1. what emotional needs not met and unfulfilled 2. what is faulty pattern 3. what metaphor is being used by the client for their need not met thanks for 3 golden tips for Identifying cause of pain in client......
1) ask ourselves what are they not getting from their life (unfufilled needs) 2) what faulty pattern matching is going on 3) what are their metaphors telling you about what they need and about them
@@cheyenneoliver5835 My take on your question is that there is always a specific cause(s). They and we just don't know exactly what it is. That's where ongoing assessment with the right questions begin the process (i.e. durations, triggers, thought process and content, etc.), and the use of the 3 topics from this video.
I liked how you used the analogy of the light coming through the stained glass in reference to consciousness coming through the emotional ego structure.
I’m not a therapist or even studying to be one, just someone that is dealing with a lot of depression and uncertainty. I was feeling particularly down today and this video helped to teach me some new ways to have better control over my negative thought processes. You definitely have a new subscriber. Thanks for putting out this content!
I'm seeing a psychiatrist tomorrow the first time in my life. I searched this video out because I couldn't figure out how will I explain myself tomorrow. I don't want 5 sessions just to explain myself, my problems, especially when it's costly. This video helped a lot to organise my thoughts. Wish me luck.
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Am a psychologist from Nigeria, have applied some of your techniques and they worked.... Pls sir, can I get a link to take your courses..... It would help me in the clinical line
dude, im a reasonably smart guy, but that opening nearly had me switching off completely - id skip the long unecessasry prelude to your otherwise good content
How about the natural fact that we all share a emptiness that only the Living God can fulfill, and a person life will be faulty in someway until they get to know the one who only can fill it
The 2nd technique reminds me of the DBT concept of vulnerability in a behaviour chain analysis. What old history is showing up right here, and is the history affecting us? Ex: Someone asked for support in the past but was met with reprimand from their supervisor. This may be a pattern in their life when they ask for support When they want to ask for support with a manager who appears friendly they are highly apprehensive due to their past history.
I feel hypnotherapy might be the most appropriate form of therapt for me. However, I can't meditate even though i practice every week for about ten years. I am concerned I wont be able to be hypnotized either.
Hypnosis is a beautiful, gentle and very effective therapy. A good hypnotherapist will help you go into hypnosis....its nothing like what you generally see on you tube. Best decision I made was to study it xx go for it xx you won't regret it
I was asking myself this question one week ago and you just gave me the answer. I love your channel. but once we know all that. how to approach the client.
I don't even have the privacy I need to feel safe, but I don't believe we are beyond hope ;) There must be some way out of any misery, we have to find it some way. Don't despair, dear, keep looking. I wish you all the luck you can handle on your way.
The premise that I'm supposed to just be ok now takes away my opportunity to get fulfilled in my childhood teens and 2os (age 31 now) and I see only hideousness in aging.
The idea that it's my responsibility to get better and enjoy life just forgives the psychopath bullies that the society loves and gave scholarships to. I hate and distrust you all monkey demon monsters I hate my species.
@@SporadicUploads1there are some bullies out there indeed. but please don't forget there are also kind people. and that those bullies were bullied themselves. a person that receives love & attention and feels his life has meaing won't bully others..
@@SporadicUploads1 Keep looking for ways to address even those old needs in some way. I was also bullied and very lonely as a child - my takeaway: I need to make firends (look for information on how to make firends in your 30's, lookup videos on how to self-reflect, heal the issues I am able to heal on my own, search for support addressing the rest, ask yourself what kind of people you would like to have as friends and what kind of people you should avoid, figure out how to tell them apart, read stuff on how to build and maintain healthy relationships, how to handle conflict and so on...) I was preventented from continuing education after highschool - my takeaway - I would like to get back to school at some point (is it possible currently? If not why? what would be necessary? when could I start? What exactly would I want to learn? and so on...) I was in an abusive relationship for my whole 20's - my takeaway - I want to experience real love and a healthy relationship with mutual respect and support (what does a healthy relationship really look like? how to spot early signs of toxicity? how to tell apart healthy and toxic relationships? How start on a proper foundation? How to heal my insecurities that are holding me back? and so on...) These are just a few examples for self-reflection and problemsolving. You have to figure out what your most important needs are and how to address them now or in the near future in order to heal those wounds.
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