20 Rules for Women - How To Attract A High Value Man 

Virtuous & responsible is more fitting to this whole high value title.

The problem is that , the market decided , what a high value man is , they can be good men , but high value is high value , just based on the market

I was married to a soldier military pay is not that great. A soldier is a soldier 24/7 even on leave. So his life is worth $1.25 an hr. A combat infantry soldier life expectancy is 2.50 seconds. Those are not the specialty trained rangers airborne the like. The more training the less your odds are. Bur married soldiers will volunteer for deployment if they know it will benefit their family. That is a high value man.

@@Standardbredwoman04 that’s a good man. Not high value man. Important to spot differences. Most high value man appreciate good hard working man’s. But man’s that work hard and love his kid is not automatically high value. Is just a good onset hard worker. Witch is grate. Most time not high value man have problem or disrespect that good guys. But women dose for sure 😂 High value man go and take big risk. They don’t want to by on top. They had to by or at least fight to by on top. Sorry working as a factory worker or simple foot solider is not it. It’s still probably good man. But not high value. High value man will feel need of having his own factory or becoming general in army. Feel that he need to be on top 😉

@user-qs8em6kg5i I believe that high value means something different to people as a woman my vew of a high value is not about money. It is about the good man TCB honering his parents and respecting his wife and loving that same wife and children. Men with money do not impress me. Maybe in my youth. Even then as long as I had what I needed / wanted there was nothing else I did not want a rich boyfriend. I just wanted what I could afford. If I could not afford it I did not get it I am not going to say I did not save up for it

So true

@@mr.anonymous520 Why is it that "men" See women as the enemies?? OK, I get it, what is Allowed to men, is Not Allowed to women, yeah, the 5,000 Year Old tradition, isn't it??

Well, in my Case, I didn't have to See men as the Enemies, they just proved that They ARE the enemies. ha, ha, ha.

@@valentinalicheli1928 You should have your eyes examined.

@@spartanares4345; many men See women as their enemy, just the same way many women See men as their enemy; Capeech?

Well said….

This kind of man is rich! What are you saying?

@@maryrankin9869 their point was not 'rich' in the sense of monetary value but rich with life knowledge and skill.

100% agree

Totally 💯 agree!

No one cares.

@@fuckucatchme1000rr Sounds like youre intimidated

Absolutely. As the CEO of a rather successful business, I’d be thrilled to have by my side a man that leads.

@@fuckucatchme1000rr clearly you do lmao

@@fuckucatchme1000rr stf incel

This is terrible advice, but go off!

@@therealkoolaidandkale 😂

​@@therealkoolaidandkaleyou know nothing or atleast don't speak for others.

Those values are not a thing for these soulless corporate cretin

Yes yes yes

I met a high value man recently. So refreshing!

He said those…. High value - is intelligent, no only fans - is strong moral compass, he goes to the gym/takes care of his body- that’s self discipline, he’s ambitious at his goals/ not home at 5 every night - independence , he said he takes responsibility and improves- that’s respectful They are all generous, kind, loyal…. 😅😢

@@SanctifiedLady that's what I thought lol

I’m personally praying for this ❤️ I used to be an extremely independent and success driven women, who did not prioritise relationships.

I love this ❤️ thank you for sharing 👏🏻

Why’re you watching this video then 🤔

I am so glad that positive stories of families exist❤️❤️❤️Thank you for contributing to this world!

I want to learn from you

Your husband sounds like a great guy. God bless you union🤎

Just Some Random Girl: I am GLAD you mentioned Your husband. Not All High-Valued Men have to be Top Executives or Wealthy. Just Smart Man.

That's not a high value man. A great guy, sure. High value? Nope.

@@Jason-mr2do EXCUSE ME; How DARE YOU tell a Woman who has a GEM at Home that is a Solid Rock in her life as her husband that He is not High Value!! He Surpassed HIGH VALUE already; in fact He is Above and Beyond the Stupidity of this world's "value" which has nothing to do with Real Worth and Human Value and more to do with Sick-Egos and shallowness that does nothing for You when you are in a hospital bed, or in pain, or in a car accident, or in serious trouble in life; those "high-value" men that you have in mind; many have committed Suicide when they lose All their money and businesses and they have No Character inside of them Strong Enough to Support his circumstances.

@@Jason-mr2do Let me See......Robin Williams was Considered a VERY High-VALUE Man, BUT he committed Suicide - All his Wealth, Fame, Fortune, and Fans couldn't take him Out of that Dark Place in his Mind. Charlie Sheen was considered a High-Value Man at one point, but he ruined his life by Sleeping Around and you know what happened. Tom Cruise is and has always been Considered a VERY HIGH VALUED MAN, Attractive, Successful, intelligent, Mega Star, Money-Maker, Enterprising, and how all his relationships end?? Leonardo DiCaprio has girls issues; Sleeping with girls that could be his daughters; Ah; there goes the "value" ha, ha, ha. Michael Jackson, according to You, was considered a High-Valued Man, and look how he ended up!! Bill Clinton was considered a High-Valued Man and look at the Scandals he has created. Magic Johnson was and probably will always be considered a High-Valued Man, and look at what happened to him - his Wife is the REAL HIGH VALUE there.

Good to hear that, nowdays people are messed up with confused so called "influencers" with no experince in life!

Pat just gave guys _”20 women to avoid”_ but made it look like _Self help for ladies_ clever 🧐😂

@@discerningthetruth01 If you're over 35 it's basically too late for you as a high value man goes for a younger partner. A 50 yr old with good income can still get one and a 45 yr old woman can't compete.

@@snowbird6855 - It all depends on how you define high value. He is defining "high value " based on a man's looks and wealth. After 40, it's all about integrity, morals, spiritual values. Yes, if they are successful that is great. Real wealth and value comes from within. Also, I have a cousin who is 53, (she looks 33), just remarried last year to a very successful man, and he is 64!. Age is just a number.

@@snowbird6855 Men are not the prize lol some views in this video are outdated! Sure some might go for younger ones (and I know many of them), but there are ones that would go for the older women too because they want the maturity that comes with it. It’s not just about men choosing women, it’s about both people choosing each other.

@User Blessing give me your email and I’ll send u a message

Love this! ❤️ How did you meet?

I love this! Two CEOs in and out of the home. My woman has got to be as much of a boss as I am

@@Ashdaesq Just make sure she is making less than you…9/10 a women will lose respect for a man that she believes is equal to her, she wants to feel like her man is superior to her and won him

That’s great for you ! Can I ask you if you both built a life together or were one of you already established ?

Absolutely 💯 agree

Just because he got her doesn't mean he got her forever. That's where the work starts from.

I'm sorry but you need 2 to tango. It goes both ways. If both sides won't work on the marriage it'll fall apart. I'm married for over 10 years, we have kids. I know what I'm saying.

@@VicToria-sd1dnright! Hence, the majority of divorces are initiated by women because the husbands could not keep them.

@@goldenparachute392 Yes the majority of divorces are initiated by the wives because some husbands cheat. Also the issue of male toxicity is rampant. Both parties should want to remain together and should work on it willingly.

One of the best comments I've ever read. So true

Men go after the shiny thing. Some woman are beautiful, smart, and work hard, but they’re not likely to be blinged out with colored hair, fake nails, etc.

W wife, W mom!

A high value man is a man that can afford many divorces and still not be broke

W wife w mom , RESPECT

@@yourlogicalnightmare1014 - That sounds like a man who has valuable in his own mind, but not good marriage material.

@@yourlogicalnightmare1014 that's high quality man NOT high value. High value man is quality+compassion+integrity, it's not just about the money

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

@@DavidVelasquez9 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

@@peterwilliams6361 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

@@DavidVelasquez9 her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

Great!

A tree is known by its fruit…

Fathers are fathers. Mothers are mothers.

Girls think taking care of their body is make up and expensive fads. No. Nope. Nothing bad with makeup. But the real care is taken through healthy habits, like eating healthy and exercise. Same for dudes.

@@alasdairhicks6731 I agree wholeheartedly. Dudes do not need make up to be hot.

Bro u say that to modern women & they'll hit you with a "body positivity" & "fatphobia" cards so fast u never seen them react that fast to anything else 😂😂

How about God loving. God fearing

@@RealRockdidit amen agreed !

exactly. High income men who are sociopaths are not high value. But high consciousness more often than not, results in wealth.

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Pat just gave guys _”20 women to avoid”_ but made it look like _Self help for ladies_ clever 🧐😂

100% SEND this video to every coworker, cousin, daughter, sister you have so they can have the knowledge to better thelmselves.

@@miamitten1123 hahahaha

Good for you Sis❤

No, you ended up with a Beta

He's a retired Alpha. @@thehonesttruth8808

Actually that isn't the definition of a high value man.

That's a good one

I think I know what you mean.

Lmao sure you are

@@richardmyers7847 😂😂😂😂

How to say you’ve got daddy issues without saying it

@@breakfree1949 Well some of us didn’t grow up w a Dad and weren’t taught things Patrick talks about. Some of us do have daddy issues and want to better ourselves. Have a great day 👍🏼 😎

@@highvalue1195 you wrote on a previous thread how you sneak out then say your coerced to have sex with someone twice your age? Then all these other shocking behaviors. Don’t blame this on not having a father, take ownership and blame it on you. Your behavior is not your parents fault, it’s yours. While you and many other billions of people had it rough, using that as an excuse means you’re the problem. The fact you’re 26 and just starting to do something about it, probably won’t help because you left it too late. Your profile pic and title is also really odd. But k I’m salute you because I better late than never, read extreme ownership by Jocko Willink Then I’d say you have at least 10 years of therapy. I dated a girl with similar upbringing than you, she didn’t do anything about it except blame her parents . A psychopath would be an understatement. As a last resort I said I will attend therapy with you, but it’s not for me. First day of therapy she lost it because she wanted to control what I said to therapist. It was over right there and then. She can’t be helped.

A high value woman isn't something you to strive to become it's something you are either born with or you aren't and you either preserve it or ruin it.

@@MrFuchew that's a good point. While some qualities of a high value woman may be innate, many can also be developed through personal growth and self-improvement, such as being well-rounded, a good communicator, and having strong religious values and so on.

@@ehitkassa8512 agreed, you are both correct imo.

Women were created by Almighty God to be high value. Use it or loose it.

@@MrFuchew false you’re not born immediately high value. The man I. The video literally said he changed and became a high value man later on in his life. Nobody’s born “high value” maybe in the eyes of your mother yes

Not true at all. “High value man” is clearly connotated to mean a man with money, power, and influence. But a lot of women don’t like the idea of a group of men who know their worth, so they’ll try to move the goalpost of “high value” to avoid having to acknowledge any particular man as high value that they themselves don’t like. Vladimir Putin is objectively a high value man, but there are plenty of people who would sooner die than admit it.

@@AJweathersby but being married to Putin probably sucks, that's the part you're not acknowledging. Personality and character actually matter on a daily basis living with someone… More than money does

@@utamu777 Being married to Putin if you’re a native born Russian woman, especially if you were raised in the Russian aristocracy, is probably amazing. You’re projecting your American, modern sensibilities across billions of women and cultures. We don’t even have to go outside of America. Donald Trump is liked by half the country, and there are probably millions of women in that half of the country willing to take Melania’s place if the chance arose. Just because you don’t like someone that doesn’t mean the rest of the female population shares your feelings. That’s what being high value means: Not being valuable to everyone, but being valuable to so many people that you don’t have to care who or how many people don’t like you.

Right, I agree with you. A valuable man to me is someone who is capable of being loyal, has a good sense of humor, respectful and kind to all living things. But the video was good for most women.

@@AJweathersby Eww, not spiritually enlightening nor Godly.

I have 3 precious little girls - I worry about the future, how men will treat them, that there will be men of integrity when they are in their twenties & picking husbands.

@@davisholman8149 yes brother, I have 2 (not so little anymore) girls and my blood pressure goes up every tine I start thinking about it

And for me, he needs to be a Christian #1

@@understandingthetimes4544 Absolutely!

Wow, now that’s a wonderful man! And he didn’t say one of those things on his little podcast. Oh that’s right I hope you’re in great shape and work out because it sounds like we can’t get a man unless we work out and we’re in shape. Sounded like a bunch of superficial garbage thank you for saying your opinion on what a valuable man is

Just a happily married man. They are a lot more credible.

Great! My laugh for the day🤣

Exactly like everyone feels they’re experts and can just provide commentary on topics like it’s no big deal. Pat should just stick to investing /economics commentary and spare us.😂

i felt the same way a year ago, my wife left me two years ago and i was so down because she was and is the love of my life, and i couldn't just let her go, so i did all i could to bring her back.

@@wonhur885 i wont say i'm glad that you understand how i feel, it is really sad, how did you get her back?

@@LanceNRusso i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me get her back, her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE, you can look her up you will find all you need to know about her online.

thank you so much, this is really helpful.

Pray tp Jesus for her and do the self work.

Speak for yourself. Life is different for a desirable man. Most men will never get to the point where beautiful women make the advances.

@@meds888ful I do speak for myself. What you described never seemed rare to me, maybe my facial feature or that I kept myself in shape. And I maintain that if a man does not have the self-control to deny the advances of a thirsty woman is by default, not a high-value man. Not being able to hold yourself back from an attractive woman hitting on you just tells me that guy hasn't always been desirable to women and now doesn't know how to act. It just makes you look weak, Stoicism is attractive to women and self-control is part of that.

​@@paintingvalues exactly, if a girl has side guy she's a whore, and when a guy has side chick he's a high value man? Double standards. If you have a side girl/guy you're low level that doesn't matter what your gender is.

thats most people in the world, nothing wrong with it

I wake before him daily, 3: 30 am, send him off to build bridges,, breakfast, lunch. Yes..

Yes you need to be able to trust someone...I would never trust a man who breaks a confidence...You should not trust a lady who does either...

Are you a woman?

Always better to learn the easy way, than the hard ones.. Now "just" implement your knowledge..! Good "luck".

These are all accurate, I think most well put together men want all of this. And if they don't care about many of these points, you probably need to avoid them because they will mistreat you in some way down the line.

Not everybody lives by the Same Rules in life, Nor Care About the Same things. Some people are happy and content and die happily married to a person who, by World Standards, is Not Considered a "High-Value-Person". Don't pretend that everyone is happy with the same things.

Except the get side piece nd you don't get to do same... It can be hard to accept that part of the contract

@@emmaphilo4049 Only a cuck would tolerate or go for that arrangement. That's not me. They're wired differently. For me, she's either the main gf or a sidepiece.

Must have been very embarrassing for your cousin! I’ve met people who think talking about those things are fine, I’ve made a conscious decision not to be around those people anymore