All of these scammers operate from the same textbook. I was scammed in Ukraine by a girl who was engaged to a local man. The problem is that she seemed very serious, never asked for a dime until I found out that she was paid for talking to me, and dating me. Red flags: 1) Refuses to share direct contact info/makes excuses not to. 2) Always cancelling, or postponing meetings. 3) refuses to video-call. 4) guilt tripping/directly asking for money. 5) Love-bombing. Stay away from these narcissistic, cunning and manipulative scammers.
I met my wife on the site. I visited her in the Philippines and we quickly married. Today we are still married and living in the US, and have a beautiful four years-old daughter. So yes although you always need to be wary of scams, success stories do exist too. You simply need to use common sense. I think also that men aren't used to getting a lot of attention from a lot of women all at once, and when they join Christian Filipina, they finally do. So it gets overwhelming for them and it might put them in a more vulnerable state. I think a good idea is to talk to the women for a few weeks or months. If she really has unsavory ulterior motives, it will come out at some point.
Even christian filipina ask for money....too many married women there also , but really they can't marry you , but will ask you to help sooner or later cause your a guy.
Very True, only been on site a few weeks , have been asked for help for my grandma, help to pay my rent, help for FOOD, actually buying food help is my #1 request SMH, help me get my working papers renewed, followed by my landlord wants two months rent, or else I will be homeless🤦🤦... That last one, I directed her to 3-4 homeless shelters by where she says she lives... Big time bullshitting on site
Nice tips but those dating sites can become expensive for the men to remain members. At some point, communication has to be moved to another platform like FB messenger or Instagram.
True, you can normally tell the honest ones to give out your telephone number, if the lady turns out to be not who she claims to be you can block and delete easily enough. I have had this a few times, as soon as they start the scamming nonsence it's block and delete. CF is expensive, there are a lot of scammers and ghosting on there and I'm beginning to wish I didn't pay for the 3 months, its just like any other Internet dating site!
I met my wife on Christian filipina dating site. Couple things I learned to keep away the scammers. Have your your profile so that only only the girls you contact first can communicate with you, Secondly use the filters And only contact girls that you would be interested in, Thirdly once you think you're interested in a girl you Should start video chatting them, If they live in a remote province they may have to walk to town to get internet but if they're interested it's worth it, Fourthly, if you get super interested the Christian Filipina can run a background check of sorts or an extra hundred dollars is well worth it ,
The biggest red flag on this site is they send you pictures of girls you want to talk to and then there is an Upgrade To Chat button. So you click on that, and there is no option to upgrade. It just dumps you out on the home page. So I got a "consultant" on the phone and during the course of the conversation asked her some questions about basic Phillipine geography to try and guage the time between certain cities and she didn't know. She said she was in the Phillipines, but the phone call was from a HI area code. If it feels like a scam, it probably is.
Who knows. If you're interested, you can sign up for my match-making. As a matchmaker, I'll make sure you'll have all the information you need. You're also not getting information. I'll also help you find your Filipina match
My friend sends money over to real women on the Philippines and plans to visit there in a few months. He already visited once to see a girl he met on there, and she just turned him off. So basically wasted a trip and he came back to America. Now he’s been sending another woman money and she’s been chatting with him for 15 months. He thinks she’s genuine… And he’s tempted to also go see her. What’s the chance he’s being scammed? They are verified through live video. But the women seem to be single mothers and they keep sending him photos of themselves trying to entice him. This week she came on strong and to him and keeps calling him when he doesn’t answer. Anyone have any insights or experiences on this? He had already told her, no more money, next time I send you is when I see you in person. Then when he went to see the first girl, he never even met her, and then somehow she convinced him to keep sending money… now he’s going to see her in January. What’s the chance he’s being scammed? She’s like “comfort me!!! There’s mosquitoes here!!! I need to buy nets and insect repellent.”
I was on many sites, and had lots of women ask for money. I must say I was shocked. So, then I joined Christian Singles, and it became a bit better. Finally I found a Filipina who never asked for money. I was pretty sure I found Miss Right. We communicated for a year, and then started phoning. She was 37, and said she desperately wanted a baby girl, and I said I think I could help her with that. Finally I flew out to meet her. She's Ilokano from Luzon. The first night sleeping by myself, and her in the next room, I did not sleep one wink. Maybe it was jet lag, but I was afraid she might be a dangerous person (OK, I'm paranoid!) and might kill me. Gradually I learned to trust her more, and we were married. It took a year more (and lots of paper work!) to get her back to Canada. We started our family right away. We now have a baby girl. Well actually she's 15. She now regrets that we did not have another. But wow! My wife was right. These mixed babies are beautiful!
Yeah, you were paranoid for sure 😅 But I would be too knowing that you're in a foreign country, and I'm glad she was able to manifest, the baby girl she's longing for 😊
Would you start a matchmaker service? You don’t need a fancy website. You just retrieve pictures and give your woman’s eye for which pictures are the best ones and also realistic not making the man look worse than he is or not making him look so much better than he is he gets attention and dumped on sight. Take down the information and introduce him to Filipinas there who may not be online and you can see if a person does bad things and stop working with them. And also help with the Visa relocation marriage and everything even if it’s just in you finding other companies to do this until you grow enough to hire them. You can make yourself very wealthy like this
100% on no video chat. If they can't video, find someone else. Video confirmation won't tell you if they are a good person, but it will prevent catfishing. I love it when their profile pics look like they were taken by a professional photographer, but their iPhone video doesn't work, or they can't afford to fix....give me a break.
I've been on the site for 2 months 10 girls have asked me for money. Not all of them. And those excuses are true. It's either a sick relative or their babies birthday or their own birthday coming up . And they don't try to verify it all. There are some nice girls there. But I've got to tell them up front, my name is Brian my name is not Santa Claus
Great tips. Love your content. I'm married but I want to come visit there in the next 5 years or so. Let's say that I become single is it hard to find women there 50+ in age?
@@tekkielite no just want to visit but I also have friends that are 50+ separated but will not court anyone even though their husband (s) has a new family
I'm a little confused here. You now live in England since you was the age 18. How can you give advice about the Philippines when you're really considered British? Don't talk about a country you don't even live in.
