Hell yess.. thankyou for helping me atb52 yes young. In a new serious relationship with the best man 👨 on the planet for me.. sunce the 18th June 2024... ❤cupid shot an arrow through my heart ❤️ n soulful feeling s 🎉
An older woman gave me this advice when I was a teenager. She said, "Honey, you have to let your man do "manly" things like killing bugs, fixing the car, getting things off tall shelves for you, letting him protect you etc" And she was right. I've learned that it doesn't diminish me as a strong woman to allow my man to know that I need him
This is very wise advice. There is certainly a wonderful balance that comes from this, especially if he allows you to be the lovely, beautiful, strong, kind, nurturing woman you were created to be. Very well said.
I love this I will remember this excellent advice bcuz I was always the type to do everything I never called on my man for help I will keep this in the forefront of my mind. Thank you for pointing this out! 💯
Oh girls!! don't forget to dump the ones who weaponise your needs . My brother helped me move with a you haul. He was angry and throwing my things away and owning for himself what he wanted of my items. When it came time to unpack the truck he gave me strict orders not to unload it until he came home from work. I easily could have by myself. Then he didn't feel like following me 10 minutes to drop off the truck and take me back. he said they won't charge me for an extra day. They tacked on an additional 150.00 dollars for a late return. An ex boyfriend rigged my 6 month old battery to die by loosening the battery terminals and he cleaned them by shooting wd 40 on them . The battery terminals corroded green. He jumped it so I could follow him to advance autoparts to purchase a new battery on his account to keep his account open. He said I can get you 25% off. He gave me the invoice it had no 25 percent off like he said..or no sale price like the ad said. He kept my "old" battery he rigged to die. for himself. And said I didn't need the large plastic shroud and kept it to sell on e bay..told me I didn't need it. So I basically gave him my battery . And bought a new one I didn't need on his account so advance auto wouldn't cancel his account for lack of purchases. 😡 ..so come time to pay him back...I gave myself a 20 % discount off the sale price it was advertised for. I deducted the 25 dollar core charge. And that's all. I dumped him a few days later.
True. I've stopped playing games now. I directly communicate my wants and misunderstandings. Despite if he choses to not text. I'd let him go. Get a life and save your energy
IN this day and age, it is necessary for all women to consider being chaste and pious because we live in a volatile age with too much crime and sadness all around. For every single sin that you do and every person that you hurt, your children and your family members will suffer for generations because of that generational curse that the victims of your murder and your warfare is giving. Whether after your death or not your family will never ever be freed from that curse. And generation after generation they will be faced with utter suffering and humiliation because of this one act of evilness that you are doing today. Since being homosexual has become a norm in this century, women should be wary in choosing a sexual partner in life, especially if they wish to be saved from great perils. It is this pending danger that could completely erase sanity from a woman because if she accidentally gets into a romantic relationship with a man who has a male lover, then her life would be a living hell, as that man would try to humiliate and torture her if she even indirectly seduces or tries to speak with the young male lover of her husband or boyfriend. Men who publicly declare themselves to be homosexual are generally soft-hearted and harmless, and do little to hurt or vex womankind, but the most vindictive and fierce stalkers of young men are those male characters who pretend to be violently straight and always remain in fulltime relationship with women in order to exude a macho force about their persona, but inside their heart, they are bitterly in love with a young man or young men in general, and would be prepared to destroy the world to secure the romantic affection or approval of a young man of their liking. Trust me you will not die if you stay celibate. I promise you- you will not die you will not be murdered you will not be tortured you will not starve and you will not be imprisoned and you will not be fed to the lions like the saints of Christianity who were fed to the Lions by pagans and pagan Rome. None of those things will happen to you should you choose celibacy and Chastity and honour over relationships and dependency and dishonour. You true lover will never leave you just because you didn't touch them sexually. If they leave for a reason so simple and horrible than why would you want a lover like that!? Wouldn't they find better lovers than you to worship and serve them sexually the moment you died or got lost? There is no honour in relationships. And most importantly there is never ever ant true love in any sexual relationships. The moment sexuality comes into a relationship that love turns into bitterness degradation and hatred. True love only comes from a relationship that never become sexual. Should you become celibate today you will find true love you will find true friendship and you will find true honour. And most importantly you will be saving yourself from becoming a monster a killer and a warmonger. And a lot of people in the world will be saved from your evil and your harm and your jealousy and your vindication and your revenge and your torture. And your children will become happy with their lives and will be safe and their generations will be successful and will never face any pain in their life.
Yes I have realised the same after having two children. There’s no point trying to figure things out when things go wrong. Just be yourself. Enjoy your life. Keep your energy for yourself. Be calm. Be genuine you and then you’ll realise the enjoyment of self love.
- Focus and energy are interconnected, and it is important to be mindful of where one's focus goes. - Giving too much energy to a man who doesn't reciprocate can lead to feeling depleted and ungrounded. - Building a healthy relationship does not involve mistreating or manipulating a man. - Being a challenge to a man is about inviting growth and becoming the best versions of yourselves together. - Men want a teammate who complements their weaknesses, not a follower or trophy. - Paying attention to emotional intelligence is important for handling conflicts, actively listening, effective communication, self-awareness, and adaptability. - Emotional intelligent women do not play games, are clear in their wants and expectations, and earn respect by being trustworthy and intuitive. - Misinformation and bad advice online contribute to relationship struggles, so subscribing to the channel is encouraged to spread the ideas discussed.
I think it's about matching his energy instead of trying to give more to him in order to get more back. Just match his energy or withdraw your energy and pour it into yourself. Focus on your own beautiful life. This was a hard lesson for me to learn, but I'm glad I finally learned it.
Ismael, you are so right on these points. I've been married for over 40 years. I realized that my worth/energy was be wasted after finding out that my spouse had 3 social media affairs. I confronted him very calmly and called out his behavior. I told him that he had betrayed my trust in our marriage. I've since been in counseling to regain my feminine energy, to learn to maintain my emotional intelligence and to be my OWN person and not a multi-tasking, dutiful doormat. I let too much of my personal life go in lieu of fulfilling HIS needs, wants and desires. Lesson learned. I'm making up for lost/wasted time in my own life.
@@TashanaSmith-f1w I’ve fought for one online and that lasted one month and a half… I gave up already… it’s been 2 weeks and do days that I am not even messaging him. There are a lot of men still for us to get miserable with one.
So true when my husband comes home from work, I leave him alone to rest wander and relax around the house. A while later he comes to me and says do you need anything honey? This way we are constantly filling each other's tanks. Your advice is so right
Wow, sometimes I am curious about why my husband stopped with other women and wanted to focus on me. So after I watched this video, I have the answers. Because I have most of these. And I love emotional intelligence the most. It works well to let him know me and also I understand him.
I have realised love, feelings, attachment is all hormonal. When your hormones are at its pick in your 20s and 30s...people feel all those emotional staffs with full vengeance. Once the hormones start dropping... people mellow down. Companionsh may be matters after that.
Well said! True thing about the grammar in texts. In the initial days my guy was barely making any sense in his texts and I told him it wasnt respectful to me to send such meaningless texts, and that he should make an effort to atleast use a translator. We all make mistakes and I am fine with the occasional typo but I dont think it is mean Ismail, in my opinion it is disrespectful & entitled to send some meaningless gibberish to someone and expect him/her to decode the message & read your mind.
What I know is I don't pretend. I respect your opinion but I'm being me...that's just me.😂😂😂..that's how I respond to alot of them😂 Cos I believe I am happy when I'm honest with myself first before I can be honest to others.
I don't like huge crowds of people. I like having one on one relationships and I have a smaller group of people who I can trust and yes feminine energy is so important because I want a masculine man. Thank you for the information. I just got out of a 30 year marriage of physical, mental and emotional abuse and I am so glad to be out of it.
Yep Totally agree I'm widowed...and I was married for 20 yrs ... This video reminds me of some ways she attracted me to her ... hopefully I find my next girl..soon..
I just listen to this and was very impressed with your Advice. The things you shared are so right on and realistic. I like how you get after us for multitasking and not paying attention. We also let other people steal our energy. Thank you for the teaching about emotional intellect .
I'm so glad you said about texts as that's a bug bear of mine. If people can't be bothered to write correctly (on personal messages) it shows a distinct lack of standards & effort to me and last night, I noticed a change in a man's vocabulary which now matches mine 🤩💖
Saint Mary Madgalene, pray for us! The secular modern world is finally circulating back to Biblical and Natural Laws because they are in alignment in how men and women thrive and flourish! God bless you, Ismael Gomez! "Energy" meant time, treasure, and talent! We don't waste them on people who refuse to see the good, beauty, and truth of the male and female complementary attributes! Tuesday, July 23, 2024 Saint Bridget, pray for us especially to dispel the confusion of chastity and let the young who have no idea that it is possible! Saint Jude Thaddeus, the Apostle of the Impossible, intercede for us in all our impossible cases!
This is the second video that popped up on youtube that I have watched and enjoyed listening to. Thank you Ismael for Sharing such great information, Your knowledge and expertise. It was quite helpful especially for some of us 60 plus group who Haven't been in the relationship And romance scene for many, many years. No matter how old we are, we never stop learning and it's on God's divine time when he sends you your soulmate. Take care everyone and God bless. Keep the faith and I wish you all Love, peace, happiness, longevity, Prosperity and may all of your dreams come true. As I tell my two wonderful adult children, be happy, be well And be safe. Sincerely, Amelia Mello❤😊
Ran across this video while looking for something totally different. But I watched this out of curiosity & I appreciate this man's sincerity & genuineness. Also he seems to have some very solid & valuable advice. It was certainly worth listening to. Thank you.
Hello my name is Angela. I've been married for 11 years, and my husband has not touched me. What do i do? He says its because I've gained too much weight???
This is hilarious. "Imagine you come to a date, and you're missing a shoe..." Thank you for pointing out the importance of putting in effort when it comes to text messages! I wish more people were on the same page with that. Also, you made me laugh, when you specifically pointed out the ladies who constantly multitask. lol. I feel called out. I will work on not spreading my energy thin. Thanks for the great advice as always!
are you sure this is correct in this day and age? it seems to me that guys, not men, want a woman that will sit by his side on the weekend while he plays video games and they get pizza (delivered) and then he expects sex afterward and they call this a date. girls wake up and smell the coffee. don't put up with this behavior. yeah if a man can, he will.....just sayin!
That there is alot of bs going around about healty relationships that's a fact.. i went trough a really tough breakup and was looking around for tools. And alot of the times they just advising to " play games". This is the first channel that i listen to and hear genuine advice to how you need to handle a healthy relationship! Thank you for sharing the best advice you can get. 🌸
When I was dating my husband he had told me, 4 months into the dating part, that he loved that I didn't play games. I didn't know I wasn't playing games. I was being real.
Great advice. I’m happy I was emotionally ion top of something. Can you give advice to men?They seem to think we have nothing going on and need to always be there for them!
Well I have given my all and tried everything but my husband is to stubborn to see what is right in front of him he always chose to put his work or ather people first but most of all him self he never cares about me or my feelings as long as he is happy nothing els counts
In this case I think you should focus and prioritise yourself, rebuild yourself. I keep going through back to back heartbreaks.. just joined gym for a few months. Don't know mentally how strong I am but I'm getting fit, losing my weight, building my confidence slowly but surely. I'm getting fit into my old clothes, even in much better shape. Do things that make you happy but bring more peace. Bcz that reflects from within. It calms us. Also do all these not to make him jealous or make him guilty. But YOURSELF. It's long process but it's worth it it's like connect with yourself, again. Hope this helps. ❤❤❤ Stay strong. Have faith.
So I guess I'm actually doing great! 😅👍❤️I was just recieving some bad advice and I'm with a wrong man. Great! 👍 Thank you very much! ❤❤❤👍👍👍 How simple that was! Thanks a lot buddy! 🥰👍❤️👏👏👏
This really true I really want to be emotionally intelligent stable... I don't really know how to communicate what I want or how i feel with a Man most especially when he isn't doing the right thing
wow I really recognise myself in things you've said here - and I have even been given comms by him to improve for his governorship dealings! lol and i'm always happy to do it without complaining. The kids do it now though cos they're in their late teens. Thank you - new subscriber here. Really love your tender communication style, honesty and etiquette as well as your focus on authenticity!
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