11 SIGNS YOU’RE A SIGMA MALE (Women Love This!) 

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Real sigma males, never tell people, they are sigma.. we don't need validation from anyone Keep smiling, that never gets old

1 Don't follow authority "just because" 2 Stay real to self 3 Don't require social recognition/attention 4 Good listener 5 Take charge of your life 6 Small circle of friends 7 Not Afraid to step out of the norm 8 Introvert 9 Quiet 10 Flexible 11 You are Genuine 12 Confidence typo fixed thanks.

I don’t ever need to “attract women” or “make people like me.” If it doesn’t happen, then great; if it does, then great.

Paris! I just discovered you thanks to the topic. I think I'm a sigma male, which explains a lot regarding my desire for isolation and my ambitious pursuits. Thank you and Merry Christmas!

My dad died when I was 9. Joined Marines at 18. Change was constant for me. Adapt and overcome! And I don’t care what anyone thinks. I’m living life my way.

Thank you Melannie! Thinking for yourself is so important.

Thanks Melanie. Knowing this is really comforting 🙂

I am a very introverted LEO, LONE WOLF, SIGMA MALE, INTJ. I am very secretive and I only like to talk to someone who think like the way I think.

A new follower here ! Finally someone who gives serious advice without those toxic mindgames . Thank you . Sigma !

Going through a bad breakup with my first gf, your videos have been helping a lot. I trust that if I become the man I want to be god will give me the partner im looking for. Sincerely, thank you Melanie 🙏🏻🙏🏻❣

I just watched your video for the first time. I've watched many other videos on Sigms Males, and can say with confidence I'm a Sigma Male. One of the most frustrating things for me is people not understanding my personality (judging me). I look forward to watching more of your post. 😁

I like the part where you say we don't have to confine ourselves as a specific type. A good man responds to challenges according to the conditions and will do what he thinks is appropriate regardless of what others may think. Happy Christmas Melannie, and hope to see you in PARIS 😊

Thank you for this video and many others. Your friendly demeanor and infectious smile make them really enjoyable 😄 Paris!

Hi Coach Melannie!! The most surprising tip is: Being flexible. Somehow the routine give the feeling of success because you are walking on a "proven" path, and walking outside the path could make you anxious. Thanks for the tips. --------- Sure there are a lot of interesting places to visit in PARIS, but it would fun if you could find a store, a park or a company named SIGMA.

Melannie - Great video of sigma male. Produce more videos like this. Thank you!

PARIS!! You're so fun to watch, in addition to having good information.😀😀 You make me smile!!

I think we are all of these things.. but throughout the years society kinda dictates how we should be around people. We are influenced by cinemas, we aspire to become someone else to the point that we forget to be our genuine selves.. took me years to understand this. Great video btw I'm a fan! Been dissecting your videos lately

One essential trait of what makes a Sigma is that we are are deep thinkers so it’s in our best interest to weigh the effects of being genuine or not. If we choose not to be, in most cases it shows emotional maturity.

Great information all around Mel. Your authenticity shines. Like a warm blanket on a cold day. Keep it up ace. Would love to hear more of your perspective.

People don’t understand sigma males. That’s one reason we are lone wolves. Relationships are hard because we are “disconnected”

Merry Christmas to all. May your good wish come true. It's amazingly good (and also surprising I'm a pure sigma male) to hear that I'm all the signs that you've mentioned. But, I still understand I'm all equipped with equally big flaws as well. Life is hard for me now, but I will try to improve to survive better.

I 100% agree with you about the box. Let you identity come from deep knowledge of self, not any label from society. I don't like being boxed in at all (which ironically is a sigma trait) so when I randomly clicked on a sigma video, I was almost a bit annoyed how spot on most of the description was.

I watched to the end! Your personality is worth it and the subject matter is interesting.

Recently discovered the signa archetype and its helped explain a lot in my life...fascinating stuff

Hi Coach Melanie. I pop in & out of your channel. This SIGMA one caught my attention. I’ve always be called a Silent Alpha & Passive-Aggressive. The funny this is I just leaned that there’s designated terms that suit this - Sigma & Ambivert. These two terms fit me very well, not 100%. The traits are strong. I’m turning 50 y/o, Empty-nester & starting to actually pay attention to ladies that flirt or I’m paying attention to. I’m AM taking advantage of my Salt & Pepper scruffy beard; it works. I’m looking forward to hearing more on these two traits. You’re FUN to watch & listen to. | SF

Had to watch this for a second time and realized that your accuracy in your description is amazing .

You are doing great work Melannie. Love You.

Thanks for lots of great content on your channel.

Hello Melannie, Thank you for sharing the 11 signs you’re a sigma male. It is very nice to hear the great characteristics of them. You have an encouraging spirit and a positive attitude as a young lady. Paris. Have an outstanding day and God bless you! In Christ, Jonathan 😀

Feels nice to be appreciated. Thank you Melanie. First time I seen your face on a video and heard your voice, I was blown away by your attractiveness. Just saying. Glad you made this video. Now more people will understand why they are attracted to us sigma. It's great that you and social media is shining a light on sigmas that we aren't out to take over the world, or the dating market. We just need to be understood. We really just want the best for everyone. Paris. Great place to visit. I will myself, when I get there. And really look forward to it.

As a younger man, full of bravado (and aggression) I would have considered myself an “Alpha”, but now, as a middle aged man I very much believe I have transitioned to a Sigma - life experiences have turned me into one.

I have recently discovered that I am a sigma. One of the reasons is that I don't answer to the authority of the dating and relationship culture. I just 'am', and that works for me. Having _my_ standards instead of the _authority's_ standards keeps me safe. Timshel!

I like your advice to not put yourself in a box, no matter what the advice. I qualify as sigma and liked hearing that being introverted can be a good quality, yet I have taken charge of my life and have learned how to come out of my shell when it might benefit me. I will continue watching your videos, you seem very real, and genuine. The fact that I like looking at you because you’re drop dead gorgeous doesn’t hurt!

It makes sense all of a sudden. Thank you Lady

I really enjoyed your video. U have a great flow and are beautiful to watch. I hope this helps a lot of men out there. Thank you for making this vid. Paris

What "surprises" me is that I can't deny the fact that I am a sigma male. Just love your video ♥

I'm 100% Sigma, but I always felt like an Outcast !!!! I had lots of Girlfriends but I never got married or had children !!!! I never really knew why most women liked me very much !!!! But I love being on my own !!! I'm 68 years old and have my own place and 2 Dogs, and I couldn't be happier !!!! People have always not been able to understand me !!!! They think I'm very lucky but I just think before I do anything !!!! My 2 Dogs are my best friends and I don't want a Partner and I'm happy with no close friends !!!! Friends are always wanting money or want to borrow stuff and never give it back !!!! So I enjoy my stress free life and I don't regret still being single at all !!!!!

Sigma, Paris. (Just subbed btw) I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I show all of the signs listed in the video and I've been told that I have been the same for years. Marching to the beat of my own drum is how I like it.

Paris Baby! Thank you for what you do! You're Awesome! Merry Christmas!

Everything here seems to fit me perfectly. I mean all 11 signs mentioned in this video. 😉👍

I thoroughly enjoyed my college years, excellent social life, I found a wife, I even got my degree. But casual acquaintances were puzzled to learn that instead of attending University sporting events, or joining a fraternity, I spent my time with a bunch of fabulous furry freak brothers exploring caves and climbing mountains. However, on leaving college I somehow failed to get the memo and continued to live life my own way. Predictably, I failed to achieve notable success in corporate America or anything else. It's only recently, through discussions like this, that I learned that I may have a personality type that had little interest in that life style anyway. And that my “failure” wasn’t necessarily due to a pathological condition. I am gradually learning to be comfortable with my personal goals in life, but it's a work in progress.

That's crazy. My experience is that sigma male is not very popular by other people. Only a small amount of people, women, are able to apriciate a sigma male.

Paris Great content I just watched you for the first time I am going look forward to more content. Thank You 🙏🏻 ❤

I'm a sigma and I just wonna say you're doing great and everything right there was true.... you are exciting, attractive and you're personality shows a clean and pure heart🏆👸

Just learned recently that I am apparently this new category, the Sigma. I've always been the lone-wolf contemplator who doesn't care what others think. I've been known to knock Alphas down a peg when I see them picking on others. This is truly interesting and explains a lot about why I have such a small inner circle and friends list.

The boxing yourself in advice is top notch advice. 👌

Paris bbe! 🔥Keep rocking with your content!

Ever since I started following the Lord and reading his word I am seeing that all the sigma male traits mentioned define my character exactly. God changed me from the insecure and mentally unstable person that i used to be and restored my life and character to how it should be before I was rebelling against my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. The peace I have doesn't come from my self but it comes from him.

Attractive to women? Who cares? Ignore them. Be attractive to yourself! Seek self actualization based upon your view of yourself and your accomplishments! Men need to stop basing their self image and validation on whether or not women like them, are attracted to them, find them desirable, accept them, go to bed with them, or anything. Find your validation elsewhere. We all change. We all have seasons of life and we can be much different in each season. Women , like all of us, also change as they age. The woman who loves and desires you today may feel the opposite in two months, two years, or two decades. Whatever the time period when she utters the phrase "I'm not happy!" your life as you knew it is OVER. The system gives her the power, even just on a whim, to remove you from your house, your possessions, your career, and even your children. Many women do just that. Seek peace, quiet, and freedom as a famous man I much admire has said. Seek self sufficiency and avoid marriage or cohabitation at all costs. Learn to be impervious to women and their games to entrap you. Learn the discipline to look right through them, not at them. Extra points the more attractive the woman is. Ignore her. She has no power over you unless you give it. Withhold that power. Men, do not ever take advice from women especially one younger or much younger than you with far less life experience.

Paris. Thanks for the video! 👏🏻

Thanks lady. Gives me confidence in my mission for success. I don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings.

Hey Melannie, I am Sigma. Most people around me thought I was a pain in gluteus. Even when I was 4 years old. I will be 67 in a few days. He are a couple points, based on my extensive experience. Sigmas are NOT introverts or extroverts, they are almost perfectly even. According to my results on the Myers Briggs analysis I am almost perfectly neutral. Usually I am slightly an ENTJ, but sometimes depending on my mood, the score comes out INTJ. The next thing about Sigma is emotional reactions. It is very hard to get our pulse up. After a few repetitions working with live high voltage my pulse stopped reacting. Stock market trades of several thousand dollars does not make much difference. Meeting a very beautiful woman helps raise my pulse a little. A point you did not mention is honesty. I think most Sigmas cannot tell lies very well. We tend to despise liars. And lastly, I have heard more confessions than Father O'Malley. Both men and women just tell me things they never said to anyone else. Often someone has said to me "I don't know why I'm telling you this, but..." True Sigmas are believed to be very rare. Perhaps less than 2 percent of all males. I believe the idea of Sigma in sports is way over stated. But, one player on a baseball team is Sigma. Guess who? He's the closer, in the 9th inning. So, just give me the ball, Coach.

I never thought I would ever hear anything about my personality type. But when I heard the description if Sigma I was blown away. They are discribing ne exactly. I am 64, btw. Anyways, there are about three things that all of them are missing in general, or about me in particular. They are exceptionally candid and communicative with their partner. They are very creative. They do talk about this, but they don’t stress it as much as it should be. Third, and this is the biggie, and none of them have noticed this. Sigmas are in touch with their feminine side. That means they are balanced and are very empathetic and connect well with women, and in fact prefer conversation with women in social settings because women are more interested in important issues, whereas men typically only talk about sports.

Sigma! Great video. Thank You! I discovered about 4 months ago I am a Sigma-INFJ. I wish I had new this earlier in life than learning it at 49yo. And I hope you make it to Paris one day! ✌🏻

Paris. Love the video. Thank you again!

Thank you Melannie for the positive information, I am a Sigma and many people misjudge me, but you gave me a moral support on what I am 🤩

For all you sigma males who don't want to wade through 14 minutes of video, I looked up the list online. 1. Unresponsive to Authority 2. Happy in Solitude 3. Adapts Easily to Change 4. Treats People Equally 5. Quiet and Contemplative 6. Self-Reliant 7. Great Self-Awareness 8. Marches to His Own Beat 9. Often Mysterious or Enigmatic 10. Flirts with Danger 11. May Lack Social Skills First of all, I wouldn't say "unresponsive to authority," but rather not intimidated or bothered by it. Also, I'd say we are quiet and contemplative, but many have learned to be assertive and in control in a crowd, party, while lecturing, or speaking, etc. We adapt. We don't shy away from people because we are innately introspective. We learn how to overcome that weakness to become an introverted/extrovert. Peace, INTJs!

These observations are correct. Good work. 👏

Paris! Thanks for your content!

You really lit up a smile on me when I found out you are a Christian dating coach and not just a dating coach. God Bless you.

There's no secret to being a sigma male, it's just a way off life!

Thanks, Melannie for another great video! I would love to hear more videos for sigma males! Wow, you would be a Rockstar going to Paris! 😅🎉😊🎊🤗

I really am intrigued by your description

The Secret to being a "sigma" male is don't try to be a "sigma" male. When the love is real and genuine the sigma will become automatic. You will not have to think about it, little effort will be needed. If you need to work your way to being a so called sigma then you don't understand what love is and what power it can bring.

Not to worry about others things is one of the easiest things in life, just realize the one fact. Other people´s opinions are neither valid nor relevant in regard to you or whatever you do. All that matter is what you think of yourself, what you do and you have to stay true to that no matter what. You will inevitably hit a lot of people on the head as they can´t handle this, there is no "compliment" manipulation possible, no sweet talk, no other vomit inducing socializing garbage to make you "agreeable". You are just who you are, others have to accept that or get lost. Which adds another layer however... or it´s just a me thing cause i am natural born loner, you just simply do not value or see much point in relationships, you kinda take what is beneficial and bugger off afterwards as they make me feel restricted and i can´t have that. Also there is never a "we" in my thought or care, i can team up with people if i consider it beneficial to do so, but never to do something i could do on my own just to have company and never am i "part" of a team or whatever. I am always an outsider by choice and like to keep distance. Another thing i genuinely have issues with is, authority, which follows in with the first point. I have to do what i have to do no matter what and other peoples opinion or thoughts on that are not relevant. That doesn´t make me good at following orders nor follow standards (only if both fall in line with that i think is best, in which i just "follow" by accident). However neither been a fan of applying rules/standards on others as i prefer people using the grey matter in their heads and get stuff down without others telling them step by step how to. One reason i am also highly annoyed by chicks with "daddy" issues.... i do not want a sub that needs me to tell her what to do in every part of life, grow up and learn to tie your own shoes or else i can´t even take you serious let alone consider you anything but obsolete. Short part, sigma´s are pure chaos in what is a rule/standard loving society, and we are alpha´s worst nightmares as they want to lead/apply rules for others but there is nothing they can do to make us follow or even care. Beta´s are confused as for them anything we do seems easy and natural but we don´t want to have them "follow" us as "groupies" and praise our every move, that is an alpha thing. Odd´s are no sigma is ever going past situationships.. it would be against their very nature and the vast majority of women (that i got to know) would ever be able to keep a sigma interested, or fit´s his way of life. However... you will attract a lot of women and even so you don´t care about most you have ample opportunity for casual fun if you so desire, just be warned a lot of chicks can´t handle you as you will not follow her expectations, neither will you give in an inch, are highly resilient to manipulation and even blackmail attempts won´t even bother you in the slightest. Existing "outside" of society, yet doing what you do and be successful doing so, you will never "feel" to be part of something/with someone and are generally pure chaos wherever you step your foot into. If you don´t have your own business but are employed then good luck, if you have a superior with any brain activity he/she will realize it´s best to let you do what you do without ever asking questions and not look to close what rules you follow or break cause doing both is part of your nature. Have a boss that tries to "get you in line"... both of you will end up bashing their heads with each other without anyone giving in an inch, you are likely to find another job as this one is restricting you and expecting the worst from you, sell out on yourself to "do" as someone else wants. Oh and one additional happy thing, you will find it hard to understand nowadays society and the addiction of many to complain/waste time over the most trivial of things (specially on social media). You are like an alien among people, the sooner you understand that the happier you will be, try not to blend in it won´t work and you will just hate yourself trying. Focus on what you want from life and pursue it, if you do that you will be a force of nature that gets forward no matter what. (you are likely to however walk over many "corpses", not literally but mentally speaking, not that you care either way. People just dislike/hate something they can neither understand, nor make to comply or get to be agreeable)

You really make a lot of sense and are fun to listen to. What a beautiful combination like being in Paris and in LOVE. OH MY@!!! Truth is like a bell, and it resonates with a feeling that an empath Sigma just knows, and you have it. Congratulations, great review!!!

First time watching and listening to one of your talks , I’m subscribed now also , and course I liked

As a christian sigma male, i obey God as my authority and proclaim his name to the world

There are a lot of self proclaimed alphas and sigmas out there. Live outside these boxes and rise above it

Love your positive attitude. Very nice to see in this youtube universe.

Nice video... Really appreciated ur observation.

Real men love Jesus

I'm not Christian and stumbled across your video. I like your advice and really enjoyed your demeanor.

I love the way you speak and explaining very confident I really enjoy listening to you and I've learn a lot about sigma males thank you ma'am!

You were talking simplicity earlier and the is the key to Paris and Disneyland and what your bubbly attitude seems to be about. "Girls just want to have fun" . You should I ne with it and I hope you keep it. Enough said.

My grandson is 21 and attends the University of Miami on a football scholarship. During the winter break, he sent me a pic of him and his lady friend from Lake Tahoe. I explained to him how traveling to other places and especially overseas can expand the mind. It gives you a perspective of respect and appreciation of what you know and already process. I told him in time to come, visit Paris among other locations as well. I was born in Japan and grew up there until 11 years old. Later on in life, I was fortunate to lived and visited other places around the world that instilled other sigma traits as well, (not to mention my parental up bringing). The oriental culture gave me the gift of various traits you shared in the video that sigma males have. As an example, being the "quiet one" is not a bad thing. Knowing how to read a room or person with respect, honor and communicate with confidence are fundamental traits sigmas have. I appreciate your video and hope that others do the same.

Very good miss or Mrs, not labelling yourself is a step towards self reliance.

I do enjoy your smile at how your face lights up and your input

Thank you so much for sharing!

i was already starting to think "here we go again" when i read the title, so it's a good thing that you explained not to get to caught up in this terminology. i don't perfectly fit your description (no friends), but i relate to it the most. so i would like to see more "SIGMA" videos. these were excellent tips once again. you should definitely go to Paris, lot's of things to see and food to try there. i only wished there were less tourists, but if you like Disneyland, then you probably wouldn't mind

Thanks and your smile is contagious! Yeah more Sigma videos I’m flattered 😂

Great advice thank you for the info.

Thanks, Melannie Coach , I love you 😊 .❤

👍🏽👍🏽thank you!! Word for the day was Paris

I am gladI found you! Good job. PARIS

Another great video!!!! A trip to Paris will do you well!!! Take care!!!🙏

That smile always gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside - every single time :)

Paris. Thumbs up. Loved the video.

New to the channel and I enjoy it.

I discovered last year that I'm a sigma! great video!

Of course, you are absolutely right...just as I calculated...God bless you...🙏🇺🇸❤️

I enjoyed your video Paris!

I'm a sigma male :) thank you SO MUCH for this video

This woman does not understand what a real Sigma make is. She is describing her ideal man but these qualities aren’t necessarily Sigma traits. ❤❤❤❤

We are not just listening but we are analysing everything you are saying.

Honestly, I've been missing the opening, "Hello, my wonderful friend..." for a bit now. It always put a big smile on my face. Still love your videos though, regardless.

Thanks for the advice, have a winsome time in Paris

mad love for you, thanks!

Hi Melannie. Thanks for this video about Sigma. More info would be great...Paris