16 Personalities on a Date with an INFJ 

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Once, when my now husband (INTJ) and I (INFJ) were still dating, we were woken up by someone knocking on the door. It was a Saturday or Sunday morning, around 9-10 and we were both exhausted because we had come back from a party just a few hours before. What's more, the knocking was completely unexpected and a tad suspicioud because you generally needed to get through two intercom operated doors to be able to climb to my apartment and then finally knock. We stirred in the bed half-dead, listened and as I silently decided that we are just going to be uncivil and completely ignore the knocking, my now husband said "Let's be very still and quiet and then maybe they will just go away". I mean, that's precisely what I was going to do, but he said it out loud ;)

as an INFJ woman, I couldnt stop laughing 😂

As an INTJ, my family acts like they are put off by me saying "what everyone was thinking" at extended family functions like Thanksgiving, but they all secretly love it.

0:01 ISTP 0:10 ESTJ 0:23 INTJ 0:38 ISTJ 0:55 ENFP 1:15 ENTP 1:31 INTP 1:44 ENTJ 2:00 ISFJ 2:17 ISFP 2:42 INFP 3:00 ESFJ 3:20 ENFJ 3:37 ESFP 3:59 INFJ 4:16 ESTP

As an INFJ woman dating an ENFP man, this is one of the reasons I love him. Whenever he catches me in my staring state, he always asks what I’m thinking. This leads to discussions of why I think that way and my opinions on things. In return I get to hear his opinions and why he thinks what he thinks. Only person who has ever cared about what’s going on inside my head and truly trying to understand me.

Jokes aside, the ESTP interaction was soo true and reflective of INFJs personality

INFJ, and I'm dying laughing. Once, I dated a fellow INFJ, and the results were hilarious. We did not stay together. We were too much alike, but we still got a kick from sharing our tale. When you can read each other's minds, it gets old.

Watching an INFP saying his inner thoughts outloud was super relatable. However I have to mention that for me it happens only if I trust the person to a degree and I have to complete it on my own, so I can choose which parts of it I wanna show the other person.

ENTJ:Screams at the waiter. INFJ: *Feels horrible* ENTJ: We are getting a free dessert out of this. INFJ: Oh, that's good. INFJ's brain: Maybe we should try this more often...

I love how frank has a way of highlighting the best and worst parts of every type that it makes us come to his videos to find comfort or feel better about our own type that in fact every single personality in the comedy sketch feels relatable

As an INFJ who is married to an INTP, I cracked up at their interaction. One of the reasons I’m so attracted to him is because I can never predict what he’s going to say! (and I love talking about all things aliens) 😂

Don't let us INFPs scare you. Sure, we've already imagined the wedding before we've even managed to ask you out, but it's basically just a reflex. Like breathing. 😅

I really like how sassy this INFJ can be. When she actually took advantage of ENTJ asking for a better service, so she expressed the things she didn't like about her order (a thing she wouldn't do typically), and at the end she got desserts (better than what she meant).

The infj and enfj suddenly getting silent by the end and saying bad match straightforwardly was so hilarious😂

As an INFJ, I can confirm this is how i basically feel interacting with each one of them on a daily basis. Guess we ARE chameleons, aren't we?

INFJ here. I married the ESTP. 25 years in! I ran and he chased… finally I gave in. 😂

The INFJ girlfriend seems so nice, also ENTP sounded like he wanted to pair up with INFJ to become the ultimate power couple, that was pretty cute actually.

As an INFJ female…After watching this great video, I realized that I had literally already gone through all of these possible scenarios before in my head.

I love how the INTJ and ENTJ are the same in the sense that they say what the INFJ either wanted to say or was thinking lmao.

I love the Entp and Infj couple "with My brain and your looks we could do some damage"😂❤

As an INTJ, I can confirm that 90% of my interaction with other people is just saying out loud what both I and everyone else around me is actually thinking. And then sitting there in confused silence wondering why everyone is laughing…

This is pretty accurate. I (INFJ) met my (ENTP) boyfriend at a holiday party. He mentioned how he thought my calm demeanor was so powerful that he felt envious of it! 😂 He immediately began wooing me, and we quickly began dating. 6 years later, and we are still the power couple he envisioned. I have no idea how he saw that, but I love his big ol’ brain.

I love the dates with ESTJ, ENFP, ENTJ and ESFJ in this sketch. ENTJ over reaction was hilarious "what is happening in that kitchen?" 😂 well, they think it's all potatoes 😂

That INTP/INFJ date is so true 😊 After the INFJ gets comfy with you, they become the ones talking about obscure topics with an excited or intense look in their eyes.

INFP started so sweet and innocent and then the tiny red flag grows right out of his head 😅 Also, to add to INTJ's movie idea, it gives you a default conversation topic if you can't think of anything. That's a big plus!

INFJ has never been more relatable 😆😢! In fact, I can relate to so many personalities in this video that I don’t even know who I am anymore 😅. Great job, FJ and Holly and thanks for the laughs!

Even with a creativity block, he still knocks it out of the park. Well done, good sir. Well done.

am loving how ESTP directly calls out exactly how the infj works literally on the first date 😂 they voice all my thoughts about the infj I’m too scared to say lol -ENFP

My brother is an ENTJ and he does EXACTLY what the ENTJ in the video did. It’s so embarrassing sometimes because he will even stand up and go to the kitchen to ask things like “what is going on in this kitchen?? I asked for an appetizer 30 minutes ago. Do you want me to make it for you or what?” I always have to pray that he doesn’t find anything “wrong” with things whenever we go out. Good thing is, he is REALLY GOOD at solving problems. I mean, he and my dad are the only ones who will speak up whenever their order is wrong, which all of the introverts in my family are thankful for but sometimes they do need to chill out😭😭

I’m an INFJ woman who found herself late in life on a date with an INFP. Reader, I married him. 😂❤😂

As an INTP, I relate to the INTJ and ISTP, as well as the INTP, but instead of aliens, it would be another one of my interests, specifically MBTI.

I went on a date with an isfj and he kept asking me " are you okay" i was starring him the whole time and after that date he told me he felt like i was reading his soul and it made him little uncomfortable...but in reality i was actually thinking ...okay not thinking i was getting anxious about "what should i order" 😂

The ESTP date seems to be the most normal/best date for the INFJ to be with 😅

As an INTP with many INFJ friends... so true. Love that they go along with the unpredictable things I say

I had a crush on INFJ... I'm INFP (both girls)... Things I've impulsively said: - "you look amazing" -multiple times- (she blushed and remained silent while I was dying inside) -"can I kiss you?" -I love you so much" And a lot more. Turns out she doesn't feel the same, but I still LOVE LOVE LOVE her so much!!!!! She's my friend and the most beautiful person I've ever met ❤

Frank, I gotta say, you acting as a girl here: so good and keeps getting better each video. The subtle movements and expressions. You didn't act too feminine, like some guys tend to as acting like a girl. As a girl and an observer of people in general, I appreciate that so much. Really, each scene played out like you're 2 different individuals!

The chemistry between ENTJ and INFJ was 🔥🔥

"Tell me a little bit about yourself" is the WORST QUESTION you could ask an INFJ

Hilarious sketch, Frank! They were all funny, but I really liked how she needed extra allotted time for having a meltdown about the parking problem. The ENTP wanting to combine his brains and her looks to do some damage was a crack-up! INFP...😂 Loved the piano music, too! LOL🙌😂

As an INFP I thought all people imagined their dates as their future husband or wife. 😅 I love INFJ 🥺

the INFP one is TOO FUNNY 🤣

As an INFJ I'm pretty sure I've been on most of these dates but the last one left me feeling SO called out 😂 You mean guys don't want me to just reflect whatever I sense they're looking for?! 😅

I like ENTPs because they are funny and like our quirks. And I like ENTJs because they stick up for us when we are terrible at doing that for ourselves because we want harmony so bad.

As a INFJ who has never been on a date, this is hilarious. Also, if I met a INFP like the one in this video, I would so fall in love. Just, INFPs in general are so ardorable even if they do have deeper and darker stuff going on underneath. lol

As an INFJ, I would vote for INTP (1:30). I would love to talk about all my conspiracy theories to someone who understands.

INFJ can live like a king/queen with an ENTJ significant other. I would take FULL advantage of their bossy nature!--INTJ

INFJ here, recently started dating an INFP. As we are getting to know each other, he told me that he’s always had to watch what he said. You portrayed him pretty well. I swear that’s the conversation he had in his head with me.

My husband and I are both introverts. We hangout by ourselves in the same room. It's great and he doesn't make me go out in the world. That's also great. We're happy.

As an INFJ, dating an ISFJ I can say that he is too kind for his own good. He somehow resents people but still cares a lot about everyone and thats what I like about him too

INFJ on a date is like that one character on a sitcom that's really reserved with smart wit but a bit strange in some kind of way

I feel the title should be more like "16 weirdos dating INFJ" instead 😂 But seriously, I like it. I hope we get a whole series out of this. 😁 - ISFP

The ENTP one was spot-on. I'm INFJ and my husband was ENTP and he would say crazy stuff like that all the time!

As an INTJ engaged to an INFJ.... this was too accurate lol

As an INFJ married to an ISTJ, this is accurate! My ISTJ husband ALWAYS looks up the menu and decides what he's getting before we get to the restaurant.

That explains why i always end up with some INTJ at the end of the day 😂

The ENFJ and INFJ...oh boy...😅 My INFJ fiancée is the best! 😂 Sincerely, A Very Sincere ENFJ 🎉

This was good. ENFJ-INFJ spot on! We are too similar in the wrong way to work, haha. But the ENTJ really seemed to work out well!=D

This is why I got myself an ENTJ as my boyfriend 😁❤️

Frank that was so hilarious! OMG that INFP part hits so REAL man!!

As an INFJ woman who's engaged to an INFP I found that really sweet!

as an INFJ, the parking mentality is real. But I could be extreme to where I'm estimating time with how many stop lights, how busy the parking situation might be in the area at that time of day and calculating those minutes as well lol

Suggestion: You should do “16 personalities on their dream vacation”

I’m INFJ and one time I was talking with the therapist, and she told me ”Tell me something about yourself”, and I was like ”Oh…okay..uuuummm…….I guess I’m friendly?…or…I don’t know…” (my english might be bad)

INFJ woman married to an INTJ and this skit reminded me why I fell for my husband- straight to the point and efficient. My mind is alway on and he grounds me with logic and the most profitable outcome. He tells me all the time to stop overthinking it all and just take the most logical answer, or we will waste time! That's my kind of flirting! Bring me back to Earth and away from my alternate realities. ❤❤❤❤

Once again, INTJ is spot on! Loved it!

I literally spend 10 minutes minimum looking at the menu and end up getting chicken tenders 😂 Also - I'd love to see more INFJ/ESTP interactions! Just a little fyi from a random stranger 😄 Thanks for the videos FJ!

The INFJ dates with ENFP and ENTP were hilarious among all others. INFJ thinking similar to INTJ and ENFJ was also on point. INFJ leaving the ISFJ when he was crying was kinda rude.Didnt expect that .

That was the realest ESTP interaction I've seen by a long mile. That's basically how I have conversations with people that I'm trying to befriend or know more about. Great job Mr.James.

As an INFJ dating an INFJ that was pretty funny! My 1st date with him started at like 2pm and didn't end till close to like 10/11pm. We were both awkward and stumbling about how to interact with each other initially, yet we stayed out talking to each other. Extended the initial park date to a boba tea shop across town, to then talking and procrastinating getting into our separate cars to leave even though it was cold and neither of us had jackets! And the next like 3 following dates were probably just as awkward and cringe-y but yet also so refreshing... Eventually we figured out a groove, found out we are both INFJ and it made sense why we both were waiting for the other to take lead, so we mutually agreed we'd just voice what we want to do/talk about vs waiting for someone to initiate it since we both were actually already thinking the same stuff (like wanting to hold hands or be official, or go somewhere that we thought the other might not like yet we were on the same page/pacing for everything once we said it out loud)... Needless to say I'm still with my INFJ man :)

As an INFJ you saw right through me with the last one damn 😂😂😂

ENTJ was spot on! I remember being such a people pleasure and he was always there defending my rights out loud 😂 With INTJ the date would be like an educational/philosophical podcast or seminar we go deep right away! I always love ENFPs. Always fun but deep with them. We’re like two hippie aliens in the middle of human invasion when we talk somewhere out. 😅

I JUST cannot do dating. This clip is a GREAT explanantion of WHY, as an INFJ 🤣 (And PS-I ALWAYS give myself an extra 30 minutes-to get lost, to find my way, and to have a meltdown about how I got lost. Yep!)

Wow! And here I’ve been wondering how each and every other personality would react to having an INFJ as a date, and you did not disappoint! My smile couldn’t fade away due to anticipating every personalities next move, but seeing how serious “we”( INFJ’s) are in our own mind and thoughts, it would make sense why we are seen as intimidating. But GREAT JOB on the video FJ and Stay Positive while you’re at it! (Sincerely, an INFJ-T fan.)

The INFP had a fair question, who has not asked that on a first date? 😂 I think the ENTP and the INFJ would be a force to be reckoned with! However, ESFP wins due to superficial reasons, I love that purple shirt, and I went on my first date with my partner to a dueling piano bar… lol

Wow frank just opened a can to a whole new series!!! I'm all for it!!! Also as an INTP who talks to a lot of INFJs this was pretty accurate... We always start our conversation with odd topics no else would talk about xD

Despite the awkwardness, only INFP was able to lock down a second date. Good luck, buddy!👍

As an INFJ that's exactly like I order the food. I'm searching through the menu to see if i can find something I would like to try, but usually end up getting everything as always. 😅

Love the INFP honesty. Always know what you're getting.

INTJ here - I dated a ton in my 20s, and did the LTR thing once. After years of post-break up analysis, I've determined... never again. Turns out I've never felt lonely and romantic companionship is surplus to requirement. I felt so liberated when I came to that realisation. Thankfully I have a great family, bio and chosen, so I don't lack connection with others. Aromantics for the win! 🥳

Wow, ESTP just throwing it on her. Now she can go and do some self reflection for the next 2 years before she finally curates what a normal person would tell about themselves on a first date 😂

The looking at the menu for half an hour to then just decide on the meal you always go for was freakishly accurate haha. I will admit though, me and my ENTP bf would be way too powerful what with his 'brains' and my 'intimidating looks' xD. Thanks for the awesome videos as always!

Please make INFP and INTJ versions of this! This was amazing!❤

As an ENFJ, I can relate to the pause on both ENFJ and INFJ. Yes we can read minds, and when two mind readers reading each other's mind it's... Like a 5d Chess

''Have you learned how to weaponize it yet?'' 😂 love the acting, the looks to some of the things being said are just right 😄 that last look in the piano place was brilliant! 😂 …INFP aww bless! 😅 and the INFJs both thinking about how long it went on lol

My mom is an INFJ and this explains why she’s had so many dating fails. But she is going to marry her ENTJ fiancée in June 😊

Okay, INFJ here, and I do the ISTJ menu thing. I decide what I'll have as soon as the place is decided upon and write it on my phone's Notes app. I just feel too anxious about taking too long to choose and bothering people. 😅 Also, omg, the chicken tendies, yes, so on point! 😂😂😂

I’m INFJ and every one of these scenarios is precisely why I’m currently single 😂. Awesome video as usual. Your creativity and insight are incredible.

Pretty sure the ENTJ one is based off something Frank's wife literally does when they go out.

Here as an INFJ even after dating all other personalities just ended up dating myself

as an ENFP this is so real i always skip the small talk

I didn't expect to be revealed by ESTP like this 😂 I always observe and gather information about people first and then see if we're a good match and I feel comfortable to open up 😀

Nailed it! My second date with my INFP husband had him casually dropping having 2 kids together and our current arguments are about me taking what he says at face value.

The meltdown at the start about anything new is so accurate 💀

Frank, glad to see an INFJ video! It used to be all INFJ stuff back in those days! Is your ENTJ portrayal based on your experience, your wife?

"With my brains and your looks, We could do some damage" 😂❤️

As an INFJ, i can relate lol. When my ex (im not sure what type but I can tell he’s an ESFP or ESTP) and I had our first call together, he asked me “Why do you like me in the first place?” and that question took me half an hour to think of the answer. I was like “uhh umm uhhh well” and I told him that I couldn’t explain them in words. So instead, I typed a long message on the chat and sent it to him lol. Another thing is that he knows that I’m always deep in my thoughts so he looked at me in the eyes and like, “What are you thinking right now?” just like what ESTP asked in the video 😂 I really love him but we fought a lot due to misunderstanding. The worst part abt being an INFJ is that you can’t express your feelings directly. When my ex and I talked it out, he told me everything about the problems that he’d been dealing and shared his feelings to me. But when he asked how I felt, I kept quiet. I really couldn’t express my feelings at all. Then, my ex told me I came unprepared when I was the one who tried to talk things out 😢 He always told me to tell about my problems and text him if I feel upset about something. The thing is I have so many things that I want to share with him. My feelings, how much I was upset and everything but none of these came out of my mouth. I kept my feelings too much only for him to realize that “this isn’t going to work”. In the end, I had to write a letter to him saying that we couldn’t be together because our communication was nothing but meaningless. He was really surprised that I made the decision first when he knew that I didn’t want to give up on our relationship (before we break up, I started to see that there’s no hope in continuing this relationship - We kinda fought a lot in three to four weeks). I told him that even if we broke up, I would still like you. On the day we broke up, he would hug me from behind and put his head on my lap as our last moments. We chatted and updated about our days and all. He wanted to hold my hand but realizing that our relationship had ended, he stopped and just nodded. When its time to go home, he stood up and headed for the door. Then, he just smiled and left without saying goodbye. A few mins after he’s gone, I cried like a baby. That really shattered me into pieces 💔 It’s been almost a month since the break up. I’m currently trying to hold the pieces together and move on like a normal person. I still love him from the bottom of my heart and I hate the fact that I always think of him 24/7. II would sometimes cry because I remember his voice saying “I love you” and I admit that I miss him a lot :’( I really miss him. I always wonder if he thinks the same. But if he’s happy, then I’m happy too. That’s the end of my story :)

As an INFP, I feel called out. Told my now-BF on date 3 that I loved him (and I restrained myself since i wanted to do so on date 2 but knew it was too soon 😬). I surprised myself because I usually don't dare share my inner most feelings but I just had to get it out. Sharing our traumas on date 1 and chatting online for 1,5 month before we went on our first probably helped a lot and made me feel safe with him. He's also my 1st and hopefully last BF. He's ENTP/J and would definitely make a fuss as I would definitely refuse to say anything about a wrong order

I'm an INFJ, I'm a man and I've never been on a date, yet I feel like this is too accurate.

That's excellent. After this I've started thinking about finding ENTJ for real, never been interested before, but after this sketch.. my god... I had all these kinds of interactions with my friends! So accurate!