I’m an INFJ and I feel like a lone wolf the fact is lone wolf dies and pack survives. It’s a curse and blessing at the same time to be an INFJ, it’s so stressful because when you know the whole game but you cannot play, stressful.
VishnuTeja, I can speak only for myself, but it seems to me that, as life goes on and you learn what you are best at, who you are comfortable with, where you fit best and who welcomes your way of being, life gets easier. This may be true for everyone, but it seems more true for INFJs because we are coming from farther away from the norm.
@@wisdomseeker3132Maybe that is to say, they have different values, and cannot play the game without sacrificing core values, which is unacceptable. Better not to breathe at all, then.
I am an INFJ and I have only met one other (that I know of) and oddly enough, I couldn't stand them! I felt like every single thing I did was being studied and analyzed, he gave me a lot of advice I did not ask for, and he was bewildering honest to the point where it made me uncomfortable. Then I finally realized why I don't have many friends, I do the same thing lol
Similar experience here. We both have difficulty in relationships. One day we realized nobody really likes us. We don't even like each other at times😂. At the end of the day, I tell her "be careful, I don't wanna be on this planet alone, you're the only one I got."
I'm an INFJ, and have met 2 other INFJs in my life. They were the reason I started thinking this whole MBTI thing is just a scam. Our personalities were completely different like I can not find any similarity between the 3 of us. Plus, I couldn't handle them at all, like why in the world would a human being be so manipulative like they both were. Or they would go on trying to know me in a deeper level, but sister who are you fooling, I know what you're trying to do 😭😂. I hated both and I'm not friends with them anymore, our personalities just didn't match, I just hated someone else trying to get to know me on a deeper level like I wanna do that but don't want that to be done with me. So Ironic.
Oh myyyyy😢😢😢 my problem is same as urs bcs i feel like right now super lonely at the fricking university i attend but i have no friends there bcs i was too cold to them. I dont know they were annoying to me but i feel lonely being alone all the time. When someone comes to me and tryna interact w me, i push them away. Idk really why but my limit time is an hour thirty. When it is 2 hours i feel super annoyed and think i will never be w them again 😭 but i ammm super lonely, and dont know what should i do
@@teenager9103woah! Exactly me months ago. I made an extreme change after that. Although our personality comes in play, it's doing better for me. How about you? Hmm..i know how to know this. Wanna exchange igs? (Dw:)
@@teenager9103 I'm so sorry for you 🫂 and goshh so relatable cuz that's soo me with the people in my hometown. Maybe it depends on the people and the setting? Because as i stay with new classmates in a new school, my cheeks are rosy with happiness everyday I'm so different from my hometown. I didn't knew i could make such nice friends either. My cheeks would hurt from smiling too much. What do you think?
I do need my solitude. I've been treated my whole life like that was wrong, but it's not. People who are very talkative are very draining. So leave us be. It'll make for a better day
My favorite part is when people treat you like a blank canvas for being this way or having this need and project their issue onto you. They don't see you, just their insecurities and someone from their past. Very frustrating. Touch people are even worse with this.
I don't like a fake environment. I require authenticity and I love peace and quiet. Yes I've been accused of being too intense! I love real conversations, deep conversations. I'm not here on this planet to talk about paint drying.
As an INFJ this is absolutely true, and nice to know there is a reason why I don't have many friends and that I can strangely read people extremely well....
🎯 I'm a private person. When I let you into my world it's because I have allowed it; if they don't want to get to know me it'll be your loss. INFJ Doorslam I wouldn't wish it on anyone not even myself.
It feels good to see an INFJ community in this comment section. Finally we are getting our similar types and got to share what always goes inside our minds..❣️
Well I'm an INFJ but I trust people easily. I just notice their flaws very quickly and end up staying away from them. I don't necessarily stay away because of their flaws but I just looove solitude😂 but yeah, I can't help but notice the flaws
I will sending this video to anyone asking me why I don't go out or around people like do you see what kind of society we live in, no thank you love my house and alone time
I think you should spend some time alone and ask yourself questions but don't spent all time alone, from what I know INFJ need time to reconnect with themselves. Also INFJ need socialize, they like to spend time with the ones that get them. Art help expressing yourself, you can write, dance, sing, paint, draw or even listening to something. You can get any kind of hobby that isn't harmful.
Underlying most of the listed traits is a great sensitivity to others' needs and feelings in addition to one's own. From that sensitivity springs vulnerability, a capacity to feel emotional pain, ergo withdrawal from judgment of those comparatively insensitive to pain. Those insensitive ones feel emotionally dull witted, uncaring, and hurtful, even to the point of seeming like wild ravening beasts. Who wouldn't recoil from that? So how many people can be trusted with one's heart and spirit? It takes time to let them show themselves. Once trust is established, the floodgates of friendship can open, cautiously at first, always watching for the signs of resistance, resentment, or envy. Plus, the superficial ha-has of acquaintanceship aren't worth the investment of energy and time compared to real Friendship. Life is too short to blow it away on triviality.
Yeah, I just can't say that to my friend in the school. I don't want to make them feel bad, but my acts say it all. She's full of drama, talks nonsense most of the time (e.g. backstabbing someone, mocking their looks, etc.) However, on April 15, I finally cut her off. I told her about all the things I can't bear with and that all I want is solitude and peace. I think, she's now paying respect to me. We still do talk on the things that are with value and worthwhile to talk.
INFP here and I kind of relate, too. But INFJs are something else. 😂 They’re hardcore, man. And they take independence and solitude to a whole other level.
I don't think I'm intense...hmm...The rest 100% though! I tried to take a nap earlier but started thinking about a new schedule I wanted to implement and then couldn't sleep because I was looking forward to putting it together... I may in fact be too weird for even an INFJ...
I’m an INFJ and the son of an INFJ. My whole childhood I wondered why my dad had only a handful of few close friends. Turns out, few could meet his exceptionally high standards and he mostly just wanted to be alone or with my mom. I turned about 23 and suddenly it all snapped into focus…
I always wondered why I didn't see much value in shallow friendships in school. I always preferred fewer friendships with more depth. Big groups made me feel uncomfortable, and without being able to connect with them, I felt lonely or unliked. Turns out, I'm apparently INFJ. Makes sense.
We hate snakes. And by snakes, we mean people with forked tongues, those who say and act differently when they’re in front and behind our back. The irony of it is, I love the animal snakes. 😂
Honestly I don't believe in this statistical data because they consider a certain number of population in a particular region and then apply it to the whole world, which is quite unfair and irrelevant
The reading people thing is rlly one of my instincts....I can easily read people's moves from the way I see them in my point of view...I easily know when someone feels embarrassed or what there feeling but the dnwfall is u know when someone is avoiding u just from one eye contact...It's easy for us to read people we know for a long time
Honestly, I think introverts in general can relate to these reasons. The less specific the harder it pertains to a specific individual. Therefore, creating the mass relatability most people feel from this post, thus gaining publicity. I genuinely believe these reasons aren't just for infjs yet claim as if they are to appeal to a community of people who feel as if "they're not like the rest". Remember not one person is like "the rest" because everyone is unique and even if they are like the rest, what's so bad about that? Don't you want to have people mutually understand you as you understand them?
I personnaly hate when a psychological analysis describe me perfectly. It took me 30 years to realized and accept that I am different and dificult. Dogs are my best companion and confident as I trust nobody!!😮
The trust part is 100% true for me. While I made two friends in my college, they had already called me their bestfriend while I was thinking of deleting their contact when college is over. It took me a year to become bestfriends with them. Now I can't live without them
Damn… I score high on this list. I haven’t taken the assessment yet, but it looks clear to me. Sometimes I judge myself harshly but are we in control of this type of thing? I’ve seen one channel where they discuss ways to mitigate damage so we can interact better. Kinda frustrating at times.
don't come to conclusions about your personality,,,just give a individual test with 60 questions,,,after I gave a mbti test ,then I got infj-a type,,,and above all 11 things fits me perfectly.
I shift between infj and intj, but i still have a good amount of close friends for an introvert. But mostly use them as my personal benefits lol, sorry guys.
I approve of all of these except the last one, and I think that's because I don't understand why I'm too intense for most people...I've never heard that
PSA: It's actually MALE INFJs who are the true unicorns of Myers-Briggs, and not us female INFJs... as much as that pains me to say. 😂 Just keeping it real! ✌️
Brainless AI narration. By the way, I'm an INFJ, but truly, the Myers-Briggs is only a bit better than astrology. It is informative but not defining. To all fellow INFJs, don't limit yourself, but also be true to yourself.
But we have deeper friendships. My friendships go back to age 2, age 3 .. and I continue to add deep lifelong friends through the years into my 60s now. My friends say they don’t have another friend like me, they don’t have the conversations with others that we have, they call me their best friend, their truest friend. Bc I love them, I care about them, I’m interested in them - who they really are - even though i don’t fully agree with any of them, share their politics or religion or whatever, I create space for them to be exactly who they really are. My friends mean the world to me. I don’t have any family - that is, no siblings and my cousins are older and live in other countries so I can’t talk with them and haven’t seen most of them for decades. Even my friends - we can be apart 10 years - coming together it’s like we were never apart. What I can’t get comfortable with is shallow relationships, shallow conversations, conformity, group think… 1000 empty faces on social media. Doesn’t mean I don’t have friends. It means that if I threw a big wedding for myself, I wouldn’t have a matching crew of women to pose for the photo.
@@emilyAmelie Darling, how old are you? 🙂 It means, that general experiences in life support that persons genetic predisposition/ predispositions. I'm not sure, if it helped in any way... . I tried, thou.. . Good luck to you. 🤨🙂
Funny part of being like this is that I'm always nervous and worry thinking about what my wedding day would looks like, who's gonna be my bridesmaid and who's gonna receive my invitation and fill the chair even tho I'm so single and not even have the urge to marry anyone in near time 😂
Interesting how bot voices choose between "read" = reed, present tense, and "read" = red, past tense. Yet another reminder of how problematic the English language is.
My partner and I are both infj’s. I’m a infj-A and he’s an infj-T . This video leans more towards my bf. We like being alone… together on our free time. Doing our own things. 😂 this is relatable.. I don’t have much close friends that really knows me but I’m an open book to most things. It’s too overwhelming sometimes.
I enjoy my solitude, but I can't understand respect why people like to be together. No judgment from me and I have so great friends who don't need my attention daily. I'm grateful
My first time testing in highschool I tested as an INTJ 10 years later I tested as an ENTJ and ten years after that ENFJ. My I/E and F/T are almost exactly 50/50 We'll have to see what happens in another 10 years 😉
'they "read"[reed.] people really well.' not past tense of "read" [red.]. that's for Google's CC department. "context, context, context".- Robert Sapolsky. " AI these days have deep learning, but not "deep understanding" or "contextual understanding".-Ben Goertzel in Cisco France's RU-vid video "From Deep Learning To Deep Understanding". ☮️🎶✨
Im most out of the box infj, being that I'm an ambivert and stretched my lil box into enfj-infp/enfp I was also -t -a, at times.. no wonder I'm misunderstood when I worked on adaptability and broadening my perspective too much, but it really feels most comfortable being infj, i just can't not care
Me? too patient since 2012 i guess ? 🤔 I dont like people who makes me hates them, once people making fun of my dad name at work what such a baby who bully father name . 😂 🤷♀️
