1. Do not marry on potential or expectations 2. Choose character over chemistry 3. Choose Emotional stability over financial stability 4. Avoid opposing life plans as that brings about rifts and clashes 5. Avoid pre-marital physical relationship 6. Check emotional connection with the person whom you get married 7. Pay attention to person’s anger and emotional issues 8. Beware of lack of openness about thoughts and feelings 9. Be aware of how they manage their personal responsibilities 10. Emotional health and not being available
I feel blessed sometimes because jab jo halat hote hain whi video saamne aa jati h mere maamlaat ko suljhane k liye.. Alhamdulillah.. 😇Masha Allah👌🏻n Jazakallah ♥️
This channel is awesome. The ulama and mufti mainly talk about issues concerning elders but only a few concentrate on the youth. So in todays situation, this channel is a blessing. Keep it up. May Allah help you guys and all of us. Ameen
Aaj meri ankh khul gayi ab samjh main aya ke q log mujhe dhokha dete rahe. shayad meri life main apke jaisa koi bhai hota samjhane wala Really thank you bro
Great choice of topics for the youth of today. Quite often in masajid we only get to hear political khutbas, neglecting issues of today. May Allah put barkat in your task
Wajih sir i think u should use more urdu in your conversation bcz everyone don't know either more english or some specific words which they don't know their meanings so they can't understood your perspective... Its my Humble Request to All The Team to Youth Club that All of speakers should use more urdu in their conversations... Jazakallahhh Khairaaa...
Allah talah hm sub kay dilo mai apni muhabbat paiday kary taky hm achy aur naik amal krn aur Allah talah hm sub ko aisa dil ata kary jo Allah sy daray aur hr burayi aur gunnah ko chor day qk Allah ki muhabbat aur dar nhi ho toh insaan behter nhi ban saktay aur na hi apny amal ko ekhlaq aur niyat bhtr kar sakta. Allah talah sub ko achy partner bannay ki taufeeq day aur Allah sub ko acha partner naseeb kary(Aameen) JazakAllah khair Tips achi hn Allah hmn un tips pay amal krny ki taufeeq day (Aameen)
Maa Shaa Allaah, Brother ... Helped a lot, especially starting with my own self, Alhamdulillaah ... Will watch again and again for better understanding, In Sha Allah. May Allaah make ease for all of us. Aameen.
Please give dua for me. Or just by saying Allahumma Ameen to this dua. Ya Allah please give me a spouse who is religious that will take me to jannahtul firdaus, a faithful one, gentleman, honest, responsible and a spouse that would never ever break my heart and who’s gonna love me unconditionally, who’s gonna love me for the sake of you Ya Rahman Ya Rahim. Allahumma Ameeeeeeen🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
Only Allaah, the Most High, the Exalt is PERFECT, Subhaanahu Wa Ta'aalaa, The Rabb (Creator, Owner and Cherisher) of all that exists (seen or unseen) ... :]
Asalamu Alaikum.... Sir its for love marriage nt Arrange marriage.... Because in arrange marriage person is getting single opportunity to meet his spouse.... Hw he ll decide is she good for him or nt......
Nice tips ma shaa ALLAH! Jazakumullahu khairan kathiran fi darain! Dua for a pious spouse: It maybe helpful for all in shaa ALLAH اللهم اني اسألك زوجاصالحا في الدنيا والآخر ة Allahumma inni asa'luka zaojan salihan fi duniya wal Aakhirah. O ALLAH i ask you for a pious spouse in this world and the world hereafter. Aamiin!
U cannot foresee all these traits before marriage is another fact. A person learns a lot about themselves after marriage as well Therefore you can never be certain on who you are marrying
Mostly our mothers and sisters choose a partner for us. We hardly get a chance to see her picture before marriage. And we get married to someone who are liked by them so how can we get to know about her. For example if she belongs to a certain firqah which we don't follow, we might have issues with that and marrying someone like this totally changes our future but our parents don't give much attention to this thing and say things gets change after marriage. How to deal with it. How to know will both of us be compatible with each other or not
esa bhi hota hai ki ladke ko ladki achi lagati hai bhot jyada..par mother and siisters mana kr dete hai ...to confusions create ho jata hai ladke aur ladki me ki likings hai but ghar wale dil tod te hai... tab bhi samaj ni ata ki kya kare .
But when u judge your husband or wife followed by 10 tips your negativity will increase day by day and most important all 5 fingers are not equal same husband wife are not equal we have to accept some positive and some negative things too. U can't get all the positive things from your husband/wife. Thank you This is my opinion if anyone hurts then sorry from my side.
Beshak sab same Nhe , hm um chezon p compromise karen , jin p compromise possible hai , lakin un p nh jin p possible Nhe , for example hm deen aur ikhlaq p compromise na karen , aur ek spouse atleast zimedari uthane wala ho , caring ho , tabhi life chal sakege , partner aesa to ho na atleast jo jab ap pareshan ho to uss se share kar sako aur Jab wo pareshan ho to apse baten share kr sake Bila jhikhak
Mre fhr shadi ki bat chali.. Rishta aya.. But I'm so scared he is unknown..uski adatain uski soch. Humari understanding develp hu k ni. Etc.. I dont know wht should i do.. How can i marrry him
assalamualikum. isi topic pe hum pichly kai arsey se achi vidio dhund rahe they or alhumdulillah aaj mil gai.aaj musalman ghrana me bhi ye dekha gaya h k log shadi se pey janne k kiye hostels me or baher living relationship me reh rahe h or is ko galt kehne waly ko typical n stone era age ka samjhtey h .
Today I met with someone who I assume religiously stong with a great character. But I'm not super convinced with the chemistry. I knew beauty of face is not the real beauty, but I was still confused. Because of her characteristics I'm going forward for the next step of marriage. May allah help me with the process
I don't want to marry a person because he is not aware of his responsibilities but his mom emotionally blackmails my mom and they are trying to convinced me emotionally is it right?
These can not be applicable if younare going to choose your spouse in a religious way which is arranged by parents + 1meeting as no one can open up this much that we can cross check them
I got married few months ago I chose my husband for his deen but after some time of our marriage I realized he is not just when it comes to me and his family. He doesn't spend enough time as he plays games for like 4 to 5 hours after his job. He doesn't even allow me to meet my parents but he spends all the free time with his mother and brother's and give silent treatment to me fir weeks when anything doesn't go his way. He turned out to be very harsh and out spoken even with my parents I'm extremely helpless what to do. Shall I endure this with sabr and dua? Any tips
I am disagree from your some points.As when anybody got married its all behaviors must change like emotions, chemistry, anger etc. That is the reason islam don't guid us to judge deeply anybody deeply for marriage before marriage
