I would like to say as a brother although this video was for sisters, ive benefited much myself. Absolutely beautiful video. Hearing you explain a righteous woman only makes me want to strive to be the best man I can be, as of now I am not deserving of a woman of this caliber. May Allah make us amongst the best of men and women.
This is pure gold. Every married couple should watch this together. May Allah reward you both in this dunya with the highest of success and with Firdaws in the Akhirah. By watching this I've learnt so much about myself and how I can improve, so many gems subhanallah. It doesn't even feel like it was 2 hours long because you two are talking like friends and having a conversation allahumma barik. JazakAllahu khayr.
Thank you! Wisdom. Substitute Organic Raw Honey for sugar. All substances to heal are in the Qua'ran. The Qua'ran has elevated the Honey Bee for its importance .While researching plants for the health of the honey Bees, In the Bible and the Quaran, I discovered a way of life. .
Seriously? Good for you sister! Everyone should be finding their way to islam through reading a few verses of quran in their "research" for whatever they are doing in life......but alas the words of Allah are true: few of them believe
I’m just speechless. This has been my all time favorite video you’ve made. Allahuma barik. The note you spoke about why iblees loves divorce even though divorce is permissible SubhanAllah. I’m happy you’ve spoken generally on this topic of marriage but also showed those more specific issues like not having rights fulfilled And etc, such a comprehensive conversation, allahu akbar. It’s so much deeper than marriage. It’s showing truly why marriage is half of deen…how it completes deen.
I have heard of cases where sisters were shocked to find out that their friend married with a very low mahr.They tried to convince her to ask for a greater mahr than it.That is why ustad is right.Dear sisters,never ever allow even your friends interfere in your relationship!
Name a better duo than these 2 brothers! May Allah reward the both of you and the rest of Al Madrasatu Al Umariyyah. I have benefited greatly from your different posts over the years. As far as English speakers, I believe you all are the best source of knowledge of the deen in modern day. I'll never forget the first video I saw of Ustadh AbdulRahman Hassan teaching aqeedah on the whiteboard in 2016 (highly recommend!) AMAU is always in my duaas.
Al Imaan is the most expensive treasure, whoever loses it has lost the real life. The real life is: 1) Obedience to The Most Merciful --- Allah 2) Following the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam. "O you who believe! Answer Allah (by obeying Him) and (His) Messenger when he calls you to that which will give you life,..."(8:24) (From the book 'Tajdeed Ul Imaan', pg:8)
As a new parent I’m so grateful to Allah that He has given us these videos, resources through these amazing brothers and their knowledge, may Allah bless and reward them both abundantly, so that I can teach my children more easily these concept that were never taught to me at least. Problems and issues that rise from not following the Islamic way, explained in such an easy to understand way and with evidence that can be referenced and backed up.
May ﷲ reward the AMAU team. This channel came into my life at a time I really needed guidance and I can’t explain how much I have benefited from this. May ﷲ grant you all the best in this life and the next! The comment brother Shahid made about TV shows affecting your life. Wallahi that is so true, I remember watching shows here and there never noticing how much it actually affected me. It genuinely does affect your imaan and your salah. The Khushoo of your salah is affected - and that’s the most precious connection you have to ﷲ so don’t let anything affect that! May ﷲ safeguard the Muslims and grant us the highest rank of paradise!
The first section brought a genuine ear to ear smile to my face. Allahuma barik. May Allah bless you both and allow you both to be neighbors in the highest level of Jannah. Ameen ya rabb Ameen. I’m so excited to listen to this episode as i know it will be so beneficial not just for sisters who are looking for marriage but also already married. May Allah allow us all to be righteous spouses and correct our shortcomings and increase our piety and good manners.
Staying home won't make a woman righteous. Many hisewives exist who sit and backbite all day, listen to music , miss their prayes. On the other hand you have women who are quran teachers, involved in organising events for women at the masjid, who run their own businesses, and rae very strict with their salah, hijab etc , despite leaving the house everyday.
JazakumaAllah khairan for this video. I have come to realise that I am so far away from being a righteous wife. I have a lot more to work on subhanAllah
Jzk. May Allah swt reward you both. My ADHD brain can’t fathom how you are able to drive safely and have such a deep impactful conversation, Allahumubarik feekum.
Still love the intro! I loved this series as with everything AMAU produces. I think it’s safe to say AMAU have changed many of our lives Alhamdulillaah. Especially with the academy. May Allaah accept from them & allow us all to benefit 🤲🏻
May ALLAH makes us from the righteous wife in this time. Amiiine **Any person who passed through this video plz make douعas for me to get married very soon In shaALLAH.
Allahuma Barik. Please continue with the series as I enjoyed listening to the first episode while driving myself and inshAllah the same will happen again with this episode.
Masha’Allah Tabarak’Allah !! Ya akhi… the beginning segment to which you showed such brotherly and genuine gratitude to your brother could have made me teary 🥺 Subhan’Allah !! May ALLAH Azzawajal continue to bless, reward and guide you both immensely until your very last moments in this life and in the Akhira. Aameen!
Narrated Abu Bakra: A man praised another man in front of the Prophet (ﷺ) . The Prophet (ﷺ) said to him, "Woe to you, you have cut off your companion's neck, you have cut off your companion's neck," repeating it several times and then added, "Whoever amongst you has to praise his brother should say, 'I think that he is so and so, and Allah knows exactly the truth, and I do not confirm anybody's good conduct before Allah, but I think him so and so,' if he really knows what he says about him." Sahih Bukhari 2662
This was so beneficial; so sad to know we lost audio on the last 15 minutes there. Surely there were some gems that got left behind. Jazakallahu khairan to the team for another fantastic episode in the series.
If anyone from the AMAU team is reading this please encourage the viewers to like the videos to spread the dawah so it can enter every house with the permission of Allah. You guys are really pushing the dawah to another level with the help of Allah SWT May Allah SWT preserve you all ❤️ love you all for the sake of Allah SWT
My 2 biggest advice to married sisters/ to be married sisters: 1. Have financial literacy and independent financies from your husband. This is regardless of whether you have happy and successful marriage. He could die before you. He could walk out of the marriage. He could change. Hence, it's a must for women to have their own financies 2. Keep people out of your marriage. Don't complain about your spouse to others (e.g., mother, sister and friend). Keep your problems private. Only seek advice from professionals (e.g., mosque Imaan, a therapist).
If the wife has separate finances then she doesn’t need her husband to take care of him, she only wants him. The husbands primordial role is being a breadwinner, the wife is being a carer. This is obfuscated when the wife has finances.
@@redman6790 It doesn't have to be the same amount. A small side hustle from home so with time it grows as she saves it. She should use her husbands money but having your own money for future investments and benefit is a smart thing. If the husband gets laid off or his finances go down at a point of time, they could use her and his savings to make ends meet. She could have a savings before marriage or keep her mehr as a savings but to be completely without money might put them in a tight spot in the future. She might also want to provide for her parents by paying them a monthly bill when the husband is not able to afford it. But again, to use from the husbands money 99% of the time.
Amazing episode ..i love listening to podcasts, for people who have left music and movies these kinda things are such a great replacement like even we have some great stuff to watch now and which definitely can’t be labelled as boring! Jazāk’Allahu khayr and please do bring Ustadh Muhammad Tim on board ان شاء الله 🎀
@@kaalufshinni3576 What if I am somali myself? You would feel stupid would'nt you bro... Therefore I advise you to remove your comment as you will be asked about it on the day of judgement, may Allah protect us all from false accusations & bad thoughts of our brothers in iman.
Alhamdulilah ala kuli haal! Love This Episode MashaAllah TabarakAllah! This gives hope to myself and all the Brothers and Sisters seeking to marry a righteous Spouse. May Allah increase us All in worshipping Him سبحانه وتعالى in the correct manner through all of our Actions Ameen
Brothers you forget that Lowering your gaze is a must for both men and women Many Hadeth was narrated by Muslim women That means women have the right to go on social media and do duaa and speaks out about the women rights which most of men forget or ignore to say it We have many young people go stray because you don't teach women how Islam respect her and her role and most of the younger people don't know their rights in Islam but you just keep telling them about forbidden That's why these young girls have been deceived by feminist movement Which we know it is planned to destroy the family life
Amazing lecture. Thank you for such a amazing deep explanation as other talks don't give better explanation and it can cause misconceptions. May ahllah reward you both.
Sign up to our exclusive LIVE classes by visiting www.patreon.com/AMAU 00:00 Introduction 03:26 The comprehensive nature of Islam 07:11 Righteousness is from Allah 11:13 You have to exert effort 13:25 What is the source of guidance? 16:35 Allah’s solution vs human solutions 18:39 Don’t replace The Qur’an and Sunnah 21:06 The role of social media 28:38 The role of culture and gurus 32:25 Don’t rush to divorce 35:31 A wife’s relationship with Allah 36:38 Four qualities of a righteous wife 39:41 Avoid extravagance in spending money 42:30 Don’t let others influence your marriage! 52:09 Shaytan loves divorce 55:10 Righteousness leads to a happy marriage 59:58 Looking good for her husband 1:04:45 Obeying her husband 1:11:46 Doesn’t abuse her husband’s wealth 1:13:43 TV series are destroying households 1:15:22 Don’t catch your spouse off-guard 1:18:48 Earning love and being childbearing 1:21:57 Reconciling with her husband 1:25:52 Soft words and companionship 1:27:48 She covers herself and avoids arrogance 1:28:37 The upside-down world we live in 1:29:53 The generation before us 1:32:27 40 years without an argument 1:34:42 Society’s impact on the divorce rate 1:36:37 Halal and haram beautification 1:42:40 Paradise and hellfire are through the husband 1:44:56 The strangest complaint! 1:47:41 Rights and responsibilities 1:49:53 She doesn’t overburden her husband
Brothers you should cover the fitnah of free mixing between, married couples with other married couple, before marriage, divorce couples meeting up with ex spouses with the excuse of children, divorce couples are just friends and call each other for chit chatting which upsets their new spouse who does not free mix and is very loyal. Old friends who have your number and call your husband/wife to say hello/salams. I'm talking about free mixing with opposite genders in all these situations. Also second time marriages are failing because men and woman are to friendly with their ex spouses and not acknowledging who they are married too. Also ex spouses trying to break up marriages. Also who is responsible for a divorced woman. In the west the society makes out the ex husband is still responsible for her. But in islam isn't it her family/male members. Also the man after divorce, shouldn't he leave her alone so she can move on.
@Kk There will always be barriers with studying the religion because it's such a virtuous action. You need to strive with whatever resources you have and inshallah Allah (Swt) will make it easier for you.
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As Salaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuhu! I am learning a lot from your videos. Unfortunately, at 1:39:42 in the video, there is no sound. Please check your recording and reupload. Jazakullah khair
Salam brothers. May Allah bless you both I benefited from this video. My question goes with the lines of husband seeing you at not your best. For example when wife is delivering baby it’s not a beautiful sight to see and this may put off husband sometimes. What does our deen say about husband being in the same delivery room?
Assalamu alaykum brothers May Allah(SWT) increase your Knowledge and grant u Goodness in Ithis world and the Hereafter Ameen ya raabil alameen plz forgive and correct me if I didn't understand the story. So my take on it is. Firstly the sister who got influenced by the other sisters and confronted her husband. Dont u think part of the marriage is talking explaining giving her advice and guidance bcoz this was a test from Allah (SWT) and to see how they solve and find a solution to it and take it from there and not be so harsh . Marriage is abt growing together and help each other with each other's flaws. By the will of Allah (SWT). She is some one daughter . Imagine the hurt her parents and family feeling. U hav to considerate and think and have wisdom and ask for guidance from the Almighty Lord Barak Allahu feek
Keeping in mind she is from bak home and she was probably overwhelmed and out of curiosity and that's wer shaytaan saw his chance. I take it they haven't been married long and I think u said they had children or the auntys was saying the children get money. Now I may b wrong so plz forgive me. It's almost sounds like his ego was hurt and showing his control and who's boss and sends her bak home. Now we r always going to get sisters and brothers like that. So may b he could hav gone to Imam Iof that masjid and ask him to do a kutbahh regarding that matter thru the Quran and sunnah. Bcoz these woman need to b reminded so they dont do it to anyone else InshaAllah and hav a chance to make tawbah and seek knowledge InshaAllah .Its abt finding solutions by the Quaran and Sunnah Barak Allahu feek
Very good masha Allaah. Brothers what about the men and women who after divorce thing they still can free mix because they have children? So many of these cases are happening because they are adopting the western values like were just friends now. They stay friends with the ex and their new spouses feels they can't say anything about the husband's or wife's relationship with their ex. No one is addressing this issue clearly. This issue is causing second, third time marriages to fail.
