20 Memorable Moments From 20 Years as a Funeral Director 

The people who deal with you are really blessed. You have so much empathy.

This is a video I didn't know I needed so much. The love and care you put into your job is amazing. Your eyes spoke of your feelings throughout. The Undertakers who cared for my maternal great grandparents & grandparents, took care of my brother, who left us through suicide. Those moments when we feel distraught and destroyed in grief, are eased by the love poured out by church celebrants and Undertakers. I don't fear death. I strongly believe it is not the end. However, knowing there are people like you out there, brings great comfort.

Congratulations on your 20 years. You have cared for many families with love and a companion . May you continue for many more years. You truly are a angel on earth God bless you.

If you announce funerals for veterans that have nobody, people WILL come. I think it's a very good idea. And I think burying the babies right in the earth like that is kind of beautiful in its way. I've lost more than one baby and I think that's kind of special...thank you for being there for them and for caring for them in the kind way I know you do. ❤

Hi Kari! Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. I have to say that they were quite interesting. I don't know if you know about this or not but my great niece and her five year old little boy was murdered by the boys father in the front yard of my nieces home. When I went to the funeral home, my great niece was sort of lying on her side with her little boy in her arms. I've never seen a deceased child before nor a mother and child together. It was the most heart wrenching thing I've ever seen. I must add that whoever took care of them did an amazing job. They both looked beautiful. She was a beautiful girl. You are amazing to listen to . You are quite a woman!!! God bless you.!

This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in a while. Touched on a lot of things that I never thought of when dealing with the funeral service arena.

Congratulations Kari on your 20 years you are a wonderful funeral director and person

Once again you show your dear humanity and love. I have done computing for thirty years and I love that too Kari. God bless you and your new person in your life? Dear Lady Of Michigan.....best of my thoughts. TJ the DJ 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

My niece has just started her studies in mortuary science and I am so proud of her. Like you, this was, for a long time, a man's profession but having more women involved is, in my opinion a real plus. My niece is so interested in the restorative arts behind the scene part of the industry.

Ok, I've helped bring 16 babies into this world including some of my grandchildren , plus I've been an EMT since 94 so I've saved a lot of lives , now I want to do this work since I've helped with the preparation of some very close loved ones including my mother. I feel like this work would bring me "full circle " ...birth , life , death. Please give me your thoughts on this , I respect you so much it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you 😊

Carrie may God continue to bless you with the gift of caring and doing what you do in a very healthy and humane way. You have a very good heart, and the perceptions that you feel when trying to give the people that you care for and their kin shows you were a most ideal person for the job you do. Take care and Season Greetings to you and your family.

KARI LOOKS SO YOUNG. Unbelievable that she has been doing this for over 20 years. I figured a job like this would have a person looking a lot older....and with kids as well. sheeshh ! KARI YOU HAVE GREAT GENES !

You have had an amazing (which sounds odd to say perhaps) career, you’ve got amazing empathy which shines through. You have so many precious moments to reflect on

This was so interesting to hear about, many dramatic and challenging moments you have had during your career. I can only say that people who you worked with were extremely fortunate to have a caring and compassionate person such as you!

Congratulations on 20 years of service & dedication, the funeral directors are "Heroes" in my opinion because they do something very few are willing to do in the hardest moments of people's lives. Thank you Kari for all you do 👍

Kari, you have such a captivating storytelling voice! I was subbed to you’re channel years ago when u where first taking off, the videos were a tad blurry but the content was beyond worth it! I recently made an new account and started re subbing all my faves! Ur content is so valuable in this community, thank you for all you put into these videos♥️

You have done great work over RU-vid for the past few years and for the past 20 great work in person I’m sure. Congratulations! Crazy that I’m right behind you being a licensed media technician. 17 years this June.

The more I watch you the more I realize how blessed are the people you encounter. You are a bright light in a world many of us know little about. Thank you for sharing and caring. You are indeed an EarthAngel 😇

I can understand how and why these moments are so memorable. Thank you for sharing them with us.

I can only WISH that we would need to have the fireplace on in April!

Very interesting memories! My husband was in law enforcement. He also had had people turn away from him or start to cry since he’s had to tell people their family member had died tragically and he brings back those memories for them.

Thank you for sharing your 20 big moments. In regards to #13, Veteran funeral with no family able to attend. Talk to the USA group call Patriot Guard Riders for a parade with motorcycle riders with flags flying leading the hearse to the gravesite. I was a member on the west coast and it was an honor to be there for the veteran and their families.

Talking about loved ones..I hadn't seen my brother in 9 years but we spoke all the time...then I got the dreaded call that he suddenly passed from a massive heart attack....had to fly back to Chicago and see him for the first time in his casket...I had a nervous breakdown...then 3 weeks to the day later, I lost my father. 2006 was a horrible year.

How you aren’t crying with these is a testament to your professionalism. Thank you.

Those are nice memories Kari and you’ve come so far. You should be proud of yourself hon

Kari, Congratulations on 20 years. As an Ordained Minister I have not had to do any funerals, but have seen a lot of death.

I was 4 when my Daddy was killed in a horrible car accident. I’m one of those people who has memories back to my crib. After the service Mother picked me up and walked up to view my Dad one last time. I saw him and almost lept from her arms to reach him. I did grab his jacket screaming the whole time and was finally removed by my Dad’s brother. When I saw them close the lid I flipped again. I told them to get him out of that box. I’ve been told it destroyed some of my family members but a child’s reactions are pure and heartfelt. The next day was Christmas Eve. Then Mom died 2 days before Thanksgiving. I cooked and my husband said I was a zombie. I guess I was cause the only thing I remember is insisting I must have her Lace tablecloth. Our brains protect us when we need it.

I have this habit of running your videos in the car when I have a little driving to do, like I did when I saw this video in my feed. When you got to, “Daddy! Daddy! Daddy! I was at a stoplight, which was a good thing. I had to find a napkin or something, because my face instantly started getting wet…. My mom died in July 1990 and the minister that did her service has been the pastor at our church for decades. His normal speaking voice is this deep rich baritone…. They chose him to also do an aunt’s service in 2001. I was alone in the church, looking at my aunt when he came up behind me…. He put his hand on my shoulder and said my name…. I hadn’t heard his voice in 11 years and the very sound of it…. Let’s just say I’m glad it was only the two of us. I had an instant meltdown, bawling like a baby. Edward Bowman, if you’re still out there, don’t say my name. It’s very weird to me how you can be owned by a simple voice or sound that lives in your memory like that. I have some of my mom’s 30+ year old cologne that does exactly the same thing to me. The memories just immediately appear.

Dear Kari. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, I do believe any family would be so fortunate to have you as their funeral director as you have such compassion and empathy for them. We have just found out my brother in law has stage 4+ cancer and is at the end of life stage. I'm so heartbroken for my sister, as they have been married for 40 and are still very much in love. I truly hope we have someone like you to be there for us when the time comes. God Bless you. ❤

Dear Kari, Thank you for sharing those touching memories and reflections of 20 years of being of service to others in the funeral profession. You are an inspiration to all of us both inside and outside of the funeral business. I had the good fortunate as a young person to work for several funeral homes during college and then continuing after school for two years as a mortuary student and as an apprentice. My career path changed before I was licensed, but honestly I still miss being in funeral service. I have lived vicariously through your you tube channel and enjoy your open and honest representation of the profession. I probably assisted with over a thousand services during my brief time in funeral service. Even though it’s been over 45 years, I too have such vidid memories of particular services and challenging situations. I learned lessons that prepares me for life. Never to take any moment for granted, and to appreciate every day as a blessing and a gift. I’ve been watching your channel grow and proposed for years. And today’s topic inspired me to finally write and says THANK YOU for educating us, and inspiring us to care for one another regardless of our profession! Bravo Kari!

It would be an honor to meet you💗

I'd be scarred for life. Don't know how you do it much praise.

I got to see my mom in her casket in private....I arrived earlier than the family and explained I wanted this time to be private and the funeral director honored my request...was glad I had that moment of grief in private as so many were present when Mom died that I didnt feel I had the opportunity to tell her goodbye--we were good friends in additional to the mother/son relationship; that was in 2009---still miss her!

Awesome stories good luck on your next 20 years!

When you mentioned seeing the woman in the store who did an about face. It’s funny how certain things can trigger emotions. The funeral home that took care of my son had a certain air freshener in their building. To this day almost eleven years later I cannot stand the smell of that particular air freshener. My grief comes to the surface all over again.

Your memorable moments video brought back more than a few memories for me! I was an EMT in a small town. Being a small town I knew a lot of the people I cared for. I've held hands with more than a few victims, relatives and neighbors in a time of crisis. Thank you for sharing, and thank you for what you do! 🥰

I did not collapse at my daughter's wake, but the guy she was seeing did. He was lying on the floor sobbing loudly. He had been drinking though. I think people thought I would do that, but I was in shock and calm. I also lost a 20 week baby. Both of my girls were taken care of by the same funeral home. They did put the baby in a small casket and the burial was free.

Congratulations on your 20 years! You are so interesting to listen to! Thanks for sharing your stories!

You are so awesome sweetie.God Bless you b.😘

Kari, I am twin. Twins are awesome 👌. We weren't supposed to live through our 1st night together & here we are here 54 years later, & Mom didn't know she was having twins!!!

Hi Kari I will be 20 years in my job as a carer this year. It's really hard to think about all the changes and service users I have worked with through these year's. Hope you are well Kari and your family 👪. Lot's of love from Nancy in Scotland x ❤

Really interesting the things we never forget I’m not only our lives but our careers as well. I’ve been in law enforcement for over 20 years. This give the idea to write down my memorable moments on the job. Just for family. These memories affect how we evolve as people.

Congratulations on your 20 years of service. Eed nore like you, God Bless 😘🥰

Follow you here and live in your area. Saw you at a local funeral establishment and you are even cuter in person. Your doing a good job and are even comforting people here too.

Wonderful video Kari, 20 year's wow , God Bless you Kari, I have been watching your videos for a little then 3 years now I love all of them.

I would have no problem with seeing and greeting you. 😊

Congratulations! Thank you for sharing your stories! Had to ask my hubby for tissues! You're so amazing and caring!

Thank you Kari for sharing those times with us! I can't say I went thru the 20 with you without almost tearing up! Thank you for caring so much for the deceased !

Congrats on 20 Years! Great video!

Congratulations on 20 years of caring! You seem pretty unique to me!

You’re amazing, Kari.

Love you so much Kari!!!!!!!!!!!!

These are some of my favorite types of videos to see from you!

The magiver story is just the best my partner was a truck driver he was killed in an accident I held his legs and right arm for hours while he was covered I wanted to kiss him but I couldn't Rais the sheet. this was January, I've been here a long time and I've never said anything but I miss him and couldn't have done anything without doing that and I work in the business but I didnt want to see and I still have his truck I can't get rid of it. It's a wonder we are not alcoholics.i sure enjoyed this one it actually brought me to tears.

Congrats Kari I want you to care for me...🙏🙏💯💜💙💚💛🧡❤

Thanks for sharing.

Congratulations on your anniversary!!

Kari you are amazing. Thank you for sharing everything about your job with such realization and love. You are amazing and lovely🌸

Very interesting and well done as usual

That is so cool !!! I absolutely LOVE your channel !!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Congrats on 20 years of serving a cross section of your community. People don't realize the positive impact morticians have on families. I think we're finally getting away from the stigma of being one eyed limping hunchbacks as seen in horror movies. Please keep up the good work.

The rose story really hit home. My grandmother hated gladiolas She did not hesitate to tell people. Come to find out,her lady friend told her that she sees my grandfather taking flowers from behind the funeral home,! Every week he'd bring her flowers 🌹, guess where he got them,?😂

Interesting the things our minds hold onto 🤔 I bet everyone who watched this video started thinking of something from their past.Every experience we live makes us who we are!! I saw in your face,the reliving of each moment you spoke of!! Makes one wonder?????

Congratulations!

Congratulations on 20 years!! That's amazing! Can you put a link to the video you mentioned about the pregnant lady you did arrangements for her baby? And the military funeral you mentioned reminded me of an episode of The West Wing, about a homeless veteran that died. So sad that stuff like that happens

Years ago my daughter had a son that was on life support machines. He passed away at 5 months old. She never held her son at anytime while alive. She requested that she could hold him. The funeral home let her and the babies father hold him after the evening visitation. I’m glad that they allowed her to do that we took pictures. Although with years but still had to be comforting in some way.

Thank you, Kari. you shared such lovely, personal feelings.

You are young and beautiful. Congrats on your 20 years. It takes alot to do what you have to do for your job. Thank you for what you do . I wish that we had you in my state of Wisconsin so u could do mine. You are a kind and caring lady for these people.

Congratulations Kari!

CONGRATS !

Congratulations ❤️❤️. I love your channel and hope you have many more years to come.

Congrats 🎉🎉🎉

Thanks for sharing and congratulations on 20 years.

Kari, I enjoyed this presentation even more than the others I have viewed. Thank you so much and I wish you many more years of compassionate service to your community.

Congratulations, on 20 years!!! Thank you for sharing

Thank you, Kari.

You do such a great job doing what you do. You have so much empathy and compassion for people, not many people have. Just very sweet and giving person. God bless the years ahead.

Congratulations

Thank you for sharing. You have given me a whole new perspective on end of death. I use to fear it and going to funerals. Now the dynamics of it all really interests me. If I was not 56 I would diffently consider being a mortician. You are such a sweet person with a beautiful soul. Anyone that has a love one that has you as the mortician is very blessed. Thank you again for sharing your knowledge and stories.

Thanks for sharing, interesting as always!

Thank you for sharing your experiences, and thank you for doing what you do!

Wow! Congrats sweet Kari! You are good at what you do and so much knowledge! May God bless you doing what you do. 💕🙏🏼💕

Thank you for doing what you kari, you have my full 100% respect, not many people can see what you do.

Amazing!!!!!!!!!!

Awesome, Kari!

Hi Kari! I have to say your channel is SO INTERESTING! My dad passed a year ago this past Monday from lewey body dementia. Your videos brought so much comfort and understanding. Congrats on your milestone!

I'm new to your channel and I'm also coming up on 21 years at my job as a baker! I find your line of work so fascinating, and my daughter is about to graduate high school and is thinking about becoming a mortician! She wants to see if she can handle it first though. It would be a hard, but very rewarding profession! Thank you for all you do and you are very informative and so caring! ❤

Happy Anniversary. Thank you for sharing your first 20 year memories.

You are amazing. It must be hard to work with families and not show your emotions. It takes a special person to do your job.

So interesting. Thanks so much for sharing. Love your channel.

These were very interesting! I hope you’ll do more.

Thank you Kari for sharing these stories of your career and life.

What a nice presentation! 🎉Congratulations on 20 years~ great accomplishment!

Awesome video!

Hi kari...blessings to the family and congratulations on 20 yrs as a director....keep up the great work👍

Thanks for sharing! You are such a kind, sweet, caring and very professional person!

Thank you for the recollections. It is a difficult job that I could never, ever do...but I was thinking especially of that murder victim, someone tried to steal every shred of her dignity, and your work restored that stripped dignity. I appreciate it. I have said this before but I truly wish I had seen these videos at the time of my wife's death in 2018; it would have been so helpful. I appreciate you sharing these things.

Great video!

You are a blessing to so many families.💕🐇🌷

Great information.