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Melannie, how do you handle it if the man who you are trying to help falls for you? That's a very common issue when one gender seeks to help out someone from the opposite gender.
@@Anthony-yy3kc I get it, man. Coach Melannie and other women who give dating tips are providing a service, and that is a business. I learned a long time ago feelings and business should be kept apart, it's a big mess when you mix them up.
I am struggling with a particular situation right now in my life and I'm trying so hard to understand myself and the situation I'm going through. I keep messing things up due to my lack of communication and understanding and I'm not sure that my partner understands why I have been screwing up everything lately. I'm not trying to hurt her, push her away, disrespect her, manipulate her, etc and I feel like that's what I've been doing. I'm honestly just misunderstanding what's being brought to my attention because I haven't dated or been in a relationship for over 10 years. Can you please give me some advice and help me with my unfortunate situation and help me to get it back on track again? I don't want to loose her I need and want each other to be happy and prosper together.
1. She will be where you are. 2. She will complement you. 3. She will playfully flirt with you. 4. She will want to look nice for you. 5. She will try to look nicer when you are around. 6. She will say you both should do things together. 7. She looks for ways to talk to you.
If she has a long ring finger. 8 heads length tall body proportion, broad shoulders, speak in a broken or deep pitch voice. S H E is not pursuing you..run run fast away.
Yes. It's gotta be the same type of interest though. Both of you have to feel the same way for each other in order to make it work. Men are visual and observers. We see the woman that we want and go out to at least say something or pursue her. If a woman in general out of the ordinary pursues the man, it has to be that same magnetic attraction. Therefore it's easy to not hesitate and ask her out. 😍❤
PURSUE and SUNSET. All seven signs are spot on and us men should look for all of them. The one that interested me the most is her being where I am all or most of the time. That would grab my attention. I hope you and your family are all feeling better. Thanks for another good video. God bless and please have a great weekend. 🙏
That's a great sign! And super common so it's a good one to look for. I'm so glad you enjoyed the video! Thank you SO MUCH for your kindness and support 🙏
I haven't seen or even known if she's been around. I'm not psychic, I can't know unless I have some kind of notification to make me allert. It could be anybody
@@CoachMelannie it's hard to see inside a vehicle... I need a CLEAR SIGN to let me know when it's a good time to be aware of THEIR PRESENCE please. She probably thinks I'm ignoring her and that's not it at all. I just haven't known when and if she's been around
More signs please. You explain it well. I enjoy it all the way through, thanks for sharing this wisdom. Your material is re-watch worthy and very helpful on my exciting journey of love. Oh the joy.
I think this girl like me at work. Im not to sure tho. One day I stopped her n her tracks without saying a word and she asked me something work related and kind of lingered by. Then the other day she walked up on me to tell me to tell my coworkers that some type of enrollment was goin on then walked away and laughed a lil but we locked eyes on a different level, what do you think coach
Melannie - thank you. I have no need to pick up on these signs (any more)... What you describe played itself out thirty years ago, and I can see that it still holds true today...
Nice tips. Never tips about when a guy goes into a store she works at, but can't talk because she has to keep waiting on customers. But she keeps talking until I have to leave.
Sunset. I don’t see many sunsets. I see plenty of sunrises as I am a greenskeeper at a local golf course. We usually start working before sunrise. Often before first light. I don’t have a preference. 🌅 😊
And then when you do ask her. She pulls away... Endless games. Because she's testing how much are you interested.... Okay. I am putting my heart out and she's playing with my emotions. 🤷
Here’s the thing, I’ve told her I have feelings for her but told me we’re just really friends. Then after a few months, these signs you mentioned shows up from time to time. Kinda confusing
Pursue. Sunset, because usually when I see a sunrise I'm working a night shift. I hope all is going well. I sometimes worry I'm being creepy when I pursue.
Sunset. My favorite time of day is sunrise. PURSUE I appreciate all the topics that you cover and the enthusiasm in which you discuss. They really do help.
Good video, Coach. 🌅 I like sunsets because after that I get to rest, sunrises are good but usually I see them when driving to work, so I don't dwell on them much. Hope all goes well with your family 👍
I thought I seen the most beautiful SUNRISE earlier in my day today, but I couldn't tell if it was a SUNRISE or a SUNSET... I want to see it again today but I need a heads up so that I know what I'm looking for.
Coach melannie l would like you to help me and connect to me one white girl friend . l would like to date her start serious relationship am 38yr of age and cocholote black guy , l prefer white girl to move on.
I love a summer sunset weather I'm on a power walk or on a date they are my favorite. :) I hope the family is doing good and thanks for another great video.
“Some guys are trying to hard but he don’t try at all though” - Taylor Swift This lyric is pretty self explanatory. Coming from someone who has built her music career based on relationships, simply put, I don’t have to chase, I attract.
I don't know how many people here live in California (especially southern California like I do)... But we have a 60% divorce rate so long lasting relationships isn't really our motto... lol... On the 1-10 scale im like a 5... Gorgeous women who are 7's or higher don't date out of their league here... They just don't... A lot of shallow women... If you're a 5 like me there's no way you'll get anything above a 4 or 5 which is why im 36 and have been single for 6 years because I admit im just as shallow as the women here are... I care about looks but im not that good looking which creates a problem... I dated ONE very gorgeous woman and ever since then that's all I want to go after... The biggest excuse women use here are the classic lines like "I have a boyfriend sorry" or the REALLY mean ones will just flat out say "No thanks"... Im telling ya if anyone here is from southern California back me up on this!!! Im not saying your techniques and advice don't help Melannie... But come here and I PROMISE you will never see an unattractive guy with the attractive woman of their dreams or vice versa... And if you do see it that guy definitely has MONEY because when I dated that gorgeous woman... The supposed "love of my life" I made a LOT and I mean a LOT of money... As soon as I was fired and the money was gone... She split... But that attraction to gorgeous women stuck with me still to this day and I won't settle... I suppose that makes me no better than the shallow women HERE... But I want a long lasting relationship with a gorgeous girl or id rather have NO relationship at all... Im really NOT that bad looking... Im average... But I want at least a 7 ya know?
Thanks for the video. Can you make some videos for Divorced, older men, that have divorce baggage, and how overcome that, etc. Also, what apps, etc, do you use to make your videos, and how do you make your videos? Reason ask, is that I'm high functioning autistic, survived a stroke that had 1 year ago, and got divorced, etc. So with that background, I am thinking of doing inspirational, hopeful, Vlog videos, of me doing inspirational, hopeful videos, how to do origami, how to dance, karaoke singing, video game walkthrough, etc, videos. But I don't know how to do videos. The best I have figured out so far is using screen capture video recording, which is good for video game walkthroughs, and karaoke singing, but not for Vlogs, Vblogs. Also, once I do figure out how to do videos, what are some video making tips, and how market, attract, steer people to videos. Sunset videos would also be great. I like Sunsets more then sunrises.
Here’s where I’m at.. there were/are 2 ladies I had been getting vibes from like this.. both attractive to me so yea kinda excited.. both coworkers.. first one for a few months constantly greeted me excitedly said my name out loud… she literally yelled my name from afar to say hi… I never saw her do this for anyone else…and always had a smile on her.. she did do the mirroring thing I noticed… I’m a shy guy.. introvert mostly.. I may have looked sad or bummed out.. maybe mad.. it’s how I look.. I can’t change that.. shed from time to time ask why I’m not smiling at her.. I honestly just didn’t know how to react with her because at the same time I was hiding feelings for her... she’d frown and tell me I’m making her feel sad.. I’m like.. I’m not sad lol. Really and I’d smile because it at the same time felt like her way to make me smile.. idk. She’d playfully tease me from time to time too, very sarcastic… and yea as mentioned over time I caught feelings for her… it was killing me not knowing how to go about it.. I told a coworker bud of mine about it., he told me she’s married.. you gotta let it go etc.. maybe she’s just in a rough patch at home and she chose me to release some of that tension and get my attention.. of course I was heartbroken but.. literally right after telling me this.. it seemed she just completely 180’ed and I wasn’t the center of attention anymore.. I get hellos from her but it’s not what it used to be.. how it used to be.. not standoffish but not excited anymore.. this one killed me for a time because I had fallen for her.. got hit right in the gut.. you know when you see a cute puppy or for those that have dogs that you love at home… you come home and you greet them excitedly because you’re happy to see them? that’s how she greeted me a lot.. and it completely changed.. like she’s downplaying it.. made me think maybe my bud mentioned something to her about me catching feelings and him knowing she was married was looking out for me.. and that was the end of that 😕 Next.. other girl.. she’d been seeing someone else for close to 2 years so I never looked to pursue.. she was always just a coworker friend.. she’d always come across as flirty, her demeanor.. playing with her hair while talking to me and others so we all just took it as.. it’s her… not long ago she ended things with guy she was with.. and we’ve chatted.. more and more it seems I get these flirty vibes… playing with her hair, non stop smiling.. she blushes a lot when we’re talking.. has been very curious about what I’m doing on days off, when I’m off, what I do for fun.. when’s my birth day.. I’ve kinda tried to test things out… does she prolong conversation… she reaches out for sure.. I could be working and she’ll come by me and look to make eye contact to grab my attention to chat.. everytime she’ll come and chat with me.. seemingly about nothing but hey I’m curious too… when she’s leaving she’ll walk by me unnecessarily just to say bye… but she’ll stop and chat with me sometimes even ignoring that she has to be off… when she’s walking away she keeps turning back to me as she walks off.. almost get the sense she wants to give me a hug or wants me to go with her… but again.. with her it’s sooo difficult because a lot of how she communicates with me is how she does with most guys unfortunately… not everyone but it’s definitely something a few of us have noticed.. This is all very recent.. wish me luck 🙏
I don't 100% buy the awesome muscles comment. I'm sure it's true sometimes but in my case it always turned to be her just trying to manipulate me into doing something she didn't want to do. Just be on the lookout for this headfake, brothers, look for other additional signs to corroborate before moving in...
okay, Sign 1 could also be missinterpretated as "stalking". At least i would call it that way, when a woman, who is into me, is constantly shadowing me. The only thing i would have to say to her is to stop following me
Good day. Been a while since I watched a video. Just one question... I recently asked a lady out for coffee and she said yes and said that I should surprise her with the place for date one and she will get the coffee for date two nr.2 So if that is a good thing for a second date, what's the next light step?
Women are not a priority to a Sigma male. A Sigma male does not pursue or chase women. It is what it is. He is good at what he is currently doing.🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷
Hey Melannie, so the girl I like just did something new to her hair and posted it on social media so messaged her to say how nice it looked. I was thinking she probably won’t get other guys sending her a message about it so it would make me stand out. Does telling a girl her looks nice mean more to her than what I realise and will it help my chances with her
Technically the sun is stationary and doesn't move so I'd have to say it's more correct to think of it as an earthrise or earthset as opposed to a sunset or sunrise because the earth is the one moving around the sun. Guess I'll go with the sunrise since I like beginnings of things vs. endings.
yes but how do you get a woman that already likes you ? i kept getting rejected by all the women that liked me, so its noo use knowing she likes me if i cant get a date.
Hi I just want some advice on what should I do with girl I like so anyway we met at a course where learn a language anyway since the second day of the course she sat next to me keep in mind I didn’t go there the first day anyway she’s been sitting beside basically the whole month and she keeps talking to me a lot she keeps asking a lot of questions and I ask her abit aswell yesterday she asked me if I wanted to go to macdonalds to eat with her and I obviously agreed because I have a crush on her anyway I wasn’t really hungry so she asked me if it would be better if we got donuts instead and I payed for the whole thing and she kept thanking me and she told I am too nice and she told next time let’s go to macdonalds and she would pay on my behalf and she start conversations with me over text but it’s not a lot like we do in real life and there was this one time where she asked for my number so does she have a crush on or not plz answer
So scientific... 😂😂 At least you can definitely say that you are entertaining with how you select your words. As for the question: I prefer a sunrise, but I would rather be asleep when it comes up. Lol I definitely enjoy both, especially living in the mountains. I love when the sky is full of color, but the mountains are silhouetted. I am not saying the name of the one that comes later in the day yet, because it belongs in my story. Before I get into that though, how's that family health issue going Melannie? Hoping it's gotten a lot better. Now it's story time: Today we find the blessed hippopotamus out on his porch. He of course is painting a picture of his puppies and eating apples. His friend pufferfish shows up with a couple boxes. His friend pufferfish asks if he has any bananas, before showing him what's inside the boxes. He goes inside to see if he has any bananas, and the doorknob falls off in his hand. The bananas are green. He decided to go to the store. He gets there and finds that the store has a sign that says 200k. He asked an employee about it and learns that they are very close to their two hundred thousandth customer. He grabs what he needs and heads to the checkout. An alarm sounds and balloons and confetti drop from the ceiling. He's the two hundred thousandth customer. As a reward they give him the entire collection of Star Wars movies, and a basket of snack foods including popcorn and jellybeans. He gets home just in time to find his friend pufferfish walking onto the porch with the guitar he bought in a previous story and two cups of hot chocolate. Pufferfish begins to play a song as they enjoy the sunset. Once the sun sinks into the western horizon, he says "I almost forgot. What did you bring over?" Inside one box was a navy blue lamp, and inside the other was a picture of them together. He placed both items on the end table beside his couch.
Sunset! I love sunrises. Especially in the mountains by a stream getting ready to fish. When you go outside the grass has just a kiss of frost across it and as the sun begins to show itself you can see the frost change from white crystals to clear water and then to steam as the moisture evaporates and leaves behind a chill in the air and a foggy mist on the ground. Then the sun crests the horizon and the shafts of light that find their way through the trees hit you warm and your skin. All while Mother Nature paints the sky with Purples ,oranges, and firey reds that eventually fade into the Blue sky of a new day... Thats my favorite.
PURSUE. Man so many signs that I missed in the past lol. Thanks for opening my eyes coach. I hope it helps me miss out on less opportunities in the future
I have run into a woman 5 times at my bus stop. the 3rd time she touched my arm. the 4th time she held my arm and didn't let go. the 5th time she held my hand and then held both her hands out for me to hold, which I did. coach Melanie, is this a big green flag ? please confirm, it sure looks like it. love all your advice !
Hi Coach Melannie!! I have a question. What about sharing something she is eating, like some snacks? Or What about if she ask him to share his snacks? Thanks for your advices. ---------- I like SUNSETS because somehow it calm you down after a hard day and a lot of stress. Somehow the SUNSET tell me: This day is over, maybe a lot of things you were not able to accomplish, but now you need to relax, save your energies for tomorrow.
How about is the check delivery person that comes from this place called APS and she put a picture framed it a picture of her face smiley and said APS on underneath it it meant it don't Protective Services
I rarely had girls pusue me...usually, it's me on the chase...i just wish they would be obvious...I don't speak hint well...at least give me an opening....
Why am I having trouble fitting in the word pursue into a sentence. I keep seeing the hind disappearing into a forest, the darkness beckoning before the coming sunset. I prefer sunsets, as for the most part the colours build, while at the same time they fade to dusk. While a sunrise heralds a new day, perhaps a new beginning. There’s all the promise of more. Then all at once, there’s the kind of majesty only nature can summon. Or the sun pops over the horizon and there’s merely more light than a few minutes before.
good tips Melanie. All too often Woman flirt in a subtle way that Men do pick up on. Men will act on it, but in turn they brush off our advances, 😭. More signs a Girl is Pursuing you, Coach ❤
Sunset! So sunsets are beautiful to me as the sky is that hazy orange. It’s also the name of my street so I’m glad I watched until the end. And I have a song that I made by the same name…so thank you for the inspiration and the confirmation that I think someone is actually slyly pursuing me!
