I thought I missed it at first. You know we'd be entertaining to watch. For me it's just badass burn back and forth and a quick argument over which word would've more precisely articulated the point in question.
@@gozzywozzy485 Hey, I live alone as an INFP and somehow the chores get done! I imagine it'd be easier with someone to split the burden with, regardless of type. :)
@Gangari TheWanderer Folk, INFP here, pretty sure both types can be rigid. INFP makes more sense for the skit, taking on account that is dating another INFP.
@Gangari TheWanderer INFPs are not judgmental about people being themselves. We're forgiving as well and accept that people make mistakes. But we are guided by deeply held moral principals that do not falter in the face of public opinion or the arguments of others. Our partner has to agree on basic points of right and wrong so that we can live in a way that feels right to us.
@Gangari TheWanderer on the contrary (kinda). INFJs are more likely to accept opinions they don’t agree with because they don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings. INFPs can get really argumentative if it’s a topic that is important to them, and if it’s something related to our core values, boy, we can get pumped up.
@Gangari TheWanderer Yeah, we're usually pretty flexible and open-minded, and as a generalization about us in relationships, this portrayal doesn't work for me. However, it works if viewed specifically through the lens of core values - or the type of life we want to lead. That's where we can have a hard time reconciling our differences with someone, especially a romantic partner we're sharing our life with. But it's less "I can't believe you disagree with me" and more "If we disagree on something so fundamental, then maybe we're not compatible after all."
I'm infp and someone once said to me while we were arguing that I shouldn't base my point of view on my morals, it made me really really upset, I can't set aside my morals
INFP relationship was so deeply portrayed, and the "leave everything behind for a dream", was so INFP mature, as if between the two INFP's they had grown together accepting that things aren't perfect, that they may disagree sometimes, but in the end, they choose to live a dream together. Also I daydreamed for 30 minutes imaging their stories hahah, INFP thing. Nice video!
honestly i, as an enfj, would suggest that the 2 families eating together is the best option bc it seems to be the only one that would make all the parties happy lol
@@dearkristin Still sad the morning after! They have such a good, warm relationship - that's what's making it so sad. I would've mentioned how they still know the other one's not okay, so they have something special in mind for when they meet again to thank each other :) By the way, I'm ISFP and I admire your guts for going so hard on Fi's. It feels like others usually don't trust us to take it well. It made me think a lot about the confidence people have in their second function. I also view Se as the greatest/ funniest/ most resilient.
@@andreavieira5681 I am sorry to hear this. Speaking as an INTP I know that I have a, I guess, distinct sense of time. It may not seem like procrastination to him. The only piece of advice I can think of off of the top of my head is that he may need a, and I'm not quite sure how else to put this, gentle kick in the butt. I'm not talking about a threat or ultimatum here. It's more like waking him up out of a trance. If you two have any good friends in common, you may want to talk about this with one of them and get their perspective on this. I hesitate to give relationship advice, but you have my sympathies.
The INFP sounds exactly like part of the daydream my INFP friend has about dating another INFP. Her words: “And then, when life is too much, we move to Peru and start our own little flower shop.” 😂
I knew it was Fe. I can see either ESFJ or ENFJ. (Although I'm an ENFJ and I got pretty bossy and less willing to bend with my husband once I got married. 😆)
Me, an INTP: Nah... I prioritize my relationships better than that. Also me: Has a million unread texts and missed calls because I've suddenly decided to dedicate every minute of my day to learning morse code...
WAIT ENFP HERE AND I OBSESSIVELY STUDIED MORSE CODE FOR LIKE A MONTH it’s actually really cool 100% recommend and support also I ignore texts all the time so 😭
As an ISTJ, I found it uncomfortable as well. XD I was like, "Ooo, please don't let this argument be cause for a breakup." I was glad when they were able to resolve the conflict. :)
It's interesting because my brother is an istj but he has the attitude that other people can worry about that while he does more important things. I guess for him that comes with the territory of having an enfj mother thriving on doing all that because she wants everything to be covered to have a nice day lol
And so accurate!! My ISTJ father would totally think of every single one of these issues while my ISFJ mother would faithfully carry through on addressing each and every one of them lol what fun! 😆
@Gangari TheWanderer well not really. It is said that INFP and ENFJ are a great match even though the first is shy and introverted whereas the other is extroverted and charismatic. So more than marrying somebody your type more important is marrying someone who can accept and complete your type.
I knew INFP as soon as I saw the blankets and neither wanted to disagree but were too stubborn to agree. The moving across seas and starting your own bakery is... It's very accurate. 😂 -INFP
It feels like a betrayal to say "agree to disagree" but at the same time you have to get to that point in a relationship sometimes- it is being caught in the middle- also yes to escaping somewhere and living a simple life in a village with your shop.
@@dearkristin I pick spiders up and gently put them outside. Spiders eat flies and other pests. Plus they look awesome. - ESTP Be gentle with spiders. Ignore cats.
lol, thats good. My INTJ tactic is usually saying "you can stay, just don't approach or touch me" and then checking every second to make sure they are abiding
As an INTP, this is accurate to how I am in general with friendships. With romantic relationships though, I am happy to coexist in the same space as my partner all day everyday, as long as I can keep doing my solo activities like watching documentaries or RU-vid videos and reading whatever. My partner and I don’t actually do a lot of the same things together. Unless I force him to watch something (like a documentary or movie/show) on the TV that I’ve been really wanting to watch. I do most things solo on my phone. But I do like having my partner around, just to see with my eyes and occasionally snuggle with.
Man sounds awesome. My peculiar self-awareness of my introversion has tried to solve it by kicking itself into conversations, so having a person around to talk to sounds pretty nifty!
INTP one was funny but that’s how I treat 99% of people. But I am goofy and can’t stop talking when I am with someone who clicks with me. I wouldn’t date someone who didn’t make me feel like that. It would be hilarious to watch a sketch of an INTP in this mood. Cause we can be a lot... but only two people in existence will ever witness it.
Can you do "16 personalities dating their opposite personality" as an INFJ dating ESTP is bit freaky thought 😳...but kinda curious about how that might go🤔
I’m an INFJ and a good friend of mine, who also had a crush on me, is an ESTP. And he is actually very sweet and considerate all the time - in general he is very emotionally mature! When we were both studying abroad, we spent a LOT of time together and I cannot remember a single time that I was annoyed by him - the opposite actually! I felt like he complemented me in several ways! He pulled me out of my mind, when my Ni drove me crazy, but he also sat down and listened to my thoughts and idea and was able to understand and even extend them. Like he made sure that I was actually experiencing the adventures I dreamed about and I told him about the meaning of several thing and the intention of people. Sure, it‘s not the same thing as “actual dating” but close enough (more similar than the INTP at least xD)
the sudden silence just screamed INTP the ISTJ is just my google assistant 😭 oh and kristin, you should do a "16 personalities dating their stereotypical pairs"
Prepare and plan as much as I can, hard core enforce one or two scheduled items to minimize my own predicted stress as much as possible and then kind of follow along and watch them do their Ne things. It's usually adorable and entertaining
@@Wardfire Aww, you're so sweet.😊 My husband is an ISTJ and I am an ENFP. The way I describe our relationship is: I am like a kite and he is like a stick in the ground. He keeps me grounded and I keep him from becoming stagnant. I wanted an ISTJ's opinion that is independent of us to give me a clearer insight.
@@naowright9308 Honestly sounds like it could be a great combo! Also hanging out with an extrovert sounds like it could be nice, they can interact with other people for me haha. Some of my closest friends are INFP and INTP and although Ne is not their primary function I enjoy watching them Ne, and then I get to organize their things if they can't find what they are looking for haha
@@saskiascott8181 Same! I instantly recognized the ISTJ type and it's so true. Whenever we go on a trip she is extremely organized, right on time, knows the weather app forecast by heart, whereas my ENFP mind is wondering how much fun it would be to have a hovercraft so we could travel wherever we want to and asking which era she would like to teletransport to while I'm hugging trees.
As an ISTJ, I can say that im like this, but im also not like this. Yes, ill make sure theres a to do list for each day of the holiday and have everything packed accordingly, but I do enjoy fun haha we all do
INTP and INTP in a relationship is almost the same as not in a relationship at least we've got memes, and we can discuss our theories and random stuffs - INTP (me)
Yeah but what are "relationship"? It's basically being comfortable with some friend but also allow ourselves kissing and having sex (i don't include hugging because that can be done with friend without any problem). It's a little bit underexplained but there are really not much to it. Imagine knowing girl/boy (depending on your gender), liking her/him and knowing that she/he likes you too but not "dating" each other. Do you lose that much from not dating? I mean, you still like each other, feel comfortable and spending time nicely. I am INTP who isn't really interested in relationships but even if i did, dating is good but i would be completely fine with extremely platonic relationships.
For the ENFJs, that was a very good mature and authentic Fi decision in the end. And for me,ENFJ, that is The relationship I want. People rarely ask me what I want when I offer to be selfless towards them. Only another ENFJ can understand the selfless effort and return the favour without taking it for granted.
As an Fi user, the back and forth was painful to watch. Would've been so much easier if everyone just spell out what they want and work out a solution that works for everyone.
She got at 100% right every time before I meet with my gf and her parents I always take the time to remember I need to act like I care about what they want.
I look forward to seeing the INTJ skit next video, but frankly, I imagine such a relationship would include: reading together in silence for hours, playing strategy or board games against each other, discussing all the ways everyone else is wrong and inefficient, discussing fundamental principles in regards to philosophy, morality and politics, conversations on very specific subjects, the creation of plans spanning multiple years to achieve goals that others somehow manage to achieve without such a plan, going on walks or hikes together in isolated areas, to a limited extent: the postponing of plans of the INTP’s, the disagreements of the INFP’s, the planning of the ISTJ’s, and between each other, the boastings of the ENTJ’s. All of this being said, I’ve never been on a date, much less a date with an INTJ, so what do I know? I’m still in the first phases of my 30+ step multi year plan on how to attract a mate. It’s a good plan though, I’m 100% sure it works in theory. -INTJ
everything you said in the second paragraph sounds super romantic and you have somehow managed to make me feel the concept of relationships is not fundamentally pointless I want to try them with someone... wait there's no INTJs around me. -another INTJ
My INTJ guy spends hours building action figures that match his call of duty setup so he can fidget with the action figure while we're having dinner or watching a movie. He's really quiet in public but talks more than I do at home (I'm ENTP) about everything from theories on Batman and science, to strange hypothetical dystopian situations and how to survive them, and he has a wicked, dark sense of humor.
@@lilil6753 I’m glad that I have managed to somewhat restore your faith in the utility of a relationship. Unfortunately, I do not believe I can help you in achieving one, as this is something I have yet to manage myself. I suppose, simply take solace in the fact that there are other people who want the same things as you do. If you’re lucky, you might find one, one day.
@@rachelrichey8567 I can certainly relate to being quiet in public, but talking a lot in certain contexts. I can, and do speak for hours with an INTJ friend of mine, but can also go an entire day with almost no interaction. It sounds as if your partner is lucky to have you. Oh, and I absolutely love the dog in your profile picture. I live with three of my own, and I imagine my life would be much bleaker without them.
My wife and I are both INTJ. I really thought the ISTJ was us. She does the packing and snacks. I do the routing. One year I put our trip to the coast in my calendar, complete with gas stops and 15 to 30 minutes per stop for spontaneous wandering.
I’m friends with an INTJ and the way she plans trips and dream vacations for fun absolutely astounds me. I’m an ENFP, so “planning” and “fun” obviously don’t belong in the same sentence... I’ll never understand you guys and how far ahead you see things 🤯🤩
As an ENTJ, I can relate. Personally, I don't want to date anyone until I finish medical school because it's so hard to find someone who understands that my career comes first
As fellow medical student I can understand where you are coming from. On the other hand I am not quite sure if it will be much better during residency. Oh well, I hear you can live quite well single as well ;)
I'm still in my first few years of University, but you probably understand more than I do how much of a commitment that is. It's still in the future, but I don't want to be caught in a situation where I end up leading someone on
Instantly knew the ISFJ and ISTJ. When the ISTJ said the stuffs were all "folded and ironed", I'm like omg blissful perfection, i must cry. ISTJ best couple here. xD --ISFJ
These are hilarious. If you ever need ideas for your ISTP persona... here are things I've done: -Lived on Soylent for a year because it was more efficient -Made a hovercraft, motorized bike, pancake making robot, concrete table, etc -Started loving cooking after I finally realized you can do it without following a recipe -Often so bored to the point it feels excruciating and almost like pain -Pulled off the highway because I saw a frozen lake so I needed to go walk on it -Found a dude on the lake illegally trapping muskrats and learned about the process -Been with my significant other for 6 years but the thought of marriage induces panic -Got unicycle for Christmas in 5th grade, was impatient so I learned on an ice covered driveway -Accidently lit a small fire on our coffee table and just watched it burn until my roommate came in yelling -Have booked tickets for out-of-country trips 1 week in advance -Need to mountain bike, rock climb, skate, wakeboard, ski, etc to feel alive, but not reckless -Back in HighSchool, a few friends decided that I was "a robot learning to love" -Am Engineer, obv. -Have an air mattress in the back of my car for if I want to run away -Hated college parties, but had fun helping set up lights that synced with the music -If I absolutely had to do a party, would usually try to find the strangest person to talk to -Somehow end up doing just as well at most things as my rigorously planning friends, to their frustration -Must use auto-investing, because sometimes my money just evaporates when I have a new robot or travel idea
I haven’t been in a relationship but I was talking and flirting with an INFP girl for a while and pretty much all of our values and morals were the same, except most of the time I talk about moral compass pretty early on in meeting someone, so if we’re complete opposites it usually doesn’t get very far.
I know no one asked but I feel obligated to type this. That's not a healthy approach to disagreements. Having respectful debates where both side listen, to each other, both sides give input and both try to be open minded is essential to becoming a better, smarter person. Of course you can always agree to disagree, but having healthy debates (not arguments) is important for self growth, as well as the growth and strengthening of a relationship. Maybe most importantly, you'll see where the other person is coming from, and thus will gain more respect for the people who hold the opposing viewpoint. Otherwise you become an echo chamber where in everyone in your life just repeats your own values and thus you never have the opportunity to learn and grow. It's a good way to gain an infallibility complex, where you think your incapable of being wrong. Worse you end up hating everyone who is different. You become a bitter closed minded bigot. I mean no harm from this comment my only hope is that truly bigoted people will read this, and work on being more open minded. Being open minded doesn't mean agreeing with anything, if you here the other person out and still disagree there's nothing wrong with that, obviously.
@@paradoxicalpoet1525 Ironically, it’s usually them that has a problem with me. I’m open-minded as long as you can respect my opinion. I see everyone’s perspective and I’m not intolerant. I try to initiate conversation with people on the other side of matters, but they shy away. People just take having another opinion so personally. They can have an opinion, but aren’t able to talk about it or won’t take agreeing and disagreeing as a compromise.
@@paradoxicalpoet1525 That's all true, but we're talking here specifically about choosing whom to get into a romantic relationship with, and everyone has the right to have their own standards and preferences regarding what they want in a partner. INFPs are generally quite open-minded and willing to hear different perspectives, but we do have certain core values that we hold dear, and we generally need the person we share our life with to be on the same page when it comes to the essential things that matter most to us. It's just about compatibility with our partner, not about discriminating or judging others, and this is simply an area of compatibility that tends to be particularly important for INFPs.
I love how you put the personality type at the end - it makes for such a fun guessing game annnd I think I’m getting better at guessing the types! Woo! I’m excited to see how useless us ENFPs will be - most likely forgetting we have date night or something
...as a fellow ENFP, I feel everything in this comment 😂 It’s probably gonna be one ENFP texting the other going “I’m sorry I’m sorry I’m sorry I thought the date was tomorrow and then I realized it’s the 18th and I thought it was the 17th and I’m so sorry like I love you so much and you’re gorgeous and I swear I’ll make it up to you because you deserve better and if you get a boat and move to Portugal to get away from me I don’t blame you 😭💞😞” And then the other ENFP going, “Wait what no our date IS tomorrow” ...then, a second later, sending “WAIT IT’S THE 18TH? SINCE WHEN? WAIT AJDVDJDVE” First one: “...” Second one: “...um” “wanna go out tomorrow? 💞”
Can't wait to finish watching this ✨ Oh my Lord, I haven't dated, but the way the INFP thinking process is displayed is *sooooo* accurate XD Great job!
I feel bad for the ENTJ’s, like you can tell that the other was upset when their partner told them they got a job over seas but also I wanted to be happy for them, and offer them that support 😢. All of these are so wholesome, all your videos are so creative and entertaining while offering that perspective on each type that helps us understand ourselves and each other. Can’t wait to see what you do next. Thanks for always being so awesome 💕
*2045, voiceover in a history documentary* "...and as we all know, after a year of Coronavirus lockdowns back in 2020-21, social structures had started to break down. In this video for instance, we can see a woman who has invented 32 alter egos to keep herself company, and is engaged in an elaborate set of relationships with herself to stave off the boredom." 😉
ENFJ married to an ISTJ. That ISTJ skit was FAX. The only part left out was how long it actually takes to get out of the house to go something fun. I literally sit in the car for who-knows-how-long until he feels prepared enough to leave. 🤪 I will say that he never forgets anything and any item I might need is available. 😄
As an INTx (and someone with Asperger's) I am likely to say "Well, I was thinking about you. That's enough contact for now." I once heard someone talk about the difference between "affective love" (showing someone your feelings about them) and "effective love" (doing things for them). I immediately thought of "reflective love" -- I think about people. I care about them, I just don't need a lot of face time with them. I am glad my wife and daughter are in the same house, but I will be in my study watching RU-vid videos or writing programs. I am content knowing they are there - somewhere - pottering around on their projects as I am pottering around on my projects.
As an ISTJ who isn't entirely acquainted with the types, I immediately knew the last one was ISTJ. Like, after the first whole exchange between them I could tell. I think I've gotten used to some of the stereotypes for my type, though I'm definitely not as detailed as portrayed. Probably used to be, but I think life drained me of some of that.... As it stands, I really enjoyed this video! :)
As an INTJ, I found the ENTJs in this video insanely relatable. Up to and including the things they say to themselves. And the thing about moving overseas. Imagine other people having a say about that *shudder* hahahahaha
Request: 16 Personalities as Narcissists. It would really help the empaths and good people to identify and be aware of narcissists much easily and protect themselves. And also to raise awareness of the narcissistic personality disorder and to confuse it or attach it to a certain personality type.
Hahaha I can SO tell who’s the ENFJ from all of your videos, every, single, time! Had an ENFJ colleague, she never told me her MBTI type, but it’s so obvious. Amazing how well you do all the types, great acting skills, empathy and humor!
As an ENFJ, I actually didn’t mind it. It’s good to make sure that the person you’re with is comfortable with a choice you made and they made sure they did that. Plus, splitting up is okay because they both get to be happy! Plus both their moms are comfortable🥳 so it’s a triple win
It can be like a endless reflection if none of the two dare saying what he truely wants. This is where problems can arise. But most likely you'll slowly progress in the conversation until you're sure everyone is confortable and aware of what the other wants as much as possible.
@@cece6448 I am an ENFJ too and I agree, it was funny but totally relatable! and I liked how they talked through it and got to a good conclusion, wouldn't mind being with another ENFJ lol
@@sarahhamdan5470 exactlyyy!!! it would be so amazing to be with someone who’s as worried about keeping you happy as you are about keeping everyone else happy. It’s like, after a long day of people pleasing, we’d have someone who wants to please us instead! Two enfjs would be good together imo
INFP and ENFJ seemed most like me and appealed to me. They were so NVC cooperation like and feelings-focused and I felt so proud and comforted how fairly and peacefully they sorted out Christmas plans. Mostly the others really didn't. Some would feel like torture to me, like never seeing each other or hardly caring about ever seeing each other or doing things together and mentioning plans to move overseas like it's no big deal. Were INFJ and ENFP in here though cause those are the other two that generally resonate. I'll watch it again. The two that lost money at racetrack but didn't care cause they had fun seemed fun! ISFJ had a nice supportive talk too. INFP feeling deep emotions and harmomy-focused and starting over with an idealistic dream definitely sounds like me.
I instantly knew what the INTP one was because that's how I'd prefer my relationship to be if I ever had one. Dating my best friend in middle school doesn't count, but that was the only time I "dated" anybody, and that is exactly how it went on my part. If they didn't initiate anything and if we didn't go to school together, that quite possibly could have been the entirety of our relationship. EDIT: That's also how all my friendships went, back when I had friends. In middle school.
The INFP one is painfully right. And the whole sketch was on point, bravo Kristin ! P.S. : The ENFJs remember me of my mother and I, except that we ( usually ) decide to go on a spontaneous trip eventually. /out
I wouldn't want to date a me. I feel like i get along the best with more extroverted types. There have been some times where my reaction to someone in my mind is just ugh cause they feel a bit "extra" but end up being one of the better people around cause they just keep pushing and somehow i end up liking the person. My biggest crush infact was also most definitely the quirkiest person around back then and remains one of the more... Interesting people, i know irl. 😂 -INTP
Well meeting each other is really disastrous indeed. But if I can give you a life advice as an INTP: Even when the extraverted are very fascinating, the problem is: We need isolation when being in trouble, the extraverted needs some "party". As long as you have energy you can go with on the party for your partner. I did it a lot. But eventually your energy is depleted and you are dreaming of a toilet or an "urgent" task downstairs. This is a real problem. I found an INFJ , and we work really good together.
I am also an INTP and find extroverts exhausting. I feel like they don't understand my desire to spend time alone and they always think that talking to people about your problems is the best way to get better.
@@marie27023 Yeah, i mean, while i feel like most of the more interesting and fun people i've met are extroverted, they've mostly just been colleagues so i've been able to "escape" home at the end of the day. And don't really exchange phone numbers with many people so, i guess there's that. 😂 And of course i have good friends that are somewhere between extro and intro. But there's something about some extroverts that get me more interested than introverts most of the time. Like a part of me that gets to shine only with extroverts. 😂
As an ENTJ, I would understand that for my partner moving overseas for work is overall a sensible decision for her, but I would also be low-key unhappy about the fact that we might have to separate, in which case we either have to do long-distance (which is not ideal) or I need to find a job overseas as well (which is not easy and may not necessarily fit my long term goals). You nailed that conflicted emotional state perfectly.
I can't imagine how hard the work you put on to making this video. As you not only writing (cleverly and creatively) the script, acting on it (excellently), but also making me believe that there are 2 people talking to each other in every scene. It feels so real and easy! Kudos for your talent, creativity, and video making skill 🤩👏🏻💜
your acting is really on point, it amazes me every time! i can always guess the types based on body language & the way they talk, it's so entertaining!
Amazing! The pair of ISTJ robots really cracked me up! Also, this shows it's best for all the types to date their own. Can't wait for part 2!! Edit: I rewatched the video and I'm in love with your beautiful golden phone cover! I noticed it in your social media video too!
As an ENFJ, this is very true. It takes forever for multiple of us to make a decision because we want to be certain of the others feelings and don't feel fully comfortable voicing our own.
