Keep Going Jaxn, if God gave you the Spiritual Awakening to give to the World, just keep it up, we need it! Love you! ❤ We need the details you provide, because its rare that we even get the “Details” of what the Storyline is really looking like.
HIs actions show everything. I told him I don't do casual relationships. I told him to move on. He said he needed to move on. We will see if he will contact me again...I doubt it.
DERRICK THIS IS TRUE, BUT DON'T CARE WHAT HE'D THINK. I JUST KEEP IT MOVING ESPECIALLY WHEN I'VE GIVEN YOU A CHANCE & YOU BLOW IT. I'M JUST NOT FOR DRAMA & DON'T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED! "BY FELECIA".
@@susanhampton9671….it’s not something your health will want to wait to see. If that’s guys response. Even if y’all get back it’s Gina be dead. The feeling you have right now won’t completely go away.
My husband went cold on me bc he was messing with a jezebel from his pass, now that I have filed for divorce he doesn't want it but I'm done with his mind games and manipulation. I went to court today to get my default signature judge rewarded it
Cheers to you Carla, now shift your focus more on yourself. Implement self care as much possible. These people out here will never learn; sometimes the grass is only greener bc its fertilized with bullcrap! Totally his loss Carla✅
Some men won’t respect any woman and it doesn’t matter what you do! He doesn’t define your worth because if you know you are a good woman then it’s his loss. Period
It actually hurts like hell but you always see the true colors of someone sooner or later. 🙏🏼💛 you just have to pray 🤲 for them and always give it to the lord. I don’t know 🤷🏻♀️ about other woman but I’m tired of being treated like I’m nothing when I know what I’m really worth. ❤️💛✨✨🤲🙏🏼
Right, you are worth it! That’s why using Emotional Intelligence (E.I.) is important in “seeing” the true colors of an individual before you invest in any relationship. Like another commenter stated on this thread “DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED” …. avoid that possibility. 🙏🏽
I mentally detached because my feelings are being ignored. When i bring up something that is bothering me in the relationship, they make it about them in some way.😢 If nothing changes, I'm planning my exit.
@user-wl2so8wf5e Thank you...I won't. Not to make no excuses for him. However, in working on my inner self, I understand he is emotionally hurt by childhood and adult baggage. He's not emotionally available to help heal my hurt. Which some of it, he caused. Therefore, I'm choosing to heal myself through different channels. Counseling is one of them. I'm sure he may have hurt that I caused. How can I help heal the unknown. ❤️❤️
@@positivevibe7684sounds like you are making excuses for him. You already answered your own query. You just need to take the steps in putting yourself 1st ! If you are in counselling, you should be on your own for a while and focus on yourself and get into a position that you are ready to take on a relationship.
Don't be his safety net. Eventually, he'll find the one he wants, and you will be history and left broken. Don't take him back, let go, heal, and grow.
He comes back because he knows that even though he may cheat/entertain another woman you are not going anywhere. How many women does he have to be 'distracted' by before he realizes 'what he's leaving behind?' He sounds like a master manipulator...
Yes , real love is unconditional but relationships aren’t unconditional they are all about reciprocity! You can love someone and not be in a relationship with them. Love and relationship are two separate entities!!!
Players, Narcs, Hustlers, Gigalos, Grifters, etc...the men just go mean with you, to spend time with his other supplies, trying to use you for supporting the other women he prefers. SICK 🤢.
Facts!!! Thanks for being so real and raw.... You helping both sides. I have boundaries, I'm trusting GOD and not falling for the same old BS!!!!! I don't have time to throw away.
Some people are so broken, hurt & traumatized. Of past, or present brokenness Soul Ties Tumble weed spirits, strong holds. That have left them So gaurded stand offish. Yet wants the freedom to come in & out at his leasure. Kenship to a Narsasitic mindset. Only to pick you up When he / she Chooses. Very condiscending Manipulation... Only to pick you up at a later convenience. But this seamingly Narsasitic person... Needs to be in Control. Only because somewhere in his life He's become detatched, broken Insecure, underneath his drama that he presents a facad to you.
As an empath, my love doesn't hold anyone hostage to the expectation of love returned. I give love freely. My Creator fills my love tank. The only One who can dictate my value, which I find in my Creator. When you love someone so deeply, so truly, it is not that they have loved you back, it is that they have learned to love themselves more. Expectations and assumptions do not serve anyone. When you feel opposed, and you react in the negative in return, it merely speaks to where you are in your relationship with the I Am. So align yourself, remember who you are, where you came from and where you are going and that we do not get what we want, rather what we are. If we want love, we must become it. It is so lovely to hear another speak such words of wisdom. I am thankful this came into my algorithm. Appreciate your wisdom and time brother and may you be blessed overwhelmingly, abundant in all things, Amen 🙏 Ephesians 3:20-21, 2 Corinthians 9:8
I’m 62 years young and can relate entirely to this segment. It amazes me how age might or might not make a difference when it comes to dating and new relationships. Thanks for clearing things up . I really appreciate you Big Brother !
Most men don’t understand that when a woman is emotionally invested, She doesn’t see you any lesser than you were when you did have the cash flow… if he remains ambitious
Everything has rules, school, God, work, trying to find a job....are you gonna give up just because you have to pull your weight somehow. That's how the world works, nothing comes easy
THAT HAPPENED TO ME IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER ASKED HIM FOR ANYTHING OR TRIED TO USE HIM....I ALWAYS TOLD HIM TO BE HONEST WITH ME AND BE HIMSELF. I NEVER JUDGED HIM WHEN HE CHANGED AND COULDN'T KEEP UP THINGS HE DID IN THE RELATIONSHIP. I'M NOT TRIPPING!
When we emotional pull away and no longer interested that is most definitely because we feel it's a waste of our time and our self-respect it's not getting anywhere and Turned off at this point
I was taking care of my mom and sister both transitioned …he said I did t have time for him… showed me he was selfish and had no compassion despite me being there for him for surgeries illnesses etc oh and I had asked him for flowers 🌺 and he said that was too much so I had checked out … he broke up with me on Christmas Eve… I did not and have not shed a tear 😢 since … 😅I know I dodged a bullet
thank you for this video, unfortunately, I'm in a situation where he just likes me and doesn't want a relationship, and I'm the chaser, I think I finally came to my senses and I think it's time for me to just ignore him
This happened to me and I wasted 10 years on him. Lost my child bearing years waiting on him to be ready. He got with someone 10 years younger and had three kids back to back. Please 🙏🏻 don’t make the same mistake I did.
I already KNOW love is for other people but not for me...I DO love hard, but haven't been able to find anyone who loves me back the same. Thought I had finally found that at 51, but taking a closer look only reveals to me that he still has feelings for someone else, and even though he cares about me as a person, I'm not all that special to him....😢
It was made clear he has a lot going on and I am not a priority ... I respectful turn toward my other responsibilities and I no longer feel safe emotionally and neither does he. I understand it and I am ok. I am no longer interested in being on the roller coaster.... I have to much to get done..
I found all of this out on my own through the experience and yes I am an empath. I am so happy to hear and see that there is a growing awareness of this dynamic.
My friend and I kissed and then he called me and said I forced him and stopped speaking to me. He just wants to be a servant of the Lord, but we both kissed each other. When I think about it I just laugh.
If he can't take accountability now that you are not married, he will later blame you for marrying him, raping him to get pregnant and trap him with children. He will never take accountability until he repents of his sins.
When I left him I told him in no uncertain terms that I was NEVER EVER going back . He knew I meant it and has never tried to reconcile . . . I get messages from strange numbers which I block immediately. . . He knows. I am totally done . Totally !!
Why do some people think that you've pulled back because someone else is getting what they ain't getting, when in actuality they could be tired of the BS....
I wish I can say something but I can't but I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart God bless you I just wanted to say this person confusing me I just pray God to give me the discernment to do right decision, thank you so much.
I love the "You're not nurturing the garden, you don't get the fruits". Truth! Don't test me! My fruit will be preserved and then go to a different "market".
OMG your every word I could cry... You know everything that is happening in my life. You can see in men and women's minds. Everything you say is so true x
Learned this recently, keep chasing, but I know where your childhood wounds are, I know you better than you know yourself Prince Yes you are making sense I must be totally naive to not understand that people are like this We all have damage, some of us do the work
Thank you so much for this seriously. I am so proud to say I am a healed woman. And I’ve never been in a relationship or had intercourse. These poor men are so hurt out here not willing to loose power and end up loosing great women like myself. I am ready to love but haven’t found any healed men yet.
I love that feeling when it clicks inside my brain, that feeling when I know I am free from his spell. It's like it really does not matter whether he calls me or not. I might go out with him and have a good time or I can go do something different tonight. Whatever ....
I pulled away and initially he asked how to fix it but in the same breath he was defensive and pointed out all the things he felt he did right and implied that I didn’t reciprocate. You hit the nail on the head for me, I didn’t feel safe emotionally so I checked out.
Women are also looking at men. If, she’s been through it, she knows her value…I say , goodbye… then I’m the mean one … only when I have to be you taught me that, but a smart woman, walks or lets him walk…defend your
