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I live half the year in Colombia 🇨🇴 South America and the United States . I am an American . I can definitely relate to everything that you have talked about in your video . Much of what you have talked about doesn’t only relate to the Philippines ….. but any country . Especially if your country’s currency is worth more than your present country . Much of the same goes with the foreign women . I had learned some tough lessons from living in Colombia 🇨🇴 when it came to splurging your money . The key thing that you mentioned …. Is to learn to live within the means of that country ….. that goes with the Philippines too . The temptation to splurge your money is great and is ok at times . In this case with a Filipina …. Learn to adjust to her style of spending or slightly higher . Try to avoid eating out a lot …. Eat at home with your Filipina most days . I couldn’t urge this more …… if she really likes you ….. you should not have to splurge your money around her . I married a Colombian woman and we do the same ….. because we were more careful with our money …. We are able to pay for a good education for our grandchildren …. Which is very important to us . Now with that said ….. we do take our family out to nice resorts and trips ….. about 4 times a year ….. and a nice dinner on Birthdays . If you learn to live within these means ….. you will have enough money stored away for a disaster , a serious illness for you or a family member or even a disaster …. Such as the pandemic . Always live below your daily means …. Then you will never find yourself broke . I know for a foreigner …. It’s always easier said than done …. Do to temptations . But will have a much happier and longer life with your foreigner . Great video ….. very well prepared . This is the first time I believe watching your video . Well done .
If you are already on a 10 day prescription of antibiotics and you have 10 days remaining in your vacation, feel free to indulge in food, water or whatever. Seriously though, the people of the country are great and the women and their smiles and humor, will always make your day. Do get married to a Filipina, but choose wisely like anywhere. The lifestyle of a Filipino marriage can be quite the adventure and you can’t be bored unless the boring part is you. It is nice that you can still have a proper, lifelong marriage, till death do you part. Just do the lengthy courtship like 2 years. You’ll be fine if you take time. It can be like a 1950’s, old time relationship.
My son's mom left us when my son was 16 months old, so I raised my son by myself. Drugs and alcohol were more important to her than our son and she left with another guy. She had 3 more kids and did the same thing with 2 of them, left them with the dads. The third kid dies of crack addiction, which she spent a year in jail for. She finally got married to a drug dealer. Anyway, I know how difficult it can be raising kids on your own. I liked raising my son and we're very close still today. I think it takes a jerk to get a woman pregnant and just leave her to take care of the baby herself.
You could be in my shoes. My daughters mother kicked me to the curb and got back with her ex then I find out years later I have a daughter when shes 5 years old only because her mother wanted money then turned my daughter against me years later with lies told to her about me. I missed all her baby years. My sons mother cheated on me repeatedly until I left her and the night before I left she asked me to marry her like that would ever happen. Leaving my son behind with her when he was 3 was the hardest thing I ever had to do which hurt bad but I was thinking about him and not myself. The whole time his mother was pregnant with him I didn't know if he was mine or not until he was born because she cheated on me with an ex and write a letter to him that I found saying she hoped the baby was his. Talk about a triple blow to me. I missed a lot of him growing up too. Women can be super jerks as well. Still I payed child support for both kids and it wasn't court ordered.
Brother, I hope your experience wake’s you up on exactly how western women move and shake. Get you a girl from a different country. Not all but a lot of them are good girls and make good wives. My wife is from the Philippines.
I always eat barbecue on a stick type street food. Never had a problem. Just give the meat a sniff before it is cooked and cook completely. I always drink bottled beer, soda, or water. After the cap comes off the bottle use a slice of calaminci, rub it around the lip of the bottle. The acid in the citrus will help kill any bacteria. It is expected that new arriving foreigners will have an adjustment involving diarrhea and vomiting. My last visit lasted about six hours. I was good to go after that. Of course if it lasts longer and involves dehydration, go see a doctor.
Steph you are one of my favorite ❤️ Filipina vloggers because you are SO REAL and tell it like it is. Unlike these other Filipinas who talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk. You’ve REALLY been with a foreigner INTIMATELY and talked about REAL INTIMATE topics such as orgasms and attractiveness. So keep up the good work and success will continue to follow. Thanks again for being so real about sharing things that could hurt future foreigners who visit the Philippines 🇵🇭
To add to the water point, even mineral water you'd get from hotels or from the shops i would still purify it further, i'd add a few bottles to a 1 litre flask and add a water purifier to it. Kept me healthy and my filipina fiancé was very happy. When drinking gin with the family, bring your own water with a purifer to be on the safe side and avoid the ice cubes! or you'll get stomach cramps and the shits.
You can easily just pick up a bar girl 😊 but there are a lot of western men that are manipulative and want to just take advantage of a nice sweet Filipina 😢
@@scottdarden3091 Sorry to hear that Steph seems like a good lady, and is very well spoken. No woman or man is perfect and there's always some conflict in any relationship. Hope it doesn't make her bitter or cynical toward men in general. For myself, I do my best to work things out, and tend to speak up right away when something is not right, rather let things fester.
First time I watched your channel Steph, I found it informative and honest and I congratulate you on this! I have visited the phils a few times, first time Cebu and had a gf here in Uk for 2 years. I believe your advice is on point and should be taken seriously from my own experiences. All the best Mike
Guys need to create a rough budget before arriving in the Philippines. Then from there they adjust it after three weeks! Funny you bring up the street food, I've been on the wrong end of that once. I remember claiming that "I'm built different" prior to the pain lmao.
I'm gonna agree with Benjamin Logan and David Alexander. You really know how to emphasize your points. All of to them. Lol. You do look really nice in pink and it matches your new blonde look. Excellent advice to people new to travelling.
I think those are some interesting points. I’ve been over a few times and I still find I make certain mistakes. But it’s always a good time. But this is a great help for newbie travelers of people looking to immigrate.
Stephilipinas Your content is excellent Thank you for this video. This video was really good. Thank you for all the tips that you gave us today. I think it's very important to plan for whatever you're going to do. I've always been a planner. I'll make sure you have enough money. For whatever you wanna do as well. Don't get anyone pregnant in the Philippines. Always think before you do. What the hell it could affect someone else? And I'll fix yourself as well. I don't drink smoke or do drugs. So I won't be going downtown. Smoking up drinking or trying to buy girls or lady boys and all that stuff. I don't do I know that? I hope you have a good day. I hope you have a great evenit's important To enjoy life and I'll always see you. Enjoying life getting out doing things that's really good. I can't wait to see you on the next video. Have a good week. My name is Cedric Nash and I'm your number one fan.
That's one of the biggest mistakes people ever make ? Falling in love too quickly with a Filipina especially when you don't know anything about her ! Never seen money because you might like them ? Remember this you can't buy ❤️😢😢
I have no qualms of eating street food. I always ensure to only select those places which are really busy as usually these stalls will be the best quality. The water I get will be bottled only so I'll ensure to avoid tap water. 7-11 or any other convenience store will help there. On the topic of men who get defrauded by women, sadly there are a lot of dumb men out there who only think with that object found in their pants between their legs ... they have no idea how to properly function as independent men and so will fall victim to scams from those women who are out there to scam people. I don't know if you've seen Pea's latest video but the type of guy she describes is exactly what I relate to the most. So I can't be manipulated emotionally and won't give money to anyone. And let the manipulative women try their best on me, they stand no chance 😁 Speaking of psychological understanding - have you got around to checking out the Myers-Briggs test yet? It's free online and well worth doing as part of your self-development 🙂 And have I ever mentioned that I'm tee-total? So I never drink alcohol. Ever. Anyways, great vid Steph. There's a lot of idiots out there who need this video drummed into their brains as a public service broadcast. Hugs from me xx
The dumbest mistakes they make is when they 1) marry a broke single mom Filipina then build a house and get taken advantage of by everyone in her family 2) they take their broke single mom Filipina back to their home country then get burned. They'll never learn because she's always different..😂
Please don’t visit the Philippines and start blaming them for your mistakes. Be respectful, mind your surroundings and have a plan and backup lol. Hell watch the video twice and save it if nothing else!
@@stephilipines every expat is vlogging there and also many Filipinas, haha. People are born there with a camera in their hands and those who pass the borders will get a camera for free. There is more fun in the Philippines = Philmitpines haha
I almost fell in love with a Filipina Steph because I had been harshly rejected before but she didn't really want anything. I would not want a job here in the Philippines low paying jobs yeah some Filipinas are leeches they just want money from guys. Getting Drunk is recipe for disaster always look out for you're stuff I have small locks. I love spending money on myself Steph a lot of Money even here in the Philippines no joke. Never get a girl pregnant unless you are married and are responsible enough to take care of kids
As soon as I got off the plane in Cebu City I fell in love the a Filipina street food vendor that gave me tap water. To top it all off I found out she was a ladyboy and she got me drunk and stole my money. At least I didn’t get her pregnant. I sure wish I’d watched this video first. 🤔
Lets be honest any country you goto and you are not used to the food in that country is not always a good idea. I know it is not just the Philippines it is every country if you came to the US you might have the same problem with are food until your body gets used to it. Then on the other issues you need to respect all women and stay away from the scammers such a shame there are soooo many of them and I don’t just mean in the Philippines it is all over. Everyone is just out for money sorry to say. Now for you getting a women pregnant well that has to go back on her as well. Don’t have sex unless you know she is serious I know most of the men will disagree with me but if you are putting it out don’t blame me because when you tell me that I got you pregnant How do I know it is my child and from what you said that women there can manipulate you well that is a sure way of doing it is saying I am pregnant. No I do not want to get her pregnant and leave her alone to take care of out children or her child. So yes be careful and watch out for them dating sites as well Christian Filipino might not be the best. They have just found a lady on the site who was 16 years old and she took a gentlemen for over 5000$. I can say that it is hard to check on all the women on the site but 16 and a scammer is not good at all. I am not saying Filipinos are to blame here it goes both ways there are men who will use you and abuse you. There are men who will miniputale you the same as they do to us. Just wish there where more honest people out there. I am looking for the forever one but I will have strict rules that I follow and she will have to follow. Yes it is nice to by your lady gifts but you do not want her to learn western customs. People in the Philippines are very nice people with a few bad ones in there just like everywhere else. Although just my thought you are much better then most if not all American women. Thank you again for your video just giving you my thoughts and no judgment on any particular country.
@@stephilipines Love what you say and how you say it. Am Australian and unfortunately a little old for a cute one like yourself. Keep on doing what you do, great job and good sort!
21:16 🤣😂🤣 Street Carts were some of the best breakfast I had while I was there. But I'm not going to eat Balut 😂😂 fortunately to your next to last point, my retirement is plenty enough so that I can splurge as much as I want 😊
