3 Strategies for Turning Boys into Men (in a society that doesn’t want them to) 

Fr this is what RU-vid should be like

Right

A glitch in the RU-vid algorithm, somehow this got through. Very happy it did!!

Remember when youtube was good? Remember oney?

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Jyan Machia Welcome to the majority 😂

Jyan Machia Same here brother.

Jyan Machia I have a father, but i do not spend much time with him, so we're on similar boats

The great thing about your comment is you can decide what kind of man you want to be. That's what I did for myself in the same situation. This guy will help you along the right path.

More power to u bro

Critical thinking is probably the most important...then they'd realize how dumb this dude's rant is lmao

@@QuinnTheChin I don't think he has bad intentions. The delivery could have been a little more refined, but the message is not negative.

@@TheMonrrou it's not overtly negative, but the entirety of it is a misunderstanding of the arguments surrounding toxic masculinity and, in general, what it means to be masculine. Masculinity is a loaded word and by demanding that boys be more masculine, we're implying that 'feminine' things are lesser. Women make up roughly 50%-- how are we supposed to discount that? (And that's to say that women are all feminine; they're not) Further, a lot of our masculine traits are determined be culture. The Iroquois, for example, were governed by women. Would they be saying that men had no room in their politics? Wouldnt their conceptions of 'femininity' (and masculinity) be very different? If we look at other cultures, it becomes painfully obvious that these things (masculinity and femininity) are culturally constructed, and if we're limiting the contributions of half the population, then isnt our culture wrong? Clinging to masculinity is ridiculous and the idea of "turning boys to men" through masculinity is contributing to a toxic culture, one that devalues the feminine, one that stupidly indoctrinates people with corrupted media and leaves us with garbage like this-- a dude trying to make up for his high voice with a beard and a rant about being a 'man' - a guy

Let's just teach our kids something That our parents didn't, to make them better than us

I give props to all my professors rn who preach critical thinking 👌

Pussy grows hair too ya know

@@asquideatingdough5347 Damn my dude that's some deep shit

@@RoachCutscenes Exactly, *deep* .

Dick Face Your face is a dick

Cringe

And... teach them how to grow big beards*

1. Don't be an incel hating women and blaming society for your inability to succeed 2. Well, that's it actually.

4. Be the authority for your children you forgot that

What if you dont have a dad

Dunford00 if length of facial hair is your benchmark of manhood then odds are you’re a pussy

CrustyMilk slept on 💀

Underrated

Only in your mind. He can be a good boy but, its impossible for him to become a good man. Either it IS or it ISN'T in my world. 🇺🇸✌🙏👍

@@georgehutcheson9679 what?

CrustyMilk 😂😂😂😂😂. I seriously can't stop laughing

Strong, well-educated, independent? You're also very humble, aren't you?

Gerbil Abuser you completely missed the point. I’m all of those things because of my father and the way I was raised.

@@unndunn1 lol, so you're totally dependent then on your papa?

Gerbil Abuser I feel sorry for you. Have a nice day

@@unndunn1 that's how a real man responds to a internet troll ... you proved your point

Or just tell em to shut the hell up and stop listening to nonsense.

Ignore it. Move on.

just Marcin DAY UMM straight

i was literally just going to type this. the real issue is toxic femininity brother. its a real bad problem in america today

The damage has been done with women it is what is I predict by 2030 women will be played out because of the introduction of the artificial womb U can’t unfuck over 100 years of feminism but what u can do as good men is help boys become men with red pill of knowledge of how the world really works trying to change women is like trying to talk to a wall your wasting your time spend your time helping boys and men cuss remember it’s us against everyone else NO ONE gives a Fuck about us brotherhood is all we have left

iceman4154 wait, what?

@@iceman4154 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

iceman4154 okay let’s take a chill pill. There are good woman Edit: not many but there definitely are good women

@@iceman4154 Is that what you think about your mother, sister or friends as well? It's funny, I can't tell if you're being serious 😂 Acting and thinking this way is seriously helping to isolate from the problems instead of coming together to understand and solve them.

@@chronorust3359 I believe masuclinity is getting a bad rep because you have the worse ones preaching it. Kind of like christianity

Christian Javier look up Misandry Today, the guy went through 2 custody battles and won. He should have some tips for you

I hope you get your kids bro stay strong brother

Christian, the system is prejudice against men in general, and minorities. My grandson at 15 has criminal record that no "white" or female would ever be charged with. I have seen the system change since the 1950s, and it's not really getting better. Good luck to you.

Im from brazil, having the same problem here bro, went to the audience, when i walked in and saw 4 women i knew right there i was fucked. Good luck.

No he hates you cause you beat her ass in front of your kid . Lmao

Dragonball Z dude. Epitome of manliness.

Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, Bruce Willis, Kurt Russel.. them old action movies are testosterone in film form lol. I remember hitting 10 years old and convincing my Father I was finally ready for 18 rated movies and watched Commando, Predator and Soldier back to back. That was a good day lol.

Emphasis on the 80's and 90's.

Yes let him watch: A Bronx Tale

Just watch Charles Bronson movies

Killakommie Foyomommie Great comment man, but change your name so more People can seriously accept your Message and put the work in which is needed 💪🏻

.Go to the Bible .God is your Father .He has lots of insight he shares in the Holy Bible

Matt Montegomery yes! Or a baby

I don't know. It just came naturally to me.

Matt Montegomery ye

Boys need to be taught how to forcibly sodomize communists like Fredo Cuomo!

I am currently and have grown up without a father figure.

Steel sharpens steel.

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You don't toughen someone up by bullying them if your talking about stopping your sons growing up to be pussies then it's not bullying

I think thats the shit that makes the femmies call masculinity toxic. Some think masculinity is being a big chest beatinbg loud mouth bully.

@@jakenicholaides3214 yall have some backwards 1950s thinking. If a boy wants to play with a pink car let him.

@@steve00alt70 I AGREE

Agreed!. Seen so many boys, or men broken down to a mere shell in the name of “toughening up”. Tough people don’t become tough because they were abused. It’s total bullshit when I hear that. Discipline is a whole other thing.

Would you look at that I thought I was one of a kind

Moses Devadass Same bro

Same brother

Ace Degenerate your comment is dumb

@Ace Degenerate you judge the guy because he'd rather spend time with his kid than trying to keep uo with the Jones. Great

Glad you're working on this important issue.

Get him in martial arts

scott Kelley Agreed. Athletics as a whole is a great step, not only is it good for their health, but they can form friendships and bonds in a friendly and competitive community. I took Taekwondo when I was young and it really helped me a ton and later I moved on to Jiu Jitsu, Boxing, Kickboxing, and MMA.

Rafa Mart they never where so bad... society wants them to look and be bad so they can control them easier..

God bless you for your patience and insight..... you have probably saved this young man's life.... greetings from Bellows Falls, Vermont

Mgtow was just a response to the extremist feminism currently plaguing us. There's no such thing as toxic masculinity though.. masculinity is beautiful.

As a woman I find this awesome.

A. Ross Official 😂😂😂😂😂

Little did you know this was needed for at least 20 years now

it’s not, only triggered conservatives think this is relevant. masculinity is a construct so the idea that theres something inherently essential to learning to be a man is stupid

@@secondeye1574 No wonder you have no name.

@@steampunkastronaut7081 no wonder you have no argument

That's true. The only things kids are learning are the extremes. Hollywood shows them either extremely aggressive men or incompetent and homosexual men.

Sooner or later, you gotta show your kid the bible and explain how the world is evil and run by the devil.

Mark Flierl good observation. Yes. All to subtle.

You need to counter that. Find male mentors for your son. And become a mentor to him. You need to show him that it's great to be a boy and a man. That the bullshit political propaganda doesnt care about his well being in the long run. Masculinity is something that we need in this world. Without it we are as good as done as a species.

True story bro

willy's life 💯💯

You are a good person

That's a good thing you did

That's really great. However, had it been a girl, would that change anything?

@@ramingr no.. we have other neices as well and we show them how to work on cars and change tires and all the stuff the boys know.. girls need to learn what the guys do to. My wife has an automotive degree like me and we both have fishing, hunting camping etc. Back grounds.

Right on!

huh...good point

lol 😂 that’s fucked and true

I am a sissy boy but I identify as a man with a beautiful boy pussy

Enserio Notemientó hmm yum

@@dancingariesbeyondverb you're gay

Probably because like half the country is divorced

SammyG 123 yep we don’t need less masculinity we need more of it

SammyG 123 right then they want to blame at-15s... a simple tool... over the man problem... BECAUSE THEY STARTED IT!

Tyler Mcflyer indeed or else a more masculine society is gonna blow through our forces and grab this country easy... because feminized men don’t join the armed forces...

Ghost tankcommander Bingo and it’s already happening to Europe

I agree. As a young shy teen, I worked in maintenance with other grown men. It really helps you develop confidence. The knowledge that you can fix things on your own, is something you can’t replace.

And teach them to lift weights and build strength. "Strong people are harder to kill than weak people and more useful in general." Mark Rippetoe

@@Savvynomad225 Better make them learn how to fight. Muscles wont make you win a fight if you dont know to fight.

@@ViriatusYT sure. In the process of learning to fight, also learn to get strong. Most of the best fighters are also very strong.

we should teach that to all, not just males, women need to stop being taught to be prissy shits and men to not be as aggressive, women need to pull their weight and men need to stop pulling ALL the weight, that comment is a little sexist towards men in saying only a true man can fix things

We have vision. Currently that vision is being blurred with the false tears of feminists and the thick smog of Marxism infiltrating western society. It's time to fight back.

I would agree Am not a military man not do I agree with politics behind most of it, still I cant deny I've seen more boys grow up to be men they military so there has to be something to it.....

Smart point 👍

@Joe Smith it is honestly.

@Joe Smith amen brother

THIS

@Joe Smith not really

I'm so sorry this man poisoned your brain on what a "REAL" man should. i wish you the best in life. 😀👍✨

@@melanietoliver3344 what is a real man then?

@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 never ask a melanie what a man should be like

Arguably even worse from my experience at least

Don't worry, your new guests will father the next generation in your absence

Haven't met one single man in germany yet. Just boys trying so hard to be alpha lmao. Why even bother being alpha when u can be the omega

SupaHoon True that, our lovely friends will do that 😡 Germans have to stand strong and as a unit to become the glorious nation we once were (1960-2000‘s)

@@spyfox9796 bro in case you forgot not even the 2 WW could not change The Germans!I live here and I'm convinced that they have more mans per/square meter than anywhere!

He's quite wrong actually. He thinks toxic masculinity is an indictment of men when it's an indictment of a cultural belief about men. Other than that he seems to be right. In order to have a positive influence on society, men have to at least be a part of society. He seems to just be hammering on the absent father problem.

@@downsjmmyjones101 Because he hates gay people. "Absent father" argument always equals homophobia, or at least that's the way I've seen every homophobe present it.

@@billyt.7306 How is it an indication of homophobia?

Homophobia doesn't exist. Nobody holds an irrational fear of gays.

because masculinity ≠ toxic masculinity. this dude speaks nonsense

Lee Davenport I am not an elephant, I agree. There is differences. Though to learn from other forms of life is always possible. Besides I found it interesting and wanted to share it, seemed like a good spot to bring it up. And life has a way of programming us, I also agree then that I have programming to work through that may be harmful. In fact I agree very much that we (me too of course) can be hypnotized by many things, and believe things without qustion. Did I miss something here with regards a basic attitude or thought? I'm I being one sided? Maybe I sound like I'm saying we should trust blind comformity, just because it is more smiled upon by the group, more tamed? I like Confucius type respect for my elders, to a degree, yet I believe young Chinese began to be manipulated and pushed around unjustly by the tradition at some point. I try not to be black and white on life and there is always context to consider. Thank you for bringing this up, I think there is something there to consider.

Lee Davenport I just want to add that my father died when I was young, he was from a world now gone, I'm 40, he died at 56 in 1987. Cancer. Be for he got real sick he was very hard on me, I believe I was carrying wood twice my sizes around the time I could walk, he was set to make me a man, he would beat on me for the smallest reasons and I spent a lot if time hiding beneath the bed and such. I was 8 when he passed, leaving his education (?) mid driff and me maybe damaged and confused, so I know education of that sort, even with good intention can do harm (you shouldn't beat on a child and one could die without completing the task of making one's son tough, if it is tough, to the brutal sides of life, leaving just a mess). Like wise I hate a billboard in our town of John Wayn which has the quote "I don't like a quiter son" because who knows how someone will take it and be ironically discouraged and estranged from the community instead of encouraged or inspired (another possibility to be fair). Someone paranoid, and broken may be effected by the sign in a way someone with a different circumstance maybe effected. I don't believe that is weak sentiment, but practical consideration, the world is a tower of Bable and real time understanding is always better then generic hype.

Wilbur Wafer lmao Sweden is in complete decay now. Overrated asf

@Wilbur Wafer Oh yes, Sweden, the country with one of the highest rape rates in the world.

@Wilbur Wafer Singapore, Japan, Australia, Spain etc but that's besides the point. Everyone is dead inside these days, low paying jobs push people to work longer hours. Ain't nobody got time for family

Wilbur Wafer Sweden is a paradise for leftist scunks and immigrants. Stop saying Sweden is the best country etc. because it’s really not. Everyone with working brain cells can tell that Sweden is a shitty place...

@Wilbur WaferDon't conflate high standards of living with actually living well.

Yup, I was just going to say that, the unhappy 8 people have no idea how this message is STRAIGHT UP in our grill and needs to be said!!

Single moms would love to have dinner real men in their community. Men who don't find it a priority to trash talk women. Are you gay?

@@YoTeeFan just see a women who is just going to hit the wall is calling men gay. Isn't it pathetic and funny.

@YoungRe3hunnid on point my man

@Sailor of the Mind it isn't neccessary you have to have a father to succeed in life but he can guide you. I know some men of our generation are beta and childish. You only need your heavenly father to succeed in life.

Glad you're with us!

Have you read Lord of the Flies?

I know several school principles & teachers they have told me of the bedlam in their classrooms caused by laws & protocols made up by legislators & other functionaries that limit what they can do as discipline. Teachers are not allowed to touch that is restrain, no grabbing a hand or arm, no blocking a child's egress or access to anything, if the child is threatening to kill or throwing things the teacher has to clear the classroom & leave the child in that room to do what he wants. In one instance a child who was "relatively" calm in the morning was on a morning only school. The grandparents raising him got lawyers (one of their specialties) to make the school take him for the entire day. This boy (grade school)has threatened to kill & has chocked an aid & has access to his grandparents guns. If a child is this much of a problem he/she can be suspended or moved to another school but if he has been diagnosed with any mental or etc.. problem nothing can be done. The teachers in one district know a couple of teens that most won't be surprised if they come shooting. Then there is a recent shooter who was known by kids , teachers & police to be a threat but a local politician w/cooperating police chief didn't do anything about him because their policy was not to arrest or cause a record to be made for kids so as not to impede their way into college. The last one was in the news. This is the result of our "liberal progressives" trying to craft a perfect world. We know how that's turning out & then some wonder why there are all these shootings.

Bro God loves you and always will, he is your ultimate father, seek guidance from the Holy Spirit No matter what a huge amount of people are rooting for you

I met my father at 27. He was cool. Really chill. My Mom likes to call 911 in an argument so I assume she did that and he left because in Baltimore in 1981 the police were dangerous for a black man.

Jekub B find a mentor. Someone in your church, work or social circle that is older than you and has his stuff together and is willing to give you advice and guidance when you need it. Look at a man's friends and you see who he is. Stay strong. I will pray for you. There is a lot of good information here and over at Warrior Poets Society.

Boy! you are very strong, god doesn't put you in situation you cannot handle.when l read your comment i remember lots of great ppl such as Tupac, Lebron James... They were in situation like you but they made themselves.

What kind of things you expect to be said to you about that? Genuinely curious.

Look for a good male role model. Decide what kind of person you want as a dad and be that kind of person

Toxic masculinity is a cultural belief that men are inherently better leaders and should ignore emotional vulnerability as well as many other incorrect ideas about men. Your first sentence is an interesting argument for gender being useless though. That's a fun one.

@@downsjmmyjones101 I didnt understand what you tried to say in 2nd paragraph

@@atakansakalli The idea that what is manly is shared among the genders is the first step. From there you can say that the genders share a lot more. Eventually gender starts to look pretty silly with all the similarities.

Well, feminists aren't wrong when they say society values men's traits more than women's. The difference is that they think that's bad.

@@yu_cp8978 I don't think society necessarily believes that. If anything men are at a point of self reflection because of so much damage caused by us, even our offspring, even our future men. You yourself is inherently making femininity a lesser to masculinity when they both go hand in hand.

Yes you do

hey buddy i'm no parent by any means but you don't have to fit societys norms of "BECOMING A REAL MAN". be whatever the fuck you want to be. if you wanna wear a dress, you do that. if you want to wear a skirt, you do that. if you want to be gay, bi pan, or anything other than a typical cis straight male you FUCKING DO THAT. there is no such thing as a man but there is such thing as a...... human.

They will soon!

@@Orderofman good, we need more critical thinkers with common sense.

Well spoken sir

@Sailor of the Mind well then

@Sailor of the Mind only claim he was making was that he had a good dad? I'm confused as to what you're trying to get at. To me atleast I dont see how that has anything to do with his personal experience with anything and it didnt seem like he was saying it to represent any accolades to himself

@Sailor of the Mind oh ok makes sense. You seem like you've thought about this stuff before. You take psychology dont you

Sailor of the Mind All the dude said was he had a strong father. And who are you to tell him he hasn’t done shit you don’t know him.

@Sailor of the Mind what color is my panty