1. Get a hobby/passion 2. Travel more/ Become more cultured 3. Be unpredictable + Do the unexpected 4. Focus on becoming more well-rounded 5.Be unapologetically you 6.Become more self-aware 7.learn to not take offence 8.shut up and listen more 9.learn to ask better questions 10.Meet as many people as possible 11.become socially intelligent 12.spend time alone and enjoy it 13.Have your own sense of style 14.say yes more ❤
You do 12 of these naturally..however it’s because of negative experiences that I’ve had while growing as a person. However, I’m grateful that these things happened, because it’s lead me to become more intuitive.
I actually now understand why 'cooler' people are more popular. I have a classmate that is super popular, but she doesn't have that 'trendy' look that make others popular. She's suprisingly more popular than the pretty girls in my school. Turns out she's way more interesting, has reallyy good humor, she shines in her own way, and she's very grounded.
FRFR as someone that recently went to france and met new people THIS IS JUST ITT and i would like to add like dont try to force your conversations, dont be afraid of silence and gaps, and do not have like a goal for them to like you more just talk with them cause you want to have fun you know having a good time doesnt hurt anyone
simone, as a young teen you've helped me sm and i just want to thank you for that 💗 you've helped me gain confidence, get straight A's, and motivate me to do things in life that the average person probably wouldn't. tysm for helping me become a better version of myself :)
The learning to shut up and be a good listener is what most people need to hear😭😭cause seriously, i be trying my best, listening hearing you out, giving interest but when its time for them to listen they just dont💀😒
Some people cant handle how honest you are but honestly, this helps me a lot, due to the fact that i move a lot and costantly have to make new friends all over again. Thank you!
I actually do almost all of the things in this video but i still feel as i’m not as interesting. I’m wondering if the issue here might be low self value or self esteem. This video gave me a great opportunity to be more insightful about this really. Thank you so much😊
The alone fact you just woar more extra dress in a casual situation and place inspired me, it's gorgeous. I need approaches like that. The video made me realise the goal talked about can be way easier than it seems. I think the best advise is being more curious about people who surround us
When u checked all the buttons for *uninterested* person 😭😭😭 i rly thought im kinda cool but fr im not.. well at least im aware now. Thank u girl like i m 5yrs older than u but wut? The confidence ? Everything wow. Just humbles me. So much to catch up.
The people who say yes more are definitely very interesting cause they're not afraid to experience new stuff. Experiences make you learn and overall very very more interesting.
I love how you share useful tips that don’t make you lose yourself and try to be someone you are not just to be liked by other people and being considered the “fake cool girl/boy that pretends to be interested in something they are not😎😝🤪”
dear simone, just wanted to let you know that i love you and you've helped me TREMENDOUSLY in all aspects of my life. slay 💗💗💗💗💗💗 so excited for this vid
Sis, I watched many of your videos hesitating to commit to your channel… you got me at #4. Something that I am currently working on, that you have worded exactly in the way my brain finally needed to click in place. Thank you. I subscribed.
Okay question: one of the points was to not get offended very easily because ppl then don’t want to be around you (6:52). While I understand where you’re coming from, what if someone’s saying sth that’s violating ur boundaries, even if it’s as a joke? I’m trying to be more conscious about setting up boundaries so in this case I would tell them to stop. I think someone who knows the line between a joke and a sting at them is more interesting than someone who lets ppl say whatever.
i would say that if someone is violating your boundaries under the pretense of a joke, it’s okay to let them know you don’t appreciate it, it doesn’t make you any less of an interesting person. especially if you just allow things that affect you negatively to just happen, just because you want to become more likeable. also you should stay away from people like that. who cares what they think of you
@@MelodySong-px8vwyeah, 100% Like I’m 17 but graduated early and attend college, and this classmate, at least 23, more likely 25, knows I’m 17 yet kept making sexual “jokes” directed at me all day a few weeks ago, and I kept trying to show him I was uncomfortable, started repeating “I’m 17” then just ignored him to get him to stop, when he proceeded to go sulk in a corner I’ve stopped talking to him, since it was disgusting for him to act that way, he seemed kind enough at first, but 100%, people who will be making jokes that cross your boundaries, cut them out, that’s not a good person
idk why but i find it refreshing to see more of you than just your portrait and also more of the room, feels more welcoming but maybe its just because i got used to simones portrait video format (sry for bad english lol)
I am 19 and i struggle with being so lonely every day . I find that i am actually so uninteresting ,but it is really challegable for me to change . I don't want to live like this the whole life then i will try my best to connect and catch all opportunity to grow up . Thank to this video i can obviously see a map to reach my target . Just want to thank you and i love " Venice bitch " part at the end ❤❤❤
Travelling from to city to city. Working on vids for us. spilling knowledge on insta always. queen do u ever take a BREAK?? Thank u fr u dont need to be helping people but i can see ur passion about this. ur so inspiring!!!
Thank you SOO much for this video, and oh my gosh I could relate so much with the music part. It's such an ick for me when they only listen to the ones who are famous,, people who are interesting to me are the ones who explore music
I will talk about the 6th point, that we should learn not to take offense. Since I'm an empathetic person, I cannot take jokes from people, especially the ones IDK, and in the case of my friends, I can not take it to the extreme. I would cry literally. The main reason for this is due to the people who make you insecure about the things you do, and judge the activities that you like. First, they would point it out, then later on point it out again as a joke. Which I would take seriously, So basically I didn't find this point to be somehow relatable or advantageous to make you look "cooler". As you HAVE to set boundaries for people, even your friends, as to how much they can go to comment about you even as a joke.. so. You cannot be cooler just so you are taking the jokes of the people about your insecurities..... this was it....... but anyways , LOVE YOU SIMONE , I REALLY LIKE YOUR VIDEOS🌷🌷 THANKS FOR THIS AMAZING VIDEO...!!!!
Especially when you’ve got a mental disorder that you’re still working through. If anything I think others should learn that they shouldn’t make certain types of jokes esp around those they don’t know.
I can see your point but I wouldn’t call that being empathetic, but sensitive. Unless it’s being able to understand when those people who use ‘I was only just joking’ when they don’t actually mean it as a joke. Nothing wrong with being sensitive and knowing your boundaries.
That was cool. Having your own opinion and standing up for what you think and feel even tho people might not agree. What you said makes you cool and interesting I think.
Off-topic but I really admire your vocabulary along with the other awesome things. You inspire me in every step of my life and you're a big big part of my adulting, thank you so much Simone 😭hkwjhwjsnwkw I wanna be friends with you.
I already do most of these things except be well traveled because I’m In a scarcity mindset regarding people . I doubt that somebody will have the same perspective , core values and sense of self like mine so I just stay in my circle which is so limiting . I need to fix my abundance mindset regarding people because I’m holding myself back from being more interesting 😂 and it’s the only thing I pride myself on is to have an inner monologue like no other
