You see, man, what you gotta do, is you gotta just sometimes get a girl close to you, make her fall for you, and then you ask her knowing she’ll like you. Be real.
You give yourself too much credit. Just joking. I have found that the biggest turn off to a woman or to anyone in general is your own thoughts that they may not like you. When you really do not care if they like you or not and you can just have fun. That is what attracts them. I found this out the hard way. No matter how attractive they are you do not know their true personality to know if you are compatible or not so why sabotage yourself by petting too much thought and effort into it?
Thank you for these videos. But in the age of MeToo. I'm starting to really turn NotMe. You can't even look and show women you're interested anymore. And I don't want to be accused of anything
As a white man saying to you, I say keep trying my bro! There are many women of all races that will like you and love you. Don't give up my friend and stay positive about yourself. You are more than worthwhile to be with! Love yourself, be confident in what you have as much as you can and keep trying and you will find success with women!
Within my concerns, when you’re attractive/good looking, it often leads to popularity. Unfortunately, it ALWAYS attracts SOME trouble-causing people that try to manipulate you. Analyzing myself, dealing with these issues is generally easy and simple but also causes me distress.
A woman that comes on to you has done this before. Don't think your the only one. This type of woman gets around and will give you something you can't get rid of.
Listen to this guy people,I was at a party 10 girls vs 4 lads my intention wasn’t really getting anything that night but this girl came on to me without me even grafting for it all over me the whole night next day she said I was really fit and she wanted me to message her she didn’t say this to me she said it to one of her mates and it got back to me,the next week she was in Tenerife getting dicked by this guy while still speaking to me it hurt I ain’t gonna lie cause I caught feeling but yeah if she’s easy to pull she’s probably been passed around a bit sorry for the long paragraph😂
Yes. I remember in high school a girl was very forward and touchy / flirty. I felt special. She was a female playa. Had a new boyfriend every other month, literally.
I've watched maybe two dozen videos like this, and all I've learned is that in my 41 years, either I've been entirely clueless or no woman has ever found me attractive
I think a customer I serve on a frequent basis might like me, first few times she came in I just served as normal and wished her a good day etc, but as she’s visited the last month she started smiling at me and giving me more direct eye contact, she laughs at a couple of things I say. Last time I saw her she was stood behind the till and smiled at me. Before she would get her stuff then say hi, now she’s initiating convos asking me how I am, think it’s flirty or friendly? She’s got my attention and I want to ask her out or give my number but have to be professional. Do you think she could be interested? I don’t know her name yet but i know where she works as we’ve asked each other what we do 😊
@@astonnorthfield5113 thanks though I haven’t seen her in ages and I have her my number with her receipt though I’m worried now I’ve scared her off :( guess that wasn’t the smartest move I thought if I’d ask her in person it’s unprofessional and I didn’t want to loose my job. Idk if she’s seeing anyone else who knows maybe I judged the situation wrong.
@@MrTardis11 yeah I understand. There's a few nice girls who I see at my work. I always say hello and make friendly conversation, would be nice to find out their names, get to know them a bit better.
Had a beautiful woman recently giving me the most serious faces, nearly turning her head too far turning her head away from me and exposing her neck, and flaring her nostrils. I interpreted this as negative signs.
I’ve always been terrible at recognizing signs 🤷🏼♂️one main reason I think I chose to ignore them is in case I’m wrong…..if you have something to say just say it …..some of us are just as nervous approaching y’all so….
I work in a hospital and a lot of my actual co workers are women that I get along with/vibe with. But a lot of attractive women are in other departments that I don’t necessarily work with but work in the same building so basically all sharing a common space.. I’m still only a few months in so I haven’t gotten to know everyone completely yet but I noticed those attractive women from other departments seem to be more shy or quiet with me.. but I also constantly lock eyes with these women when around them or just that tension when you think someone’s into you as well… the women in my department aren’t as attractive but they’re constantly flirting with me and throughout my life I’ve been told I’m attractive by some women definitely have my flaws tho .. basically I don’t know if these women from other departments are into me or I’m just imagining and it’s kinda hard to approach because it’s work and everyone's kinda busy doing their thing.. the most you get is a hi , or just how are you as you walk by/see each other ..
What if a woman in your college class is seated in front of you and she turns around facing you. Locks eyes with you, holds your gaze for about a minute, and has a huge smile on her face. She doesn't speak to me nor blink. What would you say about this?
Women don't know what they want... Once you understand that, you can stop trying to figure them out. Ask any Women where she wants to eat for dinner if you don't believe me...
Well, ladies are too disappointing to we guys when we need their attention, as for me l am tired of approaching to them even if they are attracted to me.
This woman apparently found me annoying. She's a bartender at my old catering job, and whenever I approached her or a fellow bartender, I would tell the same joke, "I'll have one large beer to help me get over my ex-girlfriend." One time, she said to me as I approached, "John, I don't want to hear it." A week or so later, I was approaching her coworker, and from the distance, Sarah said "John" in a stern voice. So yes, I was annoyed and since then, I didn't really interact with her. Went from outgoing to quiet. Sometimes she'd say hi to me when we saw each other, and I would emotionlessly say hey. I think a few times she would ask me to do this favor/task and I would just nod my head. Once or twice she thanked me and I didn't respond. I left the job, went to work in this cafe in the same building, but came back for this one particular service. The catering crew were REALLY desperate and reached out to me. In the ballroom, I made eye contact with Sara, who was only a few feet or so from me. What's funny is she _approached_ me; she could've just acknowledged me and went on with whatever. I know I would've. She asked me how I was (to my slight surprise), said she heard I switched to the cafe downstairs, asked me if I liked the job. Curious to see how she'd react (considering her past signs of not liking me), I told her I didn't plan on coming back to catering, and yeah, she did seem a bit surprised: "You're not coming back?" I remember saying "I don't think so" in a slightly disgusted tone of voice. But that wasn't it. That month, at a bar, Sara put her hand on my arm to get my attention and gave a slight wave. I just gave a slight smile and brief, still wave and went forward to catch up with friends (it was crowded). Is she trying to get my attention because she's interested in me?
Nope. This cannot work for me. “The Head Tilt”, “The Eye Contact”... lady I have Asperger’s. I need a much more direct approach. Do you have a video for men that have Asperger’s Syndrome? I need *20 really Really REALLY Obvious Signs A Woman...* ... maybe then I may “get it”. Thank you Joyanima!
You have said it so many times, but it is simply not true. A girl or woman who plays with her hair, is NOT attracted to anyone or trying to flirt! It is a huge tellsign that she is uncomfortable and/or insecure. She could just as well adjust her clothes or scroll around on her phone. It is the straight opposite sign of being attracted!
Agree, either way flirting is high risk for a man. Only approach if she does something, looks at you and smiles while she does it. That is showing you it is for you and she wants you to know.
Just sit there to contemplate it all after you come back because you're gonna see such crazy and radical things in these trips. That when you come back you're gonna be like what the fuck was that? And you're gonna spend a week just in the shower, what the fuck was that? Cooking your food, what the fuck was that? Driving to work, what the fuck was that? Sitting at work doing your work, what the fuck was that? Thinking that. Trying to wrap your mind around it. Try to remember and trying to figure it out and that's a very valuable process.
I ran into a few mature women at a weekend parade. They noticed I didn't hesitate to shake hands with vets (fellow vet), given a textbook salute to the parade color guard detail, and stand tall as others passed by. A passing float stopped their car, giving me a USMC sticker (fellow Marine), whereby I passed it on to a kid with parent's permission. Well taught, he came over to say thanks, whereby I also gave him a 15 second class on a proper salute with the same hand going over his heart. There was maybe 6 older women that dug the example I set, like giving away a "foul ball" and setting the example with the little guy. Quit looking for them, and see what comes out of the woodwork.
Somebody said they find these videos repetitive. If the video's are that repetitive and you keep clicking on them you must bot be comprehending or understanding what she's saying In the video.
Can a woman show these signs but still be neevous enough not to keep a conversation or start a conversation?? Even if a guy already approached first and talked to her… this is in a workplace set up.
@@gorann you are the lucky one. Been around many women and that never happens. One did play with her necklace and she said she was nervous . So after that I have learned when a woman does this it's nervous at least with me it is.
i don’t know but there was girl she was teen prob im 35, the looks man almost lost control , her eyes were burning cinders 😅 and i finded her attractive too, the Nose shape was funny like xd 😂😅 😂😂
I agree with the eye contact, touching, and wearing revealing clothing ones. Had a female friend do stuff like that with me not too long ago and I think she may have had a thing for me. I had to end up unfriending her for some personal reasons tho
Every Thursday night I Go to gateway club to meet my friends one of my friends Emma she some times behind me and she puts her hands on my soldiers when I'm sitting down and sometimes she puts her hands on top my head and tabs on my head and play with my head can you please tell me what it means from Steven
made this waitress stutter when I was having lunch with my girlfriend. all i was doing was paying and she just started stuttering and then as soon as we leave . she's looking right at me as soon as i pass after my girlfriend passes .
Ah, women, wonderful beings, instead of Just saying what they think lets do all sorts of this crap and all these signs going all around Just to confuse the hell out of every man
