13 Stoic WAYS To DESTROY Your Enemy Without FIGHTING Them | Marcus Aurelius STOICISM 

What if they live with you?

Get affordable psychological help, or leave the person. You will never win with a narcissist!

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Practice Your Stoicism’s, It is logical and while being assertive, one Can Win In Their Game Of Words, while still being kind. Wrestling with Pigs, never worked, as it is foolish, and lowers you to their kinds level. A wise man fights with words, not fists, my Grandpa said.

not "brilliant" rather be luck of patience...

Another good one is ‘never debate a moron’ or ‘morons shout the loudest’

Silence is the power that conquers all types of emotions

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A lot of these tactics will not work with a narcissist. These tactics could put you in harm's way. With a narc: 1. Don't engage AT ALL (if possible) 2. Block/Delete/Ignore 3. Gray rock 4. Run!!!

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Exactly bro 😎 some situations need to be dealt with squarely😊

​@randychris5031 I found myself in a work situation where an African American woman made a racist comment about white people in the workplace. I thought about my options. Should I hit her? Well, no. Should I taddle on her? Well, what would the end result be? Instead, I considered maybe this is her own insecurity and it makes her feel more empowered. Surely, it represents her as being more shortsighted. Perhaps it's best to just allow her to keep being her, and not let it bother me. In this dilemma, where I feel like everyone should be able to work in a place without discrimination, I weigh the odds, provide charity to the perpetrator of this disrespect, and end up with the best result.

Make sure you won't regret it afterwards though

True but I do that with empathy

The police do not either. That's why you should call the police instead of being charged breaking the law yourself

From the Holy Bible

No do not engage, but rather set healthy boundaries.

Sometimes humour can be used with great effect. If you can laugh at yourself and at the situation, you can also get them to drop their defences and see things from your perspective. I did this today with some belligerent men. I let them know I was onto their in-jokes and had a laugh about it. You can turn the tables, do the unexpected and this can be disarming. Especially if you can laugh. Laugher is a massive piece in your armoury and it can be used to defuse tension. It's also been used by oppressed people for centuries. "First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win." Mahatma Gandhi

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I like Epictetus he was a true jedi master and those words still ring true today!!!!

Yes they really want to wind you up so if you can laugh, it throws them. Laugh at the absurdity of the situation and this will disarm them. They will begin to doubt their position. That is the start.

That's why I don't have freinds 😊

They were always enemies under the guise of friendship

Betrayal never comes from our enemies

That's the worst kind !

I don't believe in friend no way .my mother was my best friend but after she passed I'm lonely 😭😭

The real question is why? And it's my guess that it's because the public school system here in the united states has been infiltrated with communist and socialists.

Respectfully, and the sad part is there are many who think they're woke by their interpretation and they still are not...woke...that is.😪

What's wokism?

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​@@inca3370Being told how to accept things that you do not want to . How to accept other peoples truths at the expense of your own .

Thanks for sharing!

Amen

I understand where you are coming from but something to remember is that when we are desperate for anything, it opens the door to all kinds of charlatans and con artists who will happily take advantage of our desperation. Desperation is the opposite of stoicism. However, I empathize with being very thirsty for knowledge and understanding, and that drive and desire can be the perfect catalyst to learn and incorporate really useful ideas, knowledge, and wisdom. Do you meditate? Not that you have to, of course, but it's a really great place to really ground yourself and start getting in touch with your own higher wisdom. The more you adopt it as a daily practice, the more everything starts to make more sense, and you start seeing yourself and the world from a whole new, amazing perspective. And absolutely, start learning from experienced, wise teachers that walk the talk, while also always checking in with your own intuition. There are a lot of resources online, you do not NEED a "guru" these days like we did in the past because there is a plethora of information at our disposal and we can so easily look up questions we have and find GOOD answers that RESONATE with us. Be open, curious, and eager to learn while retaining healthy skepticism. I have found many great teachers online, including on RU-vid, whether from this Era or those who have passed over, and they have helped me a lot. But just because I respect and appreciate them and their opinions does not mean I just accept everything they say. I always keep in touch with my higher wisdom through meditation, which really helps me weed out stuff that doesn't resonate. (And if u aren't a meditator and want to learn, a great place to start is with guided meditations; Brian Scott's meditations are among my favorite on YT, but there r a lot of other really great options) Aaron Abke's "Mind Science" series is great for all things to do with understanding and dealing with our ego. Michael Singer is an older guy whose written some well-known, life changing books (like the Untethered Soul) and he has a great podcast on YT. Oh man, there's so many, it just depends what your cup of tea is. If i started a list, i dont know where it'd end!There are teachers from every different Era, from all around the world, and whether you read their stuff, listen to audio books of their writings/works (if u cant buy them, there r lots for free on YT) or they have podcasts/shows, you have lots of free access and lots of perspectives. As you go along, you realize that the really good ones have a lot in common, just different ways of expressing their thoughts and different things they focus on. Just remember, you don't have to learn it all in a week, a month, or a year. You will happily spend the rest of your life learning, just like they did/do. That's what brings wisdom. I'm sorry for the long rant, I hope it was at least a little bit helpful.☺️🙏💫 Have a wonderful day🌞

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My teacher once told me: when you're looking for a teacher, stop. Because it is wasteful to look outside of yourself for guidance. You and those who work on your behalf (guides, guardians, ancestors, angels, ect) are the best teachers you could have. * When you're looking outside, you ignore the inside. You are Creator. You are Spirit experiencing humanity. Every drop of wisdom you desire is already yours. You just have to tune in and let go of doubt. Find validation within yourself. Learn to honor what resonates with you and works against you. Tap in and listen. And if you're still looking for a teacher, I would recommend the Four Agreements if you haven't read it already. Most of my teachers I've never met in person, but their role in my life is no less great than those I have! Many blessings. 🩶

BTW the teacher that gave that advice... and I didn't realize this till after I wrote the comment... is named Carol Rogers. Thought that was a really cool synchronicity. 🎉

Lesson of acute insight.😅

In christianity self love is a sin especially over God. Love God and seek solutions

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Make sure you are not altered for bad through the process, it wiser to not stress it too much. Move on when you have to. Change it

@sheilacarter3806, This is interesting from the perspective of gun violence in some big cities. I was once on a jury, where a man from the hood was on the stand, accused of murder. He started to explain how it was necessary to have a gun. To my surprise, the judge let him speak for quite a long time, and asked him questions about the culture of the hood. His answers were enlightening, and gave all of us on the jury a perspective we hadn't considered. He basically felt he couldn't trust ANYONE. He was scared all the time. Very vigilant. He looked and acted dangerous, he said, because he felt he had no choice. I thought, wow, he has courage to say all of this stuff when there were many people from the hood in the courtroom as observers of the case. It was a very interesting but complicated case, involving a number of people trying to pass the "hot" smoking gun off, to pin the murder on another guy. I was glad the judge encouraged him to speak.

That's not true. They've actually dumbed down society on purpose.

Thank you! 😃

Very welcome

I thought the same thing when forwarding this video to friends. I told them to ignore the title and just listen to the message because there is nothing menacing in it. On reflection, I think the enemy being destroyed here is one's own self, when one is seeking revenge and/or angrily jumping to conclusions. I happily saw this program 3 days ago and used its advice not only to delve into my past to understand my grievances but helped my angry and perplexed daughter begin to look into her own, and now after decades of mistrust I think we have begun to try to understand and better communicate.

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My mouth has a brain of its own. I am working diligently to change this. I wish I t came easier for me.

You are so welcome!

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This is different. My perspective says the person with the stronger sense of self/ego will win the battle but still be apologetic.

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That's because religions basically hijack good virtues and reassigns their source to a god, rather than a natural characteristic of the evolved human psychology. The main problem with this misconception is the adherent doesn't develop an inner moral conscience on the basis of empathy, compassion, sympathy and a sense of fairness, instead is motivated by fear of punishment and reward in the afterlife. It can also have tragic negative impacts when scripture is misused to motivate an otherwise good person to do evil things.

@MG , All these wisdom came from GOD ,AND GUIDED INTO HOLY SCRIPTURES.....WHETHER YOU BELIEVE OR NOT....

@@shampersaud2763Nope God isn’t real! The all caps, clearly shows us your not paying attention to the video. Lol

I was thinking the same thing. Great point.

Thank you! I've learned so much.

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It's good advice to always learn about ourselves because sometimes anger hurt humiliation takes over before we can understand what's happening

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Good idea!