I must attract cats im now on my 3rd thats adopted me,got a female at moment that ive registered went to get her Snipped shes pregnant,now got 7 kittens at 4 weeks old running havoc, i must admit from what i see she's a good mother.
my cat? feel safe? the more relevant question is if my wife and i feel safe in her presence!!! we get yelled (meowed) at if we sit on her sofa without her permission, she orders us around like servants (open this door now, u damn human, feed me now, clean my toilet... etc), runs after and chases my wife to bite her when she feels bored, smells and inspects every single thing we bring back home like a TSA officer, and she also feels that we should pay rent coz we live in her house... accidently raised an entitled boss cat
I know my cat trusts me because I can step over her when she's laying stretched out on the floor and she won't even bother to lift her head. It's true that the more indifferent a cat seems to your presence, the more comfortable they are with you. If a snoozing cat does nothing more than half open an eye when you get close to them, you have their trust.