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Anybody can help resolve a conflict, says project manager Dorothy Walker. With three simple steps, she shares how you can use positive energy to solve conflicts between friends, coworkers, strangers, kids and beyond.
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Комментарии : 73   
@iceice8327
@iceice8327 3 года назад
Step one = 3:50 Step two = 5:27 Step three = 7:23
@apollo1651
@apollo1651 3 года назад
Thhxxxx
@julianacorral3773
@julianacorral3773 3 года назад
Ifucking love u
@aylen9639
@aylen9639 3 года назад
tanhks
@tiamthembu
@tiamthembu 3 года назад
School brought me here, thanks for saving my time.
@fabiolamm5477
@fabiolamm5477 2 года назад
💟
@pankajhello
@pankajhello 3 года назад
Folks she is my colleague and we worked together for same assignment last year very closely. She is very positive, dude! She mean every bit of what she is speaking here
@annsparta2222
@annsparta2222 Год назад
❤❤❤
@celinapolos2203
@celinapolos2203 3 года назад
Wow she has such a beautiful calming energy, her message is so powerful, in just 8 minutes! Really gave great value to my day! Beautiful woman and personality
@teodosiygeorgiev2966
@teodosiygeorgiev2966 2 года назад
stop the cap bruh no wonder why her marriage didnt work out....
@khaiahmann9192
@khaiahmann9192 6 месяцев назад
This was good. ✨ And asking if all parties want to actually work the issue out, is key for sure.
@pacha_157
@pacha_157 Год назад
Resolve is the fuel to discipline. I just wanted to say this video is granting me the power within myself to start working out, making a name for myself, and strive to be a better person. When I have internal conflicts like if I don't want to do something for example, I observe listen and dissolve the emotion while at an appropriate state of mind in order to come to a resolve. Through this resolving method I thank you.
@Etmanuel88
@Etmanuel88 3 года назад
I 100% agree with you. I've created my own process that is similar to yours. The "Energy transference" has helped both myself and whoever I'm speaking with to remain calm and focus on the facts AND a realistic solution. When dealing with a company - always ask for formal documentation of XYZ (this makes them soooo much more agreeable)!
@spencerleek
@spencerleek Год назад
This advise truly helped in a mediation that I just facilitated. Thank you!
@mikecamacho1934
@mikecamacho1934 2 года назад
Most conflicts come from implied expectations. And not having definitive agreements. Seneca(4BC-65AD) Talks about how unmet expectations, is the cause of anger.
@iRideuWatch
@iRideuWatch 2 года назад
So true. Why do people so often assume both or all parties have understood and agreed to the expectations?
@keimaari
@keimaari 2 года назад
oh... this is a word.
@colinellesmere
@colinellesmere Год назад
I agree. Agreements are so important. I am in a situation where agreements have been broken. I am displaying negative energy. Bht its hard to shift that based on things that have happened. But it would be great to shift it with positive energy. My mind state definitely does not help at all.
@jp9707
@jp9707 Год назад
@@colinellesmere I hope things have gotten better for you since you wrote your comment
@colinellesmere
@colinellesmere Год назад
They got better then worse and I was leaving the situation and got pushed before resigning. But my mental states are better now I am out of that situation. The comment by Seneca about understanding expectations and pinning them down is so important. It is where so much conflict comes from.
@karenbenjamin7165
@karenbenjamin7165 2 года назад
Delivery was on point. The steps are realistic and actionable. Thank you
@shasha6982
@shasha6982 Год назад
This was great information. Thank you
@habbosim100
@habbosim100 3 года назад
I love her outfit and make-up btw
@josh-sv1hq
@josh-sv1hq 3 года назад
Cool story bro
@josh-sv1hq
@josh-sv1hq 3 года назад
What if something fake is being forced in front of you and you describe why it's not true and people get mad? I am not sure what else to do...
@pepesapo3277
@pepesapo3277 3 года назад
How do i kick all 3 of my roomates butts at once? THEY do not get along ☹
@chrisshackelford4385
@chrisshackelford4385 8 месяцев назад
That was awesome. I took notes the whole time!!!😂
@marshall886
@marshall886 2 года назад
I don't think how you can talk about conflict without talking about justice. I don't think you can reduce it to energy exchange. Yes, having people in emotional state where they can listen actively to the other party but it is just defines desirable terms to which to hear each other.
@faithjerielmacauley3356
@faithjerielmacauley3356 2 года назад
Thanks veryfor that good presentation.
@sights3103
@sights3103 3 года назад
who else got this as a English class assignment
@YVNG_SHAQUAN
@YVNG_SHAQUAN 3 года назад
I got in for a Life Orientation Project
@TamTam-bd5qw
@TamTam-bd5qw 3 года назад
Management class.
@the25thfan58
@the25thfan58 2 года назад
Health class
@NomsLoots
@NomsLoots 8 месяцев назад
@@YVNG_SHAQUANyou South African?
@YVNG_SHAQUAN
@YVNG_SHAQUAN 8 месяцев назад
@@NomsLoots yes I am
@LilacLioness98
@LilacLioness98 2 года назад
This was great and helpful 👍🏻❤️
@austinthaijam7009
@austinthaijam7009 3 года назад
helpful. thank you Dorothy
@foxy19681904
@foxy19681904 2 года назад
All this is well and good, but when your government puts guns in the hands of the population it is clearly not supporting conflict resolution by negotiation. It is clearly supporting violence as the next step after conflict occurs. The government as the acting parent of the country should be doing all it can to help its population to make good decisions by not giving its population guns and making it clear that violence is never the answer to conflict. Then knowledge like this TED Talk might mean something.
@sachinks229
@sachinks229 Год назад
Not everyone lives in America So it's still helpful And honestly I don't think guns is the reason It's just that people who can be easily provoked shouldn't have a gun in the first place Just like any other countries u can get a knife in pretty much everywhere it's deadly too But sure not as convenient but the root cause isn't the gun it's the mentality to not listen and run on the rail directly It happens in everywhere so no need to say that 5jis isn't useful this is highly useful where u can actually stop people
@foxy19681904
@foxy19681904 Год назад
@@sachinks229 That is what I am saying. The second amendments advice that guns and violence are the solution to a problem leads the population to use that same reasoning for any conflict or problem they have. Basically though "Guns don't kill people. People kill people. So don't give people guns.".
@shawnaT456
@shawnaT456 2 года назад
I wanted to do this with my partner but he thought it was stupid and basically the same as just hashing it out in the moment...
@lucian1607
@lucian1607 Год назад
Solid walkthrough. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!
@sukumarbarman6905
@sukumarbarman6905 4 года назад
সত্য সুন্দর প্রকৃতির শক্তি সৃষ্টির সেরা বীজ মন্ত্র জীবন তৈরির মহামূল্যবান সূত্র চিন্তা চেতনার বিকাশ সাধন।সব সত্য প্রকাশে স্বাধীনতা ইতিহাস সৃষ্টি সত্য প্রকাশে দশন শান্তি আলোচনা মূল্যবান সম্পদ অনুসন্ধানে কর্মকর্তা।
@mohamedismailmohamedazath6944
@mohamedismailmohamedazath6944 2 года назад
Nice points
@nathaliem9597
@nathaliem9597 3 года назад
Brilliant!
@willmen08
@willmen08 Год назад
What happened to the bungee jumping girl? How was that resolved? Wish she would have walked us through one situation instead of 3 different half stories.
@patchesohoulihan2009
@patchesohoulihan2009 5 месяцев назад
Is RU-vid just filtering out all the negative comments?
@ccwalker050
@ccwalker050 4 года назад
Nice! Very Nice!!
@Birdman117
@Birdman117 2 года назад
I agree with 95 percent of this
@varunbarma2067
@varunbarma2067 3 года назад
Nice
@k.8521
@k.8521 2 года назад
Lmao my teacher mad at me now the whole class hates me :')
@ianlondon2888
@ianlondon2888 Год назад
There is no where to go except court when a side has contempt for the other side.
@mikecamacho1934
@mikecamacho1934 2 года назад
Step one is actually, do you want to work it out lol
@mirandarandolph8240
@mirandarandolph8240 2 года назад
5:08 ain’t nobody about to do that
@JustinBurns-xw7cd
@JustinBurns-xw7cd 10 месяцев назад
This was uploaded on april 1st, therefore it must not be true
@heikika6078
@heikika6078 3 года назад
♥️
@vatsaj
@vatsaj Год назад
someone: its fine, but what you said is wrong speaker: i think you did not understand what I said someone: no you did not understand other than talking smooth ........conflict starts..............PhD gone to streets
@ЛізаСкрипник-ъ9ф
@ЛізаСкрипник-ъ9ф 2 года назад
Слава Україні! 🇺🇦)
@theviewschor919
@theviewschor919 2 года назад
Aur lalit.. Comment mat pdh
@br2266
@br2266 4 года назад
Speaking of energy, where is hers? lol nice speech though
@LiljanaWood
@LiljanaWood 4 года назад
Lol the speech was perfect
@OGAngie
@OGAngie 3 года назад
Calm and thoughtful energy is still energy.
@jameelahkelly995
@jameelahkelly995 2 года назад
The energy she means doesn’t actually mean fully charged and bouncing off walls. She just means what she says positive and negative energy.
@teodosiygeorgiev2966
@teodosiygeorgiev2966 2 года назад
Use me as dislike button
@Birdman117
@Birdman117 2 года назад
U lost me at give some time to allow emotions to settle, such a female comment
@zapatalasvegas
@zapatalasvegas Год назад
such a male response
@lalaheart76
@lalaheart76 Год назад
@@zapatalasvegas I concur
@thesandman8669
@thesandman8669 Год назад
@@zapatalasvegas @birdman5684 now that y’all have had some time for emotions to settle, let’s grab a glass of cold water and meditate before we move onto the next step
@pharmclare
@pharmclare 2 года назад
Great insights. Thank you 😊
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