You are so right!! She’s so beautiful she could easily be a model! My heart hurts for her losing her baby’s daddy, and the children look their dad under such a horrible circumstance. Hopefully someone helps her get a place and get her life back on track!
@@brooklynbandit6788 i only have 1 and she’s only 9🤦🏾♂️😫 my state is 17 though..only 11 states have the 18 law…she has a father though so thats another convo lol
People should have some morals, give a child time to figure out life and set her pathway, age of consent being legal at 16 is no excuse for taking advantage of someone.
She’s still very young to see things for what they are. That when we are kids a lot of what we think is our choice is grooming. There’s a lot weird and questionable about a 48yo being with a 16 yo her parents aren’t crazy. Also former felon fighting with his sons, bringing a girl their age around and s**ing her right there. He was not a stable, trustworthy person. Terrible example to these young men. And then a volatile situation with the only adult also a juvenile ended as it inevitably would have. Sad.
So sad. She will be alright. Don’t stay bottled up, keep talking about it little by little. Put goodness in the kids and move forward. You are young enough to still have a good future.
They were and still is but the blue God can judge her and this is Her lesson in life that she has to heal from. See parents can raise a child a way but at the end of the day kids still gone rebel and learn life their way. I’m pretty sure you had to learn things the hard way even when your parents told you some and was upset with you. Being upset don’t help heal only create more problems.
@@hennessyblack5891you the only person I’ve ever heard say that. But kudos to you but some of this he’ll 99 percent of the world I guess you that 1 percent
Another cutie. Unfortunate tragedy with the shooting/death though. Bad choice to pick up a gun in the first place. Shit happens. Really mind blowing the amount of young people find themselves homeless.
@@Intellectualthinker1 imagine trying to use sarcasm but don’t know how to lmao. She made it seem like an accident when in reality it was intentional is what im saying DUMMY
Talking about trauma online is not the process. It's best for a person to talk 1 on 1 with a trustworthy person or professional. What about people who dont contact a person after they have done this online? Then she shared she doesn't like to talk about that or has trouble bringing that up.... telling her that's going to help in the manner that u r doing this was not an accurate statement. Infact therapist would not back that statement/opinion up. And u want to truly help right? Google the correct way to talk to this people when you're on camera. Not everyone u talk to is not going to be moved to go seek help. That's not realistic. Being retraumatized, but getting $10 in return just not it.
Dang. I'm a scary dude plus I ain't going to jail for no bs. So if you feel the need to pull a gun on someone you live with why not move.. Makes no sense sense smh..
The molestation to just about every interviewee on this channel is disturbing. How is this happening to so many children and these pedophiles getting away with this is gut-wrenching.
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Molestation been going on since the Old Testament. If you read the Bible, the man married children against their will that was molestation. So that spirit has been lingering the Earth since day one.
no she was 16. That pedo groomed her. You can tell by the way she tell the stories about the baby mom. Sounds like stuff he fed her and she believed. She was just too young and he took advantage of her.
@@Leconte. i am sure you have no minor daughter , it was never about whether there is real love or not , it is about legal AGE of conscent . most pedophiles will tell you it is all love and the minor was okay with that and that is revolting .
That's not a pedophile, prepubescence attraction is a pedophile 13 and under before puberty. People throw that label around another not knowing what it actually means. Also would y'all feel the same if it was reversed?
@@tristan583 Any healthy relationship should be with consenting adults not with minors. I am not defending pedophiles on no certain grounds, but I am aware persons can take a liking to one another which appear abnormal because of huge age gaps. It is not an every day occurrence but those circumstance do arise. It does not mean it gives allowance for sexual engagement with minor or to manipulate behavior with any sort of intimacy of grooming.
Same here. What man in his right mind would want to be with a girl her age and then have babies by her. SMH. She didn’t listen to her mom when she told her to leave the man alone so she had to learn a tragic lesson. Now she’s scarred and her children don’t have a dad. This is a situation I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
@@NikkiNiNiNisometimes things happen for a reason. He would’ve disposed of her once she got older, and you never know what he would’ve did to his own kids. Pedo’s don’t care who they hurt. Maybe it was his time to go after damaging people’s lives. She doesn’t realize it yet, but she will! Sad but true!
Who knows if she really did it on purpose or not.. definitely don't sit right with me especially her energy even talking about that. If I ever had my woman that's not comfortable with firearms mess with one I would be expressing all the safety precautions needed as a whole to make sure nothing bad happened. An inexperienced person should never play with firearms without basic safety training. And ppl with the "coolest" personality can sometimes be very deceiving around others. I don't trust it
For all the people on here uplifting my lil sister I truly appreciate it. We definitely need more love and compassion in this world and I thank y’all for not casting stones but trying to understand. My sister kept our family in the blind side when it came to Boogie but tbh my mama and her father ain’t do no good job at trying to do right by her, don’t get me wrong they were good parents. Loved us unconditionally and we never wanted for anything even if we didn’t have it ( because mama always said some things you don’t want, you just want it because you see other people with it). But the conversation about love and older men they failed her. All our life we seen our mama and my siblings dad work and provide for us and tbh life got the best of them after a while. My step dad lost his mama and he’s the baby (that’s been 15 years ago and he’s still not the same, when his mama died a piece of him died like he just kept drinking to ignore life. Then my mama lost her sister, found out she was pregnant again while being the only provider in the house and after she had my baby brother she had PPD very bad until she started coping with pills. I’ve never seen my mama so out of it to the point you can’t even recognize her. Imagine every day at work as a 27 year old you get calls about coming to get your mama because she’s to fuck up to function and at the same time trying to build a life of your own while making sure your siblings straight? Y’all folks be on her quick to type some before y’all even think and tbh that’s sad that the world have come to this. My family needed outlets that we didn’t have or have in the black communities. My mama needed a therapist my lil sister needed a therapist to learn to navigate through these things in their life and they didn’t have them and because they didn’t they cope in other ways and my sister started feeling neglected to where she searched for love in a place she wasn’t getting at home. I’m her older sister but the love of a parent I couldn’t give I just always tried to instill the good morals of life in her and I did but I couldn’t give her the love she searched for. And when she found it, it was to late to talk her out of it because by the time she came around she was pregnant. I was so furious with my sister didn’t speak to her for a whole year but then I had to realize I can’t cast no stones or judgement on her because I was once her age and things my mama taught and said to me I didn’t listen until I learned the hard way and that’s what my lil sister had to do. Hate that she had to learn that way but like I told her she has a testimony now that can save someone else and maybe steer them out of going in the path she did. TBH I HATE SHE DID THIS INTERVIEW bc this world is full of entitled judge-mental people who life may be kicking them in they ass so they feel it’s best to kick someone else while they down so they won’t have to face their own life and I just didn’t want her to feel even more broken when she’s trying to heal. We are broken looking for help or someone to just listen and I think we all should be impeccable with our words because there are traumas we all trying to heal from. Cha Cha I love you baby girl and it took guts to stand strong and tell your story. You speaking on this video told me a lot you endured that I didn’t even know and I apologize you had to go through it. Like I been telling you it’s time for healing so we gone continue to heal
Sister please don’t worry about the negative comments. We love her. We can tell she’s hurting and we would never cast ANY STONES!!! Worry about the positive. God got the rest. Just pretend like you only see happy comments that’s what I do. Blessings to your family💜💜💜
Having too many kids you can’t take care, not realizing the average life expectancy of African Americans , most ppl are prepared to lose their parents in their 50’s we act like we supposed to live forever but don’t value our health. Then we let people repeat the same mistakes and expect people to feel sorry for them instead of holding them accountable for throwing their life in the garbage.
Only ppl who leave negative comments are the ones in denial triggered or no life experiences. I commend her for speaking up n being real. Plz ignore the hate. God is good n hope y'all heal 💪
@@shanceeaton9508My Grandmother is 85, Mom and Dad healthy and in their 70s. Dad is West Indian, my Mom is native american/black. Lots of people of color make it past 50 and many do look after their health. We shouldn't fall into stereotypes that statistics do not support. Low income people have poor health over all despite race. There are areas in the South, and the "Rust Belt" that reflect what you are saying-but again it is all tied to economics.
This young lady maybe a young man, as i see an Adams apple and she prefers to be called Charles which is odd, true she is calm and level headed but the story she tells is all over the place, plus 7 months months for taking a life is hard to believe.
She's a very sweet young lady. I hope she gets the much needed counseling so that her life can get back on the right path. Good luck sweetie may God bless u🙏🏽💗
@@stevej1799Some. killers wear that thing very well . If she had killed their love one then, those would not be so linient ,and have an different outlook..There is nothing nice about a killer. I have heard a killer say , if needed he would do it again..
When did I say my dad didn't teach me anything? Y'all just be making stuff up and its weird. You don't know me at all but what I tell you and even then you still don't know me so please keep your opinions to yourself.
@@alanrealty4048 I can speak proper English fyi. Please let’s not talk about proper English when you don’t have a proper sentence or a sentence at all. Like I said, my father taught me very well and what happened to me doesn’t have anything to do with what my kids father taught me! Tf
@@qanderson3740 no I am not. And no I haven’t. Did any of you ask Jada Pickett that or amber rose like you people act like you all have never seen a woman without hair before like it’s crazy.
I know Right?! Especially when he always hung around the young girls! Extremely heartbreaking to think how many children, both sexes, get groomed on a daily basis! The laws definitely need to be made stricter for the crime of harming a child!
😢 this story is very sad. You can see that she really have remorse and I think the court did realize that it was an accident. I pray that she'll help and go back to school. She's handling the deep pain very well despite the circumstances. I pray that she will forgive herself and find peace. I hope the kids will be understanding about what happened to their father when they reach the age to know what happened.
This is a prime example of , just because there is a man in the household, doesn't mean he's a father.👌🏾 She started out in the beginning of the interview that she had started 👀 him when she was 16 and they were getting 💰 together. He put her on, which is something that her parents probably struggled to do with 8 children. I assure you they had there own problems than to monitor and be actively involved to what she was doing or hanging around. This older man, pays her attention, gives her 💰 and 👅 her 😸 now she thinks she's in ❤... I 👀 it all the time growing up. At a certain point though they realize that they're with an old man,then they want out, thats when 💩 goes 👈🏽. I don't 🤔 for a minute, it was an accident. I know from personal experience because my step grandmother is just 2 years older than me. When I went off to college and would come home to visit my Papa ❤ She looked so miserable.....When he finally let her get a job (2 👩🏽🦲s later) She 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️.....
If I was a model agent, I'd hire this young lady. Her bone structure is amazing. I'd give her the Miss Congeniality charm school makeover treatment plan. God bless!
Do you think maybe you find yourself attracted to men, is that why you are so upset and keep posting the same thing over and over? You seem a bit triggered, are you okay? @@Blacktd-h1d
Crazy!! Wow poor thing… she won’t forget this. But to mess with a man old enough to be your father makes no sense. This man was 50 years old messing with a 17 year old!
What's crazy is I never paid attention to the bs comments but majority of y'all on here talking crazy because you think it was something that it wasn't. You mad because I dated a older man like I'm supoosed to give a f about what you think. Ain't nobody perfect so for you to think and comment crazy stuff is crazy. Like I said our relationship wasn't perfect but what relationship is? Like you all be judging folks because you think it makes you feel better about yourself but in reality you feel like crap. I made a mistake and it wasn't intentional nor was it planned. When I was 16 I was very smart and very intelligent. I wasn't doing stuff just to do it, I did it because that was my choice to make. I'm calm because I'm a calm person but deep inside I was hurting and really holding my composer. I don't talk to people nor do I talk about my situations simply because you have people who "swear they know you" but I don't care what y'all think. GOD knows and my bd knows so that's all that matters. My family supports me deeply and I am grateful for them. If you don't have anything positive or uplifting to say about my situation then keep that s*** to yourself because I've heard it all before and I could give a damn about what you think of him or me because we loved each other and we still love each other. ☮️
Wow! she's cute and honestly she's more focused on who she is and what she wants more than most. There is a lot in this one I think a lot of theseolder generational mentality folks aint gonna understand butt... I'm rooting for her to raise her kids better than her parents and family raised her. real talk
The way you americans play with guns is really disturbing. Y'all must know once you own a gun you must be tempted to use it. I advice you guys adopt a better way of resolving conflicts other than using guns to waste life mistakenly or intentionally.
Well I'm an African, living in Nigeria. Please help me write it if possible. Most of the destinies behind bars in American prisons wouldn't have been there, if there were no guns. Most crimes committed are violent crimes with guns. Without the guns, court room appearances would be drastically reduced, money used by the government to feed millions of criminals for 25yrs to 60yrs will be saved and as well channeled to more productive and life changing programs for American citizens. Drug addiction and homeless should be fought. It breaks my heart to see people live like they're worthless in a country that's called MOST RICHEST IN THE WORLD. I wish all the homeless dudes could come to Africa and see how we live. We support each other to death.
It’s so sad these girls be so lost and broken that they think messing with broke ain’t s**t older man is a come up. They so desperate for love and attention…anything and anybody will do.
You’re young baby girl so I am going to be gentle with you. You are only 22 and how old was he? I don’t remember your story exactly and don’t have time to watch again but I do believe you said he was much older than you and y’all have a child together? You will see when you get older. How much money did he have? Did he even own a home (renting does not count)? If a man that old is messing with a woman as young as you, he should have married you and provided for you and your child. If he was a good man, there is no way you would be homeless on the streets. This is why older people take advantage of younger people. Y’all think you know things but the older people are ten steps ahead of you. This is why older men prey on younger women. You might think a dude with a job is man with some money but once you get a lil older, you might be making more than him and see he wasn’t even about s**t. Trust me, been there and done that. I’m not judging you love. I just hate to see these older men preying on young vulnerable women. I wish you the best. Stay strong…you are still very young and can overcome your situation!❤
@@Jenjenn1111 first of all what are you talking about? Second of all he provided for both of our sons. Third of all he passed away and they took everything. If you wanna know every single detail you could’ve just asked and I would’ve kindly told you to mind your business. Like I told the rest of the people that “ think they know me ” in the back that you can’t tell me nothing about me and the man I love just because I gave you a piece of what happened in my life. Keep your thoughts to yourself.
Sadly he was also immature hence why he kept grooming babies for his sickness. A bunch of drama and mess into this baby life and now he heart is so heavy.
Wow,such a crazy situation…Can’t imagine being so young and having such a tragic situation such as an accidental death to the father of your 2 kids…🙏🏽🙏🏽 Praying for you
Accident and she did time even his family know it was an accident. They knew what she was going through. Sweep around your doorstep before you speak on somebody else life if you don’t know.
She’s beautiful beautiful beautiful. Big pretty eyes, nice lips but did 7 months turn her towards women? Her losing her love at a young age and her guilt from killing him she will probably never date another man. EVER
