How to tell if the lady you care about is being sincere with you, or if she might be working for a criminal organization. #thailand, #korat, #isan, #retire, #scam, #scammer, #dating, #thaigirl, #culture.
I'm similar in that I've seen all the scams and many women are immoral. This said, I know there are unicorns among them, they're just few and far between. Being very careful is the way.
Absolutely agree...all the women are just simply gold diggers. they only think of men as ATM.. all the men in this world we don't deserve all of this ..we are precious and mens life is not just piece of ways to provide ...No relationship in this world is worth it...men stay single ,enjoy your freedom and don't waste your precious life's for anyone who's is not worth because then there is no point in living everyday with nothing but just regrets...Men deserve respect and good life..
I wonder how the culture became corrupted this way. I believe it started during the Vietnam war when GI’s would pay girls for services. From then, an industry developed centered on exploiting foreign men. It’s really too bad because Thailand was probably a paradise that became poisoned by lust for money.
Started chatting with a Thai woman through Line. After infrequent texting back and forth for a week or so things got strange. She said she worked In a jewelry factory and she offered to send me some Thai jewels through the mail for my mother for mother's day in America. HUGE RED FLAG. I politely declined and chatting continued for about another week. She then said she was visiting family in her village for a wedding and said she was going to markets and she offered to buy some Thai silk to send me for my mother to make a shirt or a dress. What type of stranger offers to send jewels in the mail and then silk? This was clearly a grooming activity to see how receptive I would be to receiving items in the mail. I strongly suspected the items at the outset or future items would be Incredibly illegal items or packages that I was supposed to not open and deliver to someone else in my area. No. goodbyes no pleasantries just simply blocked her, as doing so was in my best interest. Always keep them in mind gentlemen when talking with someone keep your best interest at the forefront.
If you meet a girl in a bar, she (and her bar friends) will say she's been working there only a day or two, or that she's only a receptionist. Another point is Thais will very rarely go against each other on your behalf. I spent ten months in Bangkok and have known plenty of Thais in California. There're two types of people I am wary about trusting politicians and people I meet while traveling.
I think the first sign a Thai Lady is a scammer is the fact that she's a THAI LADY! Sorry if this sounds like a coverall but I've had some experiences... Just go on dates as you wish but don't let your heart get too involved.
1 don't get married. 2 don't invest in businesses 3 don't buy property. 4 don't lend money for anything. If you catch onto the fact that you are being scammed play along until they provide you with something you value and then dissappear 🙌 I've got a nice new motorbike and a new girlfriend in a new town 🤡. Thanks Terak👋🖤
Hi Robb. I enjoy your videos and best of luck with the channel. I think this sort of thing Hass to be put in context. Personally I lived here for over 13 years and I don’t believe I’ve ever been scammed once. I’ve had ladies steal some small money and possessions from my room, but that’s it. But there again I never meet ladies online. maybe that’s where the problem stop. You can just meet ladies in a regular date go to Waze on the wrong for the problem. Thailand really is a wonderful country with a very low crime rate.
To all my viewers- I want to emphasize: I am not saying most Thai ladies are scammers. Only that scammers can be very skilled, and they have a habit of getting to newcomers here ahead of the genuinely nice Thai ladies.
I been FaceTiming a lady from Bang Lamung. She’s very open about what she does. I ask about her night outs with the girls at the bars in Pattaya and her job at the Spa. Well I don’t really ask about the job, I know massage industry is very sketchy stuff. We were cool, but lately she’s been hanging up on me without saying good bye and she’s be online frequently without answering me. Very strange behavior, anyway. I thought maybe she has a guy out there now and she has to choose between the guy overseas and the guy just minutes away or something. Also, she gets very upset when I post photos of me and my daughter on social media. I don’t understand that kind of behavior. She knows I have two kids. Anyway, super complicated woman all of a sudden. I was planning a trip, but I’m canceling now. I feel like it’s a waste of time.
@@resetwithrobb One thing that caught my attention too is she didn’t text me back or FaceTime me for 3 weeks. Not until I posted a photo of my daughter and I meditating at the park. I thought she was a Buddhist herself, but I don’t think there are any genuine Buddhists in Thailand. If there are, they’re probably out of sight and out of mind. A part of me still wants to visit and only 3 reasons I would go is to verify who this woman is and see her lifestyle. The other two reasons is to visit with students from our school and see how they are doing. The last would be to just travel and say “I’ve been to Thailand” lol. Other than that, I think one visit is good enough for me.
People seem so focused on chasing tail... I don't get it. I just live and for better or worse they always seem to be around. I'm here for travel and life experience. It doesn't include trying to text and figure out a woman. People are strange to me.
Yes. Of course many are freelance scammers, but it’s not uncommon to. Run across a professional group led my one man. The brick and mortar school was the part that absolutely shocked me.
My bank says there is and canceled me. I just had some questions on withdrawals. And told her I was in a shotgun wedding sort of. Within 2 weeks I'm living in mother's house and paying everything 😅
Years ago, I read a blog post by a guy who lived in Thailand for many years. He stated that he would NEVER even seriously date a Thai girl. Why? Because they lie as a general rule. Apparently (like China) if a lie works, it is morally "good." There is no stigma attached to lying in Thailand. It's like a place where the rules of physics do not apply - crazy.
I am Thai and when I was in the university. I had to interview some foreigners for my project. And yes, that farang said fk off you hooker while i was dressing in a university uniform. nothing sexual. It was really disappointing and dishearthening.
Well what i did was to play them at their own game!!!! I had 3 to 4 girls on the go , just like the Thai girls will do !!!! I just weed out the wrongons!!! And end up with the honest one….
@rhh176 those odds are probably about right ,IME. Probably looking at screening at least a few hundred to maybe way more online profiles to find a good traditional lady to care for you if that’s what you want.
According to the multiple universe theory there is a universe out there where beautiful young loyal honest thai women are madly in love with us , sending us money and buying us houses......we just inhabit the wrong one.
Curious. When did the scam you referred to happen? On an exploratory visit? Or after you left the US and began the process of settling in Thailand... and if the latter, was it in Jomtien/Pattaya, or in Korat and environs?
I don't know why ppl don't ask around about the person they are interested in. Find a 3rd party friend that speaks Thai and English and go to the person you likes neighborhood. Ask about the person's family reputation while your at it.
Hey there's a Thailand lady giving classes to younger girls teaching them how to get a man hooked and how to get them to give them money it's crazy lol lol
I think many of these scams are so surface level because there are so many guys willing to hand out money. I’ve had maybe two Thai women try lazy scamming with me. The one that I still talk to is a 25 year old Pattaya night club girl. Not bar girl, she enjoys doing it for free too much. But her requests for money are so lazy “I sick, I cannot work”. I just say something like “ah, I hope you get well. See you when I’m back in Thailand!”
Money number one, money still number one, and a fool in paradise, and if you still go after reading those books, then it’s your own fault for putting your wallet through extreme pain LOL. That jet black hair and that ready smile turns into a hissing snake
No bro she scam me over a phone. I was in America and she was in Thailand we been in a relationship for 2 years and never see her. After 2 years she blocked me on everything and someone told me that she has new husband.
Oh that is terrible. They scam many people here. If you come here, you can show all your texts to the police- that is typically investigated here as a crime and they can go to jail. I am very sorry for your experience.
@@markmoo3837 Typical in how they deal with farangs when they consider it's over. Don't have even the decency to talk if something is wrong,just move out like a robber destroying the soul of the stupid foreigner. They can keep the relation for years to end up departing suddenly. They play the long game every day without shame. Very coward.
Anyone know of any IN-DEPTH scams. Like rn I’m dating this Thai woman. I met her at a Japanese sushi place. Things are actually great, she’s very attractive, however she’s on a work visa and is renting from a place from her boss where other co workers also stay. Something just doesn’t sit right with me here. Do Thai women have this massive scam to get married to American men to get citizenship then turn around and divorce you later?
@@resetwithrobbah I see. Yes this was actually a few years ago.. just wanted to keep it simple to get the situation easily laid out. But it’s always been a curiosity in my mind. It lasted abt 3 months, I always had my guard up, had some good times, sex was alright but not the greatest… she was VERY concerned with getting knocked up alittle more than any woman I’d been with. She ended up having to head back to Thailand since her 6 month visa was up and… that was the end of it. She got annoyed when I told her I’d never been able to fly out there to see her… who knows what would have walked into if I visited her in Thailand alone😬 seems like a massive opportunity for extortion. Not from me but my family.
That's why you don't accept gifts from just anyone. What is the motivation behind it? Always ask yourself what is the reason is it legitimate or something behind it.
We’ll sort of. To a point yes. Keep in mind nearly every guy I’ve met has been scammed at least once, so literally every can’t be a dummy- they by definition must be sort of average. Admittedly, that’s not a high bar.
@@resetwithrobb I've pretty much never been scammed before, including a month I spent in Thailand recently. I don't think that's because I'm smarter then others, I think that's mainly because I generally distrust people. When a stranger talks to me I assume they are trying to get something from me or scam me. It often just surprises me how naive most people are, especially in poorer countries like Thailand most people who sell something could potentially try to scam you.
Hey Robb, I'm in Thailand right now and have a story about a girl I met before I came here.. I keep scammer in yhe back of my head, but would love your opinion on what you think.
Ha ha. For some reason I just liked the sound of it. I’m a huge Tarantino fan and I think, subliminally, it was like “The 14 fists of McClusky”. Sorry if I baited you.
Someone who got scammed recently committed suicide in Thailand because they lost everything and their heart was broken. I think the use of deadly is appropriate. Get scammed enough and I think a part of someone dies… their heart, their hope, their joy, etc.
Sadly I have know 3 rather pretty young ladies without ostensible means of support and they were all professional scammers. Even a friend of my GF turned out be a scammer. She’d taken 2 Farang for condos. My GF was upset because it made her/ Thai women in general look Bad.
