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Pls xoxo

Female INFP here. I feel you man, from the other side of that heterosexual coin.

Now...kith...

i married an INFP, there is hope :)

@@basilbaby7678 haha. Unless...

😂😂😂

My GOD someone being willingly vulnerable is like my kryptonite

As an INTJ, that sounds positively horrible 😂

@@krista584 in a way it is... 😂

I like this 😎 ~ENTP~

HELL YEAH!!!! (Me: INFJ) 😊

YES..!

(INTJ DEATH STARE. NO WORDS. CRICKETS CHIRP IN BACKGROUND).

ISTP: *stares and doesn't move*

@@meganobrien5967 sounds rpmantic.

ENFP: froze in amusement, and start laughing because of the awkward atmosphere

God, I really want to date INFJ guy

YES !

lmao im one of the infj's out there and i had no idea that those traits were ever attractive to yall (like im being attractive at all-)

Marianna Fodor Evbuomwan god if you only knew! There are too many superficial people out there. So you appreciating deep talk is wonderful.

Male Enfp here....Psht you're telling me, wheres the female INFJs? 😲😫 I've only met one, but she was pretty toxic unfortunately. But not gonna let one to dissuade me for others🤞

wow, that is too true

Oops, that's me

Justin Draxx that was beautiful

Justin Draxx what song inspired you to write this?

Why is this so true...

And that's sooooo cute *-*

Knew an infp, can confirm.

I didn't know I did this until my friends started calling it the "my surname" sigh.

😂👌🏻 too true

I wish I could stop it...at least when trying dirty talk....but nope, it's always there...heh...sighs

as an INFP in that moment i would say yes please, then i would go home and write in my journal about how much do i regret how much did i open up, and how is this person gonna hate me or be loving me only BY sorrow. stupid INFP MIND. srry if i got some grammar errors, english is my second languaje :P

@@hatercualquiera3386 kinda but not that hard btw are you an INFP-t ? I am an INFP-a

@@btsthete yes i am an INFP-T, how did u know?? xD)

omg same

Infp's are precious, must protect. Im always up for deep convos... ~fellow INFJ

Jessica Hart hilarious! But it's good he found someone who understands him.

Wow. I was with an ESTP for 5 years and got married to him. Toxic person and totally opposite. Had to divorce him, there was no other way. How can you have an ESTP as a partner? 😱

As an INFJ woman, I find ESTP men attractive. Send help😷

@@ilkyszn My boyfriend is ESTP and i'm INFJ we're literally polar opposites in everything (not just personality type). It's been a lot of work but we're both very committed to making the relationship work. So far we've been together 4 years and going strong! So it's definitely not hopeless!!

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 One data point doesn't make a trend. Sounds like a pretty unhealthy individual.

😂😂😂😂

🤣

Loved it. If a dude ever tells me that I'll keep him for life.

Frank is gold 🤣

I screamed 😂😂😂

Sravya D that's so sweet 😊

Lol 😅

Where can I find one of those 😂

@@godsgirl9497 Seriously!! Ah I love INFPs

That’s freaking adorable

Yes 😂😂

Tf-

Yeah, ugh if there are none I shall provide

So you can convert it to ISO 8601?

Nope I'm not.

And the INTP not answering too.. 💀💀💀

Yes

I always find it hard to listen to people , specially those who talk about their day

Masher that’s normal if ur an intp, we ain’t interested in small talk mostly

@@spronkthesprinter273 yeah

Gasp! How'd you know?!

@@user-pt5cl2ro6f Pardon me, deary, but what do you mean "how did you know"? If you were pertaining to my knowledge about the Titles for each trait initials, believe me, I had no idea. Heck, idek what my initials were,(except that I'm an F and a J, or basically the Extroverted version of an Advocate) sooooo went to the 16 personalities website, wrote every title and trait initials down, then typed all of this down and VOILA! The guide I've always needed whenever I watch these videos. . . But if you were talking about how I knew "You were a protagonist", well... it's the Protagonist's sixth sense..... Jk, I assumed that all Protagonists(including myself) would want to know about each personality and how to understand others and ourselves to further our improvement. I believe protagonists have this tendency to always to change and somehow like, "be a better version of themselves", and stuff... idk, maybe. But that's just how I see it, I'm not sure about you.... Is that how you feel?

🔥🔥🔥

0:00 Me

Well done for all the effort

WOW

INFP: lol after a year i would've not only introduced myself, but I would've decked myself out in the best clothes and makeup, found out some of their interests (from my SO or social media), and baked something. I don't need permission😂😂😂

Whaaaaat? 🤯

im a intj and i'd be so pissed with this...but i'd probably try to never introduce a bf to my parents and try to hide from neighbours too. It's not personal, we are just paranoid.

@@mariana.b. I'm personally attracted to vulnerability/openness (bc I'm like that) so I prolly wouldn't date someone who didn't live up to that. Nothing against ur lifestyle tho. Ppl value different qualities over others🤷🏽‍♀️💞

When you're in an INTP-INTP relationship and it's like you're talking to yourself...

I’m an intp

@@Calliopa_22 I’m an INTP and I’ve never dated an INTP as far as I know (1 girl may have been but I can’t confirm). Is it usually successful? So far I’ve had the best luck when dating ENFP’s.

@@aplusmerchant2281 I'm an INTP too... but I don't date.

@@rainerbloedsinn182 same

No u

thanks

THEY ARE HAHAHAHAHA

Lol I be like how did I even end up here saying shit like this , feeling all ashamed

If I could I would hug all the ISTP and the ISTJ 😔💖

Sounds like a great date

You only had one? Lucky man.

Yes! i really like doing that and always trying to do that with my closest people 😂 im infj.

My ideal date. INFJ

Just the fact that you said you're married to an INFJ gives me hope.

what's your personality type among the 16??

ESTJ here, I've found my true love : ESTP

@@sanikatilak9735 entp

The hero we needed but did not deserve

Ferry Yap knew it immediately

That sounds INTP-like too.. 😅

All that was missing was: "... Oh god... I forgot her name! Why? Jesus. Do I call her "hey youuu" for the rest of the night or do I try to figure out how to get her to say it herself without her knowing I forgot it. I knew I should have texted it to myself! Why do I have her phone number memorized to the tune of "Aha - Take on Me" but I can't remember her name. I'm fucking hopeless."

@@GrandmasterofWin omg lol. My first day on school I was talking with a classmate for a whole solid 2 hours. Then I ask her if she wants to eat together at lunch. later while walking I asked her... Have I asked your name? because I was trying to remember her name XD she said no.

@@kritishrestha7471 Wow... I always admitted to myself who are my crushes.. I just don't care enough lmao. To me, at least, they're my crushes so what now? I never thought of confessing.. Psh that's not a thing... Probably why I never had a boyfriend XD And I guess you're not alone.. I do have crush on someone for almost 2 years now lol never met them again nor talked through chat for almost a year

Oh gosh I have this internal conversation every day...I’ve been dating for almost six months now. Believe me HE asked and not me😆

"Sprinkle some crack on him and lets get out of here"

I literally thought the same thing! 🤪

that ah a man if culture, Dave chapelle

I was an INFJ when younger and now I’m ENFJ. I really do tell others the same thing too 😂 extroverted ppl are just introverted but on crack

exactlyyyy im an intj but entj is literally just everything i think on the inside and never say out loud lmao

Every time I space out during conversations I'll end up remembering what they said unconsciously couple days later

Bandit im an intp junior at highschool and on the rare occasion something on a test stumps me, i turn it in and figure out the solution as im going to my next class

Hell yeah

We literally over complicate and over think everything. While our SO is telling us something serious we'll be having a deep inner monologue weighing the pros and cons of what they're saying and we'll end up debating ourselves while they tell us about their childhood or something and we'll only remember half. 😌

That's my husband for sure

@@cynthiataylor1310 Omg yes

ENFJS LOVE EVERYONE I have a bearded dragon but I also petsit people’s dogs 🤩

"thank you for inviting me, but I've been working a bunch lately, and it is really having a negative impact on my dog. I'm gonna have to stay home and spend time with him. For the next 10-16 years." - INFJ/ASD.

@@johnravely2872 YES I'm an infj too :)

Alleged INTJ, possibly ENTJ here. My choice would be a rainbow boa or a salt water aquarium with a lot of invertebrates.

My INTP mentor checks in on me once a month or so she's super busy but she gets freaked out whenever I read her emotions its like someone found out the password to her email or something. LOL

makes sense, he is an INFJ 🤣

Why you guys have to leave this at 69? XD

Woah, ur observant. Good ears😉

People keep claiming all sorts of types for FJ

😭😭😭

Years of forcing yourself into social situations and learning what works and what doesn’t. Forming a web of plans and fallbacks for any conversation, just to miss out on every important detail about her life while your zoned out thinking about how well this is going. Now when she asks if you remember what she told you about her mother at dinner last week, you have to keep bullshitting until you think your safe, which is never!

very accurate representation of dating an intp - your local enfj

This is totally what it’s like to date me an intp hahaha

Am I the only intp who can listen and think on the same time?

em em same lol 😂

Same

No, I think you probably just feel constantly attacked lol

not a coincidence! he is jelly :P

Except for sometimes it feels off to me, but literally sometimes it’s a word for word situation 😂😂

can confirm it too. But people have told me that even if i am concentrated on something i might actually answer a question, but then when i don't need zo be concentrated anymore and give them my attention they say i have already answered the question

Same here! Me, too!

I can relate to this as an INFP too.

101% accurate for you guys

I can relate to it in a spiritual level

INTP: hey I just want to have a nice conversation, okay? Brain: but I was just gonna play this fun game where every minute I find the most important word in the sentence they just said and scratch it out like idk it sounded p fun lol

Now I finally know what was going on inside my exes head 😅

Plus the inconspicuous T-shirt! 😂😂

That's what I was thinking!

I would like to see that too

Yeah!

Yes!

Wear a dress lol

I'm an INTJ and I learnt to not be like that ^ ^

Lol PDA just isn’t my thing. I usually will hold my fiancee’s hand or something, I just prefer privacy in my relationship.

So much fun! My husband and i are both INTJs, and yeah, we kept our relationship private for quite sometime!

Yep sounds like me too 😂

This makes me feel better that I (INFJ woman) and my mutual crush darling (INTJ man) never even look at, much less speak to each other, in group scenarios. For me it's because I'm deathly afraid that someone (including him) will figure out that I'm intensely in love with him, which I've been working hard to hide all trace of for many years. Can someone tell me why INTJs ignore the people they like in public?

Dia Edsa haha.... 16 shades of FJ!

@@Julia-LArt Made me laugh too omg someone needs to pitch MBTI movies

Honestly same

Lol, I just want to sit and read him. Yeah, he's really good looking. But omg he is intriguing.. ❤

Ritzykitz haha!

I loved the clarity of that section.

Yeaa man

I am INTP but I find the ISTP to be just the type of guy I would appreciate at this stage in my life and bring the tool belt with. Just love the honesty too. Salt of the Earth. Runner up in this one is the cook.

lol that was a near perfect portrayal

Yeah, I love how FJ portrays us. The randomness definitely a big part of us. But there's more to us... Actually a lot of the ENFPs are very thoughtful and caring little fairies

I'm an ENFP And I would never do something like this (which is normal x) ) The randoms things are okay with ENFP we still have a lot of Logic And loyalty Actually: I may think about doing it but I would never do it And never less with the car of someone else!!!

@@delireent.3960 Same, the thought could cross, but I won't do it, come on, I will die otherwise :v

@@mandarinadreux9572 I know, why is just the random side being projected :',v?

Glad you're here 🙌

What type are you?

@@YEDxYED ISFP.

@Hal Why are you looking for those in particular? Also, if you're looking for some with solid Ne, Gibi ASMR and ASMR Glow are great.

@Hal whispersred emma is an infp and i think maria maybe an infj but in not sure

Do you still have him?? I must say it's a lucky thing for sure..

This is so relatable! My bf is also an INFJ

Well that will never happen to me because nobody cares about me

I'm an INFJ-A. I think it's boring. Dating someone like... Myself. I don't know why people want to date me coz even I would not date myself. Who am I exactly? Anyway. I'm currently dating an ISTP. 😅

@@_komorebi LMAO the identity crisis be like

wow

From a man same happened i tried the same but suddenly i start drawing attention and i felt I'm not my self let's not call it detach i isolated my self for 2 years until everyone forget me why do i did that probably overthinking fear of emotions i feel week when i get emotional i don't want my pride to get hurt but mostly fear of emotions fear to INTJ is different fear is deep thinking you just fall in depression when you thinking hard thats it

I once thought that one guy was attractive and actually kinda liked him and he asked me out and ofc I said no stfu because like it’s weird pe*ple looking at you and like knowing you have emotions it’s too much

I'm not in a relationship.. but you guys have installed a new fear into me... people knowing I can feel..

I struggle with this same exact shit as an INTJ male. It makes women think I am trying to hide them from another woman when in reality that's not the case at all. I just hate putting my private business like that out in public. And yes, "love" is a business partnership to me in many ways lmao

Infp : *pat pat* it's okay

Be honest. We come here to feel attacked. It is a good time.

right on the anxiety

This is how INTJs are....own it

I felt so personally attacked too by the INTJ one as a fellow intj. The ENTJ one got me good to tho I feel like I've had that conversation a couple times bahaha.

Agreed.

INFJ gonna have a raggedy wig 💀

Same

Yeah... Pink hearts and roses? No. But exploring the darkness in our souls together... that's the "real romantic". *grin*

@@silva-schattensang Male INFJ here. Where can I find girls like you 😅

Lmfao I swear this is so me. I’m an infj too

it's hard to find us most of us are hiding out at home with popcorn and watching psychology-themed dramas and pondering our own existence.

with a bottle of red wine**

I'm so incredibly lucky to be in an INTP-INTP relationship. I can assure you that it's exactly what you've described, we have absolute trust in each other, deep conversations all the time. We share everything and yeah, it's like we're one entity xD.I love them so much. How tf they love me back, I do not know xD

​@@Calliopa_22 i get you dude. I was in a relationship like that. But you must always be very careful, very stoic, and put yourself first, because if it suddenly falls apart you'll suffer like a dog with cancer.

@@oninjadaburaca Oh, I already know that if my relationship falls apart, I won't get over it for a _long_ time. Doesn't seem to even be a possibility though, which is great, I love them so much ☺️. Not a dude btw, Non-binary xD

That's how i want my relationship to be. Perfectly described 😭😭 Intp

when I say people underestimate intps, I mean this... you guys are adorably weird hahaha

The first one is always free.

Oversharing is a hell of an urge....😩

The human condition: You're not supposed to speak openly about things that are actually important.

lol same!!!

HAHAHHAHA I ALWAYS DO while making friends and stuffs

ill sometimes pretend idk my INTJ dad in public coz im too embarrased by his Fe trickster

My INTJ guy friend doesn’t even look at me in public 😂😂😂

@@zubaidaalomyshi7896 really so what do they look at?

The GOAT I mean he acts like he doesn’t know me , which is kinda understandable since I’m a walking awkwardness XD

@@zubaidaalomyshi7896 im 21 and i even try to avoid my best friend for 15 years, when i dont feel like talking lol.

Agreed. My thoughts exactly.

Yeah. Foreplay

So, you guys want to???? 👉👈🥺

I got one for INTP *Comes up with great plan to save the environment* *Dies before he finishes the second step*

INTJ: You mean, we have to meet!? In public!? Screw that, I'll just write an angry, though well-crafted, e-mail.

for infp- makes this genius detailed plan on how to save the world but doesn’t bother to act on it

Sorry no thanks too much commitment ISTP I'll just do my own thing

I don't know, but it's supposed that the ENFP'S are the activists ones

Yes please! 😂

Exactly

Yo soy ENFP y tengo un gran sentido de la responsabilidad, creo que somos muy empáticos💗

Yes! You summed it up perfectly. Heal them and help them get in touch with nature and higher purposes. Help them see the magic. My ENFP bf is just radiant with light. (I'm ENFP too but less expressive)

@@Emiliaclarii Sip, también, es importante para mi ser responsable en mis actividades y trabajo 🤧

@@mandarinadreux9572 Ajjaajajajajjajajaja that's funny and cute somehow 🤣🤧

He probably asks that out of insecurity.

@@FlashBangBANGz Yes, I know. He comes from a very toxic family and his narcissistic parents really messed up his self esteem

Ahhhhhhh I would love to have an ENFJ; though I never met one, from your pov and the video they're looking quite adorable to me, well I really want to tell my partner that how much I love him, I'm not expressive but I'll try my best for him, we can atleast try and if it didn't work I'll try to share my feelings through my eyes haha 😁 - INFJ female

@@s.b.7121 I read somewhere most enfj/infp come from toxic families.. ~enfp-enfj here

Please bear with him :3 and an INFJ but we INFJs and ENFJs do be like that sometimes. We need reassurance.

As an INTJ I would love if my partner did this 👏 I love working out how to optimise everything.

Omg tell me more!

ISTPs they miss that big picture what INFJs have. But there's always chance. Me married to INTP and my daughter is ISTP...... courage 🤫😊

@@klara1493 Indeed. Sadly, we broke up. But we remained good friends, and he told me he would try to change the habits that hurt me in the past, to be with me again. He's a nice man, really.

^

Idk about this one. I don't find myself in conflict often. Might just be because of you.

An ENTP: i find this problem a lot, in myself, lately.(big probleme is that i dont think of it as an issue)

Probably, but the two ENTPs that I'm friends with do this more than average. I think they get bored, and they kind of like exploring ideas to the extent that the drama itself is enjoyable because of the possibilities. It's like, if you keep pushing the buttons you get free new things to play with due to the unpredictability of free will and human nature. At least...that's been my observation. It's just one of those typical things where a person's greatest strength is also their greatest weakness.

actually I hate arguments, I don't avoid confrontations but as for pointless arguments I'm not interested

Agreed

Wife: Hey what do you want for dinner? Me: *Thinking about it* Me: Uhhh…. 1 hour passed Wife:Hello, what the hell do you want fir dinner!? Me:Anything.

@@jellyfishi_ It *is* smart, and that's cool, good luck with that ^^

Yeah I'm an ENFP and I found the ENFJ so adorable :) they just want everyone to be happy

Nerdmom81 omg so that’s an infp thing? I thought I was just traumatised or something. I’m high-key ashamed of having feelings and I don’t tell them to anyone.

Fujoshi Chan I think so! I find it so strange that people who don’t even know me well open up to me and tell me all their deep inner thoughts at random, and I’m a good listener. But the thought of ME sharing MY feelings? 🤮

Nerdmom81 same!!! I would never!!!

Nerdmom81 lol, guess this is just more proof that despite my introverted tendencies, I am DEFINITELY an ENFP to the core. I can be a bit quiet at times, but I’m very, very, VERY open about my emotions...

Sophia I get that. I cry a ridiculous amount of the time and I do it in public and it’s whatever but I just don’t like to share what I’m thinking on the *inside.* My husband is an ENFP. We rub off on each other.

thats kinda adorable actually

Maria C I dont how do you handle the embaressment?

@@suides4810 Edit: I should say more about a journal and other ways to handle the embarrassment. One way to handle the embarrassment is to deny the journal, but that makes things complicated for an INFP. When Frank James acts like an INFP boyfriend, he confidently mentions the feelings he wrote about in his journal, which immediately embarrasses him. In response, he denies that he has a journal: ". . . I don't have a journal. Who said that?" It is a tricky conflict when strong feelings give you confidence, and they also embarrass you, but that is the conflict that INFPs must resolve. I would say that: A common fear for an INFP is that other people will misunderstand him/her because many people do not trust feelings. INFPs may even fear that they do not understand themselves. A journal is a tool that might help you to identify how you feel, and why your feelings make sense, but there are other tools you could use instead. The important thing is to build self-confidence. A good place to start is to simply notice what you feel. Embarassment is impossible to avoid completely so learn about how to manage it. You can sometimes deny, disguise, or even overcome embarassment, but when those responses do not work, you will have to endure embarassment. When that happens, do your best to move onward because there are more important things than to be embarassed.

I'm an Infp and I never had a journal

@@nr.v4009 I think it's just making fun of our tendencies to hide certain aspects of my life.

I never had a journal as well, but that's probably cuz in my early years, i haven't been aware of my feelings enough to want one... & now, i can just cope & sort the emotions out without needing one. that bit of info gets updated in my head anyway.

I can understand, I've been trying that in Instagram and it finally worked, my account finally suspended. Tell him to keep up the good work, it will surely work

like how do you even speak to ppl who never had a ban on fb

This is hilarious

​@@AmanSingh-ug6simy goodness

You have been with someone for two years and all you got physically was a distant acquaintance hug? RIP

@Naomi Madan hmmmmm lol

Wow.

Jorge Martell why is that?

I’m an INTJ and my boyfriend and I usually don’t get the slightest intimate in public (from my part mostly), holding hands is probably the most affectionate we get in public, so I get u lol it’s very much accurate

in true intp fashion 😂

jordan hampton Lmao fax

I almost spit out my drink when I heard “Were you listening to anything I just said?” Lmaoo too relatable.

Me too! - female INTP

It's more of a curse than people think lol I'd love to live in ignorance but logic just cannot allow it

I'm intp but had to pause the video to appreciate the accuracy.

I can confidently say this applies to ENTPs in just about any situation

I don’t know why it’s spicy to us ENTPs....but it just is 😂

@@MissLida I'll never understand why everyone doesn't enjoy pointless arguing as much as we do

@@stopshowingmyname4161 why is arguing /debating so much fun?

best comment ever 😂 had the same reaction

Its true, im entj and my bf as enfj, I can surely agree with this 😂👍🏻

I like it. I'm an INFJ, but I'd be down for this. Constant improvement is like a must.

Lol.. I'm ENFJ and it was so spot on. My INTP husband gets crazy when I propose date and time for our relationship improvement meetings. :p.

@@miriamschmitz394 sshhhhhh we don't talk about that!

Lo same. He just mentioned journals and I was like... “yup, that sounds familiar* (has like 6 journals she’s currently using)

Yeah, another INFJ here, it's the same for me too. Also the thing of mentioning a private detail I didn't plan to talk about and then asking myself: Oh, did I really say this?

Hanna N my daughter is an INFP and I can pick it too.

I currently own 6 sketchbooks and 2 journals (one is a K-Pop journal I recently started and the other to organize thoughts) if that means anything to you about me as an infp

Schattensang factssss

ur infj? just curious, what's the most reckless thing he did so far? (love enfps)

@@sheenasolero thanks we love you too

@@stalem8834 HAHAHAHAHA 😂 I know ur gonna say it's not meant to be funny, but really the spontaneity ALWAYS gets me. This made my day 😂

💀💀💀💀💀

Truck-owning country girl here who almost fell over when I heard that, hahaha!!

@@loverofbeautifulthings 😂😂😂 That is awesome

Country kid here! I’m built like a 4 x 4, but I don’t own one. I do operate with a ridiculously charming twang, though.

This is what I love about INTPs. No wonder, I have a thing for them! 🤣 The best part is, they don't judge you and are patient to know everything about you unlike most people who don't like talking about feelings or deep thoughts... INTPs really go for quality over beauty and are very loyal people. Just as I like!💜 ~Fellow INFJ-T

Pierre Bernard its just getting old

​@@stevanmiric5816 I agree. It's not even funny anymore

It's so true though. My ENTP hubby argues as his native language.

I honestly think my dad is an ENTP . He argues about every little thing and likes to start an argument between others. When he starts the arguments between others he goes to his room and starts laughing.

It's true. We love to question anything

Eheh like my ESTJ dad with neighbours, his boldness shock me

hah, try 6 am

For sure.

I mean. Id be ok w/ Flannel shirts😗

I know when ISTP is on, because it's like I'm talking to myself...if that makes any sense. Not that anyone asked or cares.

Can agree eventhough im an entj girl 😂

Exactly, it is very much an INTJ trait too.

Lol I'm an ENFP so I can say if hes doing that in front of you he most likely is into you

@@daliyabelle5657 oh dear hahahaha

@@riceisyum1231 yo update pls?

About estp’s?

Marina Zuñiga I died 💀💀💀

@@krisiona5277 and you rose up again, cuz you still have a lot to improve. 😉