16 Personalities Dating Their Opposite Type 

Yesssss , the add was crazy good.

Glad you enjoyed! I had fun with it 😊

Yes ahhh!

Agreedddd It was hilarious

AGREEDD i replay it 🤣

thank you

u forgot ISFP and ENTJ

@@mielxd4136 I didn't

u put ESFP and INTJ, not ISFP and ENTJ@@elidepeel8341

​@@soham701 Yeah, I had to re-watch that part to catch the note at 2:11.

True!

Some weeks ago I subjected myself to an unofficial online personality questionnaire which assessed me as INTJ. I don't know how reliable that is, nor, indeed, what it really means. However, I can confirm that after completing my University education (in the 1970s) I did not attend my graduation ceremony. I did not know what a graduation ceremony was (nobody had ever told me), and I was simply too terrified. I sent my apologies in advance together with a bogus excuse. They sent me my certificate through the mail. A perfect result, I thought!

@@RunnerBeanzDad You are a true rebel Sir!

@@RunnerBeanzDad it's great to see this stuff bring people of all ages and walks of life! Geriatric.

OMG .. twinzies 😎

BAHAH

Why the fuck is it/this so true, looooool.

😂😂 can not relate!! - ESFP we’re opposite buddy’s!!

I would have been otherwise occupied at the time of filming. With what? Avoiding filming, I would have been occupied, avoiding filming.... I thought that was clear.

That’s EXACTLY how I wake up from dreams. Why are INTJ so aware like that? We have no chill at all.

The words "will you do a tik-tok dance with me?" Means that I must be living a nigthmare...

I've been through this existential awareness so many times I'm just go play along with it while giving an angry glare at anywhere the 4th wall camera might be.

😂😂😂

Sadly i am as an ISFJ can relate 😭😭😭

Indeed , such a realistic scenario 🤦‍♀️ ( * nods and smiles internally in agreement, but not too noticeably lest someone might notice and ask why * )

@@reddae6910 well.... why...?😀

See that's why I need an infj in my life.......so I can laugh at her the whole day.😂😂. - ENTP.

I mean, we INTPs really need someone to cook us a meal, don't we?

Same here. This is 100% from our everday life, where my well dressed ESFJ wive, who searches all the internet for stuff, tells me enthusiastically whatever she found and I go "nah". Then she gets a bit mad but still cooks me lunch 😀

Yup Esfjs are pretty great

As an INTP, People with strong Fe is like God in my eyes. They are so cool.

@@L16htW4rr10r just be careful, people with a high Charisma stat have the potential to be dangerous when pushed.

I couldn't resist! Thanks 😁

Little did everyone know... The INTJ was right!

@@LAL7887 (queue "The Twilight Zone" theme)

@@dearkristin You've done some of the funniest and strangest takes on INTJ I've seen yet! Weird but also on point. great!

It's like "INTJ would never be in this situation in the first place what do I do?.... wait-"

Some of those would be hilariously entertaining lol. I hope it happens.

Love this idea!

An ISFJ as a lawyer…what a nightmare 😂 for all the clients as well

I can’t think of what an INFJ athlete would do besides long-distance running or maybe sailing

INTP wedding planner sounds pretty cruel for the INTP.

Lol

That's for a lot of extroverts in general. We think out loud

@@missions4hisglory It's specifically a Te trait I think, but because ENFPs are Ne doms, it ends up being crazy random. Their Fi makes how they feel a priority, and they literally have to talk to work it out.

As an ENFP, I say that my mind has so many thoughts and feelings all going in a bunch of directions at once and the only way to really feel out something specific is to get it out loud or in writing. Once I've locked an idea into reality, I can evaluate it with more scrutiny now that I've put it into a more solid form.

@@kaliah1494 same, talking about my feelings and ideas eith someone or writing in my diary really helps to clear my mind and organize my thoughts. Otherwise it's just a big loud mess

😂😂 Glad you're enjoying them!

@@dearkristin they're so great

Busted!!! Now I have to rewatch. Had no idea that was there! --INFP

True, comically impactful for sure.

I can't read the subtitles. They're too small and dark.

Good guessing 👌 I play all the types in a similar way in each video - I should try switching it up somehow!

@@dearkristin That’d be fantastic, would make things even more interesting!

It helps when you know you have opposite types. It makes it twice as easy to guess. :)

@@cathyhart3946 You’re not wrong there.

@@dearkristin noooo I like the continuity with the characters. It's like the Dear Kristin Cinematic Universe

i did not think that she will have a frank james ad

yeah, great use of se

After the person said what the first time, I unconsciously said the same thing after she said she’s talking to the camera

ahora me pregunto qué personalidad tienes erzy. >

@@yxmms3859 Yo soy INFP jajaja... y si me conoces por el team, te diré que Dany es ESTP, Mia es INFJ y Frito es INTP XD

Bahahaha

Yes, that was me and my mom's recurring conversation about her buying stuff... Cringy 😐 (But I could go without food for a few days... If she let me... 😅)

Yea I hear you... I've got a mother, a sister and a cousin that are ESFJs... Inferior Fe meltdown used to be a daily occurence 🙈 /INTP

You knew it was coming so here it goes: SWEET HOME-

@@cockycookie1 💀💀

Ikr, i am also an intp and smth similar happened with me and my friend as well

Thank you, Nick!

I agree, it didn't even feel like the stereotype at all, just a real INTP while I was watching I said to myself "this must be INTP, I've said exactly this before, (yippee in video) but they have too much emotion, there's no way this is a portrayal of an INTP"

how to be human, XD

Same!!!

O m g so true! TTuTT

AKA "How to become a Perceiver"

Alternative title: The 8 feeling types putting up with their adorable/insensitive opposite thinking types. See, it goes both ways. XD

@@nerysghemor5781 I'd watch both videos!

Thanks! 😁

Are you an INTJ?

@@shadeshift1268 Yes

@@elizabethcochran3395 cool, I'm an INFP

weirdly sometimes l feel like l am an intj, so yeah same~infp

@@allweneedislove965 INFP and INTJ both have Fi and Tell, of course in different places, but I could see INFPs relating to INTJs (and vice versa) because of that

Totally get you

Oh gosh, hahaha. Hilarious!

Dump him, you deserve someone who will listen to your actual words

@@jessicamirrielees4624 Lol... his brain doesn't work the same way mine does! And you must be fairly new to MBTI type if you think that an ISFP will take the advice of some random nobody stranger over the internet! We take advice from almost nobody...

@@jessicamirrielees4624 why TF would you advice her to dump her boyfriend? That's weird

@@izza_ISFP where do you take advice from just curios? How do you make up your mind?

was it so toxic as it seemed to be in the video? :( hope you are over this story now!

I’m an ENTP and my gf is a ISFJ. This is 100% accurate.

@@kvakva78 as an ENTP: No Unless you're taking our jokes too literally, then it'll seem toxic, but it's really just all our somewhat weird humor

@@kvakva78 It was the best time of my life for the 3 years it was a thing I just got extremely flakey and she didn’t seem to be able to move on I was a flakey asshole and she was the opposite Relationships require a lot of commitment and I struggle with that a lot, She overindulged and I didn’t prioritize it enough It can be so stressful dating someone with your inferior function being their dominant function Its either perfect or a nightmare or in my case, both

@@kvakva78 what about it was toxic?

* the ENFP goes home and regrets everything she did on the date with ISTJ and wonders why she did such things in the first place *... Maybe I've actually had this experience so it would make sense if she had such a reaction later on to what she did

@@lunanighter7289 oh my word. Me at college today. I started talking to this girl and I could not play it cool I was trying to then started rambling. Not seen her since I was 6- but also have no clue when reading social cues and now I’m overthinking.

@@Meg_intheclouds oh my gosh yes overthinking lil stuff I did in that past and wondering what impact that has left on the people around me TwT

@@lunanighter7289 and that’s on Critical Fe. it was induction as well. So like I’m a year 12, and like there was so much information. And my ENFP brain started playing horrible histories in my brain. Because the head teacher said his name and all I could think was “my name is, my name is, my name is Charles II”

I'm an ENFP guy and I always date ENFP girls(funny part is that it doesn't happen intentionally) and we can just be ourselves and have all those embarassing moments and laugh together, instead of getting judged by mr. perfect(a.k.a boring) ISTJs.

Thanks for the positivity!!

Agreed.

Can you really live together? I mean, don't you have any problem? Because sometimes they want to kill us (i am an enfp too) and of course sometimes we want to do that too😂

@@مائدهرضایی-ر9م Oh I am sure he wants to kill me sometime. I would just end up making him laugh though. As for me, I think he embodies all the qualities that I want to but doesn’t have. I have so much respect for him because of that. So, even when I a frustrated with him, I still realized that he is coming from a good place and is probably right. Lol.

@@Lily77717 I wish the best things and the loveliest moments for both of you😘💞

INFJ and SAAAAME

It sounds like wrangling 2 Huskies and a Malinois lol

ESTJ ARE EVIL PERSONALITY TYPES!

ESFJ ARE EVEN WORSE, ESPECIALLY WITH NARCISSITIC PERSONALITY DISORDER!

Thanks! I had a lot of fun with this one!

Really ? I felt so bad for the poor INTJ. I can have a sort of derealization feeling when I am in a very stressful siuation, and I guess it looks a little like that from the outside. I thought this was what Kristin was showing, but maybe in her scenario the INTJ is just faking the whole thing ? I would like to know.

@@andrea6x79 I think that the joke is an INTJ would never be in a relationship with an ESFP. The INTJ in the video realises this and has come to the correct conclusion that their reality is a simulation

That's adorable! My husband (esfp) and I (intj) laughed at it quite a bit. Stereotypes are just that...not reality.

@@dogdonut3 Certainly! I'd like to think of the sketches as portraying one particular person of each type, so while maybe accurate, they're not necessarily generalizable.

But the English Subs support the fact the ISFP was trolling the ENTJ. And it is not that the ENTJ didn't listen but that he misunderstood what ISP said. He even respected his partner's supposed need for more time for themselves, which is sweet. But it does look like they have known each other long enough that the ISFP knows the ENTJ is the way he is... This means there have probably been many misunderstandings BEFORE and I feel sorry for both of them during that time.

Thank you for this comment. I've been dating an ISTP recently and while these skits seems scary accurate I've been wondering what a healthy relationship with and ISTP is like.

I'm sure ENFJs have a lot of interesting insights about the world that an ISTP wouldn't mind listening to... ...as long as its not about us.

I have similar experiences as you with my ISTP little brother although I am INFJ and @scone1025 that so soo true hahaha my brother becomes so sad when I have read him exactly right and give him advice about it

my mom's ENFJ ...here's our regular convo Mom: Hey why dont you sit with us and talk about somethin? Me: About what? Mom: Anything? Me: There's nothing. Mom: How is there nothing to talk about?! Me: Idk... just leave me alone... So yes, the skit was 100% accurate lol

ISTPs are attractive to me, as an INFJ.

Schedules give me hives I swear!

Appointments - Yes, schedules - No. Schedules just hurt my brain and I like to be free sometimes. I wouldn't be against schedules when working, but I don't work all the time. -ESTJ

@@redbest1943 Thanks for pointing that out! That's something a lot of people who aren't close to an ESTJ don't know since they only see them in work mode. My mom (ESTJ) will tell you she is really good at doing nothing, when nothing needs to be done. And on vacation she hates when my dad (ENTJ) overschedules things...she just wants to relax! XD --INFP raised by wolves (Te-doms) ;-)

they are not triggered especially if they say they aren’t in my experiences.

@@lindseymelo714 I don’t believe it for a second!! 🤣😂

I'm an INTJ my best friend is an ENFP. It's a great combo. So much trust, understanding and fun together!

I'm an intj and my twin sister is an enfp. We're so different but we have a lot of fun together 🤣

@@isaymamamoo9469 Yes!!! It is like a salty sweet combo with candy, that just works!!!!

@@isaymamamoo9469 Yeeees!

I have 10-year old twins as my niece and nephew who I think are INTJ and ENFP. They get along amazingly well.

Hahaha thanks bro! 🤙 Yes I won't lie, you were somewhat inspiration for this 🤣

I've just checked your yt account and you have a playlist called rants This is so ENTP haha ;) Interesting playlist btw

us entps have such shitty lines that we absolutely adore, but we know other people hate it or find it cringy

@@weDie-tomorrow LMAO

I'am an ENTP and all my family say the same thing.

@@Prinaananas123 like my daughter, I’m sure you are a ton of fun to be around, though 💪 😃

@@sirbradfordofhousejones Yeah my family also say that 😌

Not everything depends on her, but also on your upbringing.

@@sirbradfordofhousejones in most places "fun to be around" are Se types. Ne types are considered weird, especially if Ti is the aux function. Most ENTPs are type 7 though so that's where the "fun" came not because they are ENTP

Intj here and this will be me, in that one date i will decide to "do something more fun" than a tea and or a walk (and later maybe some Netflix without chill and far FAR later with chill) Also i never been in a relationship either ... 23yo and counting and i blame my focus on my studies and my projecting my issues to the future (also high standards)

@@fayem4091 Your reasons for still being single is the most relatable thing I’ve read.

@@lonedragon7061 thank god ! Even if i am 23, i have distant relatives that are getting engaged OR married and those ladies are YOUNGER THAN ME. And i am sitting here -ready to start studying for my second degree- like... * Forever alone meme I feel pretty shitty tbh that i am the only one who is still single in my close friend group (2 people) but i honestly feel like i don't have time for the drama that comes with a relationship.... But i will leave you with what i tell myself and sometimes i almost believe it (do as i say not as i do) "Everything is happening for a reason and someone will be found for me when the right time comes" (aka when i finally get my second degree and finally a job-also learning to cook a few foods wouldn't hurt either lol)

Yeah, my sister is an INFJ and it was pretty spot on for her. ISTP was also spot on.

@@fayem4091 Sorry to burst your bubble, but you do realize that after your second degree there will be something else to focus on? But what do i know, i'm just an INTP who was single hid whole life. (The possible drama is really a thing i'm not quite sure if i want to handle that)

I'm also an INTP and don't know what my mom's mbti is either, but the "do you want me to make you lunch?" thing hit home lol

My mom is probably an ESFJ, and yes, that's exactly how our conversation could look like.

YESSS

I was thinking that the ESFJ sounded like a more outgoing version of my ex (maybe an ISFJ), who did talk quite a bit with her crowd at least

You guys are cute sometimes but other times it feels like I'm talking to my subconscious in human form lmao we'd be like angel and devil because I'd try to corrupt you into doing evil with me 😈

@@englishmuffin7 🤣🤣❤️❤️

im an entp and i also quite like entps :)

every time i eat somewhere where there are napkins on the table, i have to stop my self from making napkins origami (mostly cranes, they're gorgeous!). but if i'm with my friends, i'd take everyone's napkins and make them origami cranes. also, if there aren't any napkins, the receipt would also do lol another enfp

esfp here , too accurate!

That’s totally me too “Did you want to get out your calendar?” Uhhhhhh

It’s just basically sucking the joy out of life with regimented romance and we all know it 🙃🙂 INFJ/INFP

As an ENFP I actually don’t mind it all that much. Sure it can feel suffocating which I hate and I could never schedule minute by minute- but growing up in with a very Si family you pick up habits and stuff. but I also know that in order for me to get stuff done and function I need some kind of routine. Also I can vary as much as I want better when I know how to do that- and by better I mean I would anyway, I can just ensure that I actually stick to commitments and also give my self that time to explore. So no schedule at all wouldn’t work. Like I have my a level time table. And then I have a lot of independent study which I can let my self explore in (like especially with English literature after every lit lesson I spend ages going through all my notes and expanding on everything I want to and I’ll write like questions down for myself in my notes that I then go back and explore in so much depth).

is it normal to hate routine and schedules too but NEED to be organized and loving organization at the same time, it happens to me and Im hella confused :'v

I can confirm the scheduling part was the best part for me. I love me a schedule and guy who can do the same, and reach at least 5 mins before time.

Thank you! You too :D

Are you that hardcore ISTP that your phone automatically rejects majority of calls? Because… yeah…

you don't have like silence button on the side of your phone? I always click the one with the volume and it goes mute

@@justynap5031 that’s a good idea, but it doesn’t work while I’m using my phone

@@tickital4464 that's really sad

I'm just kidding -ENTP

@@BillyBob-lt5nr Being an ENTP feels like this most days: ENTP: *says something* Person: *is shocked* ENTP: just kidding lol ENTP: ENTP: *was not kidding*

@@tatyannafrancis9935 Alternative: ENTP doubles down. Now we see if our subject really has a genuine objection, or if they are a boring sheep, or a cowardly jellyfish. 😁

@@tatyannafrancis9935 ENTPs out here constantly thinking: "I just thought of a really funny joke, but it might be offensive - ah whatever, let's just say it first and then gauge whether or not to apologize based on their reaction"

@@jchen8902 Accuracyyy but i find it exciting and cute sometimes -INFP

Bahahaha. Cause you will have had the time to Google or...?

Fourth - because it takes you 4 dates to get down to your Se 😉

@@dearkristin Pffft…Google. Child’s play. I would’ve purchased a racket of my own, the Definitive Guide to Badminton™, recruited a friend to practice with, and maybe joined a local club for good measure. 😉 Why do all this? I dunno. Dominate Ni and inferior Se is a weeeeeird thing. Haha

@@jamesporter2788 Huh… 🤔

@@sunchips18 because Se is the fourth function for an INFJ. So each date you open up a little more. Just my Ne making connections where there are none 😛

ISP are enabling trash! They are often drawn to evil personality types, i.e. ESTJ-NARCISSITS and ESFJ-NARCISSITS! ISP's are overgrown fetuses! SMH! My sh*t mother is one of them! INFJ, here, HATES her, and her emotionally-self-centered, idiot, life-choices! Smh! They cannot regulate themselves well through life! They are overgrown-children with the mind of a fetus! That constantly wants to remain incubate, hence their stagnate, 'MINDLESS-observer' mindset! Looking for the sake of looking! No analysing or brain activity going on!

I have heard about this kind of compatibility buut I am still very skeptical about it. Anyway as an Fe-dom, I have just been drained so much by narcissistic people who took advantage of Fe. And narcissistic Fi-doms are really plain selfish. I am yet to meet a healthy unselfish Fi-dom. Otherwise for now, I prefer other Fe users.

@@daphventurer7475 yeah honestly I just wanted to see how she would interpret that kind of relationship. Theoretically seems fine bcs I'm an intp myself and honestly an entj theoretically sounds like a perfect match for me but tbh I think I'll get drained pretty fast since they might not appreciate my Ti who's not as quick as their Te. Also their Te might frustrate my Ti since they keep making conclusions right away whereas I would want to get all the data points possible first.

I love the idea of minimalism but not the execution

I relate to the ESTJ-INFP pairing because one of my best friends is INFP and this is literally us when trying to schedule anything lol but I wouldn't trade our friendship for the world, it's honestly so insightful and eye-opening.

Absolutely agree. I'm usually the one trying to calm down my esfp husband who is telling the whole family that he heard, "the truth that the media doesn't want us to know!" But I have learned that showing him research and data just ticks him off more. Now I just let him talk and say "I respectfully disagree".

You missed the point of this video lol. The INTJ part was actually pretty brilliant. Did you not really get it? Let me explain then. The INTJ was basically aware & REALIZED that she was just a character/persona that Kristin plays. She also said that she could get cut out at any seconds and the video really ends before she even uttered the full sentence.

OTOH I think I'm Ni-dom and even though I don't buy into other people's theories.... I have some ones of my own. I think that's the difference between strong and weak Ni - Ni is ESFP's inferior but valued function, so they're more prone to weaksauce conspiracies. But (as in the vid) Ni dom can be super complicated and, importantly, _right_

They ARE always fun.

Good, for us ENFPs 😂

Dating apps typically commoditize dating, an infinity of options. And yet in this case, personality type driven, with as rare types as INFJs and INTJs.... it might be more like finding unicorns, rather than becoming a commodity.

@@jojomojo9823 i used this app and believe me, i am infp and on that app first person i found was infj. There are maximum infp's and infj's...! I saw so many profiles just what i wanted..(I am boy, so i am talking about girls) and i mate 1 person on this app and she is from same country..we talk alot and we are good friends now. Dont know about serious dating, or other things(u know what i am talking about) but u can make realy good friends and meet interesting people..

The test isn't working :/

I used it for some day. But so few people of my country seem to have it

Bahaha 😂 too true

Thank you! Doing much better now that I've got some great coping strategies 👌

@@dearkristin💖💖

I was hoping you'd pick up on this! You sparked this idea - thank you!!

@@dearkristin It was so much fun to watch! Brilliantly executed! Thank you for doing it!

It is. This scene was very difficult to watch.

Thanks, Mary 😁😁

As en ENFP 9w1 I’m the same 😄 I have to be careful when listening to sad songs because I will tear up while thinking about some scenario I thought up and others will think I’m sad 😅 I can also reach out to the imaginary person when I’m reenacting something in my head, so I make sure to do that only if I’m home alone. I also love to feel the intense emotions songs bring up (but in private). But I’m very particular about cleaning and I can’t stand spilled things - I go out of my way to do things effectively so I avoid spillage (growing my Te slowly but surely). Edit: in a true ENFP fashion I’ve edited this comment 7 times :’)

I talk to people in my actual life out loud in my room…alone. I tell them things I probably wouldn’t say to them irl, but it works

Good. You have developed and matured your inferior Se function. :) Maybe you grew up with or spent a lot of time with Se dominant people that nurtured your Se as well.

@@daphventurer7475 Thanks! That's definetely partly true! My best friend is an ISFP and I like being around Se users in general! But I have always loved all kinds of activities in the outside world for as long as I can remember and there is no one in my family that has any Se in their function stack. Unlike what I have heard from other INFJs I have been a very introspective AND active child, always eager to explore and then marvel at length about my new discoveries. I also wouldn't say I get the typically INFJ sensory overstimulation after being in the real world too long, my mind just automatically drifts away after some time and I work on autopilot if nothing in the outside world requires my attention.

Profile picture checks out 😂

@Alexis Webb Yeah indeed I'm young lol

You mean commitment to care about others feeling? Yeap, i hate that too. They expect us to care about their feelings, but never bother to ask us. It's like a business lol. You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours. That's my motto. Never waste our times, feeling, and money for someone that half hearted.

ISFJ and ENTP have some clashing vibes, my dad's an ENTP and my brother is an ISFJ and most of the time they just co-exist somehow lol

As an ISTP, I would probably say something to get them started, and sit back and watch the show. I don’t mind conflict as long as I’m not involved :)

Sometimes, I feel I should adopt an INFP as a friend at least.

@@daphventurer7475 I'm an INFP XD What type are you?

@@brodywilliamson5678 Welp- You sound just as chaotic as my sibling :') You guys aren't all bad tho