#22 Brainstorming on PERSONALITY with Sandeep Maheshwari 

Summary : Personality is adapted by our environment, culture , society . Sandeep sir is trying to told us that Noone have permanent personality . You are not only introvert . You are not only extrovert . Even you are not ambivert . It changed time to time by what we see , think , hear on the daily basis . Generally proces of getting a personality is made during childhood . Personality is not static , it is dynamic . You can change it whenever you want according to your situation . You just have to change the mindset of thinking that it is static . Don't think someone that He/she is a very different personality , so extraordinarily perfect . How can I be like him/her ! No that's not true . Personality changes every second of your moment . It depends on your mood , your situation . Say You are an introvert and you got a news that you got 100/100 marks in all subjects in school . Then you definitely going to feel so happy that you are going shout at that time .Now at that moment you become extrovert . Right !! and vice versa different situations for extrovert also .So , personality is not static but dynamic . Due to some unknown reasons we believed that it can't be changed or we are like that so boring . No it's just time and situation that defines your personality . Personality have two parts - External and internal . External such as - dressing sense , communication skill , body language . External part is good for making first impression or attraction . But what is inner personality - if you understand this thing you are not going to focus more about about other things ( like why I am not cool , good looking etc etc which is part of external personality ) He explained a process of getting a so called permanent (which we think) personality is that it has 4 layers - 1. On biological level , it is well known that our ancestors were monkey .Due to evolution , we are now look like human being . But we still have that monkey mind. 2. Secondly during childhood ( 5-10 year kids) , we try to give meaning to the world which is taught by circumstances . 3. Suddenly when you got our teenage state , we started to consume things ( like films , webseries , experiences )as soon as possible as we are vulnerable to think perfectly to understand the world . 4. In adult state , we realised that we became something in searching for meaning of the world . We think that we acquired a particular personality permanently .Now how can I changed it . That's not true . You can be anyone if I put you in a sudden situation . How to choose personality - 1. Think which personality you want and which one you don't want 2. Most importantly ask yourself honestly why you want that personality How can you change your personality - long story short you consume those things which can help you in making the personality you want for a particular zone in a particular time( in my case one month ) You find yours . How much time you need to influence by something or someone and then see gradually you are thinking or behaving in that way . Thank you Sandeep sir . I honestly appreciate your power of thinking . Because of you we don't force ourselves that deeply . You made it crystal clear for us 😊

This man is doing something magical. i hope people deeply understand what he's really saying. Very Grateful for you sir.

Stage 1 -Childhood > Animal stage Stage 2 -Psychology > Based on experience happened during childhood ( Emotion given by peoples and different situations ) Stage 3 - Teenage > Consume everything Stage 4 - Based on zone prepare yoourself Excellent Sandeep bhai !! Thank you very much for your sharing

Sandeep sir ka video ager..t.v par aane lge to..ye logo ke liye students ke liye..sabse bada or acha show hoga👍 Sandeep sir hi problems ko samaj skte h or ... sahi solutions de skte h..pray to God jii .. Sandeep sir ko.. program t.v par aane lge 🙏

Personality 1. Personality dynamic honi chahiye 2. Same personality is boaring 3. Personality ke centre me person hai 1. Externally - looks , how you present yourself , kaise uthte ho , kaise bolte ho , apki body language kaisi hai , dressing kaisi hai ( this is good for creating first impression , good for pleasing something) 2. Internally - 4 layers 1 ) Biological layer - animal wali , we all are like chimpanzees 2) psychological layer - Bachpan mein Jo hua hai apke sath , aapko kis tarike se hug Kiya hai , aapko kis tarike se touch Kiya gaya hai 3. Teenage - 4 .25 year mein - change hoti rahti hai Aaj kuchh aur cal kuchh aur ( but other three layer do not change) A) kisi ko samjhane se pehle khud us ( person) ko samjho ( understand Karo) I) khud ko samjho II) parents ko samjho III) fir samjhao B) we all are sells men Jab ap kabhi job ke liye bhi ja rahe Ho to yah samjhe kya kuchh bhej rahe ho - apni skills ko - apne knowledge ko - apne experience ko - jo bhi aap ho usko bhej sahe ho C ) in interview common question is What is strengths and weakness ? D) don't be centy ( for some one) Move on ( in life ) Summary - 1. Hamari fundamental jo layer Basic nature jiski aap baat karte Ho Our basic personality jo hai woh janvro wali hai , at biological level usko ap change nahi kr sakte Uske upar ek filter hai wo kabhi kam karta hai kabhi nahi karta Jo bachapan main apke sath hua hai Waha pe jo Thomas hai wo problem hai Waha se jo apko heart hua hai wo problem hai na Jo gilt hai wo problem hai na - gilt khud se related hoti hai Heart dusaro se related hota hai " Aap bhi bandar wahi bhi bandar then woh bhi khatm hua" - ab past khatam ho Gaya ab bacha present

Sir never stop this brain storming session It helps a lot

Sir aap duniya ko life ka real meaning bata rahe hai and logo ko jina sikha rahe seriously you are extra ordinary person sir, aap sach me genius hai 😊

Main points :- (1)Dynamic personality (2)Outer Personality (3)Inner Personality (4)Not predict (5)Everytime New today or tomorrow (6)Can't change innerlyer personality (7)Unresolved or solved conflict (8)Self Understanding (9)Independent Mind Set-up (10)Weakness Or Strength (11)Think_understand_Share_ to person (12)Problem from past & waste memory Change to correct Meaning (13)Use Filter but don't forget it's not fixed

Sandeep Maheshwari watching "Crash landing on you" was the best part .....It's a love story about between North and South Korean ... 💜💜

I am Bandhar, you are Bandhar, and the whole world is Bandhar. What a Bandharila session!!

what a personallity... flawless thoughts.... making a series with positive conclusions.... He's modern Krishna...Sandeep sir upadesh... it's like snow drizzling on hot summer....respect you sir

This type of brainstorming really brings a storm in our brain, and forces us to think something beyond 😊

He made my day 😂, I don’t laugh a lot but this session was so joyful.the lesson I learned from this is so simple that let go and forgive other and specially our own selves. Just learn and grow with your capabilities.we are monkeys by nature 😊,but individually are very unique and gifted .That’s why we adapt the patterns of personalities accordingly.CHOICE is 💯 ours.

Regarding any issue faced due to other people, agar hum aisa samajh le ki wo "bandar" hi hai, then we can actually never hold any grudge against anyone. Really a unique and great perspective!

The most enlightened young person on the planet like OSHO .. Sandeep Maheshwari

Now that ads are increasing more and more on youtube and other plateforms whenever we play a video, this is truly amazing to click any of your video and it just starts play. No Ads. Hats off !!

*शब्दों के उच्चारण में शब्दों को धार नहीं बल्कि आधार बनाना चाहिए। क्योंकि धार जिन शब्दों में होती है वह मन को काटते हैं। और आधार जिन शब्दों में होती है वह मन को छू लेते हैं👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻*

When I go into the brainstorming zone after that I never want to out off.. Marvellous session 👏...

He is the only Indian in the league of Jordon Peterson, Joe Rogan, Tim Ferris & Sam Harris. I wish he could get 10 million plus views for every video. India needs influencers like SM to become real superpower nation.

Personality is of two types-internal &external. Personality=1.animal layer+2.childhood layer+3.teenage layer+4.above 20 year layer which we can change by consuming that type of content which you want to be. For changing our personality change our childhood and teenage conflict by giving new meaning. And also we all are like monkies but we have filter.

5:45 [romantic show], 9:15 [inner personality bhut smjhana bhut jruri hai], 11:30 [kaun sbse jyada romantic hai], 31:25 [shaadi ke time crash landing on you dekhlo], 32:15 [jb jo zone chahiye, uss se related book, videos, content dekho], 33:09 [Bollywood mein ek actor hai jiski ek movie 25-30 saal phle hit ho gya thaa]

जब जोड़ते हैं कड़ी से कड़ी तब जाके बनती है जंजीर ….. और जब होती है मेहनत पे मेहनत तभी बनती है तक़दीर Vijay kumar

Bndar sunke maja aa gya aaj... Realty dekhli apni...

आज हमे सीखने को मिला हम बन्दर हमारी family बन्दर हमारे पूर्वज बन्दर हमारे सारे दोस्त बन्दर मेरी बीवी बन्दरिया पूरी दुनिया के लोग बन्दर बन्दरिया 🙏🙏🙏 THNX SIR

Best session ever heard. Only Real personality like sandeep ji can tell the actual truth of all fake personalities all around us.

I was getting this but did not having courage to accept it as it's right... U clear it beautifully sir🙂❤️

Sir first thing i am very thankful to you sir. Now i am 16 year old I am suffering from at least 5 year of my past and i always feel regret and sad now i watch your session and my all childhood troma is change thankyou so much sir.. And also thanks for asking great questions guys😊❤

This is actually a storm in the mind. Sometime I have to pause the video to process it in the mind otherwise it flies over the head.

Aaj to Kasam se maja hi aa Gaya 😅😅 kya session tha 🙏❤️ thank you so very much Sandeep sir 👍🏻👍🏻🙏❤️❤️

A man and his love can change the world. Thanks for your contribution.

Contestants questions are so normal, they could not extract Sandeep Maheshwari from Sandeep Maheshwari.. This man is epic, and questions set the tone of the episode

Sandip Maheswori sir leads to be motivated for us

"Bandar " was the best part of this video 😂😂😂😂 ,after "khachhar", it's my fav dialogue of Sandeep sir 🤣🤣 Sandeep sir is really great 😊🙏🏻 Hasate hasate pura topic samjha diya 😌

"My personality has transformed bcz of listening to Sandeep Sir " Love u Sir

This man not only gives the answers but also ignites the right question 💖

What is Personality? Solving Conflicts Related to it. 1:20 Introvert & Extrovert Pros & cons of Both. 2:31 Understand what your actual personality is ? As per Context. 4:14 To understand others or to understand oneself. Both needed as per situation. 5:09 How personally is made ? 5:45 Garbage in Garbage out. 7:00 Should we give too much imp to ideals ? 7:38 Same Pattern is Boring. Have Dynamic P. 8:02 External & Inner P. Body Language - E. Inner is long term. 9:27 10:03 Root of Experience. A. Childhood B. Socity. At unconsciousness level. 10:56 Static & Fluid P. Unpredictable Personality. 12:38 Basic Nature. A. Animal instinct. 13:44 Hunger, thrust, sex - common in both. 15:01 B. Childhood unresolved conflicts. - Resolve this conflict. 15:52 C. Teenage. Start consuming every single content. Mostly this 3 are non changeable.(but can be set right ) 17:22 25th Plus Age changeable. 18:05 thats why Dr starts with Childhood. Solution - Set semantics right. 19:14 Why you should understand your Parents? Their standpoint from their background. Best S - I would have done the same if I were in my Parents place. 20:37 Ex of sells man. 3 Steps. 1. First you Understand the idea. Why you want. 2. Understand Parents Background. How they are understanding? 3. Then Explain 24:11 How to resolve childhood conflicts ? - Set the Semantic Rught. - I would have the Exactly. Ex. Money. What if a monkey annoys you ? 26:20 Monkey Mind. 27:22 You too have Personally like Monkey. 27:58 Filter of thinking. - Not Fully reliable. - Solves Deeper Conflicts. - Baggage of Personality related Conflicts. Sum up 29:14 Fundamental Layer - A. Animal. B. Human & Filter. Guilt & Hurt setting right. 30:41 Get Free from structure. 31:26 Consume Content as per Context. Ex. Crash landing on you. ( Fir Relationship Context / Zone that make you think further) 32:43 Zone as per what you really need. 33:25 Keep changing rather than maintaining

"Health is Wealth" A healthy mind leaves in a healthy Body🤗

We have all heard the term, “monkey mind.” Just as a monkey is restless and jumps from tree to tree, our mind too jumps from thought to thought. It is impatient, obstinate, and even turbulent at times. 😅

-> See all people as monkeys (26:00) just ignore ->change your personality every time like while giving an interview(watch videos related to confidence and motivation), while in relationship with movies like crash landing on you, and when you search for hope watch Shawshank redemption. In this way change your personality every time then you will be free from everything ->when something bad happens in the past how we need to resolve it(Think from that person point and see what decision you would take if you are in that position and correct all the regrets which you have in the past) ->Changing personalities will bring you a lot more confidence

Is brainstorming ne mujhe confuse kar main koi section dekh raha hun yah comedy show 😂. But super laga sir ji💖

All I can say..thank you Univers for on right time right session 🙏🙏🙏 Really need this

Believe in yourself! Have faith your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.

Last 10 minutes was humorous to those too.. Who is in sad state.. He izzz just all izzz well to do man.. 🤩

Sir you are unbelievable what you doing for youths you deserve Bharat Ratna...!

Sir, I am a student of school now..By watching your videos or true based movies, I can see the hard reality..Even this is good, but unfortunately, my classmates, teachers or many other people in this environment, I see them showing off as a logical person being very illogical..So, sometimes it feels crazy being with them..That's the uncomfortable zone that if you can figure it out, that will be very grateful to me..I don't know, you will see this or not, even though I keep trying.. Can you all help me?!

My personality actually changes time to time and I thought I was wrong it's okay.. thank you sir

सर जी नमस्कार...मैं आपका विद्यार्थी हूं. मैं 4-5 सालों से आपकी वीडियोस से बहुत कुछ सीख रहा हूं...आप हमारे लिए इतना अच्छा और बड़ा काम कर रहे हैं वो भी फ्री में...🥰 आपकी वीडियोस देख कर हमारी सोच सही हो रही है हम अच्छा सोच पा रहे हैं, अच्छा कर पा रहे हैं...इसका शुक्रियादा कैसे करूं समझ नही आ रहा है thank you so much sir...🙏🙏🙏😊

Crash landing on you. Where there is no selfish motive, there is love❤️❤️

"All too often our personality is nothing more than psychological clothing that we wear to hide our true self from the world."🌐 ~ Teal Swan

This man will change your life. Just feel and understand his word. 😊❤️

Dear friend am followers of you since 2013, still proud to be your followers

Many many congratulations on crossing 22 million subscribers!

Sandeep Maheshwari is the great source of knowledge and also looking handsome. Really awesome to listen him.❤️❤️❤️

We are glorifying so much ourselves so much and observing that what the hell is happening to us rather than thinking we are not different than monkey 🐒 at a biological level and giving meaning to it(personality/life.. things happening to us). It is now making my understanding and thinking very much reasonable.🙏🙏❤️💯

Motivation की दुनिया में संदीप सर का कोई जवाब नहीं है #1👍👍👍👍

Agar life me kuch karna hai too motivation speech sunana banda karna padega 🤣🤣🤣 this is true 🇮🇳

Sir you are the modern day Guru .... ❤️❤️ Lost of respect sir 🙏🙏

Sandip Maheshwari heart of billion people's 🖤

I don't know why but me aaj tak khud ko hi nhi samjha payi ki meri personality kya hai mujhe apne baare me hi nhi pta but really I am happy with me❤

हर चीज पर प्रश्न करो समझने की चेष्टा करो। चिंतन मनन करो। बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद गुरु जी संदीप जी।

Sir I am watching your videos since I was in class 7. Right from that age you have been influencing me a lot. Sir you are always a solution oriented person.My suggestions for the next video would be" how to make quik decisions"

This session was really amazing and entertaining!

1st We have fundamental layer of a animal at a biological level. 2nd layer is of your memories or trauma of childhood. 3rd Teenage where we define the meaning of things accordingly 4th layer is a changing layer, it should be dynamic and try to consume the content you really want that moment. Completely go in that zone and than achieve it. Thank you for this wonderful session sir🙏✨

This session very helpful to understand way of thinking thank you Sir.

Sir *Thanks* for *Changing My Life* & Giving me a new *direction for thinking* 🥰🥰

Either you control your mind or it will control you🔥🔥 this was reality thank you so much sir for inspired me ❤️❤️❤️

This session is seriously impact on me.... Thank you sir for making this type of content

Thank you so much sir for everything ❤️

We are lucky that we find a gem like you in this era💝💝

Hello Sandeep ji. Thank you for all your amazing videos. Would you please do a session on people who are in their 30s or 40s and have unfortunately taken wrong decisions in choosing education line / career due to society/ parental advice at young vulnerable age but now are unhappy in their careers and want to change. Seeing your videos have enlightened me but I feel like is it too late for me or many others like me, to start afresh now? How do we make this change, and get motivation to step out of this comfort zone ( which has become stronger and inbuilt ) due to age and our own family pressures of being a spouse/ parents ourselves now. Kindly advice. I will be very grateful if you could make a session on this topic. Thank you.

Sandeep maheshwari is tha best motivational speaker

Sandeep sir 1 , 1 Video apki croro ki value rakhti hai 🙏 Osm sir thanks you so much ….

sandeep sir is the only person i had seen who can simplify most complicated topic into most simple ...🧡💜

Sandeep sir is one of the great person..

Woow that's great ..he explains things so easily ..great😊

Andr ki duniya ki research chalti rehti hai is channel par poora din 😍

Sir this session is best and very very motivated to me and my parents sir such great session 🙏🏽🔥🔥

Mja aagya sir please never end this brainstorming 🔥🔥🔥

धन्यवाद संदीप सर❤🙏

Dynamic on situation based. Like water

One of the best video among this series by sandeep maheshwari..

Sir, you describe every perspective in just one flow 😃

I like the way he doesn't tell us to fix our personalities or try to change something in every sessions, but understand what these are from a basic level and you feel inner peace and be at ease realizing these things and move on with life❤

Mi bander, tu bnder, hum sarre bnder, don't feel any guilt give right frame to situation and enjoy🥰🥰

Sir ,you simplifies things in such a way that anyone can understand it well. Lots of love for you sir ❤️😊 You are an inspiration to millions.🖤🥰

I cannot watch Crash landing on you now . I m into entrepreneurial zone . So reading claude hopkins. This is called CHAMALEON mind trait .

Excellent and very new concept introduced by Sandeepji "WE ALL ARE BANDAR"....🤣🤣🤣 If someone really understand the meaning of this term then "Kaam khatm, saare conflicts aur tensions gayab..." WELL DONE and hats off to you dear...👌👌👌

This man is a savior ❤️❤️❤️💖💖💖 thanks a lot sir. Forever grateful to you for sharing your life with us

Teachers open the door, but you must enter by yourself. 🙏

Dil se Love You Sandeep Sir... ❤

वीडियो देखकर दूसरों को देखने का तरीका बदल गया। प्रोत्साहन के लिए धन्यवाद।

I love very very much you sir.... You clear my biggest fear and confusion

इतनी मेहनत करती हूँ But टैलेंट की कोई कदर नहीं करता.. 😌😌 सब बड़े You Tuber को सपोर्ट करते हैं छोटे You Tuber को कोई सपोर्ट नहीं करता है🙏🙏

Personality is nothing but one's mindset towards his duties.

Thank You Sandeep

19:36 🦋✨💫 best part ✨🦋

Sandeep Maheshwari is the greatest gift to the MAN-KIND 💫🙏..

Absolutely amazing.🥇🥇

Sandeep Maheshwari is the elder brother that everyone needs