اللھم صل علی محمد وعلی ال محمد کما صلیت علی ابراھیم وعلی ال ابراھیم انک حمید مجید اللھم بارک علی محمد وعلی ال محمد کما بارکت علی ابراھیم وعلی ال ابراھیم انک حمید مجید
Sent to me by a friend of mine, and it seems to me that I was nurturing a totally different perspective of marriage...the same thing that is portrayed by Bollywood & Hollywood..I am glad to have come across this video...thank u so much for this
We are actually in a tough spot..When girls want guy with deen parents think they want an uneducated guy. How to define deen to parents?We rarely find a guy having correct concept of deen and duniya.
جب ایک انسان بہت سارے نامحرم سے باتیں کرنے کا عادی ہو جاتا ہے اور نامحرم سے دوستی لگا لیتا ہے تو پھر شادی کے بعد اسے اپنا ہمسفر صرف چند دن ہی اچھا لگتا ہے ۔۔۔۔۔ پھر اس انسان کو اپنے ہمسفر سے بوریت محسوس ہونے لگتی ہے اور پھر انسان کو اپنی پرانی نامحرم سے دوستیاں یاد آتی ہیں اور وہ پھر آپنے ہمسفر کو دھوکہ دے کر ان ہی پرانی دوستیاں میں مصروف ہوجاتا ہے ۔۔۔ یہ بلکل حقیقت ہے کہ جو بھی شخص شادی سے پہلے بہت ساری دوستیاں لگا لیتا ہے تو پھر شادی کے بعد اسے صرف اپنے ہی شوہر یا اپنی ہی بیوی کے ساتھ ٹائم پاس کرنا ، باتیں کرنا اچھا نہیں لگتا۔۔ زیادہ تر یہ بیماری مردوں میں لگی ہوئی ہوتی ہے لیکن اگر اس بیماری میں کوئی خاتون لگی ہوئی ہو تو اسے شادی کے بعد اپنا شوہر بلکل بھی اچھا نہیں لگتا ، کیونکہ شادی کے بعد بیوی شوہر کے ماتحت رہتی ہے اور شوہر بیوی پر غلط بات پر غصہ بھی کرتا ہے اور شوہر بیوی کے وہ نخرے نہیں اٹھاتے جو نامحرم دوست مزے لینے کے لیے اٹھا رہے ہوتے ہیں تو بیوی اپنے دل کا بوجھ ہلکا کرنے کے لیے اپنے پرانے نامحرم دوست کو شوہر کی باتیں بتاتی ہیں اور یہ نامحرم شخص اس خاتون سے بہت ہی زیادہ ہمدرد بن کر نرم اور اچھے مزاج کے ساتھ باتیں کرتا ہے ۔۔۔۔ ایسی ایسی میٹھی میٹھی باتیں کرتا کہ کہ عورت اسے اپنے شوہر زیادہ سے اپنے لیے ہمدرد سمجھ لیتی ہے ۔۔۔۔ حالانکہ یہ نامحرم مرد صرف مزے حاصل کرنے کے لیے اس شادی شدہ خاتون سے میٹھی میٹھی باتیں کررہا ہوتا ہے اور اشارۃ یہ بھی کہہ دیتا ہے کہ میں تم سے پیار کرتا ہوں وغیرہ وغیرہ ۔۔۔۔حالانکہ یہ پیار نہیں ہوتا ۔۔۔صرف گناہ کا مزا ہوتا ہے جسے شیطان پیار کی صورت میں عورت کو دکھا رہا ہوتا ہے ۔۔۔۔ اور پھر اس گناہ کی نحوست سے بیوی کو اپنا شوہر بلکل بھی اچھا نہیں لگتا ۔۔۔شوہر کی ہر بات بیوی کو زہر لگنے لگتی ہے ۔۔۔اور پھر بیوی بس یہی چاہتی ہے کہ شوہر گھر سے باہر زیادہ رہا کریں تاکہ میں اپنے ہمدرد آشنا سے باتیں کر سکوں شاید میری اس تحریر پر خواتین یا مرد حضرات کو مجھ سے اختلاف ہو لیکن میں یہ بات وضاحت کر دوں کہ میری یہ باتیں سب کے لیے نہیں ہیں بلکہ ان کے لیے ہیں جو ایسے کرتے ہیں آج ہی سے توبہ کرلیں شادی ہوئی ہے یا نہیں کسی بھی نامحرم سے بات نہیں کرنی ۔۔ اللّٰه پاک ہم سب کو ہدایت دے آمین.
Mashallah sir...jajakallah ...good nashihat for girl ..I am accepted...first of all trust for husband is the maintainer and protector of family also love for husband and give respect for husband I am unmarried learning for how to be good wife and good mother is the order of Allah subhan wa tala...is the school of lady and give the child good education both the Islamic and household life..jajakallah sir...
Are you mad go and study about probhet Muhammed s.a.w as a husband and hazrat ali and hazrat Fatima ra I am not saying that Muhammed Ali bhai is not good obviously he is one of the best
Asa. Tx Bhai. May nay chaar saal Lamba alhuda say course Kia to seekha Tha aik hadis say k APNi good deeds K badly Allah(SWT) say favours mangna. Or qabooliyat Ki gharion may dua krna. So I prayed. And Allah(SWT) granted me my wishes. Hamari hi social standing K Deen dunya dono K hubby mujhay Allah SWT nay diay. Hum dono Ki mums same profession Ki Thi, or Abbu BHI hum dono K same study backgrounds K. Pehlay nikah Jin say Hua, ghalti Meri Thi or kuch unki BHI, second stage of marriage pay I applied for khula. Your warning for the second stage is very right. That feeling that why hubby is so interested in my sisters in law and my parents in-law is so strong and lame and downright mean... Despite the fact I loved his family more than I could ever admire him. I still had that strong sense of "only me, myself and I with the hubby" that I would ask him to live separately where only I could b alone with the hubby. So jzk for your tambih. Girls should just amicably put the request for a separate accommodation..in a way that he realises we love his family just that I want my privacy with him, honourably. Doosri dafa BHI Allah(SWT) say may nay Jo nekiyan sirf Allah(SWT) K liay Ki un K sadqay maanga ( plus daily charities krti Thi, jaisay voluntatily tuitions deti rahi 2 saal muhollay K bachoon Ko or alhudainstitute may BHI)4 saal baad Alhamdulillah, Allah SWT nay pehlay say BHI ziada Deen or dunya may aagay WALA Saathi dia..jinki ammi Meri ammi say BHI ziada credentials rakhti Hain.. 70s may PhD foreign say kia unhonay, apnay world tour K dooran is country may Lamba stay Kr K (early 80s may BHI wo kehti Hain University may unko sirf lab equipments K paisay denay paray baqi sab free tha. So air tickets in K parents Ko Airlines Ki taraf say free miltay thay, visa Ki to zarurat Nahi Hoti Thi kabhi 70s & early 80s may, phir University may BHI walk in admission free Lia..hr exam pass krna Hota Tha bas next year admission K liay..Yun free may PhD ho Gaya). Phir alhuda say 8 saal wala course Kia to woh change Huin or mujhay choose Kia. Stage 3 K baad ab enlightenment may hn..so APNi young behno K liay ye Likh rahi hn Bhai Ki useful vid pay. Those looking for a partner, aap K liay BHI yehi tip Hai Meri follow what Ali Bhai suggested. & Allah controls everything. So us(swt) Ka ho K dekhain, Jitna aap apnay aap Ko qeemti samajhtay Hain Allah will have you treated even better (yani hadis&tafsir courses may enroll ho Jaen Aaj hi. Amal Ki niyyat say sekhain. Hr din Ki studies K sadqay maangain Allah say dunya aakhirat Ki bhalaaiyan. Phir blessings dekhain. Thora Thora Kr K samandar Bantay Hai. Or Sabar say kaam lain. Aahista aahista..slowly but surely you dreams will come true. Ye talim Jo tafsir&ahadis say hamain milti hai..helps you dream big while being patient at the same time. And then those dreams r granted because you went through the right channel. Ye Meri chaalees saal Ki zindagi ki experience ka aazmuda suggestion Hai Jo free may Yahan Likh dia Hai. Aik saal K course may admission lay lain (YC boys Ko bhi suntay rahain). You will feel the difference yourself. Please keep up this good work. Foreign may Ghar Ki zimmedaarion Ki Waja say time Nahi Bana Paati. Aap Sab Bhai log wo kaam Kr Rahay Hain Jo may bachoon say pehlay Kr rahi Thi ya krna chahti Thi.. Apka to discipline aala! mA. Plzzz keep it up.
Never properly watched your video but this time I wasn’t distracted even for a second. I have read the book myself but I couldn’t understand it so deeply like the way you explained it. This video is a masterpiece❤
Assalamualikum warahamatullahi wabarkatuhu Masha Allah sir Buhat buhat shukriya Allah ne aj mujhe saach mai mauqa diya hai badal ne ka khud ko yeh sab cheezein jo bhi apne batayi hai saari buhat important thi Jazak Allah khair Allah apko behtaar badla aata kare In sha Allah☺️🖤 Aur jaha jitne bhi shamil honge sabhi ko apni zindagi mai buhat saari khushiyan aur akhiraat ki zindagi mai kamyaab ho Aameen😊
Zabardast Mashaaa Allah..Explicit Ali Bhai..May Allah taaala bless you all and give toufeeq to us Muslim couples to have a life like prophet PBUH and love each other.Ameen
AssalamuAlaikum. It's really good to see you with such a good understanding towards the Women....which is an amazing attribute....SubhanAllah. Most of the marriages do not Workout coz of the absence of these attributes.. both in Male n Female Partners as Well. MashaAllah... I found this lecture to be Very Effective n Resourceful and also more Helpful....MashaAllah. JazakAllahKhair....for your Good Piece of Advice. Doing a Good job...Keep it up. May Allah SWT accept your deeds & Grant you a Good Reward..Ameen.
AssalamuAlaikum. Undoubtedly...your lectures inspire me a lot...AlHamdulillah. The way you explain the things is just Superb...You have Clarity in language n Warmth in Words....n What a good understanding of Women , you have...it's just Amazing...MashaAllah. I have a great respect for you. Really...you r a blessed One. May Allah bless you with a Good reward...Ameen.
extremely beneficial .... i note all of these concept by relating them to tqwa. the more i am attached to my allah the more sabr i get and more fall in love with the humanity .Spouse is just a small matter to handle when you understand tqwa and closeness to allah .bcz the more you love allah the more you will listen to his commands and this leads me to the result .. love your spouse bcz you love allah and allah sai yuo should loveyour spouse. Thanks sir ali... may this ali also turn out to be the like you and more better.may allah bless you with the best return hereafter
It is opposite in my house.. my husband goes into nitty gritty and i m more casual n try to solve things quickly. Even at dinners at our home, he takes care of details, I don't. Lol
AssalamuAlaikum. MashaAllah...How Beautifully it is Quoted that...Indeed the Muslim Woman has an elevated Position / Status in Islam. And it is also Well Said that... A Woman is the Initiative School, Which is Absolutely True. SubhanAllah... The way of your interpreting the things is So Pleasing & Amazing. JazakAllah Khair. May Allah Reward with Good for Your Genuine Efforts...Ameen.
AssalamuAlaikum. End of the Session me aaapne bahut acchi baat baataayi hai k... Aurat par Rob nahi balke Aurat se Mohaabat karna ...MashaAllah. Bahut acchse se Conclude kiya aapne...Session ko. Among all the Sessions...this One is an important Topic that you have discussed .... is of a great importance...N You have explained Very Well...SubhanAllah. JazakAllahu Khairan Kaseera.
Ap logo se iltija h ke mere liye dua kre ki mujhe dindar shohar mile kuki mere ghar walo ka ye tanj hki is zamane pura din follow krne wala shksh almost impossible hi h ☹️
Sahi kaha aapne sistar meri family bhi yahi kehti hai lekin me apne Rab se mayoos nahi hun bas mujhe aysa life partner chahiye jo mujhe deen me guide kare in sha salam
Really really very very adorable n practical knowledge you HV given inshaAllah by this lecture we will manage our lives according to this n more over this makes us so relax bcz it is solving our daily internal chaos
Masha allah... Such an insightful episode... ❤💕i am about to be married In sha Allah and I love the learnings this episode contains... Always looking forward for more such content.... May Allah provide us with the right loving, respectful partners🥰...Allah humma ameen😇Love from India. ❤
AssalamuAlaikum. MashaAllah...you have a Very good understanding of Women. And so... i owe you a lot n have a great respect for you. And OffCourse...Allah SWT loves those Who love each Other for Allah's Sake...SubhanAllah. May Allah SWT grant a good Reward for your Genuine Efforts... JazakAllahu Khairan Kaseera.
Sir, Your videos are really motivating and bringing changes in life... Allah se humesha ye dua hai ki Allah always guide us and Allah hume ilm haasil krneki nek aamal krne ki taufeeq de..Ameen Sir, There is a request to you that you make detailed video on the following topics: *Huqooq Allah & Huqooq ul ibaad
I dont know from were these extreme feminist come I want to sit a chill and do home work Who doesnt want to be pampered and imagine a guy who takes all ur responsibilities
Salam sir Thanks to you and to All YC team for their such a great effort for the sake of All Ummah’s benefits and guidance towards Allah ﷻ. May Almighty Allah accept all your and your team’s efforts Ameen and plz pray for your students. Sufia from USA
اللهم صل على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما صليت على ابراهيم وعلى ال ابراهيم انك حميد مجيد اللهم بارك على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما باركت على ابراهيم وعلى ال ابراهيم انك حميد مجيد
If husband doesn't sleep from last 4 years and becomes unfit then what a woman do despite of having 2 kids and I have disability in speech and hearing?. Please answer this question.
