She's literally wearing a suburban sofa cover.... and telling us what we shouldn't wear? And "adult men" is a ridiculous phrase. Men implies they're adults.
If I made that list, my Number 1 would be "If you step on a scale and the first number you see is a 2 ladies, don't wear skin tight clothing". Because we have an epidemic of overweight women out there right now.
Remember guys, this is one woman’s opinion giving fashion advice to men. Its ok to wear what you want as long as you are comfortable. It may not always look good, but it’s how you feel that counts.
LOL! This is most women's opinion. And the if it feels good do it mentality is what you live by... BTW, none of the things she speaks of are uncomfortable.
You clicked on a video you knew you likely wouldn't care about and didn't want to extract anything from and now you're complaining. An excellent use of time if I've ever seen it.
@@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou You are wrong. You have no clue why I clicked on this video. Meanwhile, my comment actually had substance, yours didn't. So whose was a waste of time? If you think any woman would prefer her man look like a slob, you're fooling yourself. BTW, my comment wasn't a complaint. It was a statement...all facts.
@@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou Buddy, do you realise that your comment is repeated word for word by another reply named Cooper S literally right below your comment? Are you actually using multiple accounts to white knight for Ashley by copy and pasting the same reply a dozen times over? 😂 An excellent use of time if I've ever seen it.
But her channel is about fashion for men, so she is giving tips to those men. Why would you click on a channel that does videos like that if you don’t want to watch videos like that and then complain about it?
I agree with all of these except one. I'm not ready to give up my t-shirts. They're so much more interesting than a boring solid color. I've collected from different passions and travels around the world. I do agree that they should be refreshed often. And I probably have too many
@@turnbasedtoddy7664I heard about this thing called curiosity the other day, still not sure what it is. It's also not like the title is as inflammatory as possible to get the most views.
@@zobbles But if you know you are not going to like someone else telling you how to dress then why would you click on a video telling you how to get dressed?
PLEASE do wear graphic t-shirts. It's such a good converstation starter when you have your favourite band on your shirt. You'll seriously lose out on so many conversations with great people if you don't wear what you love wearing.
Wear what you want. If you think it looks good, no one else's opinion matters. Never dress for others. Fashion is completely subjective, and always changing, what's in today will be out tomorrow, so wearing what makes you feel like yourself is the most important thing.
...and the older you get, the faster the trends seem to change. The classics never really go out of style, so anything beyond that is a useless waste of time & energy after a while.
This really depends on what you're trying to accomplish in life. Unfortunately, with maturity comes wisdom, and with wisdom comes the realization that yes, the way you are perceived by others really does matter, and being poorly or provocatively dressed will invite negative judgement. Negative judgement can be a significant obstacle in life, especially professionally and in dating. There are two subsets of the population who don't need to care how they're dressed -- children and the elderly.
@@thomasbrennan6303the way someone dresses has no say on someone's maturity/ life wisdom. They might be intk different things to you. If they are a metalhead, band tshirts no harm in it. No harm in Tshirts either ffs. What people do in their day job is completely different to how they dress in real life for instance. No need to impress others or comply to trends just because of popularity.
@@mishswb4950 I'm not saying it does. I'm saying that not caring about your personal appearance absolutely invites negative judgement from others, and depending on what you're trying to do in life, that could be an obstacle to getting what you want. If you want to be a metalhead and wear band t-shirts and fill your face with piercings and tattoos, you're certainly allowed to do that. Just familiarize yourself with the local unemployment office. Dressing well is not a trend, it's a timeless social component, and believing it has no bearing on your life is immature wishful thinking. This channel isn't telling people "you have to dress how I tell you to." It's telling people "if you want to dress well, here's how." If you don't want to dress well, by all means, don't.
I use to be anti Sling but on a trip to Jamaica for a wedding. Every time we went out I was seething with jealously when my cousin had his. The utility of these things is unmatched for travel or on the go activities. They also keep your belongings safe. You are less likely to be the victim of a pick pocket if everything is on your chest and in a zipped up bag.
you mean a fanny pack? because that's what it is, a fanny pack. back in the day you know what happened to people who wore fanny packs, they got made fun of massively.
@@NonLegitNation2 ehhh it's less like a fanny pack and closer to a small bookbag. Honestly, fanny packs are functional as hell. We need to stop worrying about what other people think and do what's best for our lives.
Sling/cross body bags (especially worn in front) are harder for thieves to access or steal compared to bullky bags or totes you mentioned. Also in crowded city streets or mass transit; fannys/slings take less space. As a working professional I wear my boring adult shirts and enjoy wearing my graphic tees at home!
@@joelglanton6531you know men used to carry around satchels and pouches to carry around their money and belongings just like women do today. They stopped being popular for most people in the cities and in larger towns in the early 1900's.
@@joelglanton6531 Funny you should mention that men wear something similar to tights called thermal underwear from brands like Reebok and under armour. Laugh all you want bet you didn't you know that the special forces soldiers and Military happened to wear nylon leggings under their uniforms to keep warm. Laugh all you want and insult all you want, but you know what the men from 150 to 200 years ago were more manly than most of the men today. Not to mention a lot of the guys in the military happened to carry around a type of satchel that typically carries their gas masks, medics carry satchels with medical supplies in them. You want to say that fanny packs are purses, yet she's telling guys to carry a backpack or an over-the-shoulder bag which actually looks like a purse. You want to know the cool thing about fanny packs and crossbody bags are, it leaves you hands-free unlike the shoulder bag this chick told you to wear instead. Do you consider gym bags to be purses, what about the shoulder bags the mail carriers use to deliver mail, or how about the soldiers of WW2 who lives out of their satchels and hip pouches, I can guarantee you wouldn't go up to one WW2 vet who served overseas and make fun of him for having carried a satchel? And yes I do have thermal underwear, most men do if you don't own a pair that means you haven't spent any time outdoors in the winter.
White socks should be outlawed because they're juvenile, yet you recommend florescent colored taco socks as an alternative? I'll stick to the crispy whites, thanks.
Outfit I'm wearing while watching this as a 44 year old man: Long sleeve black t-shirt from Hurley. Baggy khaki North Face pants. Asics Noosa Tri 13 in some wild colors. Seiko SPB 185 with the steel bezel. I look absolutely amazing.
Ms. Weston is really right regarding branding and holes/rips. If the branding is big and in your face then the manufacturer should be paying you to be their billboard, not the other way around. Cutting holes and rips at the factory in locations that aren't too revealing is a ridiculous fashion trend.
Now imagine if the roles were reversed “10 things grown women should never wear” bashed and cancelled immediately but since it’s a woman she doesn’t get much repercussion
I agree with about half of this. Never wear socks with sandals, no skinny jeans, no loud designer logos. Most of these are just fine. Mainly it should be dress appropriately. Hanging with your bros, wear tshirts. Going on a date, going to a job interview, dress more formal. Going to the gym, wear the baggy swaets. Also fit is important, some guys just stay skinny their entire life, and the skinny jeans are just right.
I'm in my 40s (and blessed with genes that make me look late 20s, modesty aside) but am still definitely keeping my band shirts and vintage graphic tees. Otherwise, I agree with pretty much everything else. I'd like to add each and every iteration of yeezys to my most hated pieces of footwear along with them crocs, haha!
Why u dont like yeezy? Some of them look nice for example 700 but people Are hating Becouse they try to be original in their straight/ baggy jeans and dunks
have you actually ever worn yeezys? I guarantee after you wear some 350s you'll change your mind, they're one of the most comfortable sneakers out there.
well i don't think there is something like dressing for you're age or dressing for you're body type. everyone should wear whatever they like and don't care too much about people that tell you what you should or should not do. in the end fashion is something totally individual and should be fun and free and not restricted.
Valid point. But isn't also possible to refine & deepen one own's individual style by considering other opinions & perspectives & options? Some people who do their own thing are boring-they think they've figured out everything (including everything about style) & no longer need to be curious. Even if I don't agree with all the points in this thoughtful video, I like how it makes me think better about the choices I make. Peace.
The purpose of socks and slides come from wearing basketball shoes. The basketball shoes aren't supposed to be worn off court since it'll destroy the grip, and after a game, you want something comfortable like a slide.
WOW. I hate being told what I should NEVER wear to fit in. No matter what i wear someone will have a problem with it or the brand or design of it. I doubt i'll ever grow out of wearing jeans and tee shirts. However I never understood the fascination with skinny jeans, or sandals with white socks thing or sandals and toes. They'll never be in my wardrobe. In my 40's and don't care about dressing to make a statement or being approved by my look. Anyone who likes or doesn't me because of my clothes probably isn't worth knowing.
Fellow Men: For us the rules should be the same as they should be for women: Wear what you like, wear what makes you feel good. Don’t listen to this girl.
Hey man Congrats on the new bike !!! I have been thinking on that bike for a while now lol Any chance you can do a comparison between that bike and the Ducati Multistrada? Thanks
I would argue that if you are trying to be trendy, wear what she tells you. If you are trying to dress to attract women, wear whatever you are comfortable in. Women like men who are comfortable in their own skin. Don't dress to impress anyone but yourself.
OK, Ashley. I get it. I'm an adult and sometimes I too like to use expressions that are as irritating as pairing crocs and skinny jeans. But, girl, please stop saying "bad boys." Just quit it, okay?
Context is important. I have band t-shirts. If I'm at an event with likeminded people they may work, I've gotten real phone numbers from women at shows when I wear L7: Smell the Magic.
@@marysmith4811 But I bet his love for his favorite band keeps him young at heart and Im pretty sure that helps staying attracted to him. Once again this is only speculation on part🤔😁
As a guy who wears sunglasses/tinted glasses indoors from time to time due to my eyes hypersensitivity, I would like to say thank you for calling me a douchebag for no reason 😂😂😂
White socks are great for sleeping in them when it's cold or if your circulation isn't that good so you get cold feet sleeping. Paired with your pajamas ofc. Clean socks.
don't let people with a financial incentive pressure you into feeling bad about what you wear. I dislike videos like this, and people like her (or who she's portraying here, she may be perfectly fine in real life).
Sorry ladies, I'm keeping my cargo shorts no matter what you say. They're the most practical clothes design that will stay long after you are all gone.
Hey Ashley! How do you feel about men’s wallets that have graphics on them like when Louis Vuitton does Virgil Abloh graffitiish designs or polka dots on them? Is playful okay on a card holder?
@@dennyyshmael yes. The internet is the place where grown men ask women they don't even know if the color of their wallet is acceptable. We've established that.
Heh. I knew what the takes would be when I clicked on the title out of morbid curiosity. I grew up listening to all this "appearances matter, get with the times, you're too old to wear sneakers" (heard that last one at 22). I had a very fashion-obsessed upbringing (which, fun fact, is common among alcoholic families as a method of control) all under the reasoning of "it makes you more popular and upward-mobile", in other words, "Look how I tell you or you will be a social outcast and lose money". If you object, there's an instant "Would you wear that in a job interview?!" But spoiler alert: outside of a job interview (we already know to dress up for those), it didn't make a damn bit of difference. I dressed up and "fashionable" for years, even got regular compliments on it, but it didn't make any difference (whereas acquiring skills did) other than making me uncomfortable with myself. Hitting middle age, I feel too old to care about "dressing your age" etc. Your life is YOURS. Outside of any work requirements and special occasions like weddings and funerals, dress how you want. I like vintage tees and pride myself on how many years they can go. Even more comfortable and aesthetic with age, IMO. Articles and videos like this wag their finger and try to convince you that fast fashion (which is an environmental bludgeon, btw) is the way to go. It's basically one big ad with judgy opinions (read: not facts, as preferences are a thing). "Invest in pieces" = BUY STUFF! (There's also the internal contradiction of "graphic tees are inexcusable, but ditch your plain socks for patterns that put a smile on your face" - I don't care about socks and again, dig vintage tees, sooo yeah.) And "of course" ripped jeans are bad (agreed on the ones made that way, at least) because they're old. First, old things aren't categorically bad, and second, maybe I prefer a timeless look over this "keep buying to stay fashionable" thing.
You know what really makes MY stomach turn? When youtubers put ads in the middle for whatever random e-shop that pays them the most - while they pretend to want to teach us something. Shameful!
I was looking for this comment, Plus what's the difference between wearing a t-shirt with a bunch of logos and designs on it and wearing socks with a bunch of logos and designs on there? Not to mention the fact if I'm working I don't want to wear an expensive pair of argyle socks or some kind of fancy designs socks with logos all over them just to wreck them at work.
That's my biggest problem. I dress like a bum and women think I'm broke so they don't even look at me. But that's the difference between guys that dress like they're rich and guys that have money.We invest all our money in planting trees that are growing by making investments and not investing in material things. The trees have to be planted while you are young so that they grow into big tree's by the time you retire. Keep planting trees until you have a forest that bears lots of fruit. This is my mentality and dressing like a bum keeps the ladies away so I can focus on making more money. Don't judge us bums because we might have more money than you. Don't forget to invest when you are young. Start early for your future. Money just like trees grows with time.
I'll argue Grapphic T's can work, but it has to be done in a mature way... all the examples here are clearly egregious... (graphic V -neck, oversize Rick & Morty), but I think the right shirts layered with the right seperates can be mature and a bit rock and roll. Also, monotone socks and sandals are quite runway at the moment... done in a very clean and well proportioned silhouette is perfectly fashion forward and can be at home on a man of any age. (Think colorful standand). I'm going to take a hard no to this boring, conservative, and uninspired Ken doll aesthetic. It's basic and common.
There's nothing wrong with graphic tees and they can look better with certain fits than plain clothing. Ashley's style sense is boring, bland and generic. Also these are her opinions and not those shared by all women.
@@bigvanvader3122 Well, I agree with most things one should not wear, but I'll never let go of my graphic tees. Anyway, none of them are funny, all are serious black metal stuff only appreciated by those who know (few). I also wear sunglasses indoors sometimes; well, me and my cronies, when we want people in the room to stay away. Hey, Karl Lagerfeld of Chanel never took them off :). I don't dress to lure women anyway, what kind of thinking is that :) ?
Good points, now let me share a tip with you. Cool it with the digital zoom effect. When used to emphasis a point can be effective, but stop using it to "make your video more interesting" -- If you want to break up a static shot, get a second camera. You come across as a kid who threw this together on their dad's iphone.
If you wanna give men who are looking for help with fashion some basic style advice go ahead But listing off a bunch of common things that are supposedly shameful to wear is just gonna make people feel bad
I use my Fanny pack when I’m not bringing enough stuff to justify a whole backpack, but I still don’t want to hold things in my hand. And I have four different sizes of backpacks for different uses. The Fanny pack is my smallest option when I have the least amount of things to carry.
She's actually right about almost all of it, she's basically saying "stay away from stupid teenage trends like rapper hats or ironic fanny packs and go for timeless functional but considered and tasteful simplicity." I'd add if you really HAVE TO wear something totally off beat, have it be YOUR version of offbeat, not something you've seen in some fashion magazine, and have a reason for doing it (i.e it belonged to my granddad, it's so interesting I always need it around, etc.). This isn't about what other people think, this is about how you SHOULD think about yourself and how you move in the world.
I am so confused with my face shape: Face length -7.15 Forehead -7.1 Cheekbones -6.34 Jawline -10(both side 5-5) Which type of face shape I have along with this which type of hair style suitable for me please guide me
Sounds triangular to me (wider at jaw than at the top). According to Ashley's website: "A hairstyle with volume will look best with a triangle face shape. So go for longer haircuts with fuller sides, which will add volume all around."
Adult man here. I couldn't give a flying fig of what you think of me wearing... Part of growing to be an audult is coming to realise that one could not care or rely on what you or anyone else opinions are regarding the way I dress. However... let's not be daft, I do have a second half that would tell me if what I'm wearing is acceptable Your opinions don't matter. Period.
"I clicked on this video because I don't care what you think and I'm gonna tell you about it!" -Adult man who secretly hopes you care that he doesn't care
Don't listen to her. Wear whatever you want. You're an individual. You have your own style. In a world where people encourage individuality, it sure sounds hypocritical to be told to follow fashion trends, which are just trends, and will die out at some point anyway.
I use crossbody bags for utility though, not to look pretty. Tote bags? 😝 Backpacks? 😮💨 Just to carry around a few basic stuff that would be too uncomfortable to fit all in my pockets?
At least with white, cream, or beige pants, for sure. For darker pants, you have to decide whether you'd rather look childish (graphic socks) or unstylish (white socks).
I mostly have black or grey socks. Also have white which I wear in the summer mostly. I dont like anything too crazy. Pairing socks together is so tedious I only like to have 3 colors, and a green pair of dress socks is the most "fun" i get.
@@josephtemple1667 Socks should generally mirror your pants. I'll wear blue socks when wearing blue pants, and brown socks when wearing brown pants (including khakis). With off-white/cream/beige pants, I'll typically wear socks that complement my shoes.
With all due respect. I have been working in a management position at the luxury fashion industry for quite some time. This lady may have her opinions, just like all of us. But there is a difference between giving advice based on your taste and being patronising. I would never talk like this to my clients. To me, fashion is all about feeling empowered, feeling beautiful and having fun whilst being loyal to your personal style. What would this lady say about Vivienne Westwood, for example? Then again, it is my my personal approach to fashion. Wear and let wear, I guess… First and last video I watch from her, thank you very much.
Good info and great commentary behind it. I can’t say I disagree with anything you say. Sandals and socks is probably my biggest sin but I normally just do this out of laziness. 😅
lol, Don't wear sandles instead wear shoes with no socks so you end up with foot fungus. Fantastic advise. News flash we're going to the store to buy bread not to try to get laid. :) Kids want grilled cheese kinda thing.
I see Ashley is still acting as if her personal opinion is a rule. I’m including her bad choices of footwear that look horrendous plus her hating on visible laces.
@@diamondd2778 true, watch occasionally with the hope that any of these stylists actually changed anything about their opinions on style to be more inclusive and less judgmental. Yup, still disappointed in Ashley.
Who wants to worry what others think of them? Just be yourself guys, you don't have to listen to someone who has no idea what MENS fashion should look like.
You clicked on a video you knew you likely wouldn't care about and didn't want to extract anything from and now you're complaining. An excellent use of time if I've ever seen it.
@@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYouyou've copied and pasted this message numerous times here. The woman in the video is not going to shag you, give it up pal 😂😂
