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1. Don't reveal everything, become mysterious 2. Create a fear of losing you 3. Create your own happines 4. Be costly and let them invest in you 5. Don't make them the centre of your life 6. Prioritize your own needs first 7. Don't be always available 8. Stop starting the conversation all the time 9. Don't be too emotionally attached 10. Be willing to walk away from them
I have and do so, and it still bothers me. I told a new friend that I could not count on them. Yes! It was truthful, and my heart still hurt. Because I know I hurt them. I sent a Card explaining that I do care for them. And I need to count on ride for a test procedure. I’m glad I spoke the truth no matter how hard it was. And explain to the person why I did it so they understand why I am that way. I wish them the best and we’ll see if they contact me. If not, I will move on . Opening my heart to new friendships always❤❤❤ peace and love to you and family and happy Thanksgiving🎉
I disagree with Marcus Aurelius on this one. *You have power over your mind to some degree, and you have power over the mind of others (outside events) to some degree* (me). This "degree" depends on your own mind power. When you realize this, you find/build your strength. PROOF: The success is a battle of Powers: yours vs external ones. So, the (battle of) Mind powers, too. A mongoose catches a cobra by controlling/defeating its mind. Mind of mongoose forces mind of cobra to give it up. Mongoose is not faster than cobra. Mongoose reads cobra's mind, and evades its strike just before it starts!! How one gets Power of their mind? By confidence. How one gets strong confidence? By skills. How one gets skills? By experience and knowledge. How one gets experience? By practicing. Practicing what? Practicing what they learnt. (I have more) --------------- _EDITS: All editing done 5 minutes after original post_
Well said ! But I disagree with you disagreeing with Marcus- it's up to the individual to realize they do indeed have mind power and begin the journey of self reflection that explores the degrees of mind power they have in ( read all of Marcus Aurelius to find out) I'm sure he would have loved your mongoose example but don't people have more mind power than mongoose?? Don't put Marcus Aurelius or anything into your own personal context - Marcus should not have had to mention degrees of mind power ---but his statement will always be Wisdom and Truth- you can't have any mind power until you first realize IT IS A STRENGTH and that's when development begins - peace out young dude - ALL THE SPIRITS ARE BLESSING YOU NOW; WAKE UP;
@warrenduffey1021 _I gave you thumb up for speaking out_ . However, in order to continue the exchange of thoughts, you must sort it out to a comprehensive standard. Extra thought: A strong mind never worships a human.
@@KP-w a mind that has discipline to enforce the standards that ensure long-term success is a strong mind. . worshipping a human is giving the god features to a human and/or treating him accordingly.
Wow, I've literally learned ALL of these the hard way in my or journey. These next years will definitely be my best as long as I keep God first and focus off my purpose. The right individuals will honor it.
Yes because you can learn who has honorable intentions and who does not. Everything comes out in the wash, Trust me on that one! But it will take some time but you will see it! 😉
Yes no matter how much u forgive they still take advantage of your forgiveness mercy and love. Ppl who kick true love brutally never find true love again. I have seen it with my eyes.
If you’re reading this comment, it’s not too late; you've already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I'm so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good; it's your time to shine. ✨💖🌟
If you are harassing & stalking a person; that is NOT a display of love. It is a criminal act. No one is chasing a liar. Withholding information like I am still legal married; does NOT make you mysterious. At that point you are a con artist using deception to trick people. Playing mind games don't make you stoic but insecure. Abusing a woman makes you weak man.
A woman did that to me. She was married and hid it from me till I had wasted 6 years on her. Even after owning up to being married, she keeps giving mixed signals like "I don't even believe in marriage"
I’m pretty good at these and do most of them naturally, sometimes unintentionally, ….except number 10….that one has been the bane of my existence for my whole life…it’s definitely what I’m working on, tfs😻✌️🔥
This is so beautiful- and PRECISELY what everyone could benefit from by learning, leveraging and maintaining, most especially AND aptly on TG Day. One can’t give something away that they don’t already have. Self love…. is a key watershed ability and capacity that MUST be cultivated and maintained in order to achieve true joy, happiness and fulfillment. Too, once achieved one must give it away in order to keep it. Learning how to put myself first while maintaining proper, healthy boundaries in my life is EASILY my most difficult yet rewarding lessons. ❤
I will prioritize and commit to "Not being overly available" and not centering my life entirely around someone else. I am currently working on this and look forward to succeeding.
So TRUE!!!!!! I've always had the necessity to be with people...everybody...what a mistake!!!! I have so much to change... VALUE MYSELF!!!!! ALWAYS FIRST!!!! Thanks ,for these insights! ❤
It is important to note that happiness is not constant, and it is normal to experience both positive and negative emotions. Pursuing a balanced lifestyle, cultivating positive relationships, and investing in personal growth are some ways in which people strive for happiness in their lives and surroundings.
“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
Thank you for this compilation of high value knowledge i take it to my heart and mind i hope forever, this information is an apprecated tool in my journey to become the best version of myself, i hope to achieve all of this and to find someone that values that, and i wish the same to everyone reading this!
Some of the rules are helpful, such as standup for yourself, but some of the "games/tricks" are the very reasons that have caused so many personal relationships to fail.
Thanks, has a single mother raising four young men you are saying things the older folks shared with me has a young child, so I forward your message to them so they can hear "Has they said coming from the horses mouth". Thanks 😊
Incredible content! I love how you broke down Stoic philosophy into actionable steps. The examples were spot-on and so inspiring. Keep up the great work!
As an HSP and deeply empathetic person who used to be taken advantage of all the time in the past. I finally told myself I'm not 911 or the emergency number for people just to call me anytime they want n to use me, and the worst is their ungrateful attitude. I am freely living now, prioritizing self-compassion and self-care. My 4 kids come first, and my personal life is my world. When I could finally say enough to all the fake ppl, I sense a great difference 👌
Due to my heart attack I have been reading a little bit more and listening to your mentorship and reading the word it helps. And it's give me insight of knowledge LOL I'm a better listener then someone who loves to read
How did you know I've been watching this on repeat for hours just trying to believe I think this helped me so deeply I still feel like I'm coming up for air!! Thank you ❤
I wake up every day being a better version than I was the day before because I prioritize what makes me a better version. Everything else comes secondary.
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excellent advice thank you! Prioritizing oneself is great advice, not being on stand by or available all the time is powerful, focus and pursue your true interests, keeping true to your values....
Thank you so much for the vast wisdom expressed in your videos, Rule 10 resonates with me, I am ready to walk away from any relationship that doesn't value my self-worth🙏🙏🙏
No. 4 They always said i sell myself short, mostly it was either trying to make things easier or didn't see it as you put it but over time i can see how this rule is right now Thank heaps mate
@@thestoiccommunity you are very good at seeing and understanding what is not something mostly others can't see at all. It is really was difficult to find anyone that had that level of sense
