10 Tips to Stop Liking Your Crush 

Who are you crushing on?

Me at home: I hate him. Me at school seeing him: I love him :c

I cannot believe I have fallen this low, to the point where I had to search up a video for this type of subject.

Having crush is ok.. Crush not liking you is ok.. Crush liking you is ok.. But crush pretending to like you and switching their behaviour next day..... Its the worst feeling ever 😶

from .. how to tell if your crush likes you .. to how to get over your crush 😔

"there are many fish in the sea." thanks, but I really wanted that fish :(

when they start showing interest in you for the first time ever but as soon as u get all excited they just back out

People think having a crush is great, but it’s actually the worst. Especially when they don’t like you and like another person… that’s what’s happening to me… all I want to do is forget about him and move on but it’s so hard because we see eachother every day. I feel so insecure around him..

We have all reached the point when we just wanna get over it and stop those fantasies about being a couple with them Edit : I stopped giving him attention and started minding my own business After some time he apologized for his behaviour and proposed me I said no at first but he is a completely different person now so we are in a relationship

How to stop liking your crush Me- get another crush

1: stop romanticizing them My dreams: hey there

"vent to your family and friends" kinda hard to do when you don't trust your family with any personal matters and the person you're crushing on is your friend

To my crush, I like you a lot. Ever since I saw you, I felt something different, something magical about you. And you worsened it by holding the eye contacts we accidentally had. For the last 2 months I had been fantasizing about you, spending hours in the bathroom imagining the conversations we could have; spending hours at my study table with my book open, thinking about the moments we could have. This has been ruining my productivity and concentration and my grades have dropped so badly. Constantly checking the mirror, always feeling that you are watching me, feeling pressurised, feeling that I have lost track of things and time. Having this limerence is too time consuming and just too difficult to catch up on things. I have so much pending work and it hurts me so much. I think too much about you. You are taking away my time, attention, concentration and everything. Even when the class is going on, I can’t help but think about you and stare at you. I am so exhausted these days that I can’t remember anything the next day even if I studied. I can’t be confident and can’t do anything according to my comfort. I sleep too much because that way I won’t be able to think of you, but it is consuming my time even more. I feel the need to be popular, the need to be perfect, the need to be your type, the need to be not myself but someone else. The infatuation I have for you is so worse that I have turned so clumsy, I started spilling things. Last day I spilt the solid chemicals in the lab and for goodness’s sake it fell on the floor not on anyone. I feel like a total failure, started doubting my capability, having second thoughts on my career option. Having a crush is like torture. I know these things are not at all connected to having a crush but, by wasting my time thinking about you, I can’t catch on the syllabus and thus made me think if I can get my dream job; if I can be systematic to achieve it. I think maybe seeing you with your flaws might help but I cannot think that you are not perfect. But BUT I need to get over you And I really hope I can before it is too late. All of you sharing your experiences has calmed me down, that it is not only me who feels literally addicted to a person. I did this for closure. Thank you people for making me think that I am not alone.

having a crush is literal torture . . . you feel so head over heels in love with this person, you love them to literal death and it physically hurts knowing that you can't have them :(

Them: Reduce interactions Me: *hasn't seen him for 2 years and still likes him*

The rose tinted glasses thing doesn't work because I accept that my crush has flaws as I do, so unless they had terrible personality traits or had treated you badly it won't stop you crushing on them. I can't tell my friends and family because of who it is (I would never tell my family my crush anyway)

I cant underestimate how important closure is, even if you absolutely sure the don't return feelings for you, hearing the "sorry but I don't think of you that way" is one of the most crucial parts to moving on.

Who else is here because you know you have no chance 🙋🏼‍♀️🙍🏼‍♀️

4:30 i liked him for 6 years. He likes my friend, my friend likes him, and i'm supporting them. Reality hurts af.

I used to have a crush on my classmate and I confessed... He rejected me. But that wasn't the worst part actually. After he rejected me, we started getting closer. He regularly stared at me, smiled at me, sat next to me and he remembered every small detail about me. We would sometimes even chat after school and I started falling in love even deeper. A few days ago, I was on a small trip with him and my best friend. My best friend and I were pretty sure that he had feelings for me. But it turned out he didn't. He only saw me as a ,,good friend''. He was leading me on this entire time. I was confused, why was he playing with my feelings like that? I decided to cut connections after the trip. I told him that I need distance and that he should stop talking to me. It hurt. I see him everyday in school and we don't talk anymore. But I'm moving on and feeling better than ever. No regrets. I deserve way better than him anyway :)

For me a crush on someone always went away with time...but this one is JUST NOT GOING AWAYY😭😭😭😭

It's weird how I want to stop liking my crush but at the same time, I like to like him :

It’s so frustrating someone can make you feel this way and you can’t help it.

Loving someone means having a crush on them, but it's called a "crush" because it crushes our heart inside.

First time I ever admitted my feelings to someome, was friends for over a year before I realised I liked her and didn't even realise she was in a relationship...still can't stop feeling guilty and depressed about it

Started with "10 signs your crush in love with you" then ended with "10 tips to stop liking your crush" LMAO

Hmmm "how to stop liking your crush 1: hang out with Friends But what if my crush is also one of my greatest friends?

To my crush: all the times we were work partners in school or saw each other in the halls and the time you told me you liked me. I wish i could go back and tell you my felling back then

You know it's hard to leave your loved ones but studies are first priority 😔😔

never thought i would ever search this type of video..

The fact that I’ve come to the point where I searched this video up is just sad

I hate the feeling that I think I am losing valuable time spending times daydreaming about my crush when I am supposed to do more important things. At first it feels right, but as time passed by you can feel that you are really wasting your time. Having a crush is a real headache, a corny shit that makes you do and think about different things you think you can't. Though it feels good, obsessing about someone who can't reciprocate the feelings you have for them should stop and may all the power of the universe guide you in doing so.

Not having a crush on someone is absolutely the most peaceful state you'll ever have, but it looks different once you have one, in my situation, it feels like I am not me, it's like I'm not living with peace anymore, I hate overthinking because I know there's no single chance, when u wanna forget that person because you've been stranded with these feelings u know yourself is not helping u to move forward and do your things, like u just think about that person all the time, but that person didn't even care about your existence. It's useless and very distracting. I hate it.

Why do they call it a crush? Because that's how you feel when they don't feel the same way in return.

Me: I don't like her anymore. She loves the other guy. Stop thinking about her She: *looks at me for 0.5 secs* Me: maybe it's not over

Admiring someone that's attractive by their looks is the most bittersweet thing

I’m trying to get over my crush on my best friend so some of these tips won’t work for me. But the worst part is she was completely my type and I thought we had something going but now we’re still just best friends but I still have a crush on her 😞

I'm here not because my crush is toxic but because these feelings are really frustrating and all the imaginitive romanticism is really pulling me away from reality...

bruh i literally had to search this up because i can’t stop thinking about him😭😭

“Stop romanticizing them” what if you’ve known them for so long you were aware of their flaws before actually crushing and you still acknowledge them but for some reason the flaws don’t keep you from going crazy abt the good things 😅😢

1)Stop Romanticizing him/her : Get out of your dream and try to see the faults of your crush and examine whether you will live with them after knowing he/she has those qualities 2)Maintain physical distance: i)Don't talk to them unless necessarily ii)Try to avoid them or try to run into them iii) delete their phone number or block them from social media if possible 3)Self Assessment: Reflect on what you have learned about them and find out reasons why you couldn't be right for them or why couldn't they be right for you 4)Keep Yourself Busy on Work/New things : Doing that will make you less likely to think about them and will build confidence 5)Don't Focus on flaws and if you have flaws then fix it : If you think you are going to be rejected or you got rejected then don't focus on your flaws rather focus on your strengths and if you think you have a particular weakness in a area in which you dream of improving then work hard to improve it. Don't try to fully become your crush's ideal person because you may lose core personality in doing and it might break the foundation on which your life was running on. 6) Confess: After self introspection If you really think they are good for you then confess and if you get rejected then focus on the points above. Confessing them also concludes the situation giving rise to new opportunities in life. 7)Practice Gratitude: Don't keep thinking of things you don't have rather feel grateful for the things you have like good parents,friends opportunities etc..

Me:I'm going to ignore him Also me two days later: *stalking his intsa*

Funfact: This wasn't in your recommendations, you searched it up.

Me trying to move on from my crush because he dosen't like me back. Also me: chatting him and playing games with him 👁👄👁

I never imagined myself searching for this type of video… but here I am.

I have fallen too low to search for this....

This girl is living rent free in my head bruh

To the one I liked, You showed me signs that you loved me. We joked around and flirted, we had our own calls away from our friend group, you would compliment me and I would do the same. We offered our gratitude and we shared our route walking home together. You told me you liked that girl you met in that one class, and I supported it because I didn’t wanna act like I was hurt infront of you. You offered her your sweater, and I watched and attempted to ship even when it was hurting me inside. You gave me your sweater and told me I can keep it, so I did. I would cry while wearing it, and that plushie you gave me is what I would use to fall asleep. You said you didn’t like her anymore, but I kept pushing you away because I had commitment issue after my last relationship. When I confessed too you, you couldn’t reciprocate and I understood that. But remember that girl you said you didn’t like anymore? You guys consider one another family (bro and sis). I watched afar as you cling onto her, call her and wouldn’t make time for me, watch you distance yourself. I cried, but I will forever hold it. I hate you.

“Don’t talk to them” Well that’s easy

It's not even between me and her anymore, it's just me and my feeling

Never thought i will ever search this type of video and it actually exist

Tysm this helped me alot. although i never thought i'd search for this kind of video. but really helps alot trough my hard times

me:he doesn’t like me anyway him:looks at me once. “how to tell if your crush likes you”

*I don't like him anymore there's no point* *1 day later* *OmG hE sMiLeD aT mE aHhHhH*

Thanks for this wonderful video, I really needed it.

I haven't seen him for almost 2 years and I still think about him every day.

Step 1: “Stop Romanticizing them” I-im sorry, i feel like my mind has its own mind.

1.Stop romanticizing them Yeah that'll be easy, for someone who is a Maladaptive Daydreamer

Thanks this video helped a lot even though this is uploaded 4 years ago. thank you, it actually helped me allot and everything was explained well!

Thank you so much! I needed this.

Anyone else really needed this video? 😔

when u realize u can relate to almost every comment: :,)

*once you see them with their flaws* He’s literally perfect, out of my league, gorgeous, the nicest boy ever, athletic, smart, and charming as hell. Than there’s me 😑

I get into a point that moving on someone who is actually healthy is easier than a toxic crush for some reason .

Me: I’m totally over her now *Sees crush Also me: Ah shit here we go again

me: i will stop having feeling for them them: hi, how are you me: i will stop having feeling for them later

Crushing on someone who’s still think about his ex gf is the worst thing ever

I know that I'm a little late commenting on this video, but I waned to say thanks. This was my first mental turmoil over a girl, and I have to say this channel helped refocus my mind and return back to a healthy mindset.

We’re all this together friends

Reasons to stop liking your crush- *They don't like you back anyway.* Edit:I promised myself I wouldn't make an edit for the sake of the joke, but if your crush don't like you back, pick yourself back up, keep your head up and walk out the door. Don't waste your time on someone who don't appreciate you, because if you expect someone to love/be in a relationship with you if you don't take time to have a healthy relationship with yourself, it ain't gonna work out anyway. Edit's Edit:Aight, karma hit me too hard. I caught feelings for a fxkboy.😑

It fells good to know that others are watching this so I don't fell alone

"plenty of fish in the sea" Yeah, plenty of fish that I can't even catch and every single one is literally avoiding me.

“Focus on your favourite people” My crush is one of my favourite people

Hey, wanting a closure may not be as simple as them telling you that they don't think of you in that particular way. Especially, if you are in same class or you work together, sitting next to them or around them may make you both feel uncomfortable and a friendly chit-chat with them or a group including them may also become seriously awkward.

My longest crush lasted 6 years, pretty much all through high school. I didn't even know her that well and we hardly interacted. It was still painful to go through. But that's nothing on my current crush, which I realised I had about 9/10 months ago. She was a friend, who I really value and admire, and she took it well when I told her how I feel, even though she doesn't reciprocate. Until recently. I don't know exactly what happened but I think it became too much pressure for both of us and we're now on really bad terms. I miss her so much and feel so guilty, and don't know what to do when I see her at work. It's been absolute torture, and given how long the last one lasted, I'm so scared about how long I might feel like this for.

"Don't talk to them" Umm my crush doesn't even know that I exist...

I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him He : Hi Sweet Jesus why are you perfect

The reason I want to stop liking my crush is because I found out he really likes someone else and I also need to focus on my schoolwork 😤👍

A relatively new co-worker in a highly academic job. She looks stunning and is impressively organized and clever. I was so nervous to message her. Turns out she's also really chill and nobody has ever been as interested in who I am as she's been. But then it turns out she's already in a relationship. I was devastated. I still cannot think properly and it's making doing my work really hard. We arranged a date as friends and it was wonderful, turns out she's been pretty lonely too. I'm goddamn determined to make this friendship work as you rarely meet people like her anyway. But now I find it hard to find someone "better" than her who is also single... I feel like I'm choking every second awake. I know I should be happy I had the courage to approach her and I know I'm kind of stupid to keep this going but I've done it before. I'd feel like shit either way...

"when your crush hates you and likes someone else"

Me: I can’t get over him! Friend: You should! Me: Oh my god why didn’t I think of that!

Really needed this i have a crush on someone who i thinks doesn't even know or remember me 😂 We only had a class together till now, it's been a month and many more classes are there to come so it's a big distraction to sit next to my crush 🙌🏻

5 years did I let my feelings fester inside me. 5 long years. The only reason why I've never said anything is because I'm too scared to lose my best friend. I don't fear the possibility of rejection, I fear the fact that things will not be the same once I've expressed my interest. I've come to realize that It's time for me to move forward with my life and get closure. Thank you for this much needed advice.

Nobody: Pickup new hobbies: S T R I P P I N G

This is so hard because I want to get over him and avoid him but at the same time I really want to see him again 😤

Thank you. My crush blocked me after saying they wanted to meet up and asking me a question. Needed this.

I'm glad I searched this, reading the comments made me realize that it can happen to anyone and I'm not stupid or naive to like a guy who doesn't care about me, it is hard right now and I don't feel very happy or optimistic but I will do my best to get over it

1. stop romanticizing them 2. reduce your interactions 3. vent to your family/friends 4. self reflect on the lesson 5. find closure if you can 6. pick up new hobbies 7. don't focus on your flaws 8. explore dating apps 9. practice gratitude 10. embrace the future

1. Stop Romanticizing them 2. Reduce your interactions 3. Vent to family and friends 4. Self reflect on the lessons 5. Find closure if you can 6. Pick up hobbies 7. Don’t focus on your flaws 8. Explore dating apps 9. Practice gratitude 10. Embrace the future

There is a very interesting moment. I'm not a native english speaker. My teacher sent me this video as a practice. But I had a really painful parting with my GF and best friend recently. So this video may help me a lot. I don't know if it is a coincidence but I'm grateful to my teacher and the author of the video! Thanks!

To my crush: Thank you for noticing and spending some time with me. You’re a great person and will do lots in life. I understand you know other people and like other girls. Thank you for helping step out of my comfort zone and have a crush after almost a year of being scared after the last guy made fun of me, and after 4 years of heartbreak from another guy. I hope to become friends with you, but it’s time I get over you. If I like you for any longer it will turn out like that last big crush I had. 6 months is long enough, have fun with your new girl.

1st day away: I like her 2nd day away: I like her 3rd day away: I do like her right? 4th day away: I am pretty sure I like her 5th day away: I don’t like do I 6th day away: I don’t like her 1st week away: why did I like her? 1st month away: why did I like her that much *sees her again*:holy shit I fucking love her Edit:why in all hell is this getting so many likes? I mean thanks but a sub will be apreciated :)

Perhaps it's easier to smile and pretend everything's okay, rather than admitting my heart's a little swollen from losing someone that wasn't even mine.

Thank you so much, I felt a lot better now, I realized I never needs him!

Reading this comment section helps me uncrush so fast. Thanks yall and I hope you all feel better

It’s the most painful thing to watch your crush fall in love with somone else

Give it time, it'll go away eventually lol

I spoke to her yesterday; stroke an actual good conversation, she SMILED (god, what a smile!) after I complemented her... Felt really great to finally speak to her after crushing her for such a long time. Asked her out. Said her parents wouldn’t let her... she didn’t say no, though. I feel embarrassed for the way I managed the conversation up, however. I wish I’d said more interesting stuff. I had things in mind yet after seeing her and... well, going after her, i totally blanked. I’m still looking forward for whenever I see her again, but i sincerely guess the point of it all is that I conquered myself over this ridiculous fear of rejection. It’s all about seeing the bright side. Even though I may never ever speak to her again, it feels good I mean, i still keep overthinking about her and will (for perhaps a very long time), it most be tough at the beginning, but... life goes on man. i fell relatable to those who weren’t corresponded by their respective crushes. We shall unite ✊

Thank you so much for this video. The best technic is to realize your own existence.

"Stop interacting" What if we're close friends??