3 things I learned by failing 14 times in CA 

Am doing CA from 13 yrs...1 group left to clear... Married and have a kid...I have 547 contacts in mobile but ZERO friends to call when feeling low ....

I realized this that people leave, the degree stays. Therefore, prioritise.

I'm not gonna lie, I was just scrolling youtube then this man occured in my feed and I just opened this video with 0 interest, but then after listening to his learnings I just left numb, his words hits hard like Bruhhh... He left me speechless. He taught me a great lesson. Hatts Off Man 🤗

3 Things are: 1. Friends don't last forever. Focus on your exams rather than on building relationships. 2. Be diligent. Your work ethic is going to help you clear CA. Get into monk mode. 3. Instead of blaming or complaining, focus on learning from your mistakes

He is so true about friendships.... All I can say is don't waste even a minute thinking about people who don't even care if u are alive or not.... So just move on with life and focus on other things...

The Guy clearing on his first attempt FLEXES, having required 17 attempts to clear the task , just he is imparting valuable lessons and knowledge he learnt to those around him , and helped me also ❤

Normalize adressing people as colleague, classmate, batchmate.... Not everybody you hang around or work with is your friend!!!

CAs with multiple attempts are kind, humble and true gems. You guys are God's favorite indeed❤

Do you know what makes you unique? You are a winner not because you cleared the CA exam but because you fell and rose, you fell and rose... You kept going, unlike the losers in life who give up on their ambitions easily. Your determination is what sets you apart from the rest. It is not easy to face and accept failure, especially when you have had academic success your whole life. But, you not only accepted but you learned some great lessons from the constant failure. Your words are empowering and inspiring. I am currently 15 writing this comment, and I pray that I never quit in life just like you, regardless of what field of study I opt for.

Oh my God. I'm a CA student and youtube recommended me this video. I failed inter once and skipped other two attempts due to college exams but whenever I think of quiting I come across motivating journey of chartered accountants

The part that u told about friends is very true. NO one is there in bad times(friends and relatives), at the time of success they just want to make use of whatever they want. U r not at all a failure , but a motivation and inspite of everything u were so determined...

In the beginning, I isolated myself from my friends because they were attending a regular college, even though none of them are pursuing CA or any other professional course. All I used to do was blame myself for choosing the open university, where my friends were enjoying their college life, while I was attending lectures, revising, and submerged in books all day. No enjoyment, no friends, nothing. I wasted my first attempt because of this. It took me time to understand that we have different paths, and it's me who's pursuing a professional degree. So, yes, the journey would have to be hard; otherwise, everyone would be doing it. Peer pressure and FOMO are really something crazy; I did so much overthinking because of that.

I have been preparing for UPSC for the last 7 years, given 5 attempts. Out from various stages. I have seen people come and go. The more time you take, the more people leave, they lose hope in you. People remain friends with you in the first place thinking if he becomes something, it will be helpful for us. So, in the end, it is about favours.

Now we have a person who actually speaks about failures in life. Huge respect....❤🙏🏻

Am sure universe sent me to watch this video ❤ Very Valuable insights

Not only about friends. It is about our relatives. Parents relatives..... Wasting time in engaging with people that won't be even there in your life after a certain period of time.

The Friends part..OMG i can totally totally relate to this. Your video just gave me a throwback of moment when i was insulted by my principal right in front of my Colleagues and Friends..OMG i cried like hell right there right in that moment for the first time after ages. Those Words of him Hurted me at so many levels and it happening in frontof my friends hurted my dignity. Fortunately it helped me to clear my group 2 in inter but the motivation was lost in Finals. I'm watching this video today and now the wounds feel fresh like before. I need to do this..I need to be a CA give them back a good reply.

02:50 So truee it is what you said about the insecure feeling inside about not attending to friends/people and feeling insecure about them not talking to you in future.... Struggling with the same, even though I know by experience that even if I talk to them they still won't attend me back after my use will be over.

I am CMA final student, I have tears in my eyes as I listen to you narrate your journey, this has been more or less my life so far. I am not exaggerating one bit. Watching this video was like listening to my own CMA journey. Want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for this gem of a video ✨

At this point when I was broke that why i am not giving value to myself, always prioritising family and friends, end up wasting so much of time that i could have cleared my final by now. Thank you so much for this video. Atleast someone spoken about it.

Work ethics or discipline > intelligence

Thank you for this, Everyone who watched learned an important lesson for the lifetime. keep growing and sharing, All the Best

such an eye opening video.... i can totally relate to everything what he has told...i got 99% in 10th,98%in 11th,and a school topper in 12th with 99.40%...but now when i look back to those ,nothing helped me in ca preparation journey.....my friends who were just below average were able to study much better than me...the fact that i realized thereafter was that it's not our skills or knowledge what helps us to clear CA ,but the efforts that we take towards achieving those goals... thank you brother for making me think for a while it's the first time watching your videos and happy to say that you got a new subscriber. ♥

The amount of clarity and experiences that you have gained over the years is the reflection of your speaking. Thank you for sharing your experiences which is really amazing and I will implement this in upcoming days as I am very close for my CA exams.

Thankyou for helping me to realise my mistakes .I just find you randomly and I'm sure now that this video helps me to change my life the way that I want

One of the best videos I've ever watched.. Thanks big brother. You have my respect ❤

The man has a point...I too feel the sluggishness doing FINAL but haven't given up

Believe me bro...U never failed...That was the part of Ur learning...U r a warrior.❤

So nicely and beautifully portrayed ! So inspiring for someone who has faced himself or for one who can learn from the mistakes. ❤️

Very down to earth speech and ideas. I enjoyed listening to your 3 major points.

This video has a positive message and is something I can relate to, you are really brave to share it with us all. Reflecting upon your past, welcoming truth even if it offends you and changing your approach of doing things is very powerful. Thank you!

Love the way you narrate your story and the tips. Looking forward to your future videos.

Take a bow!! sir🙌 bout to appear for inter exams... thank you for posting this one. 17 attempts, but in the end you won. To be this resilient, nah , ain't that easy. More power to you. 💪❤

This is pure gold.... Ur ability to reflect and think deeply is worth more than any degree Kudos

Very happy to see you sharing your experience and I agree with you. This video will help a lot of aspirants

One day I will sit with you and you will realize how similar we are. Thank you CA Hareesh Sir

Soul touching. Thank you for making this video

Please never stop making videos like this It's my first time on your channel and I'm subscribing it has motivated me a lot ❤

thankyou it was much needed, keep up the good work man!!!!! got the motivation!!

Such an eye opening video..i felt like seeing me on the video having same kind of background, geographic and doing same mistakes which is pointed out very clearly...i had never commented on any of the videos in RU-vid..but this one... really meant a alot.

I have heard my life story with your voice but the difference is i am still in the journey. thank you for making me realize reality... will work hard more and more.. thank you so much wish you had a successful career where ever you go..

I was not a popular student or even averagely known in all of my school life, not even a 'good morning' have i ever received from anyone, not even from any of my bench partners. So, 10 years of that really gave me reality check. But still every now and then because of group projects i had to interact formally which eventually made me realize that i have attachment issues and i basically become a doormat for anyone who decides to have a conversation with me. So, at the age of 18 when i moved abroad and saw some wild roommates, it took me two days to get the message that it is going to be the same as School life. Now in early 20s and still don't know what friendship is supposed to be. Or if i even need one. Can absolutely live without small talk or gossips, gonna take this video as a sign from the universe because i still fluctuate between mindless people pleasing and long periods of isolation. Take care everyone.

Can't Thank You enough for sharing these valuable lessons with your juniors 🙏🙏

Congratulations buddy . Hats off to your dedication💗

So relatable sir!!! I am in ca inter and I gave my first attempt in may 22, and after that I have been giving the ca attempts continuously. Every time I felt that I understand the concepts of audit and tax so well than many of my fellow ca buddies but how come they can clear so easily. But now I realised the msg you wanted to convey that you have to have a work ethic

I made d same mistake of prioritizing friends over my career...considering them as "Friends Forever"... N today none of them r in touch... N i am still struggling wid my career...all alone...wid only 'my family', by my side...

Oh my God this video reached me at the right time. I had a friend he is studying abroad and I am very attached to him as my family member. I was diagnosed with a severe health issue , to me it was a dark phase for me sometimes I thought it would be better to die than living with this pain . One day I realised that pain is not much as mental agony that is given by him . He never spoke me after he knew about my health issue and suddenly he blocked me without any reason . Some friends are like this

This was much needed video ,Really appreciable

This is the best video one can make for CA Fraternity.No exaggerations and show off . Pure explanation of reality. As a CA Final student it was totally Relatable.

This is one of the best videos I ever have watched .I have no circle of friends ,where I always used to feel bad ,after watching this video ,I find everything by my side,❤thank you..

Thanx a lot😌... That was a real big bro advice... All i needed to hear...saved me.... Will always keep supporting❤

This truth just had me in tears...thank you so much for this realisation

WOW!! Eye opening video!! Thank you!

I certainly feel those 17 attempts happened just because of this, i know its easy to say I have failed 4 times in intermediate g1 itself and will appear in may again but i have lost hope of studying 😭, been having upset stomach since a week, sleeping more than usual, bad routine and what not I just feel that we humans are not weak its just that we fall prey to circumstances But in the end all i wish is I can put a smile on my mumma puppa's(I wish to see them so happy)

It was much needed.....you really expressed so well.... thankyou for this video 🙌

Thankyou so much. This is exactly what I needed to hear.

First video, and within 2 seconds i hit the subscribe button. Oh my god well spoken you are . Please continue making videos

I can sense pure wisdom from the each word you have spoken, it's an eye opener from me being a CA student, you are right without work ethics,unbiased thinking, and not complaining, and finally accepting the situation as it is, nothing can be achieved

Really touched by your words and resonated so well that i actually think we think alike, really wonderful

Thank you for talking about failure and friendship. Its such an important video

Truly said by someone: "Failure teaches you more than success. Success boosts your ego". This man is a perfect example for this!!

Im a dr preparaing for my neet pg( postgradutaion). Our courses may be different but our journeys are the same....wat u said in the entire video is very true....at the end of the day we have only ourselves....thanks for speaking the truth and for telln wat we all go through

What you're sharing here is not just for CA but for everyone. These are the life lessons for each and everyone. Sometimes such content is way better to watch than any other. Sometimes such truth slaps are much needed. I could feel and understand every bit. Due to my such habit my progress has got delayed I don't even know by how many years I wish it as slapped with this in my 20's. Though I don't regret but yes I had all the faces flashing in front of me who took advantage of my helping nature to climb while making me believe I was such a nice human and blah blah. Today when few years back my struggles showed me I had no one to even msg let alone call to talk. Be it friends or family. I would highly recommend people to watch this.

Anna you have really opened a eye for me,I had this problem from school days because i feel i cannot prioritize myself.Tysm

You realize who thinks what about you when you hit 25. It hits you seriously one day, and you wake up.

Thank you 🙏 sir valuable input This video is eye opener for CA Aspirants who are struggling to clear CA exams Lesson 1 5:34 Lesson 2 8:49 Lesson 3 11:24 Hopefully We will meet someday

An eye opener sir changed my entire perspective as you said in our last class the easy does it ...... thank you sir

Hey bro! The way you have presented the points, it was superb.

Dude! Oh my god! I also got a terrible jaundice just 15 days before my Nov 23 Finals. I was so weak that I couldn't even sit for extended period and you know its a lengthy disease to treat. I felt so frustrated about it because even after following a strict no outside food and water rule for the past 4 months, I still got diagnosed with it!. I literally was thinking to not give 1st grp. But gave both of them anyhow. Passed in 2nd grp but failed in 1st. It felt so bad and frustrating that it wasn't even my fault. But as you said its the other 5% when its just a bad time. Still continuing the acceptance process. Its tough and it always linger somewhere behind your mind even if you feel you have overcome it. But we move forward. Hopefully May 24 will turn out the best. Thank you man! Felt so good to share with someone who can understand how it feels! Much appreciated and more power to you!

Very informative video sir.. grt eye opener! ✨️

Thank you so much. Your video really helped me. I found the same issue with myself. I started my ca journey not too long ago this tips really helped.

This video is very much relatable to me and most of other aspirants as well. This is the most ignored topic, thanks for addressing man.❤️❤️

Every second of this video seemed to realistically jolt me... I have done all of this... Over prioritising the friends, being a rank holder at school level and goofing up with everything in CA journey, getting diagnosed with very bad jaundice just 2 months before one of my inter attempts... This couldn't have got much relatable. I too have learnt the lessons the hard way. I cleared my foundation in june 2015.. And here I am, attempting final both groups in may 24.. I curse myself for the mistakes I have made.. It is all irreversible now.. But, I hope, I get through this time... Thanks for this video 🫶❤️

You were amazing brother 🫡 sooner or later things happened. Your 9.8 years of failure gave us the right choice for today. We’re all thankful to you, you spoke well and good. God bless you man 🤝

Never left.a comment without an incentive till date! This video definitely deservers a word of appreciation!

Hareesh. My congratulations! to you on your achievement. This video was an eye opener for me, especially the first part about "friends" was so true and relatable to myself. God Bless you!😇

5:48 same happened to me sir. because of that I failed in two attempts. thank you sir for valuable advices. I needed them ❤

Nice. Sometimes i feel bad that i didn't have a proper friends circle. Still feel the same.

Thank you brother for sharing your precious experience

Thank you so much for your eye opening video brother. One of the Genuine talks i had ever heard🎉.Keep going❤

I am 21 years old and have decided to prepare for civil services. However, there is constant sarcasm around me regarding my decision not to pursue a job. Even my own family members, like my sister who previously supported me, now taunt me because she secured a government job at just 18. I haven't attempted the exam yet, but I am filled with fear and can empathize with your feelings of uncertainty. I have no friends, as I tend to isolate myself due to being introverted. Whenever I feel low, there is nobody there for me. It feels like I'm wasting my time, and people who were once supportive change when we don't meet their expectations. Only my parents provide me with a little support. I have one friend who always checks up on me and supports me, but I've distanced myself from him because I fear being alone if I don't meet expectations. Those around me have expectations because they believe something good will come to them if I succeed, but if I don't, I understand the disappointment...

I never go in parties and just prioritise myself and my objective over everyone and everything, just currently Focus on yourself .... Be your best...

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻❤,, Huge respect for these words " Your work ethic is bigger than your Intelligence" 👍🏻

Amazed to hear what all you said. Proud of you bro :)

I don't why but i feel ur words are true and it gave me peace at this moment when dispite of giving so much of effort i feel sad about time wasted in past .... I am going to give my Exams in Upcoming May attempt and only one thing i need is peace in my mind Thank you for your valuable insights which no 1st attempt person could ever give Your words are helpful

Thankuuu sir.. 😊this means a lot.. wish this video was put up in about 5 years. I lost my attempts due to me prioritizing my friends 😩 This is my 8th attempt of Group 2..

This video was so good. Lovely is what I can actually say. Thank you so much brother

Bro you are a gem , I got to know about your channel today watched a video and subbed . I literally have not seen anyone talking about this side of CA . Thanking for making videos❤ ❤ ❤

Bro speaking the most useful facts

Thank God, He opened my eyes 🙏🏻 The true savior you're ✨

Added so much values into my life watching this clip. Thank you sir

RU-vid recommended me when I needed it the most thankyou my brother

I have been doing the same mistakes again and again. My first final attempt was on may 2022. I cleared grouped 2 in nov 22. Since then i am failing group 1 because i feel i cannot prioritize myself. I prioritise people their life. And its my third attempt for group 1 l, technically 5th attempt. I have 10 days left for my exams and i haven't prepared well this time too because i didn't prioritise my studies. I feel miserable.

Hi Hareesh sir, I bought your book named ‘Substance and Form’ I always wanted to reach out to you for creating such an insightful book and I’m glad that you’re on RU-vid.

thats soo inspiring and much needed to hear anna thankyou and i always feared that i would be bullied for my attempts like my parent saying my brother cleared all levels in first attempt now iam happy that super positive people and who understand me totally also there

It is absolutely true regarding work ethic, I think many people have the innate ability to achieve a goal to some extent, but is is the work ethic that helps us to reach our goal. Thankyou for sharing this.

I am a cs student ,topper in both 10th and 12th and now my days and night are full of guilt... already failed in one attempt... Fear to face the examination has gone so high that in the last two attempt i made excuses and lie to my family about exam that they are cancelled...now i am ashamed of myself and by seeing my mother eyes full of hope and trust ...break me every single time...its not like that i dont want to study but concentration power becomes so low that i couldn't study straight for one hour...Maa can't sleep in night because of me.. worrying about my future praying to god ...ki uski beti k sth ye q ho rha h... I want to see her happy

This is the video I needed.... I also have the same attitude which you spoke about in your 2nd point...... I also think that if I want I can easily score more than 80-90% in any exam I want, as I get more than 70% with a studying of a week..... Also I have a mentality that if I want I can easily crack CA.... Thank you for telling me that this attitude doesn't work in CA.... Now I'm gonna slowly change myself.... The best line, Your intelligence is not always your asset, it can be liability too....

This time RU-vid recommended the best video...Thanks you so much ❤

Thank you so much,needed this so bad… I’m a teenager and little things like friends not prioritising me hurts me so much….gotta change being so sensitive and wasting my time over people who don’t even care and gotta go chase my dreams!