7 Signs Men Give Before They Cheat (& Most Women Miss) | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs 

Great advice. Your channel is very educational. Thank you so much for your inteligent advice. God bless you and keep you always sincerely Trinity Star ❤️

I know a guy who enjoys "stealing" women from other men. I wonder if that means he will easily cheat in a relationship?

Why is it always about the man cheating what about the woman???

Just want to say that shirt fits you terribly. Your not a big man but it looks like your bulging out of it 🤷🏼‍♀️.

One night my boyfriend went to get the casino then I have to find out later about it then he acted weird on me that night when I did see him and I had a feeling maybe he cheated. He turned it around and said you were in a bad mood. That's why I didn't wanna talk to you and that's not him and he's always volunteering about his past relationships and I have had a struggle being with him. I care about him and love him but how much more I can take I need help get some advice about what I need to do

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My ex husband used to say that all the time!! I kept reassuring him that I didn’t feel that way at all…. He left me( abandoned me & our 5 children) after 20 yrs of marriage… I should have realized what he was saying… I think he had low self esteem & this made him look for something/someone more his( level) type…

This is true because my ex husband said this to me many times.

@@wasilaibrahim6302 SCAM!

Wise man.

So true

I heard my grandfather tell my mother this when I was a little girl

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This guy I saw was so sweet. But had a wife. He cared enough about my feelings that he told me he never meant to hurt me and then said he's no longer going to be the bad guy. I thought that was good he realized he needed help. He treated me like I was his wife. Told me that his dad abused him and told his friend about me. He also called me over 50 times from an unknown number lol trying to talk but I never was available. Now that I'm available I don't get a phone call from him but ive messaged him on Facebook and he never blocked me.

Mine did just that. I was so stupid not to leave him that first year we dated. Waited 15 years. Ugh.

​@@bonnie3063forgive yourself

​@@bonnie3063So sorry that u had to experience that. Hope u are doing okay

This video is spot on. It is exact. Also, porn addiction. Like 4 plus hours of porn a day addiction.

Oh I thought you meant if he cheated on his current partner while dating you - and you not knowing. But you meant if he cheated on you while dating YOU. Gosh this is true! If he cheated on you while he’s dating you, you best believe he will cheat on you while you’re married to him. Fuck that hit me hard as I got cheated on while he was dating me. Fucking bastard

This intuition is your biggest and surest sign. Do not ignore your inner voice.

Thank you I needed this❤

Eh be careful, if you listen to much to friends you could be fishing. Silence outside voices and listen to the still small voice. Then you can be sure

Intuition, huh? No such thing, women’s intuition is merely jumping to conclusions. If it wasn’t it would tell you when you’re falling short not just your partner. The former is kind of narcissistic

That's right. If something feels off, it is.

So for instance if he calls me the name of a street walker that's how he feels about me?? Lol

Probably

@@angelicadjuric6389 oh well his loss not mine 😂😂😂🤷‍♀️

Ouch.😢

Sadly from experience,….cheaters can also, suddenly and/or unusually, start to shower you with gifts, flowers, promises of things they know you love eg. “Next weekend we’ll do ABC etc, but this weekend I have to do XYZ”…of course ABC never comes. This is probably to ease their own guilt and give the impression to the world outside your relationship, that they are the good guy. I reckon they do this as they know or suspect that you will be confiding in your friends or family, and they want to do everything they can to gaslight those around you. I was gaslit for years and the gift giving was showy, so my own family, friends and work colleagues all doubted me when I said I thought he was cheating and they even supported him…until he was caught red handed. Perhaps this type of cheater is also narcissistic, sociopathic, psychopathic or has some other form of anti-social behavior…whatever it is, it’s a living nightmare as you do begin to seriously doubt yourself, thinking that you’re going crazy and you also have nowhere to turn…

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Thank you for this list

#7should be first

Amen to that. These dudes just ruin, destroy, and take. Until men can be accountable, empathetic and emotionally aware, women are going to continue to disregard them.

Yes!!!!​@@theaslynn2783

We've allowed it. I gave up eventually.

They also can bring a lot of joy & happiness Don't miss out on someone good for ❤

Amen. I’m looking at videos like this because a man I fell for not only rejected me, but humiliated me in front of strangers who now think I was the one chasing him when in fact, he was the one attracted to me and he told me so, but then he kept me hanging for awhile until today. My pride is so wounded because he was cruel to have exposed my feelings for him to other women who have probably already spread the gossip.

I would love to be free

It's painful to we women

i feel so bad to read all this.. but you tried your level best.. its more important to be in a peaceful state then to live a toxic life

Good way to put this.

i lied to myself all my life, ignoring red flags and deceitful behavior. learning to trust your intuition isn’t a given when raised by an abusive parent (and then marrying abuse). it’s so good you are teaching your daughter now, bless you both. ❤

Not true. People will doubt themselves, especially if it's something they don't want to be true. It's natural. And then there are also the people who lie and end up believing their own lies. That's not natural, but it also happens.

@@Alpinewild444 thank you for that. I wondered why I never listen to myself

@@melissajohnson1303 I hope you will now Melissa❤️I’ll pray for you☺️if you don’t mind, God Bless.

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I agree with you on the emotional cheating. I’m sorry you went through that, Bookmark Monaco.

@@almostheavenhomestead1680 Right???

@@louizsmith1386 No thanks.

1,000% My ex doesn't understand this. He became friendly with a bartender at a local dive bar whom he left me for. Mind you I'm an executive and make 6 figures so jokes on him.

actually it is called PROJECTION. if he or she is deflecting then it is because he or she is trying to divert your attention from what you think he might be doing. projection however is accusatory and when they SUSPECT you of cheating and you are not but it's them so they imagine it. they project onto others what they do themselves. unfortunately, my family is like this. the same with a thief or someone who is a traitor, they think everyone is out to do it to them. it is their GUILTY CONSCIENCE.

It's okay but I believe you are an amazing person. Believe me you will have a great life ahead. Have faith on urself.

Leave please.

Im sorry as he sounds Narcissistic

Are you still with him? If yes, please both of you go to couples therapy or if you are not happy and depressed it’s not good for you and him, best thing you can do is to leave him 😢pray about it

did you ever hear about how we are here to change ourselves and not others? did you know that we can't change others - they have to want to change or it won't happen? so all we can do is change ourselves and then our life changes. I know it sounds trite or stupid right now maybe but.......our thoughts really are drawing conditions to us. so I would kindly suggest to you to start looking at how you are feeling and by this I mean, start writing out how you feel. all of it. keep writing until it's all out on the paper in front of you. then look at what it is telling you about YOU. what are your beliefs? how is this familiar to you? that is how we begin. I have had to do this and still do this, everyday. it helps us to see what we are creating. we have to become our own best friend first and how we can begin this is by being willing to listen to ourselves and to how we feel. if we do not think we are worth listening to, how can we expect others to think that we are? it begins with us. God bless you. we are here to spiritually awaken...

​@@Christina.BassfordThey're the loser

It's all about expectations. I don't assume monogamy from any of my partners, thus I never feel cheated. I could never imagine a life with only one partner. That boggles my mind.

​@Das Güs The decent thing to do when you have that philosophy is to let your partners know right from the start so that they know what to expect, so that they have a choice, to accept you as you are or move on. There is nothing more heartbreaking than betrayal, lies deceit, and go around pretending to be something (faithful, honest, trustworthy, etc.) that you are not and can't ever be.

@Moon Shadows Don't feel like a loser, it always shows eventually who the real loser is. Sit back and watch the scenery.

If they do it once, they will it again.

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Yes this one is a dead give away. When they start doing sit ups.

Ha ha yes very obvious by the way!!

Yes

Happened to me with someone I was with that had a sex/porn addiction. The more unfaithful he was, the more he was interested in sex with me. Probably reenacting and fantasizing about the stuff he was doing outside of the relationship.

Exactly, I had a boyfriend who did the same . We were together for 4 years and treated me as a queen but when he got a motorcycle accident and was in the hospital searching fur she paperwork in his garage everything came to the light he had a wife and more than 10 lovers over these 4 years! I would've never believed if it didn't happen to me. He had 4 phones hidden in his work trucks. 😢

My ex of 25 years brought home chlamydia then blamed it on me.

Been there. A stand in Sally. I dont think my husband had sex with me after 1 year. Always thinking of someone else when screwing me

Trust is a dangerous game, with me i really don't trust any men because i know what it is, I'm actually 7yrs separate at the moment because of trust 😅

Im sorry, that happened to you and there's a baby involved 😔. I feel your pain and wish you and the kids the best.

How are your kids handling it?

​@Deep Blue Water i agree, take all the money.

So sorry but u hv made th right choice..th bible says wen one is unfaithful u can leave

I found out my boyfriend of 4 years is cheating on me right now. Sings were all there. We deserve better 😐

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Contact him .

A friend of mine father tried to school us when we were young but we were to young in the head to understand he said " you want a husband that loves you more" its not that your love for him is less, but when loves you he will do anything for you to keep you safe and happy.

@@honeylove7678 My mother always said that your partner needs to love you more than you love him.

What's that mean to you ??

Praying for you to heal. Just happened to me at 53 years of marriage!

What about porn? He's addicted to porn.... I feel like that's cheating.

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Dame thing happened to me

I'm the same way... I'm a Type 1 in the Enneagram...

I felt it but didn't trust my feelings. At the end I caught him red handed. I will always trust my intuition going forward

So true

So true!!!

Words and opinions. Plus absolute coldness.

YES!

Or orders a dish they used to hate bcs she convinced him to try it and now it's his fav.

Holy cow I didn't even think about that until you said it. True ❤️

Terrible advice you just gave. You are probably one of those terrible female advice givers that sabotages other peoples relationships. When I’d notice my wife feeling down I’d buy her flowers and that made her more angry. Thanks for destroying my marriage. I didn’t buy her flowers because of another woman, I bought them cuz I loved my wife and wanted to surprise her with flowers out of the blue. Females give terrible advice to one another.

Had that too

Oh my god I literally went through the same situation and now sometimes my boyfriend will randomly text me how much he loves me and appreciates me and I instantly have that suspicious feeling.

Intuition is like a superhero that always saves the day, except we always forget to call it into action. Time to suit up and trust our instincts, ladies!

My dad told me long ago to always trust my intuition it will never lie to me.

That right now haven't seen him do me and lead on

This is very true!! I remember I would write things down .. don't forget that feeling you have in your stomach intuition!!

Why is that?!

What’s that ?

Thanks for the sage advice, Dorothy. :)

I have a book I take notes In 😊

I was dumped at 57 after 36 yrs. Every one of the signs, except #6, were clear as a bell. Thankfully, I didn't drag out filing for divorce or the gaslighting would have been longer.

That’s exactly what I wanted to say, except I’m younger. Three of my four partners have cheated on me and behaved exactly as described in the video, I questioned each of them, asking are you cheating on me. They all lied.

Yes uninterested in our hobbies and inner jokes we did together..

Yes so true. Getting interested in their looks when previously they dint care about the way they looked. And getting new habits which apparently looks very normal

Yup he's cheating. We've been married 14 yrs😢⚡💔🖤

My ex told me, "Don't fall in love with me, I'll only break your heart." Yup, he was right, and I should have listened instead of thinking it was a challenge. Yes, he did cheat- when I was 6 months pregnant.

He started taking on the phone in closet. He developed a much shorter fuse and would storm out. Didn't spend time with the children(stopped going to activities) Would nolonger share duties caring for the children Demanded I do all of the yard work. Would nolonger take calls from me at his work. Started smoking and drank more. Was very angry when I lost weight and got into shape. Didn't notice new hair cut or clothing.

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Great comment

Wishing you all the best for the rest of your life! ❤️🙏🏻❤️

I wish that would be part of our education. It’s such an important lesson.

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I’m there right now…he would have been so perfect I thought…but catching him lying over and over again about stupid little things…it’s so off..and the fact that he ghosted me 3 times for months at a time …and then suddenly appear like nothing ever happened? Now he can’t understand why he can’t get why I haven’t still gone to bed with him and become his girlfriend!? Big mystery for him to solve…

Damn

Sometimes they think they have to lie because they can't face it. They love you so much. It's a temporary solution but then things can continue on for a while....

married after 3 months 49 years married

Noticed all the signs mentioned in my current situationship. Taking the necessary step to leave.

It's totally unacceptable.

Sad for your mom that she never got what she deserved.

Me and you makes one your story is mine though ilove my parents but watching my dad literally cheat on mum ijust can't tolerate it it's like a trauma and despite all that my mum still stands strong for her marriage

I told my husband that the only reason I would divorce him was for abuse. No way I’m destroying my childrens’ home just because he’s cheating.

just get rid of cheated amd betrayal man..kick him out bcos he is useless and not to give him chances let him crawl in the old days to.look for his children

Don't be hard on yourself sis, many of us stayed at the table too long. When you know better you do better. And better late than NEVER.

@@breukelynbee77 yeah I stayed for too long thinking I may not be able to live without him not knowing I was dying every single day. But I am out of that trauma now and m way more than happy. Thank you❤️

@@kiranshrestha8820 Good for you, me too! Blessings!

(Staring at women continuously) I'm glad u were able to get away!!

That u describing narcissistic patterns

Same happened to me, but I had a name. He DENIED it and left me for her a week later. He had to have some drama as the tell-tell but I didn't fight back so it was one sided drama. HIS. (He wanted to blame me so he didn't look like the bad guy)

Here's the double barrel hit. Those who accuse someone of cheating might often themselves be trying to deflect their own cheating be that mental, flirting, emotional, physical, sexting etc

@@Martyn_Wolf exactly

The gaslighting!!! That is infuriating once you know.

I got yelled at when I dyed my hair the wrong colour, when I turned up to his place for a date in the wrong clothes, when I spent "too much time on my phone". I was only on it whilst he was in the shower or playing on his computer IGNORING ME. Then I found the messages with the other girl complaining about me. 😑 I should've left that day, wish I hadn't continued it. Of course he was sneaking around behind my back and his own mother was lying to my face to cover for him. His friends were serial cheaters. Most important piece of advice I have is always remember that birds of a feather flock together.

Waaaay too late😢

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I felt something was off. Surprised him and realized he moved me out of my own house. The house is in my name. So I evicted him. He tried coming back saying my house was his. I said my house is left to me by my family. We aren't married and your still married to your wife Even though you are separated.

@@SWForce Wow that took stones (his part)!

Completely agree

The same scenario occurred in my life. 20 years after marriage. I was flabbergasted, gaslighted, got sleazily manipulated into signing home titleship papers, and now I am really pissed off, got ripped off by my lawyer, hard to forgive and forget, got molested by another man, was left homeless in a foreign country....all doors shut!!!!!! Long story!!!!!! Lost my mom. Humiliated and insulted by friends and family members.

They use the *busy 🐝* part as an excuse not to communicate and resolve issues.

Well ask yourself what were you doing that he didnt want to be around you? Were you too clingy? moody? disagreeable? were you kind ? were you not giving sex ?

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AMEN. My ex cheated on me and what did he do? Avoid my calls for a week. I had to send a friend to track him down before he would admit he no longer wanted to be together anymore.

Me too…so much damage to my self worth…I’m getting better, he took too much from me already! Not getting anymore of my headspace 😢

Omg that’s so adorable!!!❤ I gotta teach my little ones 💕😂😭

Well hopefully you're paying her "tuition" so she gains some intuition soon!😆 Kids are the greatest!😆

That is too cute but a very good thing to teach her at a young age I wish I would have been taught that it would have saved me a few heartaches over the years

It will it's meant to

Yeah he blame my intuiton 🤣🤣🤣 that never lie

Really sad... Hugs 🤗 dear. Take it easy ❣️

BINGO!

My ex suddenly started going to the gym.

@@50pinkies67 my nusband wanted to have his gray hair died

Mine had 3 plastic surgeries! Boy, was I dumb.

Totally!

Oh yes. My bf told me he was going to do a recreational thing on Monday nights and when he’d coming home he kept bringing up, “there was this girl”. And then he’d just stop talking and change the subject. What idiots they can be.

So true

Interesting to know. Good information to have on hand just in case! Thsnks

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Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^.

i am going through it now with all of that....ALL. This is not his first time cheating but he wanna to try and fix things and so did I, but after a month and a half of trying(without therapy) I am not sure our marriage of 29 yrs can be save. He is not putting any effort and zero communication on his part. I had several of those conversations with him, but he shuts me out, doesn't give me a straight answer, is like "who are you". I recently lost my mother 5 weeks ago and he hasn't been very supportive of that either. I am trying so hard to save my marriage because i really love, he was a very different man then but he has change so much that I wonder if is really worth it....I am in limbo and feel so alone

YES. THIS.🎯

@@AliciaGarcia-hj9ms You are not alone. Don't believe him when he says he wants to "fix things" because he won't. He wants you to fix things on your end so that he will feel entitle to guide you to a solution that will allow him to be in control of your emotions, your life and your time. He's serving you with "conditional love and relationship" on a silver platter. Don't believe him. If this is the 2nd or even 3rd time in your marriage, walk away. I know. I've been there. Just remember: you're stronger than you think you are, smarter than he believes you are and nicer than he deserves. If a separation doesn't "fix" things, divorce is in your future and believe me, you'll discover that you are a woman worth knowing, worth loving and worth treasuring. If he gives you this one-liner: My dad had lots of female friends when he was married, why shouldn't I? - run out the door! The cheating is ingrained and can't be fixed by you and takes years of therapy to change. Getting psychological help on your end will save your mind, gut and emotional stability. If he's anything like my former husband, he'll refuse therapy saying that there's nothing wrong with him or he'll say: I don't need therapy but I can help you instead of spending all that money. If he accepts couple or marriage counseling with you here are signs he's not willing to change or commit to your marriage or to deepen your relationship: - talks about his work for 45 minutes of the 1 hour appointment; - finds any excuse to not attend the session and has you go alone; - gets conveniently held up at work or sick; - always has an excuse to not do the exercises the therapist recommends you do as a couple or individually; - continues to gaslight or start taking your things (in my case it was a watch) and moving them around the house then tells you he never touched it; - offers you a class so that you don't have to pay for the therapist and insists the class will change you so that he can love you better. If he does any of those, it's time to say goodbye. And, realize that though your children will be upset about the split and possible divorce, they won't be surprised!

@@AliciaGarcia-hj9ms Alicia, he's not even there for you when you've lost your mother? Sigh. I know you feel emotionally drained, defeated trying for someone who used to be there for you and is now not available. You're mourning, grieving for the relationship you once had. Because it's gone. He hurt you Alicia more than once and that's too much heartache especially with him not making any effort. If he's not communicating and shuts you out then it'll make you feel even worse each day you're trying and not receiving any signs of him understanding you. I'm sorry he's being this way and has hurt you before too, but you can stop the cycle of his abuse by not tolerating it anymore! You're hurt and in so much pain because he crossed so many lines that he shouldn't have! There are boundaries we should never cross or else the trust, respect and friendship becomes broken. This guy doesn't respect you. If he cared enough he'd wipe your tears, cherish you and try to salvage what's left of your relationship before you don't want to talk to him or ever see him again. One day you'll just wake up and it'll be enough for you. You'll have had enough of his nonsense, his immaturity, his insensitivity, his lack of appreciation and kindness to you and your needs. You'll realize that you haven't cried as much and that you don't care if he tried calling you or that he didn't come over. Don't let him use you as his net whenever things don't work out with some side chic! Girl, don't let him mistreat you like that! Come on! You're better than that! Take a deep breath, stand up tall, take care of yourself as best as you can and try to rest. I know it's hard to not be consumed with what he's doing away from you, to you, and what he's not doing enough of, but if he's not caring or being supportive of you f*** him and treat yourself right for you-- use that time on yourself to lift your spirits go pamper yourself, get organized, keep yourself busy with getting yourself in check. Streamline your life. Go wash your tears, take a nice bath, do something nice for yourself and tell yourself you deserve peace in your life not chaos and toxic people frustrating you, making you confused and hurt all the time. You're constantly spinning in thoughts aren't you? Stop his abuse towards you Alicia. You can do it. Put your foot down and say enough is enough. We long for what we had, but those guys are not who we used to know. They've made awful decisions, one too many mistakes that have changed us as well. They don't want to hear us hurting. They run out the door because they're too weak to face reality and the consequences of their actions. The only way is communication, consistency, patience and time. Through that is understanding, reassurance and mending of trust but only if they are willing to and actually stop the abusive behavior not continue it over and over. And if they do, they're not worthy of you Alicia. You've stayed, you've pushed yourself to do the impossible even in pain (I can see you catering to him, cooking, cleaning, doing his laundry, making his lunches, still remembering anniversaries even after he's hurt you and hasn't helped with the amount of healing your heart still yearns to feel) and I can see you struggling with every "I'll be back" not knowing if he will and who he will be this time if he even comes home-- a nicer person who actually reflected on his actions and wants to make amends or an angrier, more aggressive person who can't look you in the face and just wants to fight so you could be scared to go talk to him. I can see you not fight with him when he comes home cuz you've gone through so much that your heart feels so bruised already, you need a break from all of it, and you're just glad he's home even if he didn't acknowledge you and just went to sleep... but after a few hours you're still left with the thoughts of him being out with someone else and all those doubts or what you find on a receipt or see on his phone lighting up has your gut instinct confirmed. You even know he cheated. There's no guessing or wondering if he did. And it's not his first time?! Alicia please open your eyes. Don't allow this madness to keep happening to you. Time is precious and we need to use it wisely! We can't get decades of our lives back. You have the opportunity to start a new life without this mess he's not helping you fix. Don't lose anymore time. He's had 29 years to figure things out and still doesn't give you straight answers. If you have children with him, I totally understand why you're trying to be the rock, the one who keeps the family together, but once you're finally happy, your kids will say "mom, why didn't you leave dad sooner?" They feel this too, and want what's best for you. If you're a happier mom you'll be more present in their lives and feel the weight off you! No more playing with your kids with a heavy heart! None of him making no sense or his dumb actions weighing you down anymore! You can actually focus on that movie or your chores and hobbies without thoughts and triggers constantly evading your mind or checking to see if he's called or coming home. No more waiting for him to come home Alicia. You deserve happiness and love not feelings of loneliness, trauma, confusion and fear with someone in your life! Tell yourself right now that you deserve joy! It's ok to express sadness because of what he's done but slowly and surely when you refuse to feel this way anymore you will realize he's not worth the aggravation and stop wasting your time with someone who's selfish and self-centered. He comes off as someone who doesn't have a conscience, no guilt, no remorse. Why put up with that?! Don't. He has rules for himself and different ones for you I'm sure. I'm so sorry for your loss😔🥺😢 Please take care of yourself and your heart and don't put up with his BS any longer. If he's not there for you at a time like this you will resent him for it as well. I know you have a forgiving heart but you need your sanity too. You need to let him go especially if he isn't willing to see his faults, doesn't sincerely apologize and refuses to change his bad behavior!!!

Life isn't all about Sex. It will come a time when someone just can not perform anymore. Come on, the companionship is my main focus to get into the Golden Years. I wasn't enjoying my sex but he just wanted it all the time. He just told me he was very selfish so I will go w that but it's my fault as I just can't keep up w him as my Libido was always nil. Men just wants it all the time no matter what.

That's because HE is the one unable to perform. Had the shoe been on the other foot...

But had it been in reverse and you were the reason for not having sex all these years your man would of not been as understanding as you.

@@molahi5779 exactly, i doubt he would have stayed faithful to her

Ur coment has nothing to do with what this person is talking bout ,

Same here! I've been cheated on twice & don't ever want to experience it again!

Unfortunately you are cheating yourself of a lifetime of love…there is someone out there for everyone ❤ Try another country for Love if you haven’t found it here 😊

@@shelley6746 Why do you assume that I have no love in my life? I have plenty of love surrounding me. I'm not lonely or unloved

Honestly I’m so tired of men 😅 I know it’s “not all men”. But wtf. It’s majority, and with being dishonest, and if not full on cheating, then at least walking up as close as possible to that line. It’s like they cannot tell the truth about anything either. 🙄

@@annettewilliams748 yes ma’am 👏 i’ve come to terms with this. I’m focusing on the love i already have around me that i know is unconditional. Why waste time on someone who doesn’t know how to be emotionally mature.

Omg you’re right.

I know for a fact that this is true. If your man is constantly mentioning another woman, that’s a sign.

Yes this happened to me. Then he retired but was still talking to her. The more they talked I started feeling suspicious. Then he left his phone at home. It kept ringing so when I answered it was our son, he'd recently changed his phone number. So curiosity got the best of me and I found their text message exchange. That's when I found out his plans to divorce me in the spring. Of course he only heard the word affair and I had to inform him that it doesn't always mean sex. Now he's planning to move out. Before any of this I really had no clue besides the excessive phone calls. I'm a little strange, when he doesn't answer my questions I go to the other person for answers. At this point it is what it is- after 28 years of marriage, I don't even think it's worth trying to save. Right now my main focus is my health and preparing for radiation. When I get silent and stop trying to reason (reason not beg) it's out of my hands. Just waiting to see how it all plays out.

Yes, 100%

This is soo true. He did the same.

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True, my x would go back and forth. It would just depend.

Buying presents and all kinds of sh@t😊

Very true. 👌🏼

Aw... I'm so sorry! ❤Please don't give him this power over you. Get angry instead!!

I’ve been married twice. Both my loss,very much so. If anyone has a daughter/son would you wish someone to give them false pretenses like I myself have? YOU WOULD NEVER WANNA BRING ME HOME!!!😢😢😢😢

Yes! And not just about cheating or your intuition, but just in general about listening to guys when they tell you something. I have a lot of guy friends, and I've been told I think like a guy (I'm female). One thing is guys are sooo much less complicated than women. Women tend to overthink. Just take what a guy says at face value (most of the time). I remember one time I went to dinner with a bunch of girls and one of the girls arrived late. When she arrived, she apologized, saying she was on the phone with the guy she had been seeing, and he said he wasn't interested in being in a committed relationship at the time and didn't want her to wait for him. She asked us what we thought of that. I'm thinking, uh, he told you what he meant. There's no reason to doubt his word. In fact, if anything, it shows he had respect for her, because he was upfront with her instead of leading her on while he cheated on her behind her back. I told her he wasn't interested in a committed relationship. She gave me such a dirty look. Next, one of the other girls said, no, I don't think he really means that. Yes, he did! HE told you what he meant, so why is someone else who's not in his brain telling her what he meant?

So true

Accept is the word, not except.

So the exterior is your answer to cheating.

@StephanieDotDot Yup, that is what she said, and it is still interpreted the same.

@StephanieDotDot I like that statement!!!!!

Ya, show him what he lost

Very true

Classic tactic used throughout history. “Accuse my opponent of that which I am guilty”

This is absolutely true. If they start accusing you of cheating, start paying attention. Divorce is coming.

Absolutely true, they accuse us fir what they are really doing

My cheating ex didn’t want me to watch magic mike with his mother!!! 😂😂

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Yes very familiar to my ex boyfriend and i think he was and is a Narcissist.

I'm so sorry you were treated with such disregard. It gets better 😥

@Rasiduo Sule 🙄

I'm in the same boat as you. Our son is severely handicapped but our daughter is so bright. He rarely visits our son, as if he doesn't exist. POS.

I learned to trust all men. I trust them all to cheat. I feel so much better these days

I hear you

I agree 110% with the woman, who said she learned a great lesson, my partner told me on meeting him that he is a cheater, today we are 30 years together & he is still cheating. But the fact of our relationship is; i give no sex & he offer me companship & respect. No conflicts, no arguement & he always defends me, he treats me with respect & we even laugh about his affairs. Out of sight out of mind. When people talk to me about his affairs, i explain that i am aware & allow that. Many of my friends, think i am shallow. But one think i am assured of, is i love myself & i know who i am. I have peace of mind, & no one can destroy my space. My dad was a cheater all his life & my mother was a faithful woman until she passed. Maybe my situation is a learnt behaviour, because even though my dad cheated, i never witnessed any violence or arguments between my mum & dad. We were 10 children & us children are not even speaking, it feels as though the disfunctional upbringing rub off on us all, the children.😂😂🙈🤣

I think men came from hell. That's all.

I love this. ❤

I'm trying so hard and it's not easy 😭

Love this

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Ya they buy new underwear on way to a guys "baby shower"..take off their wedding ring cuz they don't feel married...move out of bedroom(not complaining about this one) ans suddenly have all these social engagements and pick fights like clockwork before the blessed event. Red flags ladies

TIMEOUT! - I started eating better and taking care of myself so that I would have more time with her. I built a gym in the basement for us. She was the one who mysteriously started caring about appearance and wanted a PF membership.

@@afroindymonk Ok, but you’re proving my point. You weren’t the one cheating correct? AND SHE also wanted to work out, but specially with a PF membership right? BECAUSE SHE didn’t care to work out at home with you. Look, not every person who wants to get in shape is cheating. That wasn’t the point of my comment. It’s simply ONE factor or indicator. That being said, it’s usually a bigger one and often one of the first signs. However, one cannot and should not go by just that alone. Even wanting the gym membership isn’t enough, because maybe there’s a certain piece of equipment that the person uses, or maybe they just need to leave the house to avoid procrastination with other things around home. There’s never just ONE sign. My comment was to say, that If a person is doing these things while ALSO being distant, all of a sudden caring greatly about their appearance, not wanting to spend time with you, and making excuses about being busy, all of those are red flags. ALSO if in addition to those things, they are not wanting any affection or sex from you. Well then my guy, you best start investigating and prepare yourself for what you’re about to find (unless you want to remain in denial, which some choose to do). The BIGGEST indicator is that the sex and intimacy dwindles or stops completely. Unless your woman is a Narcissistic Ho, she cannot remain involved with you like that, and be on the hunt or interested in someone else. If they’ve lost that “lovin feelin” towards you, and a medical issue isn’t the reason why, and especially if you’ve been really helping her around the house, (so being tired isn’t a factor) then that’s the closest thing you’re going to get to a one sign indication.

You’re right

100 percent correct

Typical behaviour. You are the guilty one!

Gaslighting.

We were married 24 years. He replaced me with a 23 year old. They are married 7 years now with twins. I’m alone. He had 6 out of 7 signs. Nice guy 🙄

Ditto

If you've gotta ask, you already know. I've been married for 35 years, my hubby leaves a trail of evidence everywhere he goes 🙄 and not once have I suspected or asked him about infidelity.

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Wh@tspp him

They do it because they need narcissistic supply and they literally live off of the energy life source of people so they have to surround themselves with more than one person on a regular basis.

@@ZiggyLu-og3zp yeah.Energy Vampires 🧛‍♂️

Still with him or you left?

It really is once a cheater always a cheater and exceptions don’t make the rules. I’m glad you left him when you did.

Once a cheater... And no consequence (like a heartbreak because of divorce) does create a "NO FEAR" thus a repeat offender. I know it wasn't a wonderful thing to do YET he NEEDED to have this mark. Some men AND women dissect what happened? Where was the break down?, Was there respect? Did I get to know him also? Did he do most of the talking or did I? Was I REALLY interested in him? It takes time to recall what the literal marriage was like. What kind of love. Did we stop LOOKing at each other when we conversated? The more time you have BEFORE dating again the more WHOLE and AWARE you can be. I feel for people who just go back into another relationship and they very shortly see the SAME thing which is like starting out with "baggage" and not REALLY free YET. I'm glad/sad for you. It wasn't easy I'm sure.

Wow. That a broad day light lie. People go to the gym for exercise n bodywork. A week or two sessions definitely show some results right? If 12 weeks of sessions doesnot show any tangible results it clearly shows that he chose the gym as their meeting place to hangout. The least unsuspected place for dating.

Wow. Brutal.

If it is in the DNA of cheating men to cheat, then it is the DNA of the women they cheat with to want to upstage their neighbor, best friend, sister etc. The union of your ex with your best ‘friend’ is one of 2 people who are both morally deficit. Good luck to them.

Drugs - also leave immediately lol, my ex almost cleaned me out o_o shit i didnt even know how bad Crack is until my friend warned me asap. he said to kick him out! i did, never regret it

A man will also lose weight, get in better shape, buy new underwear and clothes, say he's working late, won't be able to look at his woman in the eyes, will stop attending family gatherings, start using more cash, buy you more gifts and flowers to make up for his guilt, recommend you go out with your friends more or go shopping/massage/nails to keep you happy and busy so he has more time with his mistress, not be hungry for dinner....the list is exhaustive. Like Matt says, listen to your intuition. You might even start having dreams he's cheating.

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Been there he did that

Congratulations! God be with you.❤ Best decision.

@@shari1123- thank you very much for your words I support. Best wishes to you and may God bless you.

@@camuyana thank you

Good on you for making a decision that put your welfare first! All the best to you for the rest of your life. ❤️🙏🏻❤️

@@honestmom1958 thank you very much and I wish the same to you