the first mindset shift about having fun is EVERYTHING!! it's something I've been thinking about for ages- what's the point of working all of the time if its not fun? So many people work really hard/try to achieve lots right now so they can build up to a future and have fun then, but why wait to have fun or find joy especially when the future is so uncertain! Loved this video :)
Bruh, I was about to quote the tweet that I re-tweeted from you and I realized it's you 😂 hahaha I agree with you 100%, you should be trying to make the stuff you're already doing in the moment fun!
I'm 18 and my dad died two weeks ago and it's been really hard to do anything and I was so mad at myself for not being able to be productive but this video reminds me that IT IS productive to allow yourself some mental rest, especially for grieving Thank you
I am so sorry for your loss. But Beatrice is right: give yourself this time to grieve and don't beat yourself up about it. You need and deserve it. Be brave ❤️ sending hugs
I never comment but wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss. There is no timeline for grief. Allow yourself time and space to grieve this loss to feel the emotions when they come instead of denying and stuffing them. Sending you love.
ooh I love that achievement quote! OMG I FELT THAT TOO! I'd listen to podcasts while driving because I always thought that'd be using my time in the best way, but it's okay to just enjoy silence or listen to music as well! HAVING A GOOD TIME & BEING FUN is also productive ;-)
Agree!! I've also now found a podcast that I'm OBSESSED with, and so I feel like it was good to not put pressure on myself for listening to podcasts until I found something I really liked and look forward to listening to!
I need this right now!! Thank you for making this video can’t wait to watch it! Tbh I’m really stress out all the time and bc of that my anxiety and depression kicks in which aloud my mind to constantly have negative mindset about everything in my life... especially when it comes to education... I graduated high school 3 years ago, then my family and I moved to Canada, I thought I would straight up go to university bc I graduated right before I moved. But no... I had to do high school all over again ... 3 years later, I’m almost done and about to graduate again... and now I constantly get stress out bc I haven’t received any acceptance letter/ email from universities ... and I feel like bc of my negative thoughts and guilt, I’m not comfortable with myself and how I am stuck in the same position... I hope I can get my life together after watching this video. Thank you☺️
@@mariamassi9617 because I didn’t complete my high school education in a country where English is the first language such as ( USA, England, Australia)
All of our journies vary, their never the same. Everything happens in it's own time and the same applies to you. You got this!!! I don't know anyone who would be able to do high school TWICE!!! That's strength and patience right there 👏 best of wishes to you in the future and I'm confident the acceptances will come soon enough, you got this!!
Beatrice you suggested to think about how to add fun to our week and rn I have a family dinner. I was thinking "yep it'll be boring as always" And then I remember your advice so instead of wearing a black hoodie and a black skirt, I'm gonna wear a yellow tie so it's funnier! Thank you because you add joy into our everyday life 🥰
Thank you so much, I really loved this video!! I like that you included ways to incorporate it these habits into your life now instead of just listing them out. And I really needed to hear that section about criticism - I felt everything you were saying lol! I hope you're having a great week!
you always keep me on track. I found your profile two or three weeks ago or something like that but you have already made me remember things that I actually need to hold on to. so thanks a lot!
On my phone, I made an automation to send me a notification for a certain frequency that reminds me to complete my habits, etc. I use emojis and images to motivate me!
Just want to say i have problems with English but watching your videos and being so excited to see it and i check the translator and keep watching with a big smile i mean i’m ssoo happy that’s I found your Channel and you doing great for me ✨ And yes I’m going to try your advice
Acceptance like you change your bank account to another bank and lock the old account, only to realize a half year later the idea was foolish and stupid....🙄
To me, having a growth mindset is one of the most important mindsets to develop. It's the idea that your abilities are not fixed and that you can also improve. It also means that you're much less likely to associate your self-worth with your achievements, which is a precarious position to be in
I really needed this!!! My emotions have been all over the place lately 😕😩 I just graduated college and I have been having major anxiety about the future. Thanks so much for this video Beatrice 😊😘 ilysm ♡♡♡ 보라해
This is definitely the video I needed right now! Seeking criticism is something I’ve been intentionally trying to get better at recently, but I’m reaching the point where I know I need to get an accountability buddy to keep me on track with my habits because I have been SLACKING 😂😅
You are amazing! You are an incredible human being, you always make my days better, hope you always have good days with good health and happiness. You are amazing!🥰, I will be supporting you always
@@TheBlissBean Ohh! I really feel your editing skills are improving and are AWESOME nowadays!!! ✨ Honestly the whole aesthetic and vibe connected to this channel makes me so happy and feel energized :D