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10 Style Mistakes That I Have Fixed | Gemary

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Sharing a couple of styling mistakes I have made in the past that I have fixed.
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0:00 Ten Style Mistakes That I Have Fixed
0:49 - Not using my own proportions
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Linen pants from the Frankie shop
2:01- Didn’t care about the fabric
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5:27- Always stuck to the same size
Both pants are thrifted
Grey buttoned top from Joah Brown
7:46 - Purchasing everything in one specific style
10:03- Never giving silver a chance
Gold hoops from young frank
Silver earrings from octave jewelry
11:24- I never had the right bra
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12:58- I rarely used hair accessories
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Headband is from amazon
13:57- I didn’t have a seamstress/tailor
15:09- I never looked at the men’s section
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@catoheskett5222 3 года назад

coming back here to say that i took your advice, i bought some oversized menswear pants, got a couple belts, focused more on sillouette and less on trying to appear smaller, accentuated my broad shoulders and cinched things at my waist, and my fashion has tremendously changed, and looks so GOOD now!!! i've never felt so confident before, and so comfortable in my skin. thank you for making this video!

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

This makes me so happy!! 🤍🤍🤍

@IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS 3 года назад

Because I have broad shoulders, I can put on up to 25 pounds over my ideal weight and size (US size 8) and people tend not to notice the weight (it takes a long time for my hips to overtake my shoulders). Well, my hips have overtaken my shoulders (I'm 40 pounds up) and I miss those days. If you're blessed enough to have broad shoulders as a woman, you're blessed. It's a good fashion tip to focus on them.

@lapetitmocha7633 3 года назад

Amazing

@keilamedinamiller9728 Год назад

@@IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS what do you mean? Like you gained weight and your hips look bigger now?? But you wish they were t as big now? Just trying to understand what you mean?

@FleurDeCersier 3 года назад

pro tip: If you think you can pull something off, you most probably actually can pull it off. It's all about the confidence. How do you think Rihanna makes all these ridiculous clothes look good? She is obviously gorgeous, but what makes the look is her confidence. She just knows she looks good in whatever crazy look some her stylist or some designer put her in, and other people can sense that.

@13vlee 3 года назад

I literally always tell my friends this! They always say I can pull off looks that they can’t and I’m like have faith!!

@motivation310 3 года назад

Amen to that I ask a one of the girls if a orange lipstick and a all white outfit would look good on me she said no it would look bad ...I still went a head and bought and guess what it look Bomb I looked good

@seherling207 3 года назад

I always tell this a friend but she never believes me!

@AB-ez1eh 3 года назад

Sometimes I look at girls wearing cool things and think “she looks so cool” or “I wish I could do that.” So when I’m wearing something out of my comfort zone and worried that people will stare, I just tell myself they’re thinking the same things I do about strangers except about me lol

@Mae_______ 3 года назад

@@motivation310 that combo sounds amazing!

@MeanwhileElsewhere 3 года назад

Yo I'm feeling you on every. point. you made. Maybe it's being late 20s, being less afraid while also knowing your own style better.

@lapetitmocha7633 3 года назад

Yes true

@1404lauren 3 года назад

This is such a gorgeous video. The sound of the birds, her accent, the house in the background, the styling, everything is so beautiful.

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Thank you so much!

@beyamy9392 3 года назад

I agree!! I want to know what city or country she is in so I can move there!

@valen0225 3 года назад

Who would have thought miami accent sounded nice for other nationalities... (here in Miami people don't really love our LatinX accent)

@Pinkrevenge101 3 года назад

@@valen0225 wow you should encourage ppl to embrace thier culture n accent

@selectiveoutrage6617 3 года назад

I thought she was in Mexico.

@mistyminnie5922 3 года назад

I love how positive this is! This advice is "look at your own body and make it work" instead of "do this to make your body look more conventionally attractive"

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Thanks love! ❤️❤️

@lapetitmocha7633 3 года назад

Yes agree

@Romarick5 3 года назад

Another positive aspect of shopping the men`s section (in thrift stores) is that their clothes are often better quality like 100% Cotton, Wool, etc. Women`s clothes are more often mixed fibers or synthetic ones.

@radkajanotova4895 3 года назад

So true, especially basic t shirts and jumpers

@almamater489 3 года назад

Ture and I hate that for us

@woudgy 3 года назад

I feel so bad for younger people who need to thrift to maintain their style on a budget, because thrift stores now are full of crap from the 2000s, and the quality is awful. In the 90s and early 2000s, we would find amazing vintage clothes with very little effort... Great fabrics and quality. Even the synthetics were better quality. I remember getting rid of a vintage cashmere coat because I had too many nice vintage winter coats (and cashmere back then was a quality product, not the poorly milled, pilling quality that is sold ubiquitously now).

@comfychic6029 3 года назад

Crop tops...I am in my forties and I just started wearing them since my teens. I do it tastefully with high waisted trousers and sometimes an open button down on top. I was scared to try this but I definitely have the body for it so why not. Lol. My newest addition are doc martens 🤣

@SoWhosGae 3 года назад

I'm 31 and I'm so weary of crop tops, even though I like them and I def have the body for them. Also literally no one would guess that I'm in my early 30s, but my mom and sister always criticize me for wanting to try them and bring down my enthusiasm even when I find a pretty crop top to style. I should be stronger😩.

@comfychic6029 3 года назад

I was like that at your age but I had young and impressionable daughters. Plus I appear the same age as my oldest and I wanted to be respected as their mommy. My now older daughters find it cool to see their mom wearing this. I only show a sliver of skin though. Just enough to still feel classy. Try the aritzia brand Sunday best tank. It is what I have. A bit longer but still gives you the look. I wear this with high wasted trousers and Levi rib cage jeans. Try it girl. You are still young...do you!!

@Losshe 3 года назад

Regardless of age, and not to mention how young both of you still are, if something makes you look and feel good, go for it!

@lavenderangel2655 3 года назад

EP don't tell your mother and sis and just do it. Throw on the styles you enjoy and there are ways to wear them without feeling or looking teenage. In my generation they were not meant for teenagers anyway it was too adult, go figure. Once your family sees you looking nice their minds will open up. And either way you just may be the more stylish one out of your family members and you have your own style, it's ok to stand alone. That's also what trendsetters do.

@laurenlewis6838 3 года назад

Please remeber there is no right or wrong body for a specific type of clothing. If you like something piece and you feel good wearing it then you should wear it "fashion should be fun."

@parissinclair6513 3 года назад

Petite women also shouldn't overlook the kid's section- there can be some surprisingly chic items and basics from there with more cropped proportions and a lower price! Kid's shoes are labeled a size and a half smaller than women's, so women up to a shoe size 8 1/2 can look in the children's section.

@DiggandDugg 3 года назад

Also looking at the men's section can work well for many people. Depends on the fit but if you want a loose fitting white T-shirt grab a cheaper mens one and it will even be nicer than the women's shirt. There are a lot of things that work very well for people, going outside your gender, age and size can really work. If a brand has weird sizing maybe you need two sizes bigger but wear what suits you, not what the number says.

@baesmr 3 года назад

Yes! I am petite and I often shop from Zara kids section as they sometimes bring really good clothes there

@gem6105 3 года назад

How do you convert women’s size shoes to kids sizes?

@DiggandDugg 3 года назад

@@gem6105 I know my family bases it on the length of the foot. So you can see the shoe size length for each size and measure your foot to find the correct one. Many sites will be useful for that, the measurement will be in cm or inches.

@funsized924 3 года назад

Gem I believe its 2 sizes smaller in kids. For example I wear a 6 in womens US but in kids I'd wear a 4.

@honeybdream 3 года назад

Men’s clothing is often better materials & quality ❣️

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

I agree!! 🤍

@mv2271 3 года назад

And way more expensive :(

@honeybdream 3 года назад

M V Not usually for basic items

@graciellasalmasan876 3 года назад

So true! I am a 22year old lady but I love wearing my grandpa's trousers.

@jessicaandersson4313 3 года назад

And they have proper pockets... 😀

@Nermyah 3 года назад

"Things that made me look like im just ready for a flood at all times " lol that killed me

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

😩😂

@Dannywithlove 3 года назад

@@Gemaryermus i laughed so hard

@preranapradeep3963 3 года назад

When? I guess I missed it!

@rasissadawn 3 года назад

I came to find this comment!

@FerGloves 3 года назад

I get it! I wouldnt buy any jeans that weren't skin tight skinnies because I thought any baggy leg looked bad. And now my most worn jeans are culottes, moms, wide legged and balloon.

@bodyofhope 3 года назад

@taЊa N. try the happy medium- Straight Leg jeans. I just bought a great pair of high waste, thin cut, full length straight leg jeans from Zara. They make my curves like an hour glass, and give an illusion of a couple extra inches of height (without heels) lol

@alainaatk.6210 3 года назад

I also recently made this transition, I have big hips and a smaller waist. I had the realization that A-line dresses look good on me, so maybe I can also find that silhouette with jeans and a shirt. I never felt quite right in a loose top and tight jeans.

@lapetitmocha7633 3 года назад

Great idea

@samandthafrance 3 года назад

It’s so funny that the first thing you talk about is your shoulders, I too have broad shoulders that I try to hide, but the first thing I noticed about you, was that you had beautiful shoulders. Which made me realize that broad shoulders are not something to hide 🥰

@tokunbohodubanjo5301 3 года назад

I have broad shoulders, and items- tops, dresses- with a cinched waist do wonders tor my figure.

@em84c 3 года назад

I have the same body too. I think we're soft natural in the Kibbe system.

@nna2852 3 года назад

It’s all about your posture!!

@samandthafrance 3 года назад

@@nna2852 so true! I need to work on my posture so bad 😂😂

@tachi4002 3 года назад

the mens trousers is such a hack! Women's trousers are so expensive and I have a hard time finding them high enough in the waist.

@bethstie 3 года назад

the off shoulder top is SUCH a game changer for you. you look stunning!!

@em84c 3 года назад

I have broad shoulders and thought off the shoulder stuff wouldn't suit me but now I see I should try it.

@ava8635 3 года назад

Another tip that I have that I think might be good is, you should have mostly basics. Like for example a white shirt and good jeans. Basics are building blocks for your style. Once you find the perfect basics for you you can add on more “unique” pieces. When you have too many pieces that are just all over the place it’s hard to create outfits (I had this problem a lot). Hope this makes sense, and helps! ☺️✨

@speedyspeedgirl1778 3 года назад

That is so true! I had this problem for so long but now I mainly own basics + really unique peaces and it is much easier to style outfits than when everything I owned had "personality" and matching was much more complicated.

@susanprra 3 года назад

Talking about fabrics, I feel like Polyester smells bad on me when I sweat, so I started avoiding all type of polyester or fabrics that have not a part of cotton on its composition.

@user-xd3rb1fm5z 3 года назад

Polyester smells bad on EVERYBODY

@danceORsing 3 года назад

I had cheap school trousers that were made form a high percentage of polyester and when I crossed my legs and uncrossed them the material smell was awful 🤢

@taniagagne1180 3 года назад

Same!

@aris6463 3 года назад

polyester is really bad for the environment too. it’s actually plastic made into clothing. it contaminates our water too when we wash polyester clothes. so from now on i try to avoid it too.

@lesedingwetjana3239 3 года назад

@@user-xd3rb1fm5z thank you for this tip, ma'am

@jessicacarnley9486 3 года назад

You’re a god send for the women with our shape! Lol

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

😂❤️❤️❤️ Thanks love!

@wallyrbc 3 года назад

Really helpful video! I agree - sizing up is the best. I simply won’t reach for anything tight.

@KM-rt5jj 3 года назад

This is so true! Watch this even though I'm not a similar shape hoping for tips, and also because it's just a nice video

@quoteme.goddess6957 3 года назад

She sure is.

@TheHeebieGeebie 3 года назад

@Alejandro Ascencio huh?

@hoanguyen-hb1si 3 года назад

You have no idea how much your videos means to me right now. After years of suffering from body shaming, I was stuck with my broad shoulder, thick thigh, and not know which body type I was. I only spend more time styling my clothes lately and your videos appeared on youtube suggestions as clutch help. Thank you very much for these wise words. I learned the joy and freedom of celebrating different styles and especially how to love my body.

@theamethyst93 3 года назад

I have a silver and gold two toned watch and it allows me to mix gold and silver jewelry in a seamless put together looking way.

@sophieminter0 3 года назад

broad shoulder gang!!

@veronicahuerta3848 3 года назад

I wanted to try the satin midi skirt trend, and I would think of a million reasons why not to try it, but I was constantly pinning it, so I tried it and love it! So experimenting with my style and the sizes in pants, definitely worth it! 😎👌🏼

@isabelw1411 3 года назад

I love what you said about sizing up and finding balance in the fit of your clothes-especially for bottoms, I 100% agree and I think it makes your clothes look more expensive. You have such thoughtful style videos 💎

@imjasrenee 3 года назад

Oh my gosh!! My trend is mom jeans! I tried one pair and now every time I go shopping I’m drawn to mom jeans 😫😂😂😂

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Honestly, same 😩 I hope they’re here to stay!

@kSmolarkowa 3 года назад

Me too 🔥

@honeybdream 3 года назад

Same❣️

@looloopils5916 3 года назад

Alejandro Ascencio ew

@alexandrapineda1959 3 года назад

Just stumbled across your channel and omg 🥺 I absolutely hate my broad shoulders but you are making me rethink my insecurities! You are stunning!

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Aww thank you so much 🥺🤍

@user-cc9kr1fn5j 3 года назад

Girl, I like your shoulders :( they look so nice!!!

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Aww thank you! 🥺❤️

@whysoserious6581 3 года назад

your home seem so environment friendly with the bird chirping behind..

@divineeziolise7208 3 года назад

I noticed them too... very calming

@didiux 3 года назад

I kind of think it might be added sound? Don’t know

@shaunayuan 3 года назад

Love the tip of not being afraid to size up and down! I used to be scared for no good reason to size up. Being a smaller size was so intwined with my self-identity 😂even if things were too tight! I also am so glad I no longer buy or keep things I don't fit into thinking I'll just work on fitting a smaller size in the future. 🤦🏻‍♀️I also recently ordered some things from Heavy Manners and love that they say "don't be afraid to size up" on all of their descriptions! I'm loving the very baggy trend these days too. ❤️

@mm-ye6lq 3 года назад

i love and admire how you talk about these things, you don’t shame people for doing any of that 🤍🤍. that’s rare to see. i wishing you a good day. 💚

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

🤍🤍🤍

@mandywaynick8725 3 года назад

Is it really rare to see though, pretty much all videos I watch like this always put that kind disclaimer

@mm-ye6lq 3 года назад

Mandy Waynick well to me it’s rare, i’ve never come across a fashion video where the person talking never made fun of people wearing or doing these things 🤷🏻‍♀️

@mhero2343 3 года назад

I love mixing metals. I was gifted a watch for my college graduation and it is gold and silver. So beautiful and versatile

@MsRight-sb5ds 3 года назад

This was the most practical inoffensive video on styling mistakes. Who could possibly be offended?? 🤷🏽‍♀️ Thank you!

@VLuck. 3 года назад

I wouldn’t have a waist if it weren’t for your tips 😂 I’m only 4’10, and my waist is small, but my hips are super narrow. I can still incorporate your tips into my everyday and they all work amazingly well, even though our body types are quite different!

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Yay!! So happy they’ve worked for you! 🤍🤍🤍

@gem6105 3 года назад

Are you an inverted triangle?

@VLuck. 3 года назад

Gem If you’re asking me, I believe I would be considered straight as a pencil! I might be a tiny bit like an inverted triangle, but my shoulders aren’t broad enough (At least to my knowledge) Love that for myself 😂

@shaunasavala5494 3 года назад

“just ready for a flood at all times” 😂

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

😩😩🤍

@majdavojnikovic 3 года назад

I like the idea to alter you clothes yourself. It is such creative thing to do, and nice hobby and skill to learn.

@saras657 3 года назад

Thank for talking about the sizing up tip you dont know how much i needed to hear that.

@cati101 3 года назад

3:00 what kind of materials would work really well through the entire day?

@susanprra 3 года назад

cotton maybe?

@hayleyb467 3 года назад

Depends on what type garment, I think. Slim fitting T-shirts with a bit (like less than 10%) of lycra or spandex hold their shape better & don't get so stretched out. And I love loose-fitting linen/ hemp tunics and babydoll dresses bc they wear beautifully throughout the day. I don't iron anything, so it's not like starting with a firmly starched garment. Soft, easy vibes♡

@cati101 3 года назад

@@hayleyb467 o thank you for your reply!

@aris6463 3 года назад

i thought she was going to explain what type of fabric works well too

@brburrows8389 3 года назад

One thing that helps is AIR DRYING anything with spandex (or really most fabrics, but especially those with spandex)- the heat from the dryer causes it to break down and lose its stretch. That's why new tight jeans fit all day but eventually start to bag at the knees by mid-afternoon.

@SuhannaDeSilva 3 года назад

I have broad shoulders with narrow hips and I truly didn’t know how to dress my body in my early 20s because my proportions looked “weird” in everything I wore 🤦🏽‍♀️ Edit: also I feel you on the culottes! I still love them but I own wayyyyyy too many

@starfish8D 3 года назад

This is my favorite kind of video that you make, you always give such great advice! thanks!

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Thank you!! ☺️🤍

@AnnaOh 3 года назад

I GUFFAWED at “ready for a flood” because yes that is how I dress 😂😂😂

@literaIIyshy 3 года назад

I think I'm gonna have to re watch this because I spent most of the time staring at your earrings 😭

@paulabrito2177 3 года назад

Great video. One thing I love about fashion and style is that it's a journey. Shoot, I only started my style journey in March, and even now I'm looking at pieces I added when I got started thinking to myself, 'what was I thinking!' And it was all based on points you've made here: I wasn't conscientious of the fabric or the cut, and picked it because it was cheap and trendy. However, it was definitely fun to experiment with it, and fun to grab a little bit of everything and then see over time which items I gravitated towards the most. It's great knowing what we like and being selective and intentional with our choices as our fashion tastes develop. And I'll still take risks with those trendy items, but I move quicker now so I can make my decision within the store's return window.

@Dannywithlove 3 года назад

You have such unique and chic style, i love it

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Thank you so much love! 🤍🤍

@DeborahSon 3 года назад

Always appreciate your tips and aesthetic😍

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Thank you so much!! ☺️❤️❤️

@nicolemoran4897 3 года назад

literally my switch from just gold jewelry to silver was a game changer. now i wear silver usually more than gold because i love it so much

@shaunayuan 3 года назад

OK last thing, I LOVE looking at the men's sections of stores! Especially at those really functional, local, work-wear stores.

@naya3253 3 года назад

Woah. It’s like I knew i made these mistake but i never wanted to admit it. Now that you’ve enlightened me I will accept those mistakes and improve. Also, i love the way you say culottes.

@ninjaturtles12121 3 года назад

how do you keep the off the shoulder thing you do with cardigans from sliding off as you move around??

@trinity2times958 3 года назад

a big part of it is making sure that you’re using a cardigan that’s not too big!

@naelielizalde1776 3 года назад

You could try body tape

@SamoyaLi 3 года назад

I'm so glad you are speaking from a Floridian stand point. The humidity and heat is real different out here!

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

The struggle 😩

@ZillennialLatina 3 года назад

So glad you popped up on my recommended! We have similar body shapes, features and styles. Feel like I can learn a lot from your videos!

@Losshe 3 года назад

So agree with many points you made but I want to especially address the gold vs silver part. As someone who works in a jewelry store, I have more chances observing how each color(and rose gold) looks on people with different skin tone and under tone. I had always questioned the cold under tone with silver, and warm undertone with gold method, and the more people I see at work the more I find it doesn't work. So my suggestion would be don't get yourself restricted because of those rules. I've seen so many people who don't have a neutral under tone who can wear both gold and silver as well. There are different shades of gold, and if one doesn't work maybe try another one. The style of the jewelry also matters. Try different things. I've found out that when I wear silver, something big and bulky looks better than dainty pieces, and when I wear gold, it cannot be too yellow and it has to be very small and minimal.

@dukesters3600 3 года назад

Yeess omg I've recently started to buy pants 2-3 sometimes 4 sizes up and then I just fold 2 little sections on both sides at the top and I basically sinch the waist by sewing it or I use a belt to cinch on the ones I cant or dont want to sew👍

@cjwrites111 2 года назад

This video is such a breath of fresh air! I'm going on a mission to find some mens trousers and getting them altered to fit me. I even just googled some seamstress/tailors in my area....this could be a game changer.

@trish2597 3 года назад

Yeees girl, I've been waiting for you to post another video! I adore your style so much! Thank you!!! ❤️

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Thank you so much 🤍🤍🤍

@bear.b 3 года назад

Thank you for addressing the issue regarding loose fitting bottoms and thicker thighs. I am the same but sadly I don't have the option to tailor mine, so I mostly stick to skinny fit or loose ones with an elastic at the top.

@thuthuypham2247 3 года назад

"ready for a flood all the time" that made my day =))) Very helpful video! thank you

@janetteehan8230 3 года назад

This is so good. You are so on point. In search of the perfect jean that's all i keep purchasing. Now I have all these jeans but no tops or shoes to wear with them. Or like you if I find something I like I will purchase 10 of that same item and have no variety.

@LeeeJones 3 года назад

Can you do a video on clothing materials and how they wear throughout the day? Example: materials that are more prone to wrinkling, etc

@reneels5351 3 года назад

Omg thats why i look like im wearing bags at the end of the day. My clothes stretch out. I have been so disappointed with some basic tops ts or tanks. Brand new i use it once and then I realize its bad quality and already removed the labels. Pls tell me where to buy high quality basics with stretch and keeing the shape.

@angelcow6101 2 года назад

you opened my eyes to sizing up in pants an getting them tailored will def give that a go.

@LucyJ09488 3 года назад

This is so great! Especially the mens clothing, but I will say it's kind of annoying when everyone keeps buying larger sizes from thrift shops and then tailoring them down to fit 2 sizes smaller when there's precious little larger size clothes in second hand shops. Just something for people to keep in mind :)

@fiyahspace9824 3 года назад

I always completely tucked in my tops and wore high waisted skirts and pants, but eventually I realized how weird it looked because I have a very high waist. I switched to mid length shirts, mid waisted pants, and it’s better. I do sometimes lament the fact that I can’t partake in some trends but ah well

@SimplyAisha16 2 года назад

"Things that made me look like I'm just ready for a flood at all times." 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 I can't believe she said that with a straight face.

@sheilakosoff5806 3 года назад

Your advise is on point and very helpful. I am 54 and have just come to understand these rules. I am passing them on to my daughter so she can be spared the chaos of a cluttered wardrobe. I like what you said about overbuying a style. For me, I would just wear the one piece to death even though I had bought 3 more like it. It’s okay to buy and wear the one piece to death. I am now mindful of the joy I get in dressing up an enjoying it more. Thanks for a great video.

@yashvianam4441 Год назад

I am gonna work on my styling keeping these tips in mind. Thank you Gemary for the valuable content!!

@9718977 3 года назад

Ayeee Miami reppin!! Could tell right away by your accent. Love the style of this video! New follower!

@gulsahgunes7732 3 года назад

You have made highly good points which most of us generally ignore. You were soo lovely explaining these are just your opinions, not rules. Thank you sincerely.

@thebluedot4728 2 года назад

u really look good in the straight leg jeans!! and in the ankle black pants, love how black looks on u

@honeydew75 3 года назад

this is such a gorgeous video, I'm in love: the birds singing in the background and your voice and so many amazing tips ☺️

@minianoiz6492 3 года назад

Love love love the beautiful, sweet,gorgeous, and oh so calming sound of the birds in the background ❤🎵🎶🐦😍 And of course, thank you dear, so much for all the great tips!

@puchi1388 3 года назад

Love your tip with buying trousers oversized qnd getting it tailored! I haven't been feeling tight pants like before and definitely interested in a more comfy yet stylished style

@IdaAnduyanTV 3 года назад

your accent is beautiful and this video is so so so helpful 🤎🤎🤎

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Aww thanks love 🥺❤️❤️

@IamEWoof 3 года назад

I bought the pack of headbands that you recommend and they are great! No headaches, and such a good deal! Thanks Gemary.

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Yay!! so glad you like them! ☺️❤️

@camianderson176 3 года назад

Could you find people with different body types and do another video like this, I’m a pear shape and it’d be sooooo nice to have a video like this

@CurlyHijabi 3 года назад

Please do more videos for women with broad shoulders!! I need that sooo much. I wear a lot of A line skirts and that helps a lot

@tabithaengstrom5694 3 года назад

You have such big beautiful eyes 💓

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Aww tysm 🥺🤍

@ldeethkelt 3 года назад

So true about the sizing thing. When I was younger I always tried to squeeze into the smallest size I could (shoes included! Yikes!). I love my comfy trousers these days. I belt them at the waist and let the fabric flow. They look much more chic and I dont feel like a sausage stuffed into a toosmall pair of skinny jeans!!!

@narjesfe9825 3 года назад

Irrelevant but u have gorgeous eyes! Great video! I have always struggled with finding what suits my body and skin tone, still struggling but getting better at it

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Aww thanks Love!! 🥺🤍

@funsized924 3 года назад

Excuse me while I go get some oversized pants and tailor them at the waist. 😉 I cant believe I never thought of that! I'm the same size pants as you and have the same problem - always tight in the butt and thighs to fit my waist.

@BrunetteGiant 3 года назад

These were all EXTREMELY helpful! Thank you and I subbed!

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Thanks love, glad you found it helpful ☺️🤍

@sarahluvburkhardt5755 3 года назад

I get that weird creasing in jeans when they are too big, I am almost 5’2 though. It is interesting how similar clothing issues occur for different reasons depending on a person’s height/body type. I also notice my less expensive jeans crease a little throughout the day.

@bodyofhope 3 года назад

Yes! So over the ankle length pants. It took me forever to find nice fitting full length jeans. Zara ftw 👍

@Jojoloball 3 года назад

Literalmente, estoy en exactamente el mismo proceso que tu. Funciona para mi y me motiva mucho que lo compartieras ✨

@annalucia2868 3 года назад

omg this video inspired me like no other💞💞 i feel a little more confident already thank u

@NiaK24 3 года назад

Kindly consider putting inverted triangle body type to the title or description, would really help so many women. Loved the video, great tips🙌🙌🙌

@brookedixon9139 3 года назад

I watch every single one of your style videos and I love them, yet I haven’t used a single tip bc I don’t dress anything like you lol

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

😂😂 I appreciate you either way!

@amanda4920 3 года назад

loved the tips, but when you went “i never had the right bra” i was like 👁👄👁 ‘cos i don’t even wear bras lol

@em84c 3 года назад

You should! You don't want to get saggy. Even if you're small. Trust me, my aunt has tiny boobs but never wore a bra and they looked terrible. When my grandma died she spent her inheritance on fake boobs.

@aissatabangoura2908 3 года назад

I definitely need to experiment more, thank you for the vid!

@arir789 3 года назад

AHHH the tip about jewelry... I've ALWAYS avoided gold anything and even choose not to buy handbags (or other accessories) that I like with gold accents because I never had gold jewelry to pair it with... but I've been wanting to experiment more lately!

@qwmnable 3 года назад

I agree, I think cool tones look great on your skin tone!

@bonbon5717 3 года назад

I agree with you, it took me a while to realise that just because it looks good on someone else, doesn’t mean it would look the same on me, and it’s okay - I shouldn’t feel bad about it, people have different proportions. I have used a lot of your tips for broad shoulders and they are helping me a lot. I used to feel bad about it - getting teased if I were a rugby player LOL

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

You better work those shoulders!!!! ☺️🤍🤍

@ChibiChidorii 3 года назад

I love that you use the word "balanced". Looking skinnier doesn't suit everyone. Sometimes you need to look bigger in some places for you to feel good!

@ashle1850 3 года назад

I love going to the mens section for a little browse after looking at the women's.Sometimes i find gems there that are more up my style than the womens section 😇💕💕

@shreya9156 3 года назад

That jewelry bit got me. I wear a gold necklace (it's a religious thing) and it's stopping me from trying silver lol. One day, I will! Also, re undergarments, I've found that the right shade of nude bra makes the biggest difference! I got mine from Naja Co, they're perfectttt

@kokomarie5084 3 года назад

I love the cute bird chirping instead of the annoying music like other youtubers use

@selectiveoutrage6617 3 года назад

Thanks for geat style tips. Mixing masculine and feminine clothes is very French. I spent the money and had Jennifer Butler style me. She totally changed me from severe Armani to more boho feminine. Instead of only gold jewelry, I now wear bronze and pewter, which are softer on me. My dry cleaners has a tailor so I can buy cheap vintage clothes which are better quality on Ebay and tailor them to fit.

@pink_water_melon 3 года назад

Hey Gemary! Love your videos- been a subscriber for a very long time. Just a suggestion, I feel your content is very well suited for RU-vid's new "chapter" feature where you can section out the video? You always have very organized videos and it would be even more helpful to be able to easily toggle back-and-forth between sections. Just a thought :)

@Gemaryermus 3 года назад

Thanks dear, I didn’t even know about that feature! I’ll try it out 🤍🤍🤍

@pink_water_melon 3 года назад

@@Gemaryermus Awesome! Happy to help :) Looking forward to your next video.

@yunarikku2723 3 года назад

This was a great video gemary! I've always wanted to experiment in the men's section and I think I will now!

@sunsetdolphins0314 3 года назад

where is the wrap top from?!? 12:22

@magpiemag 3 года назад

I so resonate with buying pants above the ankle because I felt it makes me legs look thinner and longer, and buying things in the same style.

@hinamoazzam7651 3 года назад

Hi I am a broad shouldered gal too but I can’t wear off shoulder could you suggest other ways to look proportional with shoulders covered

@ChibiChidorii 3 года назад

Experimenting is so important! Even if you think it's something ridiculous. One of my favorite outfits is a black over the knee dress with cargo skinny jeans. It sounds RIDICULOUS but it looks pretty nice and it makes me feel very badass. And that's the most important! If you wear clothes you really like they will make you happy. And happiness REALLY makes you look better for some reason.