10 Signs You Might Be Nonbinary | Enby Thoughts 

3:42 uhhhhhh im 5'4 too and get a *lot* of dysphoria around my height and not being seen as "masculine". Just FYI I want to point out plenty of cis men are this height and it shouldn't stop anyone from passing or being perceived as feminine. not trying to be offensive, loves ur videos and stuff I just think society shouldn't gender height

The way I was instantly called out by #1 LMAO

Another sign from my own experience: fixating on gender norms, especially as a child, and either trying very hard to uphold them or trying very hard to break them. For example, when I was a kid, I decided that pink was my favorite color because I was a girl and it was a girliest color, therefore it *should* be my favorite. I still have conflicted feelings over the color because it's hard to tell if I ever truly liked it, or if it became part of my identity as an expression of femininity that I tried so hard to fit into. And also, I dont know if its just a me thing: but also if all your romantic partners/closest friends are all trans/enby, and you have a fixation on the trans/enby experience you just cant explain. I personally have never seriously dated a cis person, and not even through any consious decisions. Not only that, but I feel an instant draw towards anyone gender non-conforming to the point where my trans radar never fails, because I will just walk into a room and if there is a trans person there at all, my brain will already be fixated on them, and how cool and awesome they look/are.

Number 7 is kind of just my entire obsession with elves, changelings, and robots/cyborgs; like every one of my favorite characters could fall into one or more of these categories. Also it took me forever and a half to realize the wanting to *be* someone rather than wanting to be *with* them. That and several squishes confused me so bad!

0:00 Intro 1:11 1. You clicked on this video 1:35 2. You are very particular about the way you look or gender expression 2:07 3. When you are in a group of people of the same gender as you, you fill a little different 2:47 4. You like the idea of body alterations 3:22 5. You like when you get "misgendered" 3:51 6. You get sort of obsessed with how certain people look 4:41 7. You have had some sort of fixation on the idea of genderlessness 5:30 8. At some point of your life, particularly pubescent or post pubescent life you've had some kind of mental health struggle 6:19 9. You forget that gender is a thing 6:34 10. In general you feel like some kind of a weirdo 6:59 Outro, kind of It bugged me that there weren't any timestamps so here they are I guess

"You're very aware of your gender expression." Younger me needed to prove my femininty so badly as a "cis" person. I didn't even like women's social customs, I just thought I had to be as girly as possible. Maybe it was just denial?

Omg I feel so called out by sign number 6! I've recently become kinda obsessed with a non-binary person at my school and I was so confused because I was very sure it wasn't a crush! Also this explains why I like Kaden so much, it's like you CAN be non-binary and have long hair!

i have no clue what my gender is tbh LOL i mean- im an afab and im fine with being a girl HOWEVER if i were born a boy i dont think i would be a trans girl. I just really dont care, at least i dont think so

I'm cis, but when I was younger I definitely seemed "particular" about what I wore. Looking back... I think it had to do with a combination of not liking being told what I was "supposed" to wear and simply the fact that the girls clothes I owned were way less comfortable, so wearing dudes clothes helped my ADHD focus. I can also distinctly remember there being a person at my church when I was little and I could never figure out their gender... I didn't necessarily like or dislike that trait about them, I was just trying to guess and hadn't been exposed to very many queer people😅. However, I can very vividly remember HATING it sooooo much when people misgendered me as someone's little boy with long hair. It just felt so... humiliating. Which I think gave me a bit more understanding and empathy for people who aren't cis, what only had to happen to me probably less than 20 times in my whole life is something trans people who don't look like their gender have to go through on a daily basis. I got to have a small taste of that "nakedness" and feeling of having your sense of self stripped away. It fills you with shame and discomfort. Made me realize people aren't "soft" or "snowflakes" for wanting to be called by the correct pronouns, and they they are a lot more than "just words". At some point in time, I stopped being so picky about clothes. I owe an insanely huge thanks to the help from a neighbor who told my mom to "not worry about it, she'll grow out of it" when she asked if she should be making me dress more femininely. My mom has since had a change of heart, but I guess my neighbor was right because I did eventually, mostly, grow out of it. I'm so glad I was allowed that time of exploration and wasn't forced to wear stuff I hated all the time. So yeah, I think we should normalize cis people thinking about their gender identities because I think it's a lot more complicated and individualized than we make it out to be. Thank you for coming to my 3am Ted talk with no coherency whatsoever Edit: I just gotta say: your hair is SO. COOL. Kinda looks like the aro flag a bit with the black shirt, I love how it's darker on the top and light green underneath it's very mesmerizing 😂

Is agender a thing? Like no gender. I know I'm not a man or a woman but non binary people seem to often affiliate with some sort of gender expression, and that feels very foreign to me. Ive told my friends before that I don't feel like a man, but I don't feel like anything else, so I don't want to call myself nonbinary since non-b's face actual societal issues and I just feel uncomfortable. I think I dress very androgynously, all I wear are sweatshirts and pants. But it seems like lack of gender is seen as masculine our society. Has anyone felt this way?

Me: uncomfortable with being woman Also me: not man, definitely not What? What is if not those? Am Engineer. That is all.

02:07 - 02:48: same here, when I was younger I always seen my social groups as girls, boys, and me. Perhaps the biggest question I doubt anybody has any answer to is: "Am I not like other girls or not even a girl at all?"

The blue or green hair is often a good indicator 😂😂😂

To point number 5 : I once got misgendered by that one man working in the hotel, where me and my family stayed for 1 week at the vacation. He said that boys in my age need some vacation too from time to time, and my sister was looking at me in confusing, while I was smiling like crazy (but I didn't show it, cuz I haven't come out to my family yet). And to make it more clear I am non-binary.

3:26 ~ It’s kinda funny you say that. “You like the idea of being misgendered.” Idk what ‘gender envy’ is, and I don’t believe I experience it. However, there’s just something about girls who are easily mistaken for guys, especially when it’s a plot device in the story. And I have no idea what that even means for my gender. I can’t even describe what emotion I feel when I think of being in their situation. When I wanted to write a story about this girl who goes undercover as a boy to go to an all boys academy, I just loved the idea of hiding it. Irl I definitely don’t like he/him pronouns, but still, the idea of hiding my AGAB and gender sounds... good in a weird way. But, at the same time, I don’t want to be a “guy”. My gender isn’t male, so why would I be interested in that so much? I have things from my childhood that I believe are signs, but I know a lot of people would just say are me being a quirky girl or me being “not like other girls”. I liked pink, but in a defiant way. Like, I liked pink, but not in a girly girl way. I hated the idea of being pegged as a “girly-girl” and was disgusted by the idea. I was completely fine with other people being girly-girls, just not me. I hated the idea of being a girly-girl so much that I considered myself a tomboy, even though I didn’t feel connected to actual tomboys or acting/being masculine. I felt like I didn’t actually fit in the “box” of being a girl. Boys are race cars and action figures. Girls are Barbies and playing house. I was stuffed animals and exploring the backyard for bugs. I never liked the idea of having a sister cause I would be confronted with the fact that I wasn’t.... “fitting” what a girl should be. I was scared I’d be a bad sister for this (“what if”) sister. I’d be a good sibling, but I definitely wouldn’t be a brother... but I don’t think I’d be a ‘sister’ either. I was scared of the thought of a sister cause I didn’t want to confront the idea. Even now, I like dresses hypothetically. Like, wear a dress, look pretty, go to a party: idk if I really care too much. Wear a dress barefoot and run through a beautiful field: yes please! I remember my mom and grandma wanted to get me a dress for Easter when I was 6 or 7. I couldn’t find one I liked, because they were ugly but also because I couldn’t do ‘fun things’ in them. Once I did find one I liked, I told them I liked it... but then I got sad and asked “could I play in puddles with it?” Idk, it just feels very gender to mess around in nature in a dress. I chose my pronouns in 1st grade? Kindergarten? Idk, whatever grade it is when you practice pronouns. The thing is, they taught us pronouns, and we matched she/her to feminine presenting stick figures and he/him to masculine looking stick figures... but no one told me they were supposed to be for specific genders. So I went home and wanted to be nice to my mom, so before she could ask what we learned in school today, I told her we learned pronouns. We talked a little bit, until I randomly said, “I think I like she/her pronouns for myself more then he/him.” I felt like I should inform her cause I wasn’t sure how fem I came off as, so I wanted to clarify just in case. My mom says, “Uhhh... I’d course you’re pronouns are she/her. You’re a girl.” “Oh.” I never felt like I fit in with other girls my age, but I think it was mainly my interests not aligning with theirs. Me being aro-spec and ace-spec also heavily influenced that cause my friends are like “oooo, I have a crush on that person” and I’m like, “wait, you have a crush? I thought that was supposed to happen later?” That’s all I can think of right now. I think I’m genderfluid. I think I experience female, agender, and neutrois fluidly. I’m ok with being AFAB cause I’m normally fem-leaning with gender, but I wish I didn’t look so fem or look so AFAB. Idk. I like she/her and ey/em, but not he/him nor they/them. They/them is ok, but I’d much prefer she/her and ey/em. SPOILERS for Voltron and Oran Host Club: The only two characters I can think of that are a girl, but are mistaken for a boy, are Haruhi from Oran Host Club and Pidge from Voltron.

So an aside: as an autistic person watching this video, it's very similar to many of the autistic experiences, just without the specificity about gender. (Which is not terrible surprising as a disproportionate number of autistic folks are trans/NB/GNC and vice versa)

I'm 26 and have been wondering for a few years if I might be nonbinary. I used to always put ace bandages around my chest in middle school and high school (note: please avoid doing this if possible, it's not safe), so I wondered for a while if I was trans, but that didn't feel right at all. I've been inexplicably allergic to being called a "girl" or "woman" for my whole life. A bunch of other signs led me to realizing I'm queer, which was a good realization, but I still feel... weird. Just not all the way like a human person. I never really let myself consider that I could be nonbinary because I feel most comfortable when there's a distinct feminine element to my appearance. The way I've been phrasing it is that gender doesn't make any sense to me and feels totally reductive, and you could use any pronouns for me and I wouldn't care. But there's something extra sweet about "they" because I feel like "they" treats me as a person, not a piece of meat. For the last few months I've been slowly dipping my toe into using she/they pronouns and it feels so right. Nobody ever they-s me, but just hearing myself say my pronouns are she/they and seeing it in my bios finally feels right. I still wasn't sure about calling myself non-binary until this video but this really confirmed a lot for me that I'd been hesitating around.

I love your hair😊

one neat sign I notice in myself is that I weirdly experiences some change in how i see the world. like, when I tought of myself as a boy or a girl, I imagine myself in a third person prespective and usually pretty out of it/ not fully "conscious" if I am seeing in first person. But when I percieve myself as this gender, it's easier to see in first person prespective and I just feel more... clear I guess.

ok lets appreciate how relatable number 10 is very cool hair btw very green

I'm amab and just recently came out as enby. I'm ok with being called he/him, but just started using they/them as well, which tbh feels way better. I relate to a lot of these signs, so thanks for the confirmation. Also, I totally want your hair - love it!

Im a Nonbinary-Boy(flux)(AFAB) and i have this thing when im in a female only space (toilets, Changing rooms, etc) i feel like im not supposed to be there, like I’ve infiltrated this space and im not the same as the people in the room. (Like a Green marker in a box of pink markers)

When I was in primary school I used to wear trousers (when most of the other girls would wear skirts) and I would wear big jackets instead of the little grey cardigans that were part of our uniforms. I think my parents picked up on the fact that the typical girl uniform didn't feel authentic for me. I'm so grateful that they were always so supportive when it came to self-expression! Also, interestingly, although I had always had very long hair and was never "misgendered" as a child, there was a point where I suddenly became very concerned that other people would think I was a boy??? I think I said it was because I had a "deep speaking voice" (reminder that I was probably about 7 or 8 at the time!). My mum suggested going to school wearing clear nail varnish so that I would feel more feminine. I've spent a lot of time thinking about this since! Was it that I could tell something was different about me and I was worried everyone would notice so I overcompensated by wanting to be seen as more feminine? Or was it that I felt left out because the girls in the playground seemed to have something I lacked? Or did I genuinely want to be more feminine? I don't know!!

this was helpful and honestly ive been wondering lately if i might be nb. turns out i relate to almost all of these lol

I don't feel like i'm 100% a girl, but i neither feel non binary, but i definetely don't feel like a boy

I started my transition ftm and then did the "if you are alone what is your gender?" And I was like "none?" That combined with my attachment to my feminine features changed my perspective 😮 I really recommend that exercise

I don’t know how it is with other gender identities but here’s an anecdote from someone identifying as agender: People have told me that they feel they are homo/hetero sexual and this was quite validating,since the way I found out I was lesbian wasn’t “I’m homosexual”,but more of just a standard “I like women”. I didn’t have anything with gender in mind. Also I love how you look!

Me: *Obsessed with with big, physically strong women and how fricking awesome they look* Sign 6: *Exists* Me: Well, I'm pretty sure I'm not non-binary, but I'll take this as a sign to get r i p p e d.

I already know I’m non-binary, but I wanted to watch this video to help support you and you channel 💖💖💖 You look AMAZING with green hair btw omg 👏👏👏

Thank you for such amazing content

cis tomboy girl who got 2 or 3 out of 10 (all of them for different reasons than you listed) but your voice is so so relaxing this is like an asmr video. also i’m ace too and i think #6 could actually have to do more with that than gender, especially when you mistake it for a romantic crush.

To those in religious ambients: I understand the struggle but if being yourself is not life threatening try doing little things and when you're ready you can come out (or not). Prioritize your mental health! Being closeted in a strict and patriarchal religion messed me up and I'm still on recovery

I’m a girl but I want to be a boy but only sometimes because I want to dress up in a dress and be feminine and then I want to be really masculine too I don’t know what to do

you look so nice this day!!

I’d get top surgery honestly but I use she/her (maybe she/they). And I don’t know if that makes me non binary I know I’m not ftm trans through

This is very helpful thank you

I've been going through some of this stuff rn. I'm fine being called she/her it doesn't bother me but I've been wanting to change how I look. Like I have a binder that I can't wear often cause my mom will notice. So sometimes I just stand in front of the mirror with it on just so happy because I look how I want. I also have been wanting to cut my hair a certain style, wanting piercings and just generally wanting certain clothes. Thank you for this video!

You guys are so amazing,Good Luck😇🥰

The mental health struggle aspect is HUGE and can be incredibly hard to nail down, especially if you don't live in a supportive environment. I've had depression basically since puberty hit and only now, a month away from 30 have I finally had the courage to admit to myself that a lot of my issues ultimately stem from gender identity issues. I've toyed with the idea of being trans in my teens, but kinda chickened out and repressed it, cuz the reality of it seemed scary as heck and even that aside it's a huge, huge deal and I 100% wasn't ready for it then. Yeah, repressing these issues DID NOT help at all, in fact the more I repressed the worse I felt about myself and life in general. For a good while I even forgot how excited I was as a teen about this stuff, how nice it felt seeing guys confidently crossdressing or just not giving a shit about not presenting masc, plus all the little closeted experiments I've tried. Now I'm sure I'm at the very least enby, maybe even trans, idk yet, we'll see down the line. At the very least, having accepted this aspect of myself I definitely feel like a heavy ass weight has been lifted from my shoulders.

Sign number 3...oh man, that hit hard. It all makes sense. I never felt like I fit in with other girls.

I am AFAB and up until recently, didn’t give that much thought. Someone once described gender like being able to feel your bones. They don’t feel like anything if everything is fine but if one is broken…. Normally, I just feel ambivalent about my gender and then sometimes I like to wear sexy femme clothes like sheer, lace, bewbs out, etc. but weirdly enough in just a shot of my face in a selfie, especially if I’m wearing makeup oddly enough, I’ll feel a little masc and a sort of get this thrill through me like “I like it” and it feels good. Same when I see myself with a masc filter on an app. I just be like checking myself out. But also femme feels good too. Ahhhgg it’s so confusing and frustrating. I should note I have 80HD. I’ve been tested for autism and I am not but I have sensory issues and social issues like eye contact/cues and special interests. I was a “fun fact” kid. I liked knowing things and telling people the things I knew.

I am a Demi girl, and how I know that is that I absolutely despise girl’s social norms. I just wanna play video games all day I don’t wanna go shopping 😂

I may have an eleventh sign: Even not wanting to actually be a man, I like to dress in man clothes, because they hide my body shape. I’ve become to really dislike my breasts, even though thinking about it, I realise now that ever since middle school i tried to hide them or make them look… smaller? It’s weird to think about or write about, but yeah. Love your videos, thank you so much for what you do💜

9 was really funny as I went from working in a sciency area to one that is more mainstream/humanities and there are these major gender splits in the office and I was like "wow I forgot gender was a thing and these people care about it so much"

I just feel like i’m somewhere between ftm binary trans and like gender-fluid? like even when i feel the closest i come to being a girl i feel like a guy still? idk if that makes any sense but i’m 20 and i’ve known i’m trans/enby since i was 14- please help

Thanks for the video! I identify as she/her, and I have always been a little confused about how the mind process of they/them works, because no one ever explained it to me and i was always too afraid to ask. I have many non-binary friends and I was just curious ❤️

I feel like half of these are also common feelings of most teenagers-regardless of their place on the gender spectrum. I don't say this to invalidate anyone's experience, but to confirm that these are common experiences. Also, as a neurodivergent afab, most of these signs seem more aligned with being on the autism spectrum (specifically the fixation on characters or celebrities and preoccupation with clothing aesthetic and material). Perhaps there's a big overlap on that venn diagram? I do no identify as nb, so I don't have authority here. Just wondering?

Wow you put me on the spot with #1 haha

Excellent video :)

I've been wondering about this for a while. For several years, I have been fighting to get sterilised and due to the diagnose of an illness, this fight has turned a lot more active and even to the extend that I now want to get the whole thing (aka my uterus) removed. But no doctor wants to do it, because I'm too young to make this decision and I'm a woman, so it can't be that I don't want kids and find the thought of something growing inside me utterly repulsive. And a while back, I suddenly had the thought "Am I tho?". Anyways, this is a very odd situation for me because I never really thought about whether I "feel" like my biological gender. I'm not even sure what that's supposed to mean, honestly.

Wanted to say up top for other people in the comments: none of these points match my experience and that's okay! I've been a trans guy for 6ish years now and I'm starting to again look at how my gender might be more expansive or different from what I understand it to be right now. I think my experience with life is a little unusual anyways, and I've never had any of the signs discussed in the video really. So regardless of whether you relate to all of them or none of them, this video cannot tell you whether your trans or not! It's up to you to come to understand how you want to express yourself and to be comfortable with your expression changing throughout your life! You're doing the best you can and it's great, keep pushing through this mess that is life!

Watching out of curiosity, though I never questioned my gender. I just like hearing other perspectives and views on the world. Also, you are VERY quiet! I don't know if it is a camera issue or if you might need a collar mike, but wanted to let you know.

While not all of these applied to me this video was really validating

Sometimes I think there are gender neutral bathrooms at my school but NO just Girl and Boy gendered bathrooms.😭😔

I’m non binary and tbh I don’t like going into public bathrooms bc of my gender dysphoria

This is so interesting! I'm not sure if I am on this spectrum or not. Just that I was never a very feminine woman in my mind, my brain feels nerdy and curious and not limited by gender, and I'm not that into fashion and big nails like most women. I do like makeup though. There's a good chance I would dye my hair dark green if I didn't work a very traditional job. Also, I'm demisexual, sapiosexual and demiromantic. For a while I thought I was bi, but I never got to test that theory. I'm gen X and never stopped to think about being a little non-binary. Is "a little non-binary" even a thing?? I'm confused. You younger generations are so much more aware. I love it!

Just- thank you. Also I'm obsessed with the british duded in trench coats. I want to walk around with a monicle.

4:31 so your telling me, this whole time I was just nonbinary and had no reson to question my asexual identety ??

(TW: mentioning of SA and bullying) I‘m currently having a really hard time figuring very fundamental things about myself out, most of all my gender identity. I‘m assigned female at birth and also enjoy being a woman and being perceived a woman, but I feel like I am more than that, that I‘m partly genderless or that I don’t feel female every single day but rather genderless on some days, so I thought about going by she/they pronouns and settling for the demiwoman gender identity. However I‘m concerned that I‘m subconsciously influenced by trauma (I was bullied during my preteen and early teenage years and sexually assaulted and blackmailed when I was 17/18) which left me feeling unworthy of love and attention and with an incredible amount of hatred against my own appearance. Therefore I’m hesitating to officially use they/them pronouns in addition to she/her because I‘m afraid I‘m only subconsciously feeling that way, wishing to be perceived less "boring" or not being compared to other women as much with the result of feeling better about my appearance. I‘m probably overthinking but it really exhausts me not knowing who I am.

I'm technically enby agender. I also am really active in anarchist and aspie/ND communities. Many of us feel being nd and nb are intertwined. We call it nuerogender. I dont feel male or female. I don't have dysphoria really, I like having male parts and having heterosex.. but i don't really like males. Idk I do kinda like when someone calls me a girl or whatever. But that had been such a problem with other nbs. I think some people take their pronouns way too much.

I got called out on EVERY SINGLE ONE 😅

The part about gender envy it's something in my life. I just wanted that my hair be short curly like them have! ;-; but I can't. It's frustrating but I still trying to achieve it. It's not a big envy, but I admit that I was envy.

im 4' 12, height has been my worst source of dysphoria (hope i spelled it right) since i came out to myself

No 7 recently I took a picture of myself where I looked like elven and obsessed Or there's howl from howls moving castle and that dragon keeper person from ancient magus bride who is just vibey as heck

#9 was one of the most relatable thing I've heard in my whole life

one of my signs was sometimes i didnt feel "girl enough" or good enough kibda to like pink or wear pretty dresses or to play w dolls or to do "girly stuff" which seems dumb and i liked and still do like most of them its just i feel like the part where i felt like i had to be "cool and girl enough" to do certain stuff in my early childhood was a clrear sign of me being enby

1:52 when i look in the mirror i see a girl and while im happy i pass as a girl, i just dont feel like myself?? 5:39 OH DO I HAVE A LOT........... wait does mental illness mess with ur gender or smth???? 6:20 cant forget about gender cause transphobia i am so confused about myself cause i know im not cis ive known that for two years but now i might have been enby all this time or something??? i dont knowww

Me, a Non Binary person: *worried i won't relate* Also Me: WHY ARE YOU CALLING ME OUT-

„Girls on the left, boys on the right” *goes out of the room*

I feel so called out by #6… There’s this one person at my school who I really like the look of. Just love the way they dress, wish I could dress like that.

I already know I’m non binary but just seeing that I relate to all of these a lot is like fascinating in a way

I'm really confused about my gender and i have a feeling i might be non-binary 😳 but i don't know how to bring it up to my partner

Why am I being called out like this? LOL! In all seriousness, I wish that I had found this video sooner, because your video speaks to my soul as a nonbinary person.

You knew what you were doing with number one lol 😂

Hello :D, I have some questions 1- gender identity a choice? 2- a person is born a boy and wants to be non-binary, does that count as being trans? 3- It's just that some days I want to be non-binary and others I want to stay as a girl. 4- Can I choose to be non-binary if I want?

watched this out of curiosity, i didn't expect to be exposed in multiple different ways?

6 called me out so hard 😂

is this asmr?

So helpful and this video too ! ❤ And really relaxing 🌱🍃☘️💚💛🧡!!!! 😊 Non binary 💛🤍💜🖤⬇️ 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈💓💖 Your hair it was so amazing 😻😻 and so matching with all the room!!!!

2:50 "you like body alterations" Lmaooo istg when I have the possibility I'll chance my body so much that not even my parents or friends will recognise me hshdhjsnfksldl

I just finished this video as you were saying "if you want to hear more signs or if you have any other signs and would like a part two..." Then I clicked on a BuzzFeed Unsolved compilation and the first sentence there was "I think there are other signs that we don't know about" 😂

I clicked on this to read all the or hear "i hated frilly pink dresses, hair bows, and such as a child, that is how I know I'm not a girl also. there is a sizeable overlap between nonbinary and neurodivergence well this I guess is informative. the whole "just what is nonbinary" being counter culture is non binary! it seems the more I learn about it the more I can see people saying "this is BS, you just want to be special and different, that is not a thing."

first i was like imma cut my hair short,and i always feel like i don’t connect with womanhood,and i just dressed up a boy and cut my hair and i feel so happy

So I don’t think I’m non-binary or really anything other than cis girl but I watch these because I’m curious. I could be, I wouldn’t mind if I was, but I don’t think I am. I don’t feel “feminine” exactly, I feel like me and I have never been anything other than female. I am ok being female. I have insecurities about my body but that’s normal. I look very feminine so I never get misgendered to my face but there are some RU-vidrs who say “hey dudes, bros, guys” or gender neutral greetings or greetings other than feminine ones. I don’t *want* to be misgendered, but I do notice it and its pretty much “that’s new. Interesting. Anyways…” I am also thinking I might be aroace, so I seem to feel aesthetic attraction rather than actual attraction and I think androgyny looks cool. By putting everything together in one comment I’m realizing these are several signs of being non-binary. I think my final decision is “if I am, cool” but I am currently happy enough as a girl so I am probably going to continue being a girl.

Can you help me know if it could be non-binary??? ( I was born a girl)(lol, I know there are a lot of things in this that don't help at all but anyway xd) Things about me: Ecosystems that I like: forest, beach, paramo, mountains, city, countryside. Personality: I get angry easily, lazy sometimes sometimes active, brave, protective, I get irritated easily, strong (emotionally) Fandoms I'm from: therian, furry Climates I like: sunny. Rainy (without storm) Favorite ships: Mike X Elizabeth Moments of the day that I like: day, night Wounds: scar on the arm, scar on the hand. scar on forehead, scar on leg, scar behind ear Hobbies: recording videos, making quadrobiques Foods I like: meat Favorite places at home: forest school, beach, City, countryside Things I hate: being made fun of, making fun of my bestie. that they criticize me for my tastes, that they are abrupt, that they say rude things, that they mistreat or the animals I like Favorite color: pink, blue and purple Extra data xd: I like to climb trees, I love nature, I want to go for a walk in nature and I almost never smile according to my mother Things I haven't mentioned: like border collies, I have an obsession with balls, for example, if I'm playing basketball, I don't want to let go of the ball, I want to have it myself. I am super active. I tried the dog croquettes and I liked them and my mom didn't. Border collies are generally used to herd (I don't know how to spell) sheep in the countryside and I love the countryside.

I probably am enby in some form, but I relate to very little in this video, actually! Number nine and ten are yes, but besides that no. But those are small for me. The big one is the one where I feel... markedly different from most women. I don't know how to describe it succinctly, let alone in a comment. I think my view of this is affected by my autism, too, which is cool. :D autigender, woo!

I know that I'm an enby, it's just funny to see this video to see what fits. And really almost everything did! But the clothing thing was different. When I was a teenager I didn't look at my clothes and wasn't interested in the way I wore them 'cause to me it was just a way not to be naked in front of others, I hadn't much emotional connections to it. But I was (still am) also a weeb. So clothes might get dirty, wore out or destroyed, but manga least for your entire life. For me it was only logical to by manga instead of something I wasn't interested in a few years later, anymore. Today I also look at my style and experiment but my weeb part often gets me, again.

i think i'm 99.9% woman. that is valid right? not sure if I'm on ASD or not. or maybe "i'm not like other girls" debilitating dysphoria is not needed to be not cis

Yup, can you make a part two pleaase?

I watched a lot of videos of this topic because I mean it's pretty self explanatory and this is one of the best videos about Signs You Might Be Non-binary . I can 100% say that I associated with this video the most and it really help me realizing that I'm Non-binary . I'm still questioning if I am but this video took me 1 step closer to realizing that I am in fact non-binary My results 1.yes 2.yes 3.yes 4.yes 5.yes and no 6.yes 7.yes 8.yes 9.no 10.YES 8/10 (Also sorry is my English was bad it's not my first language sorry)

I might be tho? i dont like super girly clothing but i like some dresses and skirts, i like my long hair, wearing nail polish, and sometimes a bit of makeup. I dont like saying my real gender online and just it being unknown feels nice to me. I also have problems with my chest where i want it to be flat ever since i started puberty. So idk if i am? I dont wanna say i am non binary bc what if im wrong or suddenly change my mind about these experiences

It’s normal when you’re young to not feel like you fit in . Everyone feels that at some point . We should all be happy with our bodies ,you shouldn’t feel pressured to change who you are . Dress however you want , it’s ok .

As a cis person the most obvious thing that told me I was cis was that I didn’t like people confusing me for a boy. Not even when I was a child.

THE FIRST ONE IS ME LOL 0:23

4:36 flashbacks to watching Sailor Moon and becoming obsessed with Sailor Uranus.

#3 makes a lot of sense for me i think lol

I was wondering if anyone in my family is non binary one time someone said I'm 65% enby

I refer to myself as a "smol thing," even though im 6'1" and I guess thats kind of a sign also.

"That ain't cis.... I don't know what to tell ya" Me, three weeks ago: lmaoooo Me, now having bought my first binder: dang. how did you know.

Commenting this before watching this, questioning my gender I’m 3 minutes in, getting called out massively-