15 Bisexual Girl Problems 

Why does 2014 sound so long ago

They forgot this situation: "So, are you a lesbian, now?" -"No, Im bi" "Don't worry, i wont judge you for being lesbian ;)"

What about when you start dating a guy after being with a girl and everybody's like, "Oh so you're straight now?" Or "I told you it was just a phase." Like UGH!!!

when they say "it's 2014" and your watching it in 2016

Daughter 1: I'm lesbian, dad. Dad: okay. Daughter 2: I am too. Dad: Does anyone in this house like boys? Son: I do.

The "threesome" questioning really gets to me. Why does a non-straight relationship always have to revolve around sex? Do straight relationships always revolve around sex? Urg.

GIRLS LOVE GIRLS AND BOYS

just because i'm bisexual people think i will fall in love with everyone i see, ugh -.-

I'm bi but I'm so shy that I just don't approach or date anybody 😂😂😂

I just came out as bi to a few of my friends, but I still haven't told my parents or anything. Note: I'm out to everyone now, and I'm really happy.

"Oh! You have a girlfriend?" "Yes." "So you are a lesbian?" "No, I'm bi." "But you have a girlfriend, so now you're a lesbian." Story of my life...

"Oh I kissed a girl in college I totally get 'this'" bish no you don't

UGH. The whole "nice!", "yeah I made out with someone before, so I understand" "have you had 3somes". bs is most annoying. They didn't even mention the even more annoying "Lets see you kiss" "prove it" or "Oh, I can change that for you, you just haven't met me *jerk wink*".

The things people say to Bisexuals.. Honestly we aren't that different. I just feel as comfortable dating another woman as I do a man, why is it such a big deal..

This was actually kind of adorable (the ending, that is.) I deal with this kind of thing all the time. One of my coworkers actually told me to, "Make up my mind," one day because I was talking about a guy that I liked at the time. "First you say you like girls, then you say you like guys, either be a lesbian or straight, you can't be both." I was actually speechless.

The hardest thing is falling for a straight girl tbh. The struggle

For all the people in the world bisexual does not mean we're secretly gay it means we love every boy and girl and no we're not afraid of commitment and no we can't choose its not how it works and boys can be bi too

I as a bisexual female can fully clarify I've had all these problems. One thing BuzzFeed forgot to add is a bisexual who never dated someone of the opposite sex or the same sex is STILL A BISEXUAL. I've had 2 girlfriend (one I'm still with), yet I've never dated a guy but I'm STILL BISEXUAL. A few people I've met say "Oh no, you've only dated girls so you're a lesbian not bisexual." and it's irritating because I'm still bisexual, I've just never had a guy like me back. Is it that hard to figure out? Please tell me I'm not the only one who's had this problem.

WHY DO PEOPLE THINK WE ALL DO THREESOMES ???????!!!!!!!!

Why is it so hard for people to understand what a "bisexual" person is???!!!!!!

Random comment: that girl is really pretty

Who here is bi? (Probably most of you are) I'm bi!

When I told my best friend at the time that I was bisexual (being the second person I had ever told this), like a week after I was talking about this cute guy I had met and she said "wait im confused, didn't you like girls?" I don't know what she thought I bisexual was. And probably the worst part: as soon as I told her (I was worried because I've always been touchy with my friends, we've seen each other in underwear and stuff, and I didn't want her to think I was after her) she went "Oh well I pictured, since you've always been so pro gay rights and all." !!! I was pro gay rights way before I realized I also liked girls the same way I've been pro animal rights my whole life and I'm not a kangaroo.

I came out to my friends as bi...tried to tell my parents they didn't believe a single word I said and I'm like "how do you suppose I prove it? By kissing a girl in front of you c'mon guys!"

honestly it's the same thing if you're pansexual

*reasons I haven't come out yet*

"It's 2014 they'll get it". Me: It's 2016 and they still dont get it😂😑

its so annoying like at PE i hold my girlfriends hand and my PE teacher is a homophobe and she said stop thats inappropriate touching but a straight couple kissing in the middle of the gym and the teachers don't care

In my opinion she is the prettiest girls on buzzfeed

so Gabby is Bi and you're a lesbian? Tricky. what

I feel like it's almost more complicated to be bi rather than just gay or straight. People think that you have to choose one or the other. I have a friend who has called me a lesbian before because I've never been in a relationship. I'm sorry, but I root for both teams (that's a phrasing I like to use to explain it better).

i'm pansexual but those problems are the same for me xD

Its really frustrating how people treat bisexual men and women. I was talking to a guy on OKC and after about two weeks we finally traded numbers and within that very first day he sent me a thinly veiled warning about how if he was talking to someone he wanted to be the only person they were talking to. That sent off huge red flags; we were still talking and I hadn't even been on a date with him yet. I asked him if it was because of my sexuality, and why that would even play a part in this, and his response was "wouldn't you feel threatened too if I was into guys?" Needless to say, we didn't end up talking beyond that. But seriously, where does this idea come from that bisexual/pansexual people are any more promiscuous or less loyal than gay or straight people?

I'm pansexual but I have most of these problems😂. I guess you can consider Bi and Pan sort of similar..

"I made out with a girl in college once, so I totally get this." Man, the amount of times someone has said this to me is ridiculous.

It's even worse than this when you're pansexual and nobody knows what that means and they think you either made it up or you're sexually attracted to frying pans

I would just like to say that this video is pretty accurate towards bisexuals, but as a bisexual guy I think we have it worse. At least people think bisexual girls exist. I'm just constantly accused of being a closeted gay, or just being confused. Other guys think I'm disgusting, and so do the girls because they think I'm just basically gay. I can't fit in with gay guys because I'm too straight and I can't fit in with straight girls because I'm too gay. My only stable relationships have come from other bi girls and bi guys. It would be cool to see the 15 Bisexual Guy problems video but this is BuzzFeed so that's probably never going to happen.

So much gay, lesbian, and bisexual people here. I finally feel at home 😭.

I'm pan and the number one problem fofr me is: "isn't that another word for bi?"

Im gonna come out as bi soon wish me luck! 😅

Oh my gosh, this is really relatable. I am a bisexual girl, and I don't have problems with people bullying me about that, but godamnit these people! They're like "you're lesbian? I thought you were straight!" "Oh wait, you're lesbian again!" and I'm just like NO! I'M BI!

Reading below comments and I'd just like to say that I am a bisexual woman and I don't really feel like there's any difference between bisexuality and pansexuality. I am not limited to liking two genders even though yes, the word bi does mean two, but it is outdated to say that it's attraction to only 2 genders. I personally, also as a cisgendered person so my view may be wrong, feel that transgender people aren't any different than "normal" men and women, as the gender they identify as is the gender they are. (sincerely hoping that makes sense, to summarize; people born with a penis who identifies as a female IS a female and vice versa). I am also not limited to those two/three (depending on how you look at it) and would have no issue falling for somebody who is genderfluid or anything else. I may as well be calling myself pansexual, I just feel more at home using the more familiar bisexual - and thus that is where I feel I identify the most. I hope that clears something up for anyone wondering.

Having a crush on a girl who thinks you are straight and something happens which makes you come out, then she gets nervous that you like her and have to lie because she is the prettiest girl in the world and you don't want to be without her.

This was honestly so frustrating to watch because I'm bi and this is what I'm afraid of even more than not being accepted.

My boss just told me she thinks bisexuals are greedy and indecisive and when I told her how untrue and offensive that was, she still wouldn't apologize. "We should just respect each others opinions" she said. Honestly, this video made my day. It nice knowing someone understands.

the most annoying thing is when people think you're "just doing for attention", christ i could marry a women and people would still say i'm "just doing for attention" and that "i'll end up with a guy in the end"

Being a bisexual female is difficult. But I imagine it's a bit worse for bisexual men. Either way, my sexuality does not fade when I am with someone. I don't become a lesbian when I'm with a girl and I don't become straight when I'm with a boy. In either case I'm still attracted to both genders equally. I love looking at the body features of both assigned human genders and that desire doesn't go away just because I'm with one or the other. I'm not confused. I know that I love men and women the same. And I'm not greedy or afraid of commitment. I have only one partner at a time and enjoy the fact that I am exclusive to that person.

"Do you hate men?" "...no" TRIGGERED

Being bisexual is kinda hard at times . You have to choice what gender you wanna date sometimes . Plus if you tell someone ur bi they are gonna think you like everyone you see i dont get why someone explain___:/

Asexual biromantic powers activate!

Oh my god gaby's girlfriend is so cute I'm questioning my sexuality.

Could you guys do a video about pansexuality .

Imagine how hard it is being a bisexual guy.

WHEN YOU GET ASKED FOR THREESOMES ALL THE TIME STOP

Can't wait to see the male version of this...

ALL OF THESE ARE TRUE AND I CRY EVERYTIME

I've never been more confused in my entire life! My whole life i've always thought i was straight cause i've always liked guys, but ever since i can remember i've always had small little crushes on girls, even when i was like 8 and i don't understand. Cause i can't see myself having a relationship with a girl only a guy. But sometimes when i see certain girls i find myself physically attracted to them. Am i bi? Cause i feel like i am, but more attracted to guys... idk someone please help!

Starts blasting Girls/Girls/Boys*

I'm a handsexual guy

This just shows how biphobic people can be.

I also hate it when my straight lady friends say ''I wouldn't want you hitting on me." Then I truthfully say that they're not my type, then they become offended. ?????

How about a bisexual guy problems video? "So...you're gay?" "No, I'm bi." "But you're dating a dude." "Yeah?" "That means you're gay." *Guy and his boyfriend kiss.* "Ew..." *cuts back to the clip of two chicks kissing* "Nice!" *bi dude comes to a party with a chick* "So...you're...not gay now? What the hell?" "Oh, honey, I used to be 'bi' too, but then I realized it was just a phase! I'm gay now!" "So...can you just make up your mind already?" *on a date with a girl* "So...why didn't you tell me you're gay?" "What?" "Yeah, it says so on your facebook page. 'Bisexual'" "*on a date with a guy* "So...are you just confused or something?" "What?" "Yeah, it says so on your facebook page, 'Bisexual'". Just some suggestions :)

I'm a pansexual agender person and I'm dating a bisexual transboy and its a lot like this. Some people think we're two girls, some people think we're two guys, some people think we're a guy and a girl. A lot of times people think it's weird that my last partner was a girl, but now I'm with a guy, and some people think I'm a lesbian that sees him as a girl and that's why I'm with him. Really, it's just that he liked me and I liked him. Case closed, bring out the dancing lobsters.

its so true 😂 classmate:"you have a girlfriend?!" me:"yep" classmate:"so..you're lesbian" me:"no!? I'm not!"

My life like: "Oh.. so are you.. um ya know like.. A les-" "No I'm just bisexual."

I am a bisexual, curvy, polygamous, ginger living in the bible belt. Discrimination is my life

I'm pretty sure I'm bi, but I've never persued anything with a woman.

Its annoying when you say your bi then people g around saying your a lesbian. IT PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH

Keith is my spirit animal

Straight women who call their girl friends "girlfriends" leads to so much confusion and awkwardness. Just call them friends. You wouldn't call a boy friend a boyfriend, so why do it with girls?

The one I hate the most is "oh, are you confused? It's ok, I won't tell her you've dated guys. You'll end up picking one gender in the end..." etc Like no I like both I'm not picking anything thank you very much.

Yeah... It is way harder to be a bisexual male, just sayin

I'm bi curious/never dated a girl so never had these problems not sure I will in the future..

When people found out I was bi the boys were like, "look at that girl she's hot right?!?!" I don't think some people understand that just because I'm bi, it doesn't mean I like every girl I HAVE A TYPE OK.

The worst thing is when people thing that because u are bisexual it means that u are going to be dating a girl and a boy at the same time ugh

I'm bisexual, but none of those or most of them, I've never tried, maybe because of my age or the fact I never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, but as 15, girls are so much better, but older boys are also kind of sexy, so that is probably the only problem I have, wich one do I choose? I know love is not something you choose, but I simply don't know what to look after, if so.

Anyone wants a asexual problems video? No?

Argh, I hate when girls use the term "girlfriend" to mean a friend who is a girl soooo much. That term creates way too many awkward situations >.>

"this is 2014, they'll get it"

I know I'm bi but I've never been with a girl because I have a boyfriend at the moment

I'm lesbian myself, and I always feel bad for Bi girls when trying to date lesbians in the community. For some reason, there is this stigma that bi women just automatically will date a lesbian and then want a guy while with the girl and chest in her or leave her for the guy. So the majority or whatever percent of lesbians won't date bisexuals. It's so ignorant. The RU-vidr Arielle is kind of a supporter of this too.

What's the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality ?

OH my gosh this video is my life right now as I recently came out as bi to some of my closer friends they ALWAYS ask me - do you prefer guys or girls - orr - oh so your half gay and half straight?-

Literally, the most annoying things my friends say to me are this. "You're so lucky to like boys AND girls. God, I wish." NO I'M NOT LUCKY I WISH I WAS ONE OR THE OTHER SO THAT WAY I'M NOT TOO GAY FOR GUYS OR TOO STRAIGHT FOR GIRLS. I AM NOT LUCKY! sorry… i've been upset the past few days about this. I had to get it out.

I know what you mean, I'm a guy and when I tell people I like girls, they're like "omg, so that would make you....straight?" and I'm like "yep". And the conversation ends. That's about it.

things like this is the reason for why i dont i want to come out as pansexual. mind making a pansexual girl problems video? ^^

It's 2016 and people still don get it

As a bisexual man this made me mildly angry because I've had to deal with ALL of this and it sucks

I am glad I have friends who don't even make it a big deal

"this is 2014, i think they'll get it" HAHA HONEY NOOO

But you're so pretty? I never heard that (not to me not to any bi people I know). What does it even have to do? There's one I hear a lot, though: "You're so lucky, you got more chances of finding someone".

I'm pan and on 1 of my social medias I put ❤💛💙 which is the pan flag no one knows muahahahaah

Girl in video: This is *2014!* Me: WHAT? *4* YEARS AGO?!?! HOW??

The grossest thing about this video is BudLight...

That's just so rude. I'm straight, I have gay and bi friends, and I have never said any of this to them. Do people have filters anymore? 😐

im confused because I like girls yet I have gay fantasies?

"its 2014 they'll get it" Um no. just because it's 2014 doesn't mean that all of a sudden all creepy taboos are accepted.

that feeling when this is so true...That feeling when you come home and your cousins be like "Oh my gosh, your friend is so pretty" so i be like "No this is my girlfriend"response are mostly like "Same thing"... Like really when will i have precious time with my baby without having the statement "Oh are you lesbian?" Im like NO IM NOT LESBIAN! NOTHING WRONG WITH THEM BUT IM BI!!!

UGHH you forgot one scenario "I'm bi" "So do you like her?" *points to a random girl* "No." "What about her?" *points to another girl* "Noo." "Then what about him?" *points to a guy* "Nooooo." "Then how are you bi? You don't like any girls or guys.." "It's not like that. Is the same as being straight, I don't fall in love with every girl or guy I see. It has to be someone special." "Oh." Like, why do people always assume you like every girl or guy you see? It's not like that at all.

*when I show affection to my FRIEND that is a girl* "That's gay!" "You'we confused." "You like a girl. So you're gay, right?" *after explaining I'm bi* "Don't turn gay on me, Ava." I don't hate gays, but I'm not lesbian. I'm bi.