3 The three magic questions which create attraction during a date 

what is the first magic question? or are you saying the first magic question is itself "did you realize" ?

The first magic question is about location/occasion. Why are they there? What brings them there? What do they expect or want to accomplish in there?

You shouldn't be using these question in attraction phase, anyway.

when a woman asks you what you do- tell her. be proud of what you do. share a story about the satisfaction you get from doing what you are doing. How you make is important because your job is to provide a stable income that will support a healthy wholesome environment for your family.

@@Steelhorsecowboy this exchange is an opportunity to focus on the path to long lasting relationship that do not falter because if a change in financial status. Couple with shared ideals and a common view of the future usually stay together. Therefore part of early on dating discussion include conversations which reveal people's ideal. For example sharing stories about grandparents,favorite teachers,role models or fun family customs help reveal one's ideals and can start to create a long term foundation for the relationship. Try this approach and write back asking for congrats on your new satisfying relationship.

@@yehoshuarubin Its not my personal view it's what I have learned exploring the modern day Manosphere. Millenials have a whole different perspective than people like you and I.

@@Steelhorsecowboy millennials have and half the testosterone that males from the 70s and before had. So it's easier for them to give up and just blame women rather than be more tenacious and keep going for them. I find that blaming others for your situation just proves you're not in control of your situation. There is an immaturity to it because your acting like a child kicking the ground about things not being fair, rather than taking responsibility to get things done anyway. As far as jobs go, it's not about the money so much, but again about the maturity. Do you have control and mastery of your career? Or are you just working a job because you don't believe in yourself enough to ascend beyond being a sandwich artist? She doesn't want a little bit blaming the world cus he is only making minimum wage. She wants a Man who knows how to network, influence, and has ambitions. That's what's attractive about it. Money comes and goes, but a dude who had his life together is what women are looking for..