, a tire changer, and a huge air compressor. It's the main shop where I built hot rods, rat rods, custom motorcycles, and buggies. I have a shop attached to it that is completely outfitted with woodworking tools for cabinetry, furniture design and construction, and custom one-off pieces to fit people's decor. t the end of the main shop I have a century-old sawmill I restored and made my living with for some years having contracts with local lumber yards. I lost a 150-year-old log home I had restored to fire. I lost everything and very limited insurance. I was able to get the contract from the insurance company to rebuild the home myself. I hired a lad to help and build a beautiful one-of-a-kind story and a half 3200 square foot home. 3 years later it was lost to fire when my wife's car caught fire. We weren't home and everything including the shop I built there was a complete loss. Insurance fought me tooth and nail, I had to pay off the bank mortgage which left not enough to build this little log home on my bush property but I managed to get it built. I forgot to mention two years before my first home burnt I had broken my back in a logging accident. It required multiple levels of spinal fusion surgeries, decompression, and bone grafting and there were serious complications. I was young enough and strong enough that I was determined to keep going. I was divorced after I finished building my home. That devastated me. I started to drink again after years of sobriety. I met an old girlfriend from our teen years and we started dating, she moved in with her three teenage boys, I had one of my boys still with me and things were improving. It was her car that caught fire and we lost everything. It only gets worse from there. At this point in time I'm defeated. I keep hoping for a miracle to get me back to where I can do things again. My health is bad. Two years ago I lost 50 lbs in 4 months dropping from 190 lbs to 140 lbs they have not been able to come up with a reason why. With it went a lot of upper body strength. I used to wear coloured tank tops and a brown leather vest proud of my physique, now it's full-length sleeves and buttoned up so people can't see the deterioration of my upper body. I can't put the weight back on. It's a very strange thing. I'm surviving on a disability allowance from the Canadian Government. I receive $835 bucks a month and have to pay everything out of that. I've lost my licence due to no insurance, and I'm behind thousands of dollars in property tax. I'm going to lose everything to the government and I have no options or help available. Isn't it odd how I went from saying "Well Done" and my gift to my heartbreak?
@smartayzo695
@smartayzo695 11 месяцев назад
Really sorry for what has happened to you. How about starting a GoFundMe? That might be the help you need. Hope your situation gets way better!!
@stephenkarla7113
@stephenkarla7113 9 месяцев назад
What a story and I am praying for you. I went through something similar I had no diagnosis for eleven months. I physically couldn't walk. I realized I was an empath while bedridden. I have had time to reflect on my life since childhood and now know I am empathetic. This isn't taught in med school so there was no help there. I've been the daughter and now wife of a sawmill man all of my life. I left my job at forty being elected to the local superior court I could no longer sit through another child abuse or murder trial. It was destroying me mentally and physically. So I left my paycheck and retirement after four terms. Somehow my husband and I have held our family together raising now two young adults. Please pray for me and mine as well.
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 6 месяцев назад
I understand! I have not lost the amount of items you have, but I have lost a lot. My health is gone. But through it all, I have been humbled. that is the greatest gift I have ever received.
@marialeach6747
@marialeach6747 11 месяцев назад
We are never broken, we teach along the way...things people never reflect on. I am a deep thinker, hardly sleep, think about my impact at every moment. I get angry, then rest when I have had enough. Joy is hard to find because I know the shit that is everywhere.
@MkBl-ll5zp
@MkBl-ll5zp 7 месяцев назад
Understand you 100%
@hccarson7938
@hccarson7938 7 месяцев назад
The more I am alone, the better I feel. I am HSP and so tired of people pleasing. As I spend time alone, I am able to heal and figure out what happened and why. I really am enjoying my own company more and more. Those who have drained us don't realize that we have so much going on inside, that we really don't need them.
@stephenkane7499
@stephenkane7499 5 месяцев назад
It's been 3 years out and I feel I'm just going thru life. I'm bored, lost and just don't care anymore. Trying to find my way out, just don't know where to go. I've done the counseling, it's the destruction and lies that keep holding me down. Great video, thank you!
@theshadowofgod1
@theshadowofgod1 11 месяцев назад
Appreciate that involving broken empaths. You're very correct, when we get so emotionally numb and just don't react anymore, we're seen as giving an attitude also. Just had to go through that not too long ago when I'm just...numb
@deborahweber9136
@deborahweber9136 11 месяцев назад
Hot it on the nose. Lids of appetite, over sleeping, closing off, staying away from people, hard to get things done , tired all the time a lack of desire to thrive
@moonj0ck
@moonj0ck 10 месяцев назад
I can relate to this. I feel like a lack empathy too much these days. Hardly feel emotions. I feel like a cold rock. I'm so tired of narcissists and they're everywhere! I still have the one that broke me in my life and he is essentially the only person I talk too. I don't see him very often. I want to move on so bad and I'm on dating apps. I just haven't had luck finding someone I'm interested in. But yes I feel like I'm just a ghost going through life.
@ravingraven1469
@ravingraven1469 10 месяцев назад
You deserve so much more than that narcopath. Whilst you have any connection with the toxic person that hurt you. It retriggers the pain and psychological stress. And they still have a hold over you. Be strong and completely cut ties with that person and look into seeing a professional on mental health / councilor. Please stay strong ❤️
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 6 месяцев назад
You are important, even though you may not feel that way.
@user-il7tc1vr2d
@user-il7tc1vr2d 9 месяцев назад
I've been diagnosed with CPTSD. That never sat well with me. Now I know why. Thank you for this.
@MkBl-ll5zp
@MkBl-ll5zp 7 месяцев назад
Nothing wrong with you! You just don’t speak STUPID. That’s all!
@lynclark6877
@lynclark6877 Год назад
I didn't know what an empth was until I was told by a therapist that I am a broken empath. I have researched it and this video is very true of me. My narcissistic sister died with so much hate in her heart that I felt like I had to save her. It has been so hard to find peace in living with the fact that she was so hateful and I couldn't help her
@Dana-712FifthAve
@Dana-712FifthAve Год назад
Sorry to hear this.
@jasontaylor404
@jasontaylor404 Год назад
You helped her. Trust me I have a difficult sibling and try to love them as much as possible. I'm always shocked years later things come up that I've "said". They are listening and your sister listened.
@elizabethhannah4704
@elizabethhannah4704 11 месяцев назад
I come from a narcissistic family. It took me a long time to wake-up to to the fact my sister is a narc. She dumped me cold but I knew what was going on. My son has married one and she tried to break me. Didn't work..I'm happy and free now. God Bless You Always.
@ananamu2248
@ananamu2248 11 месяцев назад
It takes time ..I got through . .it took ma ny years but I am enriched by it I healed using art ,music and talking about everything = expression of any kind
@helgardhossain9038
@helgardhossain9038 11 месяцев назад
Dear Lyn ! You are only responsible for yourself before the Last Judgement. You were not responsible for your sister ... We CAN take on responsibility for others, but we don't have to ... and especially we are NOT ALLOWED to sacrifice our health or lives for others - no matter what the different religious representatives say ... religion says something different ! Our first duty is to look after ourselves and THEN we have enough power, energy and money to look after others ...
@LOTStreets
@LOTStreets 2 года назад
Figuratively speaking, Empaths are born broken. Not that Empaths are broken but unique, reminds me of a kintsukuroi a cracked Japanese voss mend back together with gold.
@massiahgrom
@massiahgrom 2 месяца назад
I'm not lonely . Solitude is renewal .
@ManicMuzee
@ManicMuzee 9 месяцев назад
Not always because of a current toxic situation. Sometimes its just a season in life that you need to get through.
@LuluIvy11
@LuluIvy11 11 месяцев назад
I am a Sensitive Empath and this video is onpoint. This video describes everything I deal with on a daily. And I am definitely broken.
@Loriburnett
@Loriburnett 10 месяцев назад
Same
@lauramarzen7081
@lauramarzen7081 9 месяцев назад
me too....youre not alone❤
@MkBl-ll5zp
@MkBl-ll5zp 7 месяцев назад
Did it start about FIVE years ago? For I am finding out that almost all mental people like myself, felt this BIG change in the air….find that interesting?
@teresawingbermuehle4212
@teresawingbermuehle4212 6 месяцев назад
Broken with you ALL ❤❤❤❤
@stevehodges4905
@stevehodges4905 Год назад
Been with a narcsssist for 28 years just recently broke up keep your faith in god and yourself and u will be fine I am thank u 1111
@Ana_Ines3420
@Ana_Ines3420 9 месяцев назад
I just can't believe I am a broken empath. I thought I was a Narcissist, however, after this video I started remembering my childhood snd teenage years, and realized I am a broken empath. I ticket absolutely all the 10 points I'm still not totally numb, but I AM rejecting some narcissists around mebto protect myself from exploitation of my empathy. I'm withdrawing from a 'friend' who always seeked 'advice' when in need for money until I gave money sobthey could get rid pf problems, until the next call. Now that there are noneconomic problems, there were no more calls from that end. Great! So much for true friends. Not blocking the phone but just not answering. Thank you from relieving me of ny guilty feelings.
@davidwalden309
@davidwalden309 6 месяцев назад
This hit dead on. It's astounding how this video explains much that I couldn't find words for, or truly put thought to. To be honest, I didn't expect this video to have anything of any real weight, however, I was wrong, and thankfully so. Thank you. I enjoy learning about my own behavior. 😅
@debraannedimezza8075
@debraannedimezza8075 Год назад
I never ever feel self pity I pity the idiots that did me wrong
@samchalohana4423
@samchalohana4423 11 месяцев назад
I am 70 now and has SLE and unable to manage the illness and daily chores, if someone helps me bring myself out of it I will be grateful
@iNSPIREiNFLUENCE9113
@iNSPIREiNFLUENCE9113 9 месяцев назад
Since my spiritual awakening started I found out what empath n called and makes sense of the things am going through ..although other things came to my attention finding out where I'm from n who i am a starseed putting everything into perspective . Everything u mentioned in this I'm going thru n have gone through. ! Thank you for the nail on perspective!
@stephaniea1185
@stephaniea1185 9 месяцев назад
I recently realized my BF is an empath. He hides it very well. He has most of the symptoms you describe. I am so incredibly amazed by his courage in opening up to me and trusting me. I'm incredibly proud of him. How he protected himself through his terrible childhood beinf rejected by his parents and dumped in dormatory schools for mentally disturbed, violent children (even though he was not like that). I have learned the hard way to protect him from my raw emotions (such as grief and frustration) since he absorbs it and carries it like a weight i have dropped on his shoulders. Maybe I'm an empath too, just a clueless one who didn't realize what a burden i was dumping on him all rhe time! In a note to other empatha who are struggling: please don't give up on others. There are a few of us who are good and kind. Please stay brave and open hearted. I know you have to keep your guard up, just don't keep it up too high!
@user-rj5re1ln3l
@user-rj5re1ln3l Год назад
The narrator spoken on "Heyokah Empaths" from 5:14 to 5:50 when becoming emotionally numb. As well she'd spoken on the typical regular human being when speaking on becoming depressed and wanting to take our life. True enough we go through a depressive stage but thats limited and goes away because it's apart of a spiritual awakening..
@uriamudeltoro5075
@uriamudeltoro5075 Год назад
Llamame PAYASO.....QUE PASA?
@annadean4909
@annadean4909 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for posting this! And it was "spot on". And also being a Gemini, I think the symptoms are even more intense too.
@mimiclark3417
@mimiclark3417 8 месяцев назад
I’m in tears-of course! This video is ME! Like the author was right beside me throughout my childhood and growing up into adulthood! All ten apply to me and I’ve always thought that I was defective! Thank you for this video!
@taffykins2745
@taffykins2745 8 месяцев назад
No, sweetheart. Go see a doctor. It's not mystical. There IS help available to you. Go to your regular doctor and tell them everything. They will help you. I promise!❤
@PsychBuzzy
@PsychBuzzy 8 месяцев назад
Glad you enjoyed it! Hope this helps
@taffykins2745
@taffykins2745 8 месяцев назад
@PsychBuzzy it doesn't help. You should be ashamed of putting something like this out. A LOT of people suffer from anxiety &depression and there IS help for them. They feel exactly as you described and the same as many others on this board have described. They need to go see a regular doctor, tell doc what's going on and get professional help. This isn't the 1400s anymore; give these lost souls a break. There is nothing to be embarrassed about anymore because what they feel is very common these days. They don't have to live a life of sorrow and emptiness. Shame on you. You should tell them to go see a doctor. Respond so I know you got this, please.
@MkBl-ll5zp
@MkBl-ll5zp 7 месяцев назад
I don’t know you in person. Know this, this will also pass and when it does, you will be more educated and your spirit will complete another exam. The exam that is needed to get the hell OUT of it! Nobody is referring to one important aspect… where do you believ, you are FROM?
@teddygrizz2538
@teddygrizz2538 11 месяцев назад
This explains allot. Didnt know i was a broken empath. I know im an empath, but I thought this experience explained was just my own mental crisis. About 6 or so years ago, i got so bad that I couldn’t even leave my room. It was so bad, even a slightly disturbing picture of an object would feel overwhelming. Im doing better now, but i still have allot of those broken symptoms, like major weight loss or overthinking , unable to sleep. I recommend therapy tho. As much as we take on other’s emotions, it helps when we can share our own with someone.
@HeirOfNothingInParticular
@HeirOfNothingInParticular 9 месяцев назад
I relate to all of that! I’m so touchy right now I have to very careful what movies and media I view. I’m down to vintage tv like Little House and The Waltons and there are still episodes that are triggering. A single image or even a word is enough to set my mind racing…. I don’t know how to heal from this being broken…
@teddygrizz2538
@teddygrizz2538 9 месяцев назад
@@HeirOfNothingInParticular ohh dang, yea, its a tough spot to be in mentally . It takes time, but learning yourself and figuring out how to tell when its you or something else causing the feelings. That helps to tame impulsive emotions and sometimes even manipulate a situation ha. Id recommend spiritual enlightenment practices. That’ll pretty much help you learn yourself and the meaning behind how you react to things. Might sound silly, but sitting in nature while meditating helps too, which is also part of the spiritual enlightening.
@ChrisDeVarro
@ChrisDeVarro 11 месяцев назад
It's crazy how much information is at our fingertips now.
@hanahime1027
@hanahime1027 9 месяцев назад
I’m an empath. I’m with a narcissist and we do have a toxic relationship for many years. I also get tired of people easily, so I don’t have friends.
@ArualtikBaird
@ArualtikBaird 2 месяца назад
Your videos are giving me the means to explain to my best friend what is happening to him and that he is amazing. Thank you so much. Some times it really takes back up to show someone this world is so much darker with out them
@debraannedimezza8075
@debraannedimezza8075 Год назад
After breaking up with my toxic Taurus, I’m an Aquarian I have spent 11 months in therapy healing, spiritually, and emotionally stain grounded but I can’t shake the exhaustion
@dm-jf5uu
@dm-jf5uu Год назад
Been there I am an aquarius dated Taurus just don't contact them again mine cheated on me.working helped me
@blue_moon6490
@blue_moon6490 11 месяцев назад
I wish I had a family member to share this with. Thank you for understanding. ✨💖✨🙏🕊
@PsychBuzzy
@PsychBuzzy 11 месяцев назад
You are so welcome
@elizarodriguez2876
@elizarodriguez2876 2 месяца назад
This explains my loss of appetite & depression lately and so much more ty.
@Erika-yy8ry
@Erika-yy8ry 9 месяцев назад
Yes, we can get broken - but we can raise up again, step by step.
@Silentsister
@Silentsister 11 месяцев назад
It's easy for me to get depressed when everyone dumps their negative emotions on me. You described depression and anxiety. I'm glad that I took my music and art studies seriously. Always had something to discipline myself to when being around others is not an option. Yes, I eat emotionally. Working on it. My man picker was broken for a long time because I could not change nor fix others problems that they were complaining to me about. So- don't ask me for advice. Look in the mirror and love yourself! Us "empaths" need to learn filters. We do not need to feel others' BS. It is habit- probably rooted in a early childhood defense mechanism. None of us are perfect, but emotional psychics- us, HSP, also another label, can learn to find balance. We, too, should learn to balance. I relate to the apathy- that's what it's called when your energy feels used up. But I know it does not need to be a full pendulum. Yes, I have felt worthless- labeled as "just" a musician and artist. I offer forgiveness- because most people don't know who they are, and America has programmed all of us to believe we are not enough- what we NEED is always external. Thank you for this informational video. Humanity holds so much trauma sand difficult emotions. My life work is emotional balance, with appropriate responses. Much love to you all! ❤
@retanaazucena
@retanaazucena 9 месяцев назад
This is so true! Whenever I have to be around people that have very low vibrations I have to look up spirit shield here on RU-vid so I don't have to feel that bad energy. I listen to it before I go to work while I sleep. Sometimes I will focus on a random item or close my eyes and meditate in my mind repeating " my energy is my energy, their energy is their energy, I will not absorb their energy", and imagine a shield around me. Meditation really helped me because I used to get bad anxiety attacks.
@rhammond7517
@rhammond7517 11 месяцев назад
I just make myself do things to stay busy
@dannibunni2948
@dannibunni2948 6 месяцев назад
Holy sh--.. I did not need to be called out like that within the first 5 hours of 2024...
@leticiacoutinho4824
@leticiacoutinho4824 9 месяцев назад
I went through all of these descriptions. (except anorexia, I'd rather eat everything). I am healing from all of that. Those signs will not become permanent, we will come back to be the positive and virtuous person we were before (but even better) as soon we get free from the abusers. Fight for yourself, make one little step each day towards your freedom!
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