10 Signs You're Afraid to Lead 

Hi Patrick. You made me realise three things. 1 I’m not leading myself 2 I’m not leading my team 3 I need to be a father Thank you Sir.

Fatherhood, Fatherhood, Fatherhood. I'm not a "business man" but I am a leader. I love watching your videos cause it inspires me to be a better man for my kids. It's what has been missing in our society for years now. Tks Patrick

The part where Tiko came in was gold. You can see the genuine connection PBD has with his son.

I'm a female in the tech industry, and I messed up with work at my last job because I was scared to make decisions. I've always taken instructions from men, and it was difficult to switch roles. I was confronted with a similar situation at my current job, and this time, I made the decisions and executed them, but I had help. All I can say is that being a leader is stressful, and I have more compassion for men when they take up that mantle and execute it. No wonder men die so much earlier than women. Stressful

- this channel have 3 types of talk. -- 1 a talk you enjoy hearing 2 a talk you learn from 3 a talk you enjoy and learn from hearing it Big respect..

I came to this channel for the business man and I fell in love with this channel for the father. Videos like this fulfill an area of guidance that was missing for many of us. Thank you

I have a lot of respect for pat. I’m not an entrepreneur but an engineer. A lot of his leadership advice spot on.

11:52 One thing I learned about becoming a Sheriff Deputy was *Empathy* you try and understand what the person may be going through at the time

the end was the perfect wrap up, can't listen to a man about leadership who doesn't have that bond with his son...salute

I hope young people hear this . They need information like this,I wish l would of. When one is young and becomes an entrepreneur they need to respect what they have accomplished. If they do God will bless their success. God bless our young leader!!🇺🇸

The last part when Tiko came was leading by example. Perfect finishing touch.

💯 Even leaders need a reminder of what got them there and what to look for in others. Never stop learning. Thanks for the quick motivation!

I love this types of videos from Pat. Can always apply them right away. Great content!

Outstanding as always Patrick! Excellent advice and...your son is adorable. I'm sure he will be a great leader with excellent parents. ❤️🙏

I love all the knowledge you put out , thank you for sharing and taking time to share things so society can grow , your much appreciated

I feel nervous when Patrick does videos like this because I know there's a big possibility he's going to expose one or more of my weaknesses. Great learning video though.

This guy always talks about my weak areas. To point as always.

I ask lots of questions at work, it is the only way to get the information I need to make an informed decision. What surprises me is how defensive people get and I have to stop them and say, "relax, its just a quetion. Don't take things personally this is just business." and then they let out a big sigh of relief.

I love the 10th point. Having "Me first" mentality can definitely ruin the whole system. Every successful leader sacrifice themselves to benefit the team. Solute Mr David and Valuetainment team❤️❤️

PBD thanks for letting us see your family dynamics first hand. Great video, one of your best! Thanks again for all the great content!

Patrick, your content keeps improving! Im trying to understand your gift when it comes to teaching. What it is about your content that I find so valuable. I guess you really are open to sharing the experiences of management and leadership. I appreciate you sharing your insights regarding strategy, and leading teams. You are changing lives for the better, Pat, including mine. Thank you. Best wishes!

PBD. Another fantastic video. You are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

Everything he said here is spot on. I work for a large, possibly the largest privately owned business in America and it's falling apart quickly. The reason for that is that there is not one person in a leadership role that is prepared or qualified to lead.

Patrick you a king hustler. Legend. I am grateful to have watched your video in 2018. 180 degree changed my mindset for good. Mochaker

This was honestly one of the most valuable videos PBD has put out.

This is so true and inspiring!😃 Thank you!

I'm glad to hear all this. My impression of myself is I was afraid. Guess I am no longer afraid. I speak my mind now, only after analyzing all the data before I make decisions about how to handle situations and therefore when conflict arises, I stand my ground and own my decisions because I've already thought things through before I took the initial action. I try to teach my kids the same. Gather data, focus on the results youre trying to achieve, weigh your options, then take action, stay true to your principles, and not everyone is going to be your friend. I was well into my mid 30s until I fgured out all of this. So I'm hoping to save my kids some growing pains.

I do the same thing with my son. I'm really shocked to see this done somewhere else. Shout out to all the fathers and businessmen out there.

This was just the video I needed, thank you Pat.

Wish I could have the conversation with my son. Thank you Patric for all your teaching God bless, you are good person

I think the fear of failing and have it on your shoulders is a very common denominator that holds many, including myself, back from pursuing certain roles. If you are a hard worker and hold the quality of your work at a high level then you have responsibility as a key trait. The reality is you've already made a ton of decisions in your worklife that have had significant impacts on the customers your serve and you likely wouldn't be where you are unless those contributions were highly positive amongst those your serve. Great advice by Patrick and I appreciate you taking the time to go through these signs so I can focus some time on identifying which are present with me and overcoming them.

Love it! Awesome tips to go from good to great!

You got to your first point and I knew this was going to be an extra good video! Did not disappoint! :)

Thank you sir! Your motivation and tips is helping me build my RU-vid channel!

Wow wow wow. You really are accurate with the "value" in Valuetainment. This is an amazing video, thanks for posting.

Thats so ironic, I just got home from work last night and im watching valuetainment for the past hour or so... and the title relates so perfectly to my job. My supervisor, great friend to everyone and hard worker... well last night he was all stressed out because of his bosses. So he was on everyones ass tonight understandably!, anyway he got in a fight with a guy at work and is fired now... So I guess the pressure got to his head.

Love seeing this side of you with your kid

CONGRATS on 4 million !

You the man PBD!!! Great advice across the board.

This inspired me ALOT to become a good leader. Appreciate it very much Patrick.

Patrick your a champion mate 👍 love the way you respect and lead your kids!💪💪💪👏 looking forward to seeing what they do in the future! 😎

Pat, that is SUCH a genius way to tackle the hygiene issue. This is such an issue in the sciences, there are definitely some smelly coworkers of mine but literally no one is willing to step up and talk with them.

Live my life by these values. Respect !

Pat laying down the Commandments

These are good life lessons to implement as well. Love it

The one thing that made me a leader: proactive honesty

I love pat’s points in leadership.

This video just made me realize i need to work on myself a little bit. Thanks, very good video man.

Such content, much Learned. Thank you

Awesome video pat, keep it up! 👍🙏

Love this type of content. Thank you, PBD. (The music is too loud on this one and interferes with the clarity of your voice).

Wow Patrick 🥰🙋🏾‍♀️ This was extremely Gooddd!! You help raise my vibration right now lol!! I have been running from leadership for years, but now is the time. Excellent sweetie ❤️❤️❤️

This was a great video, thank you as always for making me a better person.

Thank you for grate info!!!

Genuinely excellent suggestions

human minds are fascinating, we often overthink scenarios (unwilling to have difficult views and conversations) is because it's design to protect us from potential dangers. And we're so narccisstic until we think we're the shit or we're not anybody (insecure)

Leadership in business and leadership in life are two different things. Whether or not your job requires you to be a leader, if you’re a man in this world, it’s not your choice to be a leader in life. You have to be one.

This is such great content and it brings so much value. Great reminder how to keep your edge and grit to move your team forward.

I love watching you on RU-vid and yes I have always been the kind of person to lead not that I want to take the lead but a lot of people put me there. I love helping people and I have recently got the opportunity to see my son in his job and he is a real leader with respect from others and it's like watching my self in my younger years. Because a lot of times I was put in the leading position but I helped other people realize they could be leaders just by the way I handled those people.

Im in managment now thanks to this channel, thank you Pat! Since 2017!

Video editing masters, thank you for this video production masterpiece ❤️

Excellent video Patrick, appreciate the wise words.

LEAD, RESPECT, IMPROVE, LOVE

Hoorah! I love your drive, wisdom and success!

Well done Patrick.....thank you

I love the video! But I love, love the fact that your son came on it!!💯🔥 Thank you Patrick!

Thank you pat! I live in Florida and I hope to meet you someday man! Have a great week!

You got me with this one brother! Liked and subbed 👍 sending this to my siblings now ❤

P always on point. Learned a lot in the short time I've known you. Thank you.

Insane gold thank you !

Beautiful.. beautiful message/moment. 💯🤙🏾

Pat you’re a gem to many in more ways than you might think. Thank you sir!

This is the kind of information I need because I always tryna pleasing other people or expectation all the coworker to like me but now I’m got this information I will implement it thank you sir ❤

Definitely showed where I need improvement. Didn’t even think some of these things were affecting my managing skills

Thank you pat there is a couple of leadership qualities I need to work on

PBD, you’re a good man. Thank you for putting out excellent content for healthy consumption. God bless you sir!

all your videos are amazing and many thanks

Great stuff!

📝 This is so useful, practical and straightforward! I have to apply to my life and share it, starting with my family …. AMAZING INSIGHT! ⭐️

I love this. Patrick is a G!

My favorite video so far! Great advise. We now know what needs to be worked on. 15:35

The moment with your son at the end was priceless😅😅😅. Great content as usual

14:37 Lovely 😍I loved it, I could feel the connection between you and your son. Beautiful! Congrats! I also have it with my 5 years old son. We lead ourselves, it's our first leading. Then later on, we lead our children then when we have a business we lead our employees.

Pat, you’re making me a better man. Thank you

You are amazing Pat. Thanks for the great content.

Patrick, great video for business and family!

Thank You Pat

Awesome video Pat. If I’m being honest with myself I got a few things to work on.

I love this type of Videos

Great piece

Thank You!

Great advice

This is gold!

Thank you sir!

Patrick, you really shine in these videos. Stick to these topics and quit the silly interviews with mafia bosses

I’m just put my two weeks in at my job going in too insurance sales talk about nervous no savings just grit!

That was awesome. Main takeaway: Your kids will make you a better leader

PBD is taking over the game for real. 4M subs! Good on you man

Excellent stuff

That pace of speech, with that tonality and that music in so high volume is chaotic boss. What is your editor doing?