@@theprousteffect9717 I think I get alot of enjoyment out of pleasing a woman. It's the taste, her reactions, watching her just let go, watching her when she reaches that point of no return....huge huge turn on for me. I can actually do for hours if she wants.
HUGE fan of pleasuring a woman this way! It's my FAVORITE thing to do! It's so Hott watching and hearing a woman enjoy it while I do it! Unfortunately, after my divorce, I can't get back into the dating world. The women I'm attracted to are not interested in me, the town I live in is limited and due to my jobs, I can't travel far 🙁
I feel like we need a part 2, please 💕 … I definitely fall in the category of growing up with the negative outlook on it but at 28, it’s a different story. Married and never being the receiver, I have NO clue how to openly bring that up…. Wanting it and then voicing it are different than actually being in the moment and not being capable of understanding how to *enjoy* it….. how do you turn your brain off from all the insecurities (and having already shit, showered and shaved so you’re prepared) and actually ALLOW yourself to be pleased - how do you mentally yourself to accept and enjoy?
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I find this mindset really odd. I also find the lack of initiative beyond preparing yourself alone a bit odd. Take a swig of liquid courage and get in the game, you’ll be glad you did
First time? 1) Talk about it! Ask if it's OK. 2) Go slow, don't be in a hurry. 3) "Taste as you season" - like cooking, check out how your 'dish' is doing! Additional seasoning as needed.... ;-) (alternate advice: swipe left....if doesn't get it.....)
I'm not a jerk or anything but I just want to say , for me this training was all in my mind I learned how to do it by doing it I just did it and the more I did it the better and better I got at it that's all you have to do guys just go down there and get it done you'll get good at it you go by the reactions that she's giving you that's all there is to it
The new guy I just started seeing told me that he doesn't do anal and I thought great we're on the same page with that but then he said he doesn't go down on a woman and my heart sank. He said that he got my opinion on the first thing like anal but not on the second one like going down on a woman. I didn't know what to say really and wasn't prepared to have the conversation right yet. I will soon because I love it and have been with guys that do it and love to do it to me. If he never does I'm afraid it's a big part of my sex life and I will not be able to be his girlfriend. I will dig a little deeper and find out why first though but I'm disappointed. 😔
When I was much much younger there was no way, but once I was into my 20s, hell yeah! And I"m not afraid to ask what she likes either. The more she gets off, the more I get off.
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He wont do it but wants me down on him, its just selfishness. He has told me he expects to get off and if the women does thats nice but if she dont, its not a big deal.
Women love it when men go down on them it makes them feel really good that guy giving them what they want done to them .now going down on women some maybe trimmed down there or have no public hair at all .some guys made like it when women has none down there.for me I do not bothered me if she trimmed but I do think her being bare down there is just as sexy and hot same time total turn on .I think women think same about men to
