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26 year old CA died due to Work Stress 

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@Sapnanehraofficial0588
@Sapnanehraofficial0588 Месяц назад
When you said ,you don't share such things because their are lot of people soo soft hearted ❤ they can't tolerate it ,and unable to even take sleep because it bother them hardly ,hard to let go it took my heart ,it shows you don't only treat us as a subscriber and audience only you really care about us😢, first time seen such a soulful influencer 🤍,all the love and support you are receiving you really deserve it ✨🙌
@CANEHADATTA
@CANEHADATTA Месяц назад
Thank you for considering and appreciating me. Whereas few are just busy backlashing on why I am sharing this news and not others. I am being biased about my profession. In reality, I am mentioning this because this is related to the things I advocate about. Giving gentle reminders. I am not someone who talks and gives opinions on anything and everything 🥲
@Dreamcatcher0007
@Dreamcatcher0007 Месяц назад
Nope it's about most of us we are paid for 8 hours that should be it. If you say no they ruin your career at EYGDS.
@tensionfree494
@tensionfree494 Месяц назад
u guys r not awared..its not about benefit of the company ..its about torturing any employee to create scared other employees,to remove frustration and an ego of manager,senior manager ..they do that purposely they een want the employee to suicide they create such kind of circumstance by manupulating rules against one employee to torture,use rest of all employee to harass,bulley that single soul on the name of discilining,by giving unlimited work to torture the employee..these kind of things happenns in almost the corporate,sales etc company
@vickysharma3752
@vickysharma3752 Месяц назад
​Dark side of hustle culture 😢
@gearsoftechgot
@gearsoftechgot Месяц назад
Working beyond 8-9 hours is totally called as a torture....👍
@Shineyourlife16
@Shineyourlife16 Месяц назад
Honestly maine khud aaj resignation letter Diya hai just because of toxic environment and Mujhe abhi sirf 2 months hi hue hai and I really don’t want to do any buttering n all. I was thinking k maine sahi kiya ya nai but aaj ye sb sun kar and aapka post dekh kar I felt so relaxed k mai aur meri mental health zyada important hai. Thank you so much
@amey0382
@amey0382 Месяц назад
All the best for your future! You took a brave step! Bravo! ❤
@advocaterishitamall
@advocaterishitamall Месяц назад
All the best ! With the online gig economy, and people learning skills online I hope it becomes easier for talent to slap a resignation on their employer's face, and soon the work culture changes for better where people think twice before treating someone badly at any work place !
@Himani-i8l
@Himani-i8l Месяц назад
Mene bhi quit ki thi job kyunki toxic environment tha wahan
@cajins9394
@cajins9394 Месяц назад
Samee here. Quit big4 in march and joined industry with a lesser pay but having peace of mind.
@lostsoul4317
@lostsoul4317 Месяц назад
Practice kar lo
@BibinAlexander
@BibinAlexander Месяц назад
Your company is not your family. When it comes to replacing you, the company will not even consider you. You're just an employee for them, that's it. The sooner you learn this, the better you'll start caring for yourself, your career, and your future.
@snehansumohapatra3161
@snehansumohapatra3161 Месяц назад
Exactly....it's the personal thing just to change company and make company union...lot of work are there...no matter what challenge comes just deny everything and do devotion.....
@Mansee-x3x
@Mansee-x3x Месяц назад
Even air 1 of neet 2017 commited suicide... mental health is important...our life is way more important than a degree, job etc
@Artoaspirants
@Artoaspirants Месяц назад
​@@thenameishitesh Chant Hanuman Chalisa on a daily basis. You will see the change.
@AMAN-iz9qt
@AMAN-iz9qt Месяц назад
​@@Artoaspirants😂😂😂 Yeh fraud se kuch nahi hota, i have tried
@avanishtiwari6626
@avanishtiwari6626 Месяц назад
​​@@AMAN-iz9qt ap Kuran padho Hanuman chalisa hinduo ke liye hai
@AMAN-iz9qt
@AMAN-iz9qt Месяц назад
@@avanishtiwari6626 mai ex hindu hoon, islam bhi frad hi hai jaise baaki dharam
@suhasmagar2978
@suhasmagar2978 Месяц назад
​@@thenameishiteshI will recommend vipaasna meditation. Practice daily for an hour, firstly try guided meditation by S N Goenka. No chalisa no quran no Bible or any book will help you, only practice meditation and mindfulness. You will surely see results. God bless you 🙏🙏
@amishagoswami8634
@amishagoswami8634 Месяц назад
What on earth is happening literally... Neet Air 1 took his life and now a CA did the same thing...this is really sad and horrific 🥺 please take care of your mental health guys 😔
@abhiramisudhakaran5526
@abhiramisudhakaran5526 Месяц назад
This is a case of cardiac arrest due to sleep deprivation resulted from work overload. Not suicide.
@ankybuoy2.0
@ankybuoy2.0 Месяц назад
I was also working in ey ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vWDY0-WO-_A.html. ... Very hectic environment
@JaideepSingh-k4r
@JaideepSingh-k4r Месяц назад
🥺🥺
@User-mncbjlfjrebxkl
@User-mncbjlfjrebxkl 26 дней назад
@@abhiramisudhakaran5526 It was murder.
@Theindorover99
@Theindorover99 Месяц назад
✅ I quit my CA course after 8 years of depression & struggle and now I am Fulltime traveller and Travel Volgger. Recently I completed my Hampi Trip and now I am editing my videos. Do what you love , Don't do forcefully what you not love. Money is important so connect your passion with money. Passion is nothing if you are not able to generate revenue by your passion. 💐💐Om Shanti and RIP 💐💐
@User-mncbjlfjrebxkl
@User-mncbjlfjrebxkl 26 дней назад
what you did takes a lot of balls and brains
@aadhyagupta3365
@aadhyagupta3365 Месяц назад
"RIGHT TO DISCONNECT" MUST BECOME A PART OF LAW IN INDIA strict actions must be taken against the managers who treat their employees as Robots
@mshah1193
@mshah1193 Месяц назад
It is not the Managers fault. The abuse is coming directly from upper management....CEO,.officers of company, and also insurance corporations. They are all working with one another to enslave the employees at lower level.
@ItsBullyMaguire
@ItsBullyMaguire Месяц назад
Its toxic manager ​@@mshah1193
@Sneako-d3l
@Sneako-d3l Месяц назад
Yes fir filed karo
@devleenasarkar6203
@devleenasarkar6203 Месяц назад
True... Right to disconnect ab pass ho jana chahiye India mein prob kya hai pata hai.. itne log hain ki aapka kaam koi aapke salary se kam mein karne ko taiyyar hai. Life ki koi value nahi hai People are very selfish no civic sense.. n filled with hatred Mere husband ko COVID hua tha n he was at home very very ill couldn't breathe eat.high fever. Ek customer call kar ke bola lete hi huye hain naa Mera file ka kaam kar dijiye I love my country but people of this country must learn some ethics !!!! Here people have a prob of implementing their POV on others . And disrespect others thoughts!!!!
@ankybuoy2.0
@ankybuoy2.0 Месяц назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vWDY0-WO-_A.html I was also working in ey . Very hectic
@gyanlelo650
@gyanlelo650 Месяц назад
"Jitna mile daam utna Karo kaam" Don't ever try to achieve those things whose impact on your health and mental peace.
@Successzone1234
@Successzone1234 Месяц назад
Humiliate karenge ya fir terminate kar denge
@bullymaguire8756
@bullymaguire8756 Месяц назад
Ekdum😢
@uzmachauhan6306
@uzmachauhan6306 Месяц назад
Jaan hai to jahan hai. We must prioritize our mental and emotional peace.😊
@dragon05-fn5od
@dragon05-fn5od Месяц назад
agreed. Jaan hai toh jahan hai !!
@Manyaa006
@Manyaa006 Месяц назад
So true
@CuteVibes-19
@CuteVibes-19 Месяц назад
True 👍👍
@Successzone1234
@Successzone1234 Месяц назад
Paise nahi hai toh kuch nahi hai
@MoinKhan-uf4pg
@MoinKhan-uf4pg Месяц назад
​@@Successzone1234matlab life jaye bhad mein
@NishuMishra-ff7og
@NishuMishra-ff7og Месяц назад
I got toxic environment in my first job , I don't want to join this job but because of my parents pressurize me I did it I worked here for approx 2 and half month never seen this type of people in my life mannerless, toxic etc mental peace ki to baat chhoro depression me chali gyi mai , after quitting it it took approx 8 months to recover those trauma. Even I can't share incidents with my parents but I suffered a lot there kash maine wha join nhi kiya hota They even don't pay my salary worst decision ever to join this company. now I am doing a job since 8 month work environment is too good there whenever In interview anyone ask me about work preference I said Work environment matters me a alot. Thanku universe for everything you give me ❤🥰 Now in my point of view success means happiness money ,position no matter.
@MrAbhix7
@MrAbhix7 Месяц назад
Very much happy for you take care of yourself you matter ❤ health should be given preference over any work
@ambivert5445
@ambivert5445 Месяц назад
@@NishuMishra-ff7og That's great. All the best for your bright future
@NishuMishra-ff7og
@NishuMishra-ff7og Месяц назад
@@ambivert5445 thanku so much ☺️
@NishuMishra-ff7og
@NishuMishra-ff7og Месяц назад
@@MrAbhix7 thanku so much ☺️
@tusharanand.
@tusharanand. Месяц назад
Company join karne se pehle acche se jaanch pratal kijea...uski review dekhiyea.... dont join only due to good salary..
@bspraveen9364
@bspraveen9364 Месяц назад
Wise words Madam..👏 PME is Important. 1. P : Physical well-being. 2. M : Mental Well-being. 3. E : Emotional Well-being.❤
@Destination_Unknown713
@Destination_Unknown713 Месяц назад
How is Mental wellbeing different from Emotional wellbeing???
@arunitsingh3518
@arunitsingh3518 Месяц назад
​@@Destination_Unknown713exactly my question too
@sanjanagrover7436
@sanjanagrover7436 29 дней назад
Mental is brain, emotional is emotions ​@@Destination_Unknown713
@anupsahoo3486
@anupsahoo3486 Месяц назад
I lost my mother when I was 3 years old, but my father and my elder sister, who raised me well and taught me valuable lessons about life, helped me consider what is right and what is wrong. After my family, you are the one who teaches me some valuable lessons, which are basically taught by mothers and sisters. Although you are not connected to me by blood, somehow you are connected to my soul, like a sister from another mother, who keeps teaching and guiding me, just as a mother guides her child... you are purely right❤❤❤...
@nikso2197
@nikso2197 Месяц назад
CA Anna Sebastian is from my home. She passed away in July. It took 2 months for CA fraternity to talk about her death. Being a CA student myself i feel so bad why noone is talking about her demise. Atlast now people r taking this seriously.
@CANEHADATTA
@CANEHADATTA Месяц назад
Barely many had clue about this. I myself got to know about this today.
@garimabhargav1800
@garimabhargav1800 Месяц назад
Her story saved many lives I beleive❤
@nikso2197
@nikso2197 Месяц назад
@@CANEHADATTA Thank you didi for ur support.. this video means a lot for us... 🙏
@nikso2197
@nikso2197 Месяц назад
@@Strongh1980 Yes .. i agree with you..
@nikso2197
@nikso2197 Месяц назад
@@garimabhargav1800 Yes.. I wish ..
@ItsBullyMaguire
@ItsBullyMaguire Месяц назад
I also left my job due to toxic manager and bad workplace 6 months ago. Now I'm very happy 😁 i do freelance and set my boundaries
@bulbulcreation1036
@bulbulcreation1036 Месяц назад
I also want to do freelancing can u suggest mi some basic tips which is not told by anyone any RU-vid If u want tell me Ur reply not easily recommended me by RU-vid Just like my comment so I can return here in this comment box
@Pracchi
@Pracchi Месяц назад
Please suggest
@ankybuoy2.0
@ankybuoy2.0 Месяц назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vWDY0-WO-_A.html I was WORKING IN EY HECTIC ENVIRONMENT
@Shubham-et8qk
@Shubham-et8qk Месяц назад
​@@bulbulcreation10362+ people likes your comment to tell you that he didn't tell anything 🤷🏻
@AIR1inFun
@AIR1inFun Месяц назад
Being a CA Final student who is just 1 group away from the CA Prefix it's heartbreaking to imagine the pain and grief Anna's mother must be going through. This truly disturbed my mental space as well because we are doing hard work to get a job in our dream company and this is what we will get after spending 5-7 years of our life in this course. You gave it a very good tagline "utna karo kaam jitna mile daam" and setting boundaries is really very important. Stress is the new Covid nowadays be aware everyone!! Also writing that letter to EY's management shows immense courage and strength from Anna's mother. She's not only grieving but also advocating for change to prevent similar tragedies. We need work life balance in the Big 4s!!
@neerfruu
@neerfruu 29 дней назад
Work Life Balance needed in all companies... And everyone must engage in activities that nurtures mind & body..
@AIR1inFun
@AIR1inFun 28 дней назад
@@neerfruu totally agree
@sharayughatkar1462
@sharayughatkar1462 Месяц назад
Sach mein di aapne jo courage dikhaya hai us time pe... jo apne khud par jo vshwas kiya hai... wo sab nahi kar pate.....thank u to god ki usne muze aapse milaya😊thank u di🤗
@ArvindKumar-11133
@ArvindKumar-11133 Месяц назад
Life, mental and emotional health se jyada kuch v ni h, hum sb k liye ye ek wake up call h. Thank u for clarity ❤
@amisharoy4086
@amisharoy4086 Месяц назад
Hey neha let me share my honest experience with u .Being a cs trainee I joined the firm in my city .Where my trainer used was good, no toxic environment but there was a bad behaviour with him that he used to constantly give me one type of work which was full clerical, no drafting work was given to me or very little. Within one month of my training he used the Harsh word " Who am I and who are u you must understand " on my result day.This statement litterly clotted my throat for entire day.I couldn't speak. Then I kept working. From January there was no work in the firm or whatever drafting work would come was assigned to one person only.That emotionally drawn me so much that I am Capable or was having much self doubt. I couldn't sleep for 2 month but after a lot of courage I resigned the office on 31 August 2024.And I think it's a best decision for myself.
@shashanks3432
@shashanks3432 Месяц назад
I am from Deloitte i was experienced mental harrasment from 2 managers they screwed me personally and emotionally even i felt my many times suicidal even i had chest pain but some how my articleship got over after 2.5 yrs
@sonalisharma9262
@sonalisharma9262 Месяц назад
Did you complain to your seniors?
@shashanks3432
@shashanks3432 Месяц назад
@@sonalisharma9262 no use of it
@anita2053-r1f
@anita2053-r1f Месяц назад
same i became borderline when i was working in infy my manager scolded me severely without my faults too, arrey kaahase aathe hei log, unprofessional mind it and he himself terminated me soon when my colleague given me all her works and i was doing that couldnt finish my tasks he didnt listen. always tester used to send me emails every day updates even after giving her all updates and if i didnt reply mgr blames even on that. i used to feel suicidal squeezed throat locking doors during wfh ,it was so hectic. i couldnt express nor complain whats the use anyhow he terminated me no one listens and blames me only
@Lovely-dl5cw
@Lovely-dl5cw Месяц назад
Good that you left the toxic job.
@panktislifestyle2354
@panktislifestyle2354 29 дней назад
Just leave.
@gurbachansingh_macrofinance
@gurbachansingh_macrofinance Месяц назад
To share with you though I am nearing retirement age. I left my job as faculty member in JNU. I got peace and found my way - an alternative way. And, thanks for the video. Many young people will benefit.
@realwithjain
@realwithjain Месяц назад
It is better to leave a toxic environment than to stay in one. I have left two jobs now and trust me, it’s always better to leave than to suffer :)
@realwithjain
@realwithjain Месяц назад
@@meghnabaghel2895
@realwithjain
@realwithjain Месяц назад
@@meghnabaghel2895 Build yourself enough while doing a job that, even if you leave, you have the power to use your skills to make money :)
@advocaterishitamall
@advocaterishitamall Месяц назад
I too left two jobs.. not worth my time, sincerity, health.. People who come because of nepotism, favouritism get free salary just pretending to work and people without contacts slog like anything...
@temporayaccoun
@temporayaccoun Месяц назад
@@meghnabaghel2895 perfect mastery at one particular skill like cooking, sewing, teaching, art & craft or designing.. can save an individual from toxic environment of job by resigning it, super professionally.
@Bharatyodhha
@Bharatyodhha Месяц назад
​​@@mshah1193 don't tell this sh#$ that managers know software and others don't. In my earlier company I had seen managers doing favoritism. They absolutly ignored hard working employees and prompted new people just because they know them.
@pravinmt930
@pravinmt930 Месяц назад
On 14th August my daughter (same one another 4S same audit) reached client site after a ride of 1 hr around 10 am. She called her manager at 10pm, told not well leaving for home, but she was told to reach office they worked in office till 1am 15th aug, i called manager and little shouted at him, he realized his mistake ask apologies and let her leave around 1.40 am as i asked our relative to go office take her back safely at odd hours of night. You all should do very hard work for prescribed hours but gather courage to resist managers who are intentionally or unintentionally putting your phisical and mental health at risk.
@meghapatil8007
@meghapatil8007 Месяц назад
Even i left the job before 1 month because of all of this mental health.. no personal life Saturday Sunday working.. no respect.. no increment.. now i feel relaxed.. .. so make priority 1st for your mental, physical health... And don't care about anyone.....
@VijaylakshmiReddycherala
@VijaylakshmiReddycherala Месяц назад
It means a lot ❤❤❤
@Missriyaaa
@Missriyaaa Месяц назад
Over glorification of everything by these so called influencers is the root cause of every problem. They showcase the best part of their lives which is just 1/4th and log usi se influence hokar apne ap ko mentally torture krte hain... Isliye koi bhi influencer ho apni life ko uski life se compare karna band kro.
@MBA-Wise34in
@MBA-Wise34in Месяц назад
This news is really very sad. I am not a CA. But yes, i had a bitter experience in the MNC work culture. Very toxic environment in there. Only work for 6 months, contractual. Now, decided no more MNC. First priority to the mental health. ❤❤
@pkhatoon9236
@pkhatoon9236 Месяц назад
Toxic matlb kya exctly...can u explain...like extra working hours ya ghr se bhi kaam krdo yahi hai na ???
@MBA-Wise34in
@MBA-Wise34in Месяц назад
Jab khud ke liye time naa ho.. toh usse badi toxcity aur kya ho sakti hai.. 7-8 days chalta hai, but day by day nahi chalta hai. Mentally sick lagne lagta hai. Mental Peace is also very important in life.. ❤❤
@wemumbaikars1210
@wemumbaikars1210 Месяц назад
Im also Nov 23 qualified working in one of the big4 having same month of joining with Anna, we were working till 3-4 am and next day in office at 12..too much work pressure and manager doesn't care about it..kahi baat team mein bahot baar behosh ho chuke hai...still working in such a toxic environment
@prashantkv4
@prashantkv4 Месяц назад
That's why Work-Life balance and mental health are more important than just money. And Never get attached to your company because the company is not attached to you, they can replace you anytime. They are not your family, so respect and give time to your real family at your home, take weekend holidays, leaves in between, and work for the amount you are paid, no need to overwork...
@tusharanand.
@tusharanand. Месяц назад
exactly prashant..... Always learn to say No... when something is not in favour of your mental health....Paisa se bdh kar hamara sarir hai..
@nandika5821
@nandika5821 Месяц назад
I am a neet aspirant mein bhi ek coaching jaati thi jaha ka environment bhaut stressful tha ik as an aspirant stress har jagah hota hai per uss specific coaching mein bhaut zyada waha daily test hota tha aur agar marks kum aate the toh bhaut daat aur insult hoti thi puri class ke samne woh meri insecutrity ban chuki thi uss insult se bachne ke liye mein raat ko sirf 4 ghante soti thi khana bhi dhang se nahi khati thi aur apni capacity se zyada study karti thi kuch time baad meine parents se baat kari aur woh coaching chodh di Fees bhi refund nahi hui Im not even kidding per aaj subah meine apne papa ko bolte huye sunna ki unke itne paise barbaad ho gaye coaching ke chakkar mein I was feeling very guilty mujhey lag raha tha chahe extra stress le leti per paise barbaad nahi karne chahiye the Meine jab apki video dekhi mera guilt kum hogya But this news is very traumatising Rest in peace with eternal love and care from the angels up there May her soul finds peace 🙏
@Clam782
@Clam782 Месяц назад
Ye to sirf shuruwat h stress ki. Abhi 30+ ki age tak jhelna h ye sab
@godkumar
@godkumar Месяц назад
Le Doctors working for >80hrs in a week and sometimes >100hr a week also (1 week of night duties) No Saturday sunday leave No leave of festivals Only 15 leaves allowed per year And still get paid 60k a month And still everyone says usne 5 min ke 300 rs le liye Ek CA ki maut se sabko work life balance and social Injustice dikha raha Doctors itne saal se ye sab jhel rahe kisi ko koi parwah nahi
@raoofharyana8142
@raoofharyana8142 Месяц назад
Jo bhi hua ab usko bhul ke aage badho… or ha ek baat aap jis bhi jagah jaogi ye insult or nicha dikhana aapko har field me milega… mai yhi kahunga aapko in sab se koi fark nhi padna chahiye…
@varnitanagdeve1592
@varnitanagdeve1592 Месяц назад
​​@@godkumarhar waqt comparison jruri hoti h kya??Sb apni life me kuch na kuch tolerate kr hi rhe h.. Ginwane se better h apni mental stress ko priority do..Kyun br br har field se differentiate krna h..Ek CA se kya mtlb h..Ca kya yoon hi halwe me ban jate h unke kaam kya bhaaji palak ki trh h??
@godkumar
@godkumar 23 дня назад
Oo behen dhang se padho mere comment ko Mene ye kaha ki aaj Ek CA ke marne pe work stress ka ek dun se sabko khayal aa gaya Dr. Jo itne saal se lage pade hai uski to logo ko koi value nahi Usko dekhte hue to inn logo ko roz video banane chahiye ​@@varnitanagdeve1592
@dineshsingh6576
@dineshsingh6576 Месяц назад
Very good advice. Look like you are a very excellent family woman. Great job!
@titikshajoshi6934
@titikshajoshi6934 Месяц назад
This is so true; I had a similar experience. I started my career in 2021, and in 2022, I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. During my treatment, only my family was there for me-not a single person from the office. I’m not saying that my professional life alone caused this; there were personal reasons, like an unhealthy lifestyle. But the important point to note is, that even when I was trying to do my best to sort everything, toxic people-especially those bossy or narcissistic types-did turn my office life into a living hell, all under the guise of work or career growth. Personally, I love my work, but I really hate the people I had to directly deal with to get the work done.
@chinmaya_.pradhan
@chinmaya_.pradhan Месяц назад
My uncle living in village has 2 acres agriculture land, 1 welding garage, 1 JCB excavator. Him+ his 2 boys/my cousins are running all these. Earning well, living a stress free life, enjoying their life. Lession is: wohi kaam karo jisme tumko lage ki mental stress less hai, and you are getting time for your family and physical activity & fitness as well. Warna jab tum jawani mein duniya se chale jaoge to sirf tumhare family members hi royenge, baki sab apne apne raaste jayenge.
@shreyasingh5764
@shreyasingh5764 Месяц назад
She must be given the right to live and enjoy the life she dreamt of....I really wish that authorities take a stand against the injustice...
@aspirant9738
@aspirant9738 Месяц назад
I was a school topper cleared all my ca levels in first attempt.. But when i joined so called big 5 firm for my articleship they made me feel so devastated that i started doubting my potential ... I used to cry every day due to work politics and at that time i was very young to Handle this all .i was working till 3 am in morning for months and months ... Nobody supported me from that firm. . Afterwords i left the firm within one year... And the trauma is so bad that now m not willing to join any big 4....guys dont take pressure on yourself.. Your life matters to your closed ones. This co will replace u within a day.. Your parents didnt raise u to die for some so called company. Choose your mental peace over any thing
@PraisyParmar
@PraisyParmar Месяц назад
You are absolutely correct. Your perspective on taking the situation gives me inspiration to look at the things with a new perspective😊 Thank you❤
@Radheshyamaa
@Radheshyamaa Месяц назад
Literally you are the really deep and mature person i have ever. Seen!
@maddymadnesssss
@maddymadnesssss Месяц назад
Hii Neha, I discovered your video through thumbnail and i really am grateful for that, My experience was also similar, i joined the company , was having a rough patch, sleepless nights , anxiety , i was so shook, when i consulted my cousins, all indirectly told me i had to endure, this is what everyone does, you have to prove yourself, if you resigned you will be blacklisted, being good in academics it came upon my self worth started doubting myself, always used to think i m worthless, i have wasted my parents money , failed them and this led to ignoring all the toxic work culture, overloads of work, priority tasks, toxic work colleagues, it was so disheartening, always used to think of harming myself, finally gathered courage and resigned, and feeling light and peaceful. Thank you thank you so much for making this video, i resonated with every single word you uttered in this video!!!!!♥
@bhagyashribapte517
@bhagyashribapte517 Месяц назад
Any degree, any person, any job is just part of your life
@shal1984
@shal1984 Месяц назад
Thanks Neha for making this video i wish 10 years pehle aapne ye video banaya hota. I left my job for some similar reasons and kept thinking m not worthy enough and i m left behind,but yes that’s not the truth. You are younger than me but i am learning so much from you.Thanks for being so real.God bless you. We all focus on academics from day 1 but no one teaches us social skills we are left to learn them with are own experiences in live environment…
@sanikasutar1132
@sanikasutar1132 Месяц назад
I'm CA inter student.. Feeling horrible listening the news.. 😢 Ab muze ye question aa rha hai ki should I really go further? 😓
@Watcher..
@Watcher.. Месяц назад
Same here 🥲
@willserveasaCA
@willserveasaCA Месяц назад
Present your priorities too during interview of articleship if you don't get hired don't be 👍🏻
@sanikasutar1132
@sanikasutar1132 Месяц назад
@@willserveasaCA 💯💯
@rishikadubey8046
@rishikadubey8046 Месяц назад
Yes you should go. Don't pay heed to the negativity. Not all managers are bad but you have to keep your boundaries clear.
@sanikasutar1132
@sanikasutar1132 Месяц назад
@@rishikadubey8046 thanks
@anshumanpaul3455
@anshumanpaul3455 Месяц назад
I am a CMA student, I think you are absolutely right, I always believe that you should give your 100 % efforts on your profession . But not more than 100 %
@advocaterishitamall
@advocaterishitamall Месяц назад
I never tried to please anyone, but I was too sincere at the wrong place for the wrong people.. Happy that I left !!
@tusharanand.
@tusharanand. Месяц назад
nice 👍
@Nikhilify
@Nikhilify Месяц назад
2 years ago in Sydney an EY employee jumped off a tower. Here we are again, nothing ever changes.
@itsmee-dj8es
@itsmee-dj8es Месяц назад
Thank you di this was so important to hear, as a 17 yr old I really needed an elder sister to say these things to me to encourage me on keeping the boundaries ❤❤ thank you 💗
@CMA-mafia
@CMA-mafia Месяц назад
Thankyou so much for being helpful lots of love 😃 ❤
@Chaitnay_Jain
@Chaitnay_Jain Месяц назад
It's high time we start giving our mental health first priority (literally first!) If ppl who achieved so much in their life yet gives up then we should understand that there's so much in life above these achievements....
@chetanjawarkar4888
@chetanjawarkar4888 Месяц назад
Hi Neha You Really took wonderful decision, and all things you said is 100% correct I am software developer working in this industry more years, I also faces this toxic situation, for that whatever you said is 100% correct as per me all corporate employee learns few things from this incident 1. Learn to say No 2. Set your own bounderies 3. Companies not your family 4.They will easily replace you, they dont have emotion for any employee when it comes to buisness 5. Make things transperent, 6 demand task on mail 7. Provides updates daily on jira or on scrum if you stuck somewhere
@sheetalmachhal
@sheetalmachhal Месяц назад
Liked the statement company family nahi h Nd mam huge resect for uuh.. Sometimes to give up is a choice not a faliure or incapability nd people don't understand that wht a person goes through or is going through they just look up for a chance to make a person feel guilty about the choice he made even if that person is not guilty at all. They just play an unwanted role in our lyff so the better option is just ignore nd cut down those people around you 🙂 Thank you so much mam everyone talks about doing work nd work all the tym but you said SAY NO when it is coming on urr mental health. 🙏💝
@Shineyourlife16
@Shineyourlife16 Месяц назад
You are absolutely right 100% right
@sandiptamukherjee4586
@sandiptamukherjee4586 Месяц назад
I also left my job due to enermous pressure. One manager had called me at 12.30 for updates.I told him it's my own time I don't who are you?Next day I complained in office for this and no one bothered about my complain, so I resigned.😢
@vishalthelkar7668
@vishalthelkar7668 Месяц назад
Try to fight with demanding seniors.. Not like verbally but try to say No for work you don't have time.. Sometimes you need to pick call. Outside of work hours.. But always make sure workload is manageable..
@RKagora862
@RKagora862 Месяц назад
Same thing happened to me also I used to work 13 hr daily it effected me psychological health till now not recovered i am suffering from anxiety and depression from last 8 months i have no job
@RKagora862
@RKagora862 Месяц назад
My major problem was i was not able to say noooooooooo
@karanmalhotra97
@karanmalhotra97 Месяц назад
Thank you so much, for putting it out there... i 1000000% relate to it and stand by it forever in life
@abhyaskanaujia3862
@abhyaskanaujia3862 Месяц назад
My sister is in her masters. Her college puts lots of work pressure on her including club seniors and all in the name of "preparing for the real world".
@pree4499
@pree4499 24 дня назад
Thank you sister, the knowledge you are sharing is gold ❤❤❤
@Chiraglalwani1001
@Chiraglalwani1001 Месяц назад
Naukri kisi bhi company mein ho, hoti naukri hi hai. Never liked and applied for opportunities in big4 and would never apply. People are fighting for each other's job. Nobody attended her funeral. This hurts the most. I wish she had a mentor who taught her to say no.
@heyitscion
@heyitscion Месяц назад
Good to see someone is talking about it!
@sdek16
@sdek16 Месяц назад
I always used to hear 9-5 Corporate job work culture, but i have 7 years of work experience in Pvt Organization and unfortunately i have never seen any Organization with 9-5, it is normally 9-7,9-8 or sometimes even more, and forget about weekend, most of the time need to work on Sundays also ..
@ukdave472
@ukdave472 Месяц назад
Saving this Video. Although people can not say No because they fear losing their job, this will help people evaluating what price they pay by compromising helath and self-respect
@letsgazestar
@letsgazestar Месяц назад
You are on point.Dont you ever regret your decision. I'M ALSO FACING THE SAME ISSUE AND I'M NOW LEAVING THE COMPANY. I FELT CHEST PAIN, SLEEPLESS AND ANXIETY. I'M SOO DONE
@Financialcosmos
@Financialcosmos Месяц назад
As a CA I can say they all are playing with this news including this channel. This is my sincere request to all of you please take responsibility of your life. Your life and happiness should be larger than your work life. Kya fyda yaaro essa kam ka jo life hi khatam kar de. I know work is important for survival but should never be at the cost of health. To give perspective I am from big 4. I know what type of work pressure is there but it’s a personal choice and be bold about it. Don’t be miserable for any job, it’s just a fucking job and the purpose of this job so that we live happily. So all my sisters and brothers please take your health very seriously. Rest all are very matured…
@chinmoydas1759
@chinmoydas1759 Месяц назад
It's striking to see how when a toxic culture pervades an IT firm, it becomes a widely discussed topic across platforms like RU-vid and Reddit. People share their experiences of dealing with toxic bosses and colleagues. However, for many years, the toxic culture and demanding work life have taken a toll on the lives of thousands of doctors across the country. Yet, this issue is not widely discussed or acknowledged not only in society but even in doctors. But now times have changed, and young doctors have started to talk about it. When the same workload is placed on doctors, it's often dismissed as an essential part of the job that they simply have to accept, regardless of the toll it takes on their well-being. It seems that the sacrifices made by medical practitioners are not adequately acknowledged. While some individuals from other professions do recognize the toxicity faced by doctors, genuine understanding and support from the wider community are lacking. Toxicity is not acceptable regardless of your profession but people stay quiet some for promotion and some because they are the only the bread earners of their family.
@shailyjain7412
@shailyjain7412 Месяц назад
Thankyou so much for giving this courage and stating that our mental health is way important than just a job..!!! Everyone is facing this on job but yes we have to set a boundary and setting this in mind that we can not satisfy everyone… thanks for this video.. learned a lot from your words. ❤
@simakhant6300
@simakhant6300 Месяц назад
Thank you so much for the video. It’s highly recommended. Could you please make similar videos on topics such as how to handle politics and toxic people in the workplace?
@dragon05-fn5od
@dragon05-fn5od Месяц назад
Good someone is initiating this discussion. This was much needed. Poor girl had so much going on. If she were my friend I would have tried my best to pacify her. She was just like us. May she RIP and wishing the worst to her managers who pushed her to the point of breakdown. A case needs to be filed against the company for harassment.
@MrAbhix7
@MrAbhix7 Месяц назад
Unfortunately friends are also not supportive they just keep yapping about their problem
@anshikapal9236
@anshikapal9236 Месяц назад
i really need this! thank you
@mariacarvalho4642
@mariacarvalho4642 29 дней назад
Very good advice. Thank you n God bless you.
@bkbspeak
@bkbspeak 29 дней назад
Take out Aapke collegue aapke friend nahi hai Set boundaries Learn to say no Aap apney pariwar ke liye eklautey ho U are way more than ur job and degree Learn when to let go Thank you madam !!!
@mohammadaslam7868
@mohammadaslam7868 Месяц назад
Thank you for this valuable video ❤
@dodo12145
@dodo12145 Месяц назад
It all starts with the school system in India. How kids are forced to study for hours and prepare for competitive exams like JEE, CA. Long hours of study without breaks. Same pattern repeats in the corporate world. These Big4 in India pay even peanuts to freshers but demand overtime, 70 hour workweek. Indian society in general tolerate everything to a great extent. If work environment is toxic, people will still continue to work there. Look at the condition of India everywhere dirt, air pollution and unsanitary conditions. Still people are okay with it. When a plague comes and kill thousand of people then people will keep India clean. Same with the work environment in India, everyone is ready to accept toxic work culture and some people even bully others who say no to it. In India, your self worth is determined by the society not by yourself. It's pathetic that there are people supporting this toxic work culture.
@ranipal2047
@ranipal2047 Месяц назад
I have left many jobs due to this where 1 month salary was paid after 2 month, was asked to report work e1 on sundays, and used to get calls even at midnight...resigned ...
@dishamukherjee5939
@dishamukherjee5939 29 дней назад
Thank you sister for your guidance 🙏
@thatsvy1150
@thatsvy1150 Месяц назад
Today I am watching this video. Tomorrow this will happen to me and people will watch the video that it happened to me. For corporates, people are animals. But what can we do. We need to earn money for living.
@shrutisri5101
@shrutisri5101 22 дня назад
It has been 4 years since i quit my last job due to similar toxic environment which took a heavy toll on my mental health as well .. i went into depression, had to seek professional help and it was a rabbit hole... It took me one whole year after quitting the job to update my resume and look for next opportunity, but some interviewers grilled me only on gap years ( i have a previous gap year as well) despite having good knowledge, the attitude of the typical interviewers i faced made me question my self worth, and as a result i shut myself from everything, i never thought my life would get this stagnant and that i will not work ! The struggle is real, i wish i can overcome this stagnancy in career. I belong to finance field. The last company is a very reputed organization and never expected so toxicity there!
@nainoshares
@nainoshares Месяц назад
Have been there, and not surprisingly the same things happened. Some people were baffled about what kind of courage is this. How can you say no. A senior even said "you can't say no to me, I am assigned to allot this to you, you are bound to take it". Most times when we make decisions for ourselves, the people around don't accept it.
@boddapatiswarna1031
@boddapatiswarna1031 Месяц назад
Thanks for doing this vedio dear. Its really means a lot . I am really worried as my daughter is going to join this EY next month.
@botanicalbox_official
@botanicalbox_official Месяц назад
Honestly thank you
@wittywildflower
@wittywildflower Месяц назад
I went through it very terribly.. kept on switching companies foremost reason of toxic environment. It’s a sad reality especially in BFSI
@sureshbamal4935
@sureshbamal4935 Месяц назад
Your every video is awesome 💯
@Passobarry555
@Passobarry555 Месяц назад
I worked for around 4.9 years but seriously, if I also realised this thing then it will help me in some manner. Thinking to apply this in current job as well. Thanks
@Dongun777-q5c
@Dongun777-q5c Месяц назад
Whyy this thing happening too much these days, first the Kolkata case, then Air 1 neet 2017 suicide and then this.....
@nishachouhann
@nishachouhann Месяц назад
Tolerance power lost now days
@carguyssnissan
@carguyssnissan Месяц назад
thank you soooooo much didi aap sab ko jane do jo bhi aapke baare me bura balte hai meko to kisi se bhi farak nhi padhta jo mere baare me kuch bolra hai meko pata hai me kon hu meko pata hai me kya karra hu baaki meko ghanta farak nhi padhta koi kuch bhi bole chahe ghar wale hi kyu na ho
@manojbhandare729
@manojbhandare729 Месяц назад
Like the thoughts you have shared❤~Relatable~I quite one job within 1 month & now in MNC...
@ShwethaPoojary-d8h
@ShwethaPoojary-d8h Месяц назад
😢😢 thanks for sharing the beautiful words as always ❤..we love you sissy❤
@kusumshah6405
@kusumshah6405 Месяц назад
Well said ma'am thanks for making aware of us being consistant to say no ...I want a video on ...how some judgemental and toxic peoole always find the reason to blame you no matter what ..i am just tired of listening people about my thoughts which bothers them so much that they cant ruin my mental peace of criticizing my opinion ..
@abhisekmishra4669
@abhisekmishra4669 Месяц назад
Hello Madam. First of all, youtube recomended me this video. I am not a CA student, I am an Advocate. But, I can feel the toxic environment of a job. Khud ke liye time nahin milta, jitna bhi kaam karo nobody appreciates your work. Especially your boss never value you. Too much politics. Therefore, even I left one senior lawyer due to depression. Happiness should be your 1st priority. Your company or your office isnot your family. So, work, get paid and go home. No extra salary, no overtime.
@undefinedbeauty8109
@undefinedbeauty8109 Месяц назад
I honestly respect you for your thoughts
@vinaybhade7046
@vinaybhade7046 Месяц назад
People have no option. Company will tell you to leave the job and join another company. Either you risk investment and start a business or work for someone else. Also if the govt implements a higher minimum wage law, it will cause prices of all goods and services to increase. I feel sad for our younger generation. We have a lot of intelligent people but not everyone will get a job in their field of study. For example we have approx 1.1 lakh seats for medical colleges when so many more students are capable of becoming good doctors.
@vayushivhare
@vayushivhare Месяц назад
Mam I am an intern I was doing my duty and I was doing a lot of clerical work and one after another one giving me unnecessary work and once I stand beside my senior they told bete tu yaha kyo khada hai ja sanitizer leke aa I was so frustrated there then I got my injury on foot stayed at home with plaster for 1 month....not on Insta no one even know I existed..... except 4-5 people no one even messaged me and thought ki I existed even then I realised my college is a part of life not whole life and before me also world is running and after me also work will run...so I am no longer attached to my colleagues I set boundaries even I received hate but I am happy and accepted my situation....
@akashK1601
@akashK1601 Месяц назад
Bro nobody is your real friend.I learnt this lesson very well while doing MBA.
@KeshavVerma-fk8vi
@KeshavVerma-fk8vi 19 дней назад
I'm moving to Bharuch Gujarat on December-January and I'm a graphic designer so just pray for me that my work life doesn't impact my family life. I hope in Bharuch which is a town or Tier 2 city doesn't encourage things like this.
@success9635
@success9635 Месяц назад
Really shocking to hear that sad news 😢😢😢 literally there are many people out there who are risking their lives by not being to handle pressures either from work or their family or from personal life 🙏 but pls don't take these type of harsh decisions anyone as Neha mam says we are far more than just doing a job for a company for whom we are just a resource but for our family members we are everything 😢 that line is truly heart touching 😢 pls learn to say no to the people and things and work that we can't handle. Our physical, mental and emotional health is far important than anything else in this world 🙏-Sudhakar Vizag ❤️
@lakshmiprasadtinnanur3444
@lakshmiprasadtinnanur3444 Месяц назад
Well said, taking care of self is more important than anything in this world, when we are healthy only one can serve self as well others.
@nehageet
@nehageet 29 дней назад
Hi Neha Mera naam bhi Neha hai Maine shadi ke 5 saal baad job join ki thi or 2 1/2 saal ke baad laga ye main kya kar rahi main subh se bhag he rahi hoti thi mere shift kabhi morning 6 baje to kabhi 8 baje main 9 hours job ke baad kuch nahi kar paati Main apni beti ko time nahi de paati or nahi khud ko or na pati ko Ek din main work stress ki wajh se buri tarah bimar ho gai Uske baad mujhe samjh aaya kuch bhi sahi nahi hai And i left my job Uske baad bhi. Mera stress kum nahi hua mujhe aisa lagta kya maine job chhod kar koi gulti to. Nahi ki.. Bina wajh stress paal rahi thi main apne dimag me Tab ek din achanak se aapka video you tube par dekha Seriously uske baad Sare sawal ke jabab mil gaye Or aaj main sab kuch karti jo mujhe acha lagta main movie dekhti ,books padhti, beti ke saath khelti usko time deti Or aage 5 saal me kya karna wo bhi sochne lag gai or main actual me aise life jina chahti thi Thank you so much Neha❤️ aapki videos se kafi Motivation milti hai 🤗
@अमित07
@अमित07 28 дней назад
You r Lucky ki aap toxic environment se nikal paye Apne himmat dikhayi
@sohinimukherjee4838
@sohinimukherjee4838 Месяц назад
I am also working in a toxic environment, i have joined a new MNC this January 2024 and since then I am extending to 12/13 hrs daily. Also they are expecting us to work on weekends. I am suffering from anxiety attacks and also having trouble sleeping.
@vishalthelkar7668
@vishalthelkar7668 Месяц назад
Tell them you can't compromise on sleep.. Also, make sure you are having good nutrition.. Do you work with the pace you are comfortable with..dont rush.. Take breaks..
@vishalthelkar7668
@vishalthelkar7668 Месяц назад
Tell them you don't have bandwidth .. Don't overwork..have good nutrition..
@sohinimukherjee4838
@sohinimukherjee4838 Месяц назад
Thanks ​@@vishalthelkar7668 for the suggestion. Yes, I need to be more upfront and vocal
@devendraparmar7068
@devendraparmar7068 Месяц назад
Apne jo bola didi woh 💯% sahi hai - "You are the most valuable". Even I surffered a lot of health issues at a very young age due to toxic work culture at one of the big 4. I quit the job within 14 months but that took toll on my health. This is the scene at almost every corporate which needs to be regulated asap.
@nikkikhanna6824
@nikkikhanna6824 Месяц назад
Nice video. This is applicable to both professional and personal house responsibility
@ameetaram2884
@ameetaram2884 Месяц назад
Thanks for sharing. So true
@MadhaviT-t9x
@MadhaviT-t9x Месяц назад
Nobody from work didn't attend the funeral may be becos they have been told by the company not to or they feared consequences of attending the funeral becos if they discuss anything , they will be implicated.
@yashmehta9238
@yashmehta9238 Месяц назад
In my previous job there was a lot of mental pressure, whenever i could not meet their expecations they used to treat me very harshly.. It felt like everyone in the office was against me, .... But later on i showed them my true face.. Like who is the really bully.. Now some of them used to cry talking with me, some would just not dare to talk me... My HR started getting panick attacks , my team leader hated me.. But i never cared....i tortured everybody.. (P.s) - i am from lower middle class family so i could not leave my job, and even though i went against them i was still doing my work propery.. So they also wanted to keep me as there was lack of manpower...
@Mystupidheart-l8o
@Mystupidheart-l8o Месяц назад
This is really gd,umm can u share some tips to handle this😅 you showed thm ur true face!!! that's grt😊
@rajat9731
@rajat9731 27 дней назад
Shi h mam bhot acha decision tha i don't think ki jb aap exhausted ho jate ho and fr bhi Continuously work krte rhte ho to fr wo efficiency nhi ati and mental health bhi disturb hoti h bhot impact pdta h (Bolne wale bolte rhege ) unka kaam h bolna thank you mam for sharing this reality now we will be able to tackle situations like this ❤🙏🙏
@Anshitasahu05
@Anshitasahu05 Месяц назад
Only i know how much my heart needed this ❤
@savioreveredo4459
@savioreveredo4459 29 дней назад
Five months ago, she was thrilled to start her journey at a Big 4 firm E & Y Pune.. Her Managers - Asst. Managers highlighted her that she was already suffering from a health condition which got worst just to end it there. Today, her mother’s words shocked us: ‘No one attended her funeral.’ This is Ms. Anna Sebastian story-A bright CA who was caught in the rat race, chasing the Big 4 dream. The toxic work culture is no secret, yet students and professionals are continue to push themselves to the brink, believing it’s the only path to success. There are better opportunities out there that value your well-being. Don’t lose yourself to the pressure of the race. May Anna’s soul Rest in Heaven 🙏💐. Let her story be a reminder that your mental and physical health should always come first and lets RESPECT it. Work will never end, don’t compromise your health and personal life for professional work. We all know Toxic Work Culture Killed Ms. Anna Sebastian Lets not be the next victim like Ms. Anna Sebastian.
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