That’s what I’m like and I’m always focused and I’m a good listener and I was shy but I feel confident and my 5 little brothers call me smiley because I always smile when someone talks.
Absolute facts 💯!!! Lone wolves are strong and don't need a pack!! They stand alone and can survive the harshest climates and still remain strong!!!! Never underestimate the quiet ones!!!! You never know what strengths really lie within!!!!
Yes, As a quiet woman of 61 years, I've learned this behavior. Being quiet you learn more about those that surround you. I do think a lot. I do keep eye contact with those I engage in conversation with, out of respect, giving them my undivided attention. I am the last person to ask for help. Keeping my feelings and pain inside is how I've coped with it for far too many years. Opening up to my closest friends and family members hasn't been easy, but necessary. I'm not an angry person. Anger only erodes you from within. It serves no positive aspects in your life. Anger won't change anything. Only love can change things or people. God's love, and mercy are always available to anyone that seeks him.
As a silent person myself, I agree with this, I only have one true friend that has been with me since 2016. I get easily irritated by yappy people that's why I spend most of my time introverted. Being alone helps me think straight and avoid buzzkills 💯
@@pawekrawczuk6482 The reason, in reality and proven by psychology, is because most people are uncomfortable being around others who are quiet. It’s easy to blame others for their ‘shortcomings’ and insecurities. And it scares the hell out of them to be accountable. Don’t worry about them. Doing so can bring stress onto you which, as a quiet person, you don’t need nor want, hence the benefits and comfort of being quiet.
@@Alwande66 And because quiet makes people uncomfortable. Boring is their excuse as to why they are uncomfortable with silence. It’s a ‘they’ problem. Not a ‘quiet persons’ problem.
Thanks you for defining quiet people. I would add we are much stronger than you would observe or perceive. We persevere because the nature of quiet people is we have to carry on even when life is difficult but we can do it in a quiet way & surprise people with our abilities that they have never seen in us before.
I was shy and I didn’t like to go out from where there is many people and now I feel confident and I watch motivation videos to help me build my confidence more.
Mostly definitely YES... this is ME... I've been very quiet most of my life. I only talk a lot with people that I get comfortable with.... Then I never shut up!! 😂😅😂
*I'm a quiet kid in my new school....I have been studying their for 2 years but.... everyone thinks that I don't talk to anyone that means I'm a rude person🥺....whole class named me A RUDE GIRL....but I can't share my feelings with them🥺 and bcs of that everyone make fun of me....🥺*
It's ok, as you grow in confidence you will talk when you nred to and approach people naturally. One thing that helps is to smile, don't be afraid. I was a very shy child but always friendly & smiled at my peers and I ended up with a few very close friends by high school.q
I am alone, I don't have friends and in my opinion, in this world is worse to be a shy guy than a shy woman, because boys are supposed to initiate everything.
the 2,3,4,5,6,8,9,10,11th signs are so relatable based in my experiences but when I talk alot to the person I'm comfortable to, they just told me to shut up so in those times I'll be embarrassed and be quiet, sometimes I'm acting like a crazy person to make them laugh and its kind of embarrassing
I'm really sorry. That happens to me sometimes. You shouldn't pay attention to those things. And keep continue be crazy😂u will find the craziest one😂🎉and he will be ur friend after that.
This is me, but another reason why I'm so quiet is because of all the trauma I endure every day since childhood. I suffer from mental disorders that were aggravated during military service.
I’m one of these people, I am really loyal to my BFF April, she shows a lot of kindness to me and understanding, and as it said in the video, we don’t share our feelings much, but I’m so close with her that I only share them with her.❤❤
Yes, it's me. But I learned to keep eye contact, no more shy, and assure people of my firm confidence though hesitation hides in the bottom of my heart
all these points describe me and I use my quiet narrative head to write a screenplay in order to use it as an outlet to get rid of that extreme anger. but all the friends I once had have moved far from where I reside with no contact.
No, we don't THINK that no one will care about the pain in our heads. Most of us KNOW, from personal experience, that no one cares, especially the ones who claim the loudest that they are here for us and that we can talk to them. Trust me...we KNOW.
I am definitely a quiet person. I only have 2 close friends who I trust with my life. I'm normally calm but if you tramp my toes, all hell will break loose. That's me
This is true. I am a quiet person I have a friend in my school and she’s almost the only person that I talk to a lot But my mom thinks I have a problem
Sounds 100% like me with one exception. I have only one friend and want absolutely no more because it’s been my experience that some so called friends only want you as a friend in times of need like money
I agree with all but #6. I choose to not conclude things about my smile or laugh. That’s for others to decide. However, what others choose to decide about my smile and/or laugh has no bearing on my thoughts, sleep/wake patterns or my life as a whole. In other words, I don’t care. I’ve got more important things on my mind and in my life. But one I think should have been included. Everybody needs ‘alone time’, but being a quiet man for the reasons in this video, I cherish my alone time. I don’t just ‘take it when/if I can get it’. I make time specifically for my alone time. Peace. No outside stimuli I can’t control. It’s rest and recharge for me. Helps keep me grounded, including when I’m pissed. But other than #6, I agree and fit this to a tee. 💪👍👌
I get sick of people assuming I have nothing to say because I'm quiet. Nothing can be further from the truth. It's usually the ones who have diarrhea of the mouth that say nothing. Know-it-alls are irritating
Jeez this was 1of my best friends nicky until we went out with each other, I couldn't stand her anymore. I still miss her to this day has I was told her health isn't great since covid happened. I'd wished she had someone who was suited 4 her has I know she's 1 of the kindest souls I've ever met. I just wish Happyness 4 her has I love her has a dear friend and miss her to this day. Life can be cruel sometimes to the wrong people. I wish I could give her a hug has shes a special soul. Hopefully I see her again 1 day in this live or the next..
I remain very quiet myself I don't want to ask for help, even though I might desperately need it I hate to be a burden I do love and deeply respect all those around me. I believe in both God and Jesus
