YES! EXACTLY! You know what's funny? I've seen this more than once: a man (husband) dies, and, initially,the woman appears "relieved." But this state of mind only lasts about a month. After that: severe depression. I guess women really DO need men! LMFAO!
so true, you saved and invested your whole life, you paid off stuff then a woman that didn't thinks that you should put 50% of everything you gained on the line?
I’m a 74 year old widower who has dated 4 women in the last 3 years. Every single one of them did the same thing. 1st they wanted to get to know me, 2nd within a month they were asking me for help paying their bills, 3rd they wanted to get married in less than 3 months. Every single time I talked to any woman she wanted to know how much money I earn right up front. They are not looking for a relationship. They are looking for someone to pay their way through life or until they find someone richer.
Damn damn, even at that age. That's messed up. I thought of your '70s it would be all about just loving on each other because you don't know when you are going to go. Man I do not have much to look forward to I promise you. If you are 74 and you are going through that. That is terrible and
74 year old widower here as well. My experience mirrors yours. I am often left wondering why a woman that is attracted to you wants to try to change you in some ways? It seems to me that most older women are looking for financial security and most older men avoid financial liabilities since they don't have the recovery years available to them. Fortunately, having many of the traits of a sigma male, I am very comfortable spending 99% of my time in blissful solitude without having to answer to anyone. Sleep well my brother.
Get snipped and Passport winters to the Philippines and live for 58% cheaper than anywhere in the USA and Date those awesome Filipina Ladies in their late 30's to early 40's who aren't looking for Baby Daddies.
Did you hear what it said? “A 60 yr old woman went on a date and was upset bc the guy wouldn’t commit.” WHY WOULD HE!? Let’s talk for awhile and take a few test drives first, eh?
Old guy here. I’m 65 y/o man married to a 62 y/o woman. We got married at 25 and 22, yes 40 years com November. We built a home, a life, and a retirement together. If she passes before me, I WILL NOT remarry for any reason! Our assets will go to our children, not to any woman who did not earn it. I absolutely refuse to be a retirement plan for any woman who did not contribute to it. Nuff said.
I'm almost 40, I always ask myself why men over 50 re marry when women just want them as a retirement plan. Why marriage when the action isn't as good anymore and they are just being used for their resources. Glad you still think this way and hope you keep in mind that you are not a party gals retirement plan. 👏 hats off brother
I'm 66 and have already lost half of my assets once. It's not happening again. I'm still working to rebuild my wealth and would be retired if I'd just stayed single.
Amen brother, My ex bitch lied in the court's, not declaring hidden bank accounts, the family court's didn't care that I could prove her a liar, she used the DV law's to try and destroy whilst committing adultery 🐷 with another man, under the guise of so called psychological abuse, which means just about everything you can imagine, my so called DV breach was supposedly calling her name's like dinosaur, so I guess she must be right, she had an arse like Tiranarsour Rex!!! Stay away from these femme Nazi'harlots is the only way to Go !!! 🍑🍑🍑
Remember my brothers … Eve lived in the Garden of Eden with Adam. She actually lived and walked through paradise with her man and the Spirit of God! She wanted more! She was not satisfied. You know the rest of the story. I think the rebellious Spirit of Eve lives today in the feminist mind set! A real feminist will tear her own home down with her own hands!
Few indeed. However, much to my chagrin there are always exceptions to every rule. A God-fearing, Christ-following, Bible-reading, Proverbs 31:10-31 virgin, will always be the ultimate joy for any Honest, hard-working man. That includes ladies that were abused as children. "The Curse" found in Genesis 3 is vividly illustrated thoroughly imho. (See the comment section).
I'm 53 ...not bad looking...in damn good shape for my age and my girlfriend is 36....the older the woman gets there deal with testosterone....they can't handle the chemical change let alone the problems of life itself...it's Gods funny way of putting a "MAN" in his place😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
Lady the guy you were dating was sick and you didn’t offer to make him a chicken soup? Instead you complain that he isn’t going above and beyond to cater to your feelings
Her reaction to the guy being sick and not carrying on with the cutesy behavior is exactly what a woman waits for and lives for....DRAMA! She needs that excitement even though the poor dude is like..."We are cool. Just relax". Always finding "static" instead tuned in to the same channel.
Please, hate to tell you, but most women realize sooner or later, that they are far better off without men. Of course there are rare exceptions but go find that needle in a haystack.
@@jennamydogthat’s obvious with the stats on who is initiating divorces. They don’t need men, but they certainly want to get a hold of their bank cards and retirement accounts.
@@jennamydog Yes, the ones ones who suddenly find out that the man won't let you treat them like a cash machine or a dog. Speaking from experience. Men built and takes care of EVERYTHING, women blab.
Depends on the circumstances. My widowed grandfather married a widow shortly after his 80th birthday, I think she was late 70s. He died 15 months later so it was bittersweet for her but otherwise it was really wholesome and sweet to witness. He was a shell of himself after my grandmother died and I firmly believe he lived a couple of years longer than he otherwise would have after meeting his second wife. They were like school kids around each other.
Older men like me are tired of women with bad credit, low income, huge debt, mental issues, overweight and low drive. Plus we don't want to spend what precious time we have on earth going to weddings, birthday parties, etc. Of people we don't have any past connections with.
I'm 51 and can't even get a woman to talk to me, let alone get a date. Screw it, I made the adjustment and moved on. Life is as life is and you make the best that you can out of it and move on.
Those haggard angry Left Over Old Women are all Single for a Reason ... they don't need Husbands ... they Need Head-Doctors ... never simp and become another victim!
Women will barge into a bad ass space and foul it up with walmart crap and live laugh love garbage I dont need some NPC coming in and adding beige and putty to my pallete Just lame
My buddy asked me why I only date short term: dude, I've had sex more in the last year than since you hot married. But even dating is just no fun anymore. I love having no plans with people I don't like wearing clothes I hate. Being single's awesome.
Yeah, she's wound tight, demanding and aggressive, she'd likely say that she's 'assertive' and 'decisive', that she 'knows what she wants'. It's all about her is all she's saying, and the guy had better conform to this. Nothing on her part needs to be addressed, of course.
It's such a great hustle if you think about it. You can save your money while you're in a relationship and have everything paid for. Making being in a relationship with a man that pays for everything very cost effective for women.
Than why is she making a video? She doesn't want to share. Excellent! Don't share.......... On that note......... Can you also stop sharing your thought and opinions on tic toc too? You don't wanna share! So don't! Go live your life. Offline.
But one thing for sure they stay online sharing their story cuz they need the validation and are very emotional. Us men can be alone and be fine but they cannot.@@Markbell73
Most of us have been there, done that, can't be bothered buying the t-shirt. Most of us would rather get a pet and a hobby and just enjoy the rest of our lives without the hassle.
Very true. As an older dude my tolerance for entitlement, drama, high maintenance expectations, and even putting in the time and effort to the modern “dating game” is virtually nil.
Wow, I was stunned by the one who complained that her bf was sick, and all she got were occasional texts. I got sick in March, and my fiancee was over here several days to take care of me. She took time off from work, she made meals, she took me to the emergency room one night. That's what you want from a woman when you get sick.
Attention ladies When you hit 30 your values plummets every year . And if you have kids , tattoos , financial issues , alcohol/substance issues your value decreases even more .
sexual market value for most women peaks at 23-25, after that it will decline for the rest of their lives, they have to lock down a partner in their 20s, too many delay marriage until they are lower in SMV and have lost fertility, men know this, and will avoid them
You know it's old and older men out here with habits and issues that become liabilities as well, boo. Please don't one side red pill women to death. It's so many damn older men who struggle with alcoholism it isn't funny and what sober woman wants that rather young or older. That's stress dear... pendulum swings both ways.
I'm 63. Women don't get that we don't need them. And we aren't going anywhere except where we want to go. So, ladies, find a new hobby, we don't care 🤗
@@Slw1111 Nothing more incompetent than a woman when it comes to anything more complex than a hammer or a credit card. You emote that you are actually worth a man’s attention. Your fellow useless receptacles surveying YT keep deleting my responses. Suffice it to say that I’m a service-academy-educated, retired military officer, DOD GS-15, and STEM PhD who pays more $$$ in taxes annually than you have ever legitimately “earned”, Cat Princess. Do enjoy expiring ALONE.
@@Slw1111 Most women are too stupid to operate anything more complicated than a hammer or credit card. You emote that you are actually worth a man’s attention. Your fellow useless receptacles monitoring YT keep deleting my responses. Suffice it to say that I’m a service-academy-educated, retired military officer, DOD GS-15, and STEM PhD who pays more $$$ in taxes annually than you have ever legitimately “earned”, Cat Princess. Do enjoy expiring ALONE.
@@Slw1111 You emote that you are actually worth a man’s attention. Your fellow useless receptacles monitoring YT keep deleting my responses. Suffice it to say that I’m a service-academy-educated, retired military officer, DOD GS-15, and STEM PhD who pays more $$$ in taxes annually than you have ever legitimately “earned”, Cat Princess. Do enjoy expiring ALONE.
Its sad that so many men feel like women only want them for their money. When my ex cheated, we split up. But we still did things together (not sex), and had more fun as friends than spouses.
it never ceases to amaze me how many women out there of ANY age expect men to shower them with gifts and expensive dates thinking that they are a princess that needs to be given tribute in order to have a relationship. I was married 18 years, my wife passed and after 4 years I am considering dating but almost every woman seems to expect a 4 star resturant and gifts or you're a cheapskate. I am retiring in 2 years and enjoying my life on my small farm. Not going into debt to shower some woman I dont know with things she doesnt need.
I am 57 male and divorced and have been dating a 70 year old. She is extremely fit and sex is mind blowing. Age is just a number. We will never live together and we are both happy to enjoy each other.
What the hell is a 60 year old woman doing dating? It's over. A man is in his financial peak in his 60's so why should he commit to an entitled old woman? 😂He could lose it all! Plus, he can reach back 20 years if he wanted a lady in his life.
The problem is when women pretend to be nice,when they confirm themselves to match your needs and wants in order to suck you in! But they can only keep it up for so long until the real her comes out, usually they can't keep up the rude for more than about 3-years!
Lady have you seen what family court did your last husband? He lost half of his value, and then he had to pay for your lawyer too. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
I am in my mid 60s. I own 2 houses and have a nice amount saved for retirement. I would never get married again. Not going to lose my stuff in a divorce. Not having someone move in. We can date and have fun but not interested in all the everyday crap of marriage. Plus when i'm gone my kids are getting whatever is left, not someone I met in the later years of my life. Sorry. That's just the way it is.
Nothing makes me belly giggle quite as hard as seein my kids mom after her second kid in her 30s, the wall hits hard.. esp when you covered yourself in body mods in your late 20s and early 30s for attention
I'm 52 and have had to start over multiple times after dating these women and getting in relationships. Never fails I lose everything and as soon as I split off from them I start to gain everything back. I couldn't imagine having to start over at such a late point in my life as she takes everything when she walks into a courtroom playing the victim at her age. I've lost way too much to continue to play this game with these adolescents old ladies. Not to mention that when you get to this age you're not sexually attractive anymore and you damn well know it. I'm sorry but I just don't have any desire to give away everything I've worked so hard for to somebody who hasn't done one damn thing to earn any of it. At this point anything she does have came from another man
I'm 67 now, but when I was widowed at age 58, I quickly realized that women I thought would be in my dating age range had expectations far beyond my ability to deliver. Typically, they thought they could marry wealthy men 10-15 years their junior, who would wine and dine them as though they were 23 year old super models. They were certain that now it was *their turn.* And they weren't going to accept less than their specified fantasy. Truth be told, after living real life for 50 years with all its warts and frailties, everyone, men and women both, hope that now it's their turn. It is those of us who are able to accept reality for exactly what it is, that can be happy dating someone who shares that locus. The unfortunate reality is that far too many women have bought into the feminist theory that men owe them reparations, that they needn't accept any accountability for their choices, and that they're allowed to continue being the boss B!+c# that drives men of value away and leaves them alone with their kitty cats.
After my divorce at age 52, I went on dates with two different women my age, by the second date both of them said if I wasn't serious they weren't wasting their time. Game over. I'm now married to a magnificent lady from another country who is 18 years younger than me. Happy ending
I paid my own bills and still do. I made more money than the ex did. When he wanted to separate, he told me he went to an attorney to ask about getting alimony from me. I told him since he was a chronic cheater, there was no way I was paying him alimony. Its not just one gender when it comes to money.
Older guy in his late 40's to the older women out there - Once you reach a certain age there is absolutely no reason to commit or get married at all. We're certainly not going to start a family at our ages. I've spent a lifetime building, investing, and accumulating and I'm not going to turn over half of that to some woman who didn't lift a finger in helping to build any of it. We also both already have independent established lives. We're not just starting out. So to try and combine those lives will be complicated, difficult, and fraught with disagreements. Women bring chaos, drama, and combat into over lives. We've had enough of that in our personal and professional lives. Now we want to enjoy the fruits of our labors quietly and peacefully.
Perfectly said. Its different when you are young and you want to build a life and children together as a team but there is NO team work required when in your 50s and 60s. Aa.a man in his 50s I dont need help with my mortgage, a mother for my kids, cook my meals, support my home life while I work outside it earning money... I dont need any of it. What I would like is sex and occasionally company.......Jesus I can buy that if I have too but as of yet dont as younger women will still date me and when they realise Im not going to commit myself to marriage they walk or I help them to the door and go again with someone else but the great thing about 50s is that if one goes through a dry patch for a while thats ok.... Im not climbing walls like I did when I was in my 30s and early 40s. I love peace and drama free too. Commit into cohabitation or marriage? Jesus no!
Have you ever served in an infantry unit? Ever served in a forward area? Ever put your life in another man's hands...asked him to put his life in yours? We follow orders, son. We follow orders or people die. It's that simple. Are we clear? ARE WE CLEAR?!
so well said, add to that marriage is for having a family after 40 or 50, you really can't do that anymore -- at 68, last date I had was for lunch, lasted 40 min. never dated again, no point in it, I was 46 -- women rejected me in my prime, now I see them in their decline --not interested
@@michaelsix9684 I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of freedom I provide, and then questions the way in which I provide it. I'd rather you just said "thank you" and went on your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand a post. Either way, I don't give a damn what you think you're entitled to!!
@@bobman7881 you got that rite, I still want sex at 75. Here in Belize we have young bar girls who like drinking beer and fucking, it’s like going to a restaurant, pick an item,enjoy it, pay the bill and that’s it. I go home to my loyal loving, protective German shepard’s and 1/4 horse buddy. All is well!
When I was 60 and became single( through no fault) after 18 months I tried dating, I'm not ugly, I'm skilled and in work,homeowner,no debt,looked a lot younger than I was. I had nobody interested at all, the whiners and picky ones still wanted something way,way better.
@@richmann8230💯 I met a absolutely beautiful woman in Indonesia and she is the best thing to ever happen to me. Overseas is the best way to go. Remember that song American woman stay away from me.... It all makes sense now
Older men just aren't putting up with the delusional crap. They see and avoid any slight negative, usually because they have seen the results. I started over from nothing at 50. Im not getting a new thing to wreck my life.
It's not the same as a relationship. When you have a woman and your personalities click it's the best feeling in the world...until she cheats on you with boys young enough to be her son and then you want to die
@0:31 "Im thinking I'm gonna be single 'til the day I die." It's amazing how women fear being alone with themselves. Don't they like their own company? If they can't stand themselves why do they think Men will want to jump into that experience?
Im a 67 year old man , live on my own and love it. I would much rather be alone than wish i was alone, as i Know a lot of men in long term relationships do ..!!
In my late 50's and have been happily married for 34 years. We both grew up in rural Indiana and thankfully found each other way before the world went crazy. We've talked about what we would do, what our life would look like, after the other died. We both agreed we would never get married again. Marriage was a great thing for us when we were young. We raised 3 blond haired boys who grew up to be kind, loving, smart, successful men and husbands. They were always close growing up and still are. All 3 are less than an hour away and we see them and our grandkids weekly. All that being said, by the time you're 55+, most folks just want peace and quiet, relatively good health, and maybe a few friends and close family nearby for companionship. Who has the energy or even desire for dating at this point in life? Taking a grandson fishing, blowing bubbles with my granddaughter, reading, listening to good music, or having a beer and a hot dog with a close friend at the local single A baseball game is enough for me.
I'm in your boat. Empty nester, adult daughter with values and education, happily married to my college sweetheart. Your take on what we want out of life is spot on - except trade the baseball for USL soccer.
I am in a similar situation. My marriage is happy for the most part. I still put up with some female BS but when it gets over the line I stop it. Married 45 years and kids are grown and live nearby. Marriage is good overall but a lot of periodic drama and turmoil that is largely in the rear view mirror now. I am happy I got married because we built a great life together. I would never do it again, especially at 67. Female drama and take charge nature is just too much hassle. I enjoy my kids, grand kids and motorcycle.
54yr old blue sweater: Obviously YOU dont have what it takes to keep his interest. He texted and paid attention to you because that's the kind of guy he is. But somewhere along the line, he realized you weren't earning it, so he lost interest. What's confusing?
@halburd1 Did she offer to care for him when he was sick? Of course not! She was being kind and generous by allowing him to text less frequently while suffering. LOL.
It doesn't have to cost much yes stepping out the door just waking up breathing cost something. but meeting up for a walk with another isn't costing extra if you would normally leave your home to do some activity. As for sharing everyone and every relationship different some might take turn picking something up bringing some each bring their own Is it really that big a deal to pour a cup of coffee for a guest
At 67yo if I were ever single again I would just tell women that I'm to old to play games or beg for it. Two grown ass adults can just get busy if and when they want. Not interested? Okay, BYE!
When I was 54 I put my profile on dating site and to my surprise in 3 hours I had 5 women contact me, what I found was that younger women in there 30s and 40s were more realistic than women my age. It was the opposite of what I thought.
Dude. They want the same thing the old hags want. Your money. They are just as fake and deceitful as older women. They are just in a different wrapping. They're gonna bleed you dry while they are meeting Chad and Tyrone and paying for their hotel room with your money. Let your big head do the thinking
Lady said she doesnt lie but then wants to lie about age and life. Then encourages getting surgery and wearing a lot of make-up...the ultimate form of lying
Well, 67 yr old men being described here is interesting, because I’m turning 67 in July. And yes, I have everything that everyone wants, and not going to give half of it away.
@@richardbaker_0086Same I’m 44 go to the gym with my 22 y/o son and his gym buddies thought I was his older brother. I get told I look 30-35 frequently. Healthy lifestyle, gym , diet . Passport and traveling is the life now
I just watched a bunch of videos of women in their 60’s living their “best lives”. Some were married some were single. All of them owned homes and were healthy and financially secure. I’m not sure these few examples are the overall perspective of women. It certainly isn’t the statistics. Single women now own more homes than men and hold more degrees than men. The projection of the next 25 years is dystopian and frightening. Homelessness and suicide among men is skyrocketing while women are being given every privilege and opportunity imaginable. The political and economic slogan is “The future is female” and it’s being reinforced by nearly everyone with real power. They have overwhelmingly more opportunities in the corporate world and are given more support in our society, legal systems and governmental systems. Women have way more opportunities than men and by 2030 more than half will be childless. The statistics show that overall women are not seeking marriage and motherhood and their pinnacle of success isn’t having a man. Not my opinion, just the numbers. There are exceptions like this lady but women seem to be going their own way and every single legal, social and political system is supporting that while men are being left behind with little to no support and worse they are told by society they are “bad” just by being male. I guarantee there are plenty of men who would love and cherish that women but most likely she’s either not attracted to them or her standards are too high so she would rather keep her peace and standard of living than compromise or “date down”.
I don’t want to go to a play, I don’t want to see a movie, I don’t want to go to a fancy restaurant, I don’t want to go to a family function with screaming kids, I don’t want to help babysit screaming kids, etc.
And older women know this which is why (like the last woman mentioned) they will absolutely lie about their age. But they don't lie by a year or two; they take off 10+ years and post old photos too just to try and catfish some guy their actual age or younger.
@@michaeldpa1333 Less milage? aren't you guys claiming people now hook up if the younger gen willing to do hook up wouldn't the younger one's have more milage. The older gen normally didn't sleep with anyone until married. So logical based on info the men like to share about modern day the older the gen the lower the body count is likely to be. weather menopause or menstruations women are going to have times of being uncomfortable how dose that really affect you it's the individual going through it that uncomfortable having to adjust has no effect on the other people around them. If the menopausal women is hot or cold thats what sweaters are for. as for the lady menstruating, she carries sanitary products and maybe pills for cramps. Both may not want to do certain activities if they not feeling well
Pay close attention, fellas. They make fun of your appearance WHILE they film it wearing somebody else's face. She will not, under any circumstance, remove the war paint and show her natural face until after you've done the deed with her. Just something to think about.
I make it a requirement there is no makeup on the first date. I want to see what I will wake up next to. She doesn't want to honor that and there is no follow-up call or second date.
An older man isn't looking for a dependent, an attorney to get rid of a problem, an emotional problem, an extended family of dependents or emotional issues, some women's family to take his children's inheritance.
The hardest part about getting older is learning more, becoming ever more emotionally grounded, achieving in business, and then going on a date with a cute chick and feeling like you're sitting across the table from a 7 yr old....
Why not just be comfortable being with yourself? What's wrong with that? It's peaceful and one hundred percent of the time it goes your way with a lot less drama.We're just so sick of the drama
We're like that wise old trout that lives under the bridge that you just can't catch. We've seen every lure, bait, and trick in the book and we just aren't biting anything that you grrrlz throw at us. Old ladies should go cruise the college campus and get them some virgin geeks to do the job on them. The boys could use the experience. At least these old harpies could serve some purpose.
As a woman who 67…. Widowed, 5 grown children, with my own house.. I do not want to remarry, however I want a comfortable relationship.. So…. I have a comfortable friend, with his own house and no interest in marriage…. Am I lucky?.. Maybe…. I have never had to “find” a date…. I never worried about my looks.. I just stayed healthy.. no makeup, no hair dye…. however.. I’m a gourmet chef.. and truly.. the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach….
@@Steelhorsecowboy …. Does your steel horse go vroom? 😎…. My comfortable friend has a steel horse…. He looks good in leather… I think some of the (problems) have to do with expectations that are not applicable to the relationship…. My younger friend doesn’t want complications, he’s raised his kids, he’s been married and divorced, he’s had everything he’s worked for taken.. Now.. he wants a friend that’s not, one of the guys and has the same kind of enthusiasm for, Excellent food, wine, craft beer, liquor and adult activities.. I’ve never really lived my life relying on other people as a backup plan…. I don’t think I’ve ever had a backup plan…. Every day is different than the last and each tomorrow is a gift…
@@Steelhorsecowboy …. I’ve done my best with what I am blessed with…. Nothing has been perfect, life never is.. I hope you have a good life, too.. Be Blessed and Enjoy the wind in your hair..
