6 Verbal Tricks To Make An Aggressive Person Sorry

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How To Shut Down Conversational Bullies
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We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in.
So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them.
1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap
2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale"
5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique
7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though
7:47 And visual imagery can also help
8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you
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@anthony_gaytano 4 года назад

RU-vid: How to avoid embarassing yourself in an argument "so you are saying that i embarrass myself in every argument??"

@gabrielbelmont1496 4 года назад

I know that I do

@salmansana3997 4 года назад

Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhh powerful one, for whoever understand it

@ThereIsNoSpoon678 4 года назад

This comment is the winner.

@morrishellgrn 4 года назад

I used too

@osamana7163 4 года назад

Nice one

@MUFC-nu7ie 4 года назад

Peterson: “What a clear, sunny day.” Newman: “So you’re saying clouds have no right to be here?”

@roye6961 4 года назад

she was just trying to make sure she understands whats hes implying, because Peterson's arguements most of the time werent consistent enough to serve the premise

@georgeisaak5321 4 года назад

hahahahahaahaha the best comment ever ...she is insane

@Tobyodd 4 года назад

@@roye6961 I can't tell whether or not you're joking.

@roye6961 4 года назад

@@Tobyodd average answer I would expect on this thread

@Kratezia 4 года назад

@@roye6961 How about answering then ?

@thomask4836 5 месяцев назад

I'm retired now. Workplace cultures can be very argumentative. I stumbled upon a book called The Gentle Art Of Verbal Self Defense. I read it and tried it. It worked so well that I lived by it. When I realized I was mastering the content, my stress level plummeted. Kudos for your skills!

@joen7xxx 5 месяцев назад

An excellent book

@saoirseblue5353 5 месяцев назад

Who is the author of the book?.

@LisaNC832 5 месяцев назад

@@saoirseblue5353Suzette Haden Elgin

@ibr1427 5 месяцев назад

@@saoirseblue5353Suzette Haden Elgin

@vedikashukla5591 5 месяцев назад

I will check this out.

@markcali626 7 месяцев назад

00:47 - Realise whats going on before its too late 1:54 the "so you're saying" trap 2:52 assuming the sale 5:35 Smash technique 7:12 Do not strawman the other persons ideas 7:44 Make sure the other person can understand you after you have understood their viewpoint or idea 8:40 Show them that they are already agreeing with you 10:37 Adress the emotional concern

@user-nv7wl2dq6v 6 месяцев назад

Classy...

@Mac-zl4po 5 месяцев назад

Why

@mal1cen1derland63 5 месяцев назад

I find these things do not always work. As in my experience even when a person clearly explain themselves the person twisting your words will continue to do so regardless and refuse to acknowledge that they misinterpreted. Many people have had the loss of reputations and jobs because of this sort of thing. It's not so simple as being cunning enough to make them realize their mistake. Some people just won't no matter what you do.

@saoirseblue5353 5 месяцев назад

Use the same technique......continue with your opinion until the end, firm.

@mal1cen1derland63 5 месяцев назад

@@saoirseblue5353 ok but just continuing the same method and arguing your point back and forth, what does that actually accomplish? If the other person refuses to acknowledge than there is no point. It will just go in circles with no end.

@wieb72 3 года назад

I love the statement someone made years ago. "People don't want to hear your opinion. They want their opinion to come out of your mouth."

@hees0009 3 года назад

That's basically most humans. Even myself. It's actually a survival technique to respond positively to those who support our ideology, while avoiding those who could present a threat. You might think we'd have moved on after thousands of years...

@ramoncotta1264 3 года назад

My tactic is to exaggerate, in a bombastic and exaggerated fashion, in the following way: "Oh my God! That's exactly right, boy you hit the nail right on the head, no doubt about it! It's like you're in my head or something! I mean WOW! You even got all the punctuation down with your inflection, and I have to hand it to you, wow, yup exactly down to the last molecule, a precise word for word rendition of not only what I said but what I meant by it, which by the way is exactly what I said. " Then I sit back beaming smugly at them because I called them a liar in a very sarcastic way. Nobody wants to argue with me anymore after that. Nasty, I know, but it has been several years since I realized there is no way to convert a fanatic so the best you can do is cut the interaction to a minimum and hope they die soon.

@hees0009 3 года назад

@airlockengage agreed.

@Camaink1 3 года назад

@@ramoncotta1264 that is radical bro!

@mikep9312 2 года назад

@@hees0009 That's just straight up confirmation bias though and doesn't save you at all from the ramifications of the Dunning-Kruger effect. You can be in danger of being manipulated and your confidence exploited before you even know it, you won't see it coming because you were so sure you were right and now you're too embarrassed to be wrong.

@cowboy4378 3 года назад

Peterson: “gotcha” Newman: “so you’re saying that you now own me.”

@CarolinaAnzures 3 года назад

😂

@Baron_Blue_Max 3 года назад

He DID own her

@Baron_Blue_Max 3 года назад

@Sirius Stark Al Ghul this comment popped up and before I recognized the thread, my initial thought was "what did I say now?"

@danielrodriguez9987 3 года назад

Lmaoooo

@lesterjones5278 3 года назад

@Sativa Rommola so what your saying is asia is incapable of engaging in underwater combat

@veltonmeade1057 4 месяца назад

Ten years ago, my office area had an older boss who had anger issues and was very manipulative, but on Friday’s he would walk by us and ask why we were still around at 3pm. I think he was aware of his short-comings and he tried to make up for them by letting us go early on Fridays. I read two book by a clinical psychologist that helped me to understand him and he never bothered me again emotionally after I read the book because I learned how to deal with him. The books are called “In Sheep’s Clothing” and “Character Disturbances”, by George Simon. Those books also help me these days with manipulative types, and instead of becoming angry, I deal with them professionally and grounded.

@vincentnnyc Месяц назад

Can you give me some example how you deal with your boss after you read those book? What did he say to you and what did you say back?

@veltonmeade1057 29 дней назад

@@vincentnnyc After I read the Character Disturbances” book, I began to realize that my boss had some personal issues that had nothing to do with me or my coworkers. They were deep-seated personal issues and that he was short-sighted and lacked good solid reasoning. I had also heard that he drank a lot of booze in the 1970s and was a bit of an alcoholic but had since stopped drinking many years before. I worked with him from 2008 to 2013. If this was true, he had that look on his face in which he just never could handle stress well at all. Once I understood this, he never bothered me again.

@PianomanMusic96 19 дней назад

This video is totally RUBBISH. It does not tell anyone anything. Designed to get people to look at you big paid "Course". THANK YOU @veltonmeade 1057 for the book suggestions. I have ordered.

@Eden639 5 месяцев назад

I really clapped for Jordan at the end pointing out how Katie has been questioning him, being aggressive, offensive and putting words in his mouth and how that shows her disagreeable position against him and that is exactly freedom of speech which he is all about. Good for Jordan!!! You proved she was doing what she is supposed to be against.

@lexistreet 2 месяца назад

This made me like him more. She was obnoxious. Not the feminist I want representing me.

@MattMcKennaM Месяц назад

I walked away from this interview, initially, thinking Jordan Peterson was the bully.

@heidiroo Месяц назад

Dr. Peterson is absolutely brilliant!!

@iambuhlockay8007 4 года назад

Jordan Peterson: “I’m an analyst and therapist.” Cathy Newman: “so what you’re saying is you’re an Analrapist?” Edit: I no longer care for Jordan Peterson.

@unknown-zg2bb 4 года назад

Stop stealing comments

@guppy0112 4 года назад

Brilliant! 🤣🤣👑

@angmmm6667 4 года назад

Alek Blaylock 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@yummygummy2133 4 года назад

Bruh 😂😂😂

@oregol93 4 года назад

@@Afs-g1clor cuz it's exactly same comment from original video

@johndevries7397 3 года назад

Jordan: "I like dogs" Kathy: "So you're saying that you hate cats?"

@bgmagma10R 3 года назад

Every liberal everywhere. Freakin nut cases

@emmamcgorrin2478 3 года назад

Lmfao

@spartan2906 3 года назад

Running or Jumping in excitement. "So you are trying your level best to make the life of the disabled person miserable. Don't you ? "

@edurom2111 3 года назад

@@spartan2906 haha on point

@WSlabb 3 года назад

@@bgmagma10R We'd need to see substantial evidence for that. Especially when you state "every". Not most, not many, every. Please show the evidence.

@blessedlife6771 8 месяцев назад

I get so offended easily and I can't handle extreme opinions that are different from me. Although a lot of people don't think that about me - I am very good at avoiding arguments as I hate engaging in them. But I wished I knew of ways where I can truly just stay calm, listen and let it out the other ear, genuinely and not just in appearance. I guess I kind of do, but there are triggers where I really just get pissed off and I can't seem to control/manage my anger. I never realized this about myself until recently. I want to get better.

@kathryngracey7993 4 месяца назад

Wow! I admire how you are evaluating your own ways of communicating and how to improve. I want to do that too. Thank you very much for sharing such a good example.

@markluni4234 4 месяца назад

A lot is about experience. Practice with a friend. Take a 'devil's advocate" position.

@Thankujp 2 месяца назад

Jordan is the man then. Start studying his work… you’ll never be the same again x

@georgiewatson8688 Месяц назад

Self-awareness is the first step love so well done for noticing and being brave enough to express your "flaws", however you could just accept it of yourself, accepting the dark side of your psyche. Afterall, not one person that has ever lived has been anywhere near a perfect human. Even stoic philosophy has its downsides/detractors. But i will say it might be an idea to look into your childhood/youth to understand why certain topics trigger you and start there. Good luck 😊

@flowerbloom5782 Месяц назад

I understand and especially internet culture has shown our habit of wanting to be right. But we keep not knowing how to communicate and listen which just does a disservice in grasping ideas. I notice this in myself too. Especially if I feel like my ego gets in the way. I feel like visualization a common goal or a win and win situation even if the person is disrespectful cause it’s not about them. It’s about being able to debate and stay on topic. I think we end up creating unconscious strawman when we fixate on beating the other person.

@MrsAngelala 6 месяцев назад

TOTALLY agree with the relaxed posture. I once asked for a meeting with a priest who attacked me in an email, I don't know who taught him it was okay to address anyone that way, but it was ridiculous. Got to the meeting to find he had planned an attempted "gotcha" for me with the Vicar General and deacon. God bless and help them all. I can't do it naturally, but I was 35 weeks pregnant at the time in a high-risk pregnancy, and the Holy Spirit apparently decided enough was enough - because I spent the entire hour unconcerned, leaning back in my chair, sometimes with my hands behind my head, totally relaxed, even while this dude was *repeatedly jumping out of his chair and yelling at me.* He was absolutely stymied and his "gotcha" failed miserably. Keep your body relaxed. Out of control bullies just don't know what to do with it!

@eileensullivan549 6 месяцев назад

Would you tell us what the meeting was about?

@MrsAngelala 6 месяцев назад

@@eileensullivan549 Thank you for asking, but no. Telling their false accusations only spreads them further. The reason I asked for a meeting? Because when somebody you have to deal with sends an out of control email, you have to get out from behind the computer and make a face-to-face connection. Unbelievable as it might sound, my motive was just Gospel goodwill. By the time I learned I had walked into a malicious setup, the Holy Spirit had already planted himself in front of me; I was completely, totally, and absolutely protected, to the point where I was even relaxed. Praised be Jesus Christ, now and forever! Please pray for that priest and deacon. And thanks for your question, because it's been a while and it was a nudge for me to pray for them today.

@kp2861 5 месяцев назад

@@eileensullivan549 Im wondering too lmao wtf is that setting

@MichaelMattison 5 месяцев назад

👍

@saoirseblue5353 5 месяцев назад

👏👌

@s0nnyburnett 6 лет назад

Bad idea to play mind games with a psychology professor.

@dorianphilotheates3769 6 лет назад

Equally bad to play psychological games with a mind professor.

@IGamingStation 5 лет назад

Like challenging the Flash to a game of tag, lmao.

@jefftalbotmusic 5 лет назад

@@dorianphilotheates3769 Equally bad to mind a psychological play with a game professor

@PhilippeLarcher 5 лет назад

probably not an idea, more of an habit and intuitive behaviours (just learned what's usually effective by intuitive trial and error over years and got into the habit of practicing it)

@vanleeuwenhoek 5 лет назад

so it's like trying to make a medical doctor sick?

@TharaMesseroux1 5 лет назад

Peterson: "You look great today". Interviewer: " So, you're saying that I was ugly yesterday?"

@JDMilitaria 5 лет назад

gold

@prapok4901 5 лет назад

Girls are girls😴

@lalili1358 5 лет назад

Sometimes they twist your words

@mjkrh 5 лет назад

"YES"

@Yourmomazz 5 лет назад

Interviewer: "Are you religious" Peterson: "Depends on what you mean by religious" Interviewer: "Do you believe in the Bible" Peterson: "Depends on what you mean by the Bible" Interviewer: "Are you a man capable of answering questions" Peterson: "Depends on what you mean about man, capable, answering and questions" Yup. You Peterson fanbois love to make fun of women like pathetic incels. Yet your hero is equally pathetic as the women you attack.

@conniecahoon8549 8 месяцев назад

"Ha! Gotcha!" was perfect. It brought an air of levity to the stifling moment of Kathy's stuporous stammer. After enduring her hostility throughout the interview, it was fitting for Jordan to gracefully hold her at the tip of his skilful sword.

@MBB9394 18 дней назад

To her credit, she admitted that he won that party.

@bencochrane6112 6 месяцев назад

That Gotcha moment was a turning point for so many people. Whilst you could argue it wasn't the most constructive thing to do, in terms of exposing the combative and self-righteous media for the bullies they've become, or perhaps were all along, it was very much needed. Of course... we might be living in a very different world if Dr. Peterson had then spent the next 20 minutes winning over Newman. Seeing one of their own turned on such a visible scale might have brought a lot of people back from the barricades. But then again, maybe it wouldn't have had the exposure it did without the Gotcha moment. Who knows. Lets go play some games.

@williambarnes5023 28 дней назад

The downside to converting a traitor to your team is that now the traitor is on your team. In the words of TF2: "Spy... is not OUR Spy!"

@jonsnow2689 5 лет назад

"Sure is nice out today." "So you're denying climate change?"

@sadiabanu2 5 лет назад

You know nothing Jon snow.

@OphiuchiChannel 5 лет назад

Lol. The contard fallacy.

@editbautista9488 5 лет назад

Sadia Banu Omg😂👌👏

@RM-56 5 лет назад

I dont think I have ever heard of that

@Viriyascybin 5 лет назад

TheBattleNetWork It's a joke.

@Longspout15 3 года назад

Him saying “gotcha” actually helped her. The awkward silence would have been much much worse for her.

@pz4891 3 года назад

Fact

@Wafelwaffel 3 года назад

Agree

@bakerzane3055 3 года назад

But not the right move

@agustinloera9026 3 года назад

Great point

@lehmanndj 3 года назад

So once again, he was being nice.

@michaelmontoya3943 4 месяца назад

Personally, I really appreciate you for taking the time to analyze a discussion and then pass it on so others might learn something from it. I know I certainly did. I have been a big JP fan for a long time because of his ability to truly listen to what the other person is saying and at the same time, dissecting their words and phrases to spot any sort of attempts to lure him into responding with something he doesn't want to say or something he doesn't agree with. He is truly one of the greatest minds of the modern age.

@MattMcKennaM Месяц назад

But he's actually a bully... People think he's right just because he can argue better, whether he's true or not

@evelynniemeyer1119 7 дней назад

@@MattMcKennaM He is not respectless to people. Everyone has time to talk. This is not bullying people.

@Velshard 8 месяцев назад

You can't reason with people that hate you.

@haroldgoodman130 3 года назад

He is a clinical psychologist with years of experience dealing with angry, self righteous people like the interviewer.

@takaw.d8486 3 года назад

in otherwords this may have been her show, but it was his episode

@emmanueledumuomongole5447 3 года назад

@@takaw.d8486 yes, 😂😂😂

@wasabi.2839 3 года назад

Let's add the fact that he have a PHD in Clinical Psychologist, and was a Post Doctoral researcher (in the same matter) for 3 more years, and been the author and co-author of more of 100 academic researches.

@takaw.d8486 3 года назад

@@wasabi.2839 yep all of that up against some angry whining baby that can only say a few words "g-g-gu gu-so youre saying that-"

@Sage3356 3 года назад

Oooh that's why he's so good with words, he gets under people's skin with cheap tricks too by begin a psicologist

@deadmonsterhr7209 3 года назад

Jesus christ i barely talk properly, now i have to talk like im playing chess...

@TodMusicOfficial 3 года назад

Lol

@thepsychicpeach8425 3 года назад

😂😂

@dylangaeta6462 3 года назад

Four player, three leveled holo star wars chess.

@thalassaer4137 3 года назад

@NO NAME haha no hail satan

@elvishabonimana8796 3 года назад

Smart comment, made me think of it in another way

@FenLupimo 8 месяцев назад

Damn, seeing this video makes me feel funny, because I was arguing with someone who just smashes so many things for me to respond, its basically impossible to talk with those people who just want to win over you rather than talk about the actual reason of why things are the way they are... great video overall!

@callen8908 5 месяцев назад

Another trick I’ve heard people try is to wildly reframe the issue in an attempt to frame out important aspects of the discussion, as if they’re not relevant. My response is, “That question ignores ”

@sharsSafeSpace 3 года назад

This lady doesn’t even want him to talk. She just wants to hear her own voice

@ironcrosstrainingltd6482 3 года назад

Exactly

@somebloke13 3 года назад

She's no lady...

@MysticalGB 3 года назад

She is womansplaining xD

@robofistsrevenge3288 3 года назад

In my experience, the people who talk over you refuse to listen because they're terrified of the fact that you may be right and they may be wrong. That terror manifests in frantic anger, which is why ignorant people are so frustrating to talk with.

@hagartm 3 года назад

This video is montaged in a way that makes her seem like a bully (if I had to decide whether she really was or not, I'd say she was), but we lack context. The cuts are way too short.

@DanielMartinez-nw1pn 3 года назад

"How to avoid embarrassing yourself". 1) Don't be Cathy Newman

@mikegrigg11 2 года назад

Damn, that's accurate !!

@AA_04 2 года назад

2)Don't speak what the media feeds you

@rrmark6294 2 года назад

Classic 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@nogoodname8133 2 года назад

1) don't be a communist/socialist...

@kennedymungai 2 года назад

If she was interviewing Kim Jong Un, I'm pretty sure you'd think she is doing a damn good job. In my eyes, she did her work splendidly. In normal conversation however, she'd be a huge red flag giving off narcissistic vibes

@markevans2047 5 месяцев назад

All good points. To simplify, don't let a lie pass. Identity it, call it out, counter it.

@mrkbwyr6079 9 месяцев назад

I loved that episode ! I get where and what the points are but effectively useing when your caught off guard is insanely hard ! But I personally useing 1-2 things in 1 convo , can alter things alot ! The last 2 weeks I had to listen to and sort out 2 arguements and catch another person at work bending rules that piss everyone off . Being able to repeat thier point , and request more detail before responding changes how people approach you . If they just tossing words at you won't work then they have to prepare thier defense , which can curb the activity . Also repeating thier words back buys you time to find inconsistancey .

@alanamaharaj 3 года назад

Jordan: I..... Cathy: So you're saying you're the only one?

@danielbuxton205 3 года назад

hahaha! That was a good one Alana.

@pureintellectualbeing3575 3 года назад

Good one Alana

@RiptoGakt 3 года назад

This. I had witnessed a classmate (who was actually a real b!$%# under the surface, which I clued into long before) go about doing exactly what this woman did to another classmate with whom I was on friendly terms with. This was in college, and the professor for that class had actually gone to the effort to get them to explain to each other clearly exactly what they were saying. Too bad the girl went and spread bull about her behind her back a day later in another class, all because she was an insecure piece of work (I pity her boyfriend, though). I really hate when people pull stuff like this because they're essentially putting words in your mouth that you didn't say just to get under your skin. It's one of the reasons *why* I absolutely dislike arguing with people, especially if they're never going to admit that they're the ones who are full of it.

@ally-nb1cx 3 года назад

we almost have the same name!

@costarica3014 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂

@uafc1 4 года назад

Peterson: "Is nice to see you" Interviewer: "So you are saying is ugly to see every other woman?"

@thegreath.sapiensapien6907 4 года назад

CATHY YOUR SAYING ABOUT 50 TIMES

@ThoughtinFlight 4 года назад

Tbh most woman do this

@JustTheColemans 4 года назад

😂

@Polones12 4 года назад

Lol

@Sigurther 4 года назад

I think that's the most telling thing about this 'interview'. Every question she asked of him was just a warped and twisted regurgitation of a valid point he'd made that she simply couldn't accept or understand. It was't so much an interview as a hit piece. You could tell in the way that she shotgunned questions she was reading from her tablet that she didn't care about answers, merely wanted to hurl accusations at him.

@sinoverlord409 4 месяца назад

The key to being aggressive is appearing passive all the time. Just like telling a lie all the time no one will believe you when you tell the truth. Same with aggression if you're angry all the time people usually know you're a coward that is afraid. That's why the silent ones are the deadliest

@zora2779 7 месяцев назад

If the driving motivation of your dialogue in a given argument or conversation is to seek the objective Truth, then these things come much more naturally. Knowing your values inside and out, as well as knowing the truth you represent fully is vital before any arguing is to occur, if you don't I guess you are more likely to lose an argument against someone who would critique something you believe yet know nothing about. Also, remaining grounded to your beliefs real-time allows you to weave your way out of these situations in which people may try to pin you down, you always have that Home-base which you can return to in order to brush off claims that people may place on you. I personally also think this is a much better way to approach these sort of discussions as I believe people may cling too much onto pre-rehearsed responses and when pinned down by these sorts of people they could get stuck, or say something which doesn't exactly support their point.

@leonardogrecolozano4100 3 года назад

Jordan: breathes Interviewer: So you're disrespecting dead people

@blondegiraffe2023 3 года назад

😂😂

@xchalibur77 3 года назад

This has gone "a bit" to far...

@Cassiellynn 3 года назад

😂 😂 😂 Like seriously

@amanijm746 3 года назад

Ha haha hahaha Haa... This comment nearly killed me!

@T.Harry79 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@Aschref 8 месяцев назад

The "Gotcha" phrase is key to establish dominance and awareness of the situation, to let you interlocutor know that you cannot be fooled or manipulated, you know how to play your cards right!

@fen0000 6 месяцев назад

If someone is aggressively questioning me or misquoting me I like to question them, e.g. 'what exactly do you think I said?' or 'what do you think I meant by that?' They often don't really know or can't put it into logical words and the attack is defused. A question in return can be the most effective way of responding.

@ThisHandleFeatureIsStupid 5 лет назад

Jordan: **inhales in preparation to speak** Cathy: "SO YOU'RE SAYING..."

@wokecults 5 лет назад

and the winner is... :-)

@IR240474 5 лет назад

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL - This is the best one!!

@Smiley_Face0 5 лет назад

Level asian

@fabooshka 4 года назад

So you think you have more right to breathe oxygen than women

@Denyshowe 4 года назад

@@fabooshka Why, yes. Yes I do.

@ravindupabasara3016 3 года назад

Jordan: "YES" Kathy: "So you're saying NO?"

@arnoldhorton8115 2 года назад

Jordan: "NO" Kathy: exactly

@sankalp2520 2 года назад

Kathy every 10.0 seconds: "So you're saying..." _Proceeds to say something which he never said._

@ravindupabasara3016 2 года назад

@@sankalp2520 😂😂😂broo😂

@ravindupabasara3016 2 года назад

@stefano Greco H. thnx mate😘😂

@uncleJuancho 2 года назад

Laugh really hard with this one 🤣🤣

@trudyhopkins4049 7 месяцев назад

She was clearly predatory and underhanded while he fearlessly and skillfully responded to the verbal fencing match like a pro finally delivering a grand slam victory play. Satisfying karma to watch her left speechless and defeated and worth watching again. Thank you for sharing the valuable demonstration and key narrative.

@Noone73902 5 дней назад

I LOVE that you bring up that saying “gotcha” was a negative move, because it puts them down rather than bringing them to your side. To be mature means not kicking people when they are down, and always having integrity.

@richardbartholomew542 4 года назад

Peterson: sips water Newman: ‘So you’re saying we should let Africa die of thirst?’

@matthewadejumo9397 4 года назад

This is a bad take.

@yashim08 4 года назад

@@matthewadejumo9397 that's the joke

@sludgerat666 4 года назад

@@yashim08 he was making a joke as well

@grinnifer 4 года назад

LOL

@crazycatladyinc9191 4 года назад

He doesn't fall into the "we as a collective" game. There are plenty of groups and individuals working on behalf of Africa.

@wisdom10able 2 года назад

Jordan: I haven't had my lunch. Cathy: So you're saying I should make you a sandwich.

@septicalfrogs 2 года назад

😂

@trumanfenwick8409 2 года назад

Yes

@vishnu5466 2 года назад

Hey, this is a copied comment

@MIHMediaInc 2 года назад

Paranoia can do that to a person turning every simple sentence into supposed threat 😅

@thesupreme8062 2 года назад

Yes

@dorothyedwards7225 7 месяцев назад

This is a great video. Thank you for the breakdown of the inserted video.

@ddkarth 5 месяцев назад

watching this made me realize just how futile it is to be an unnecessarily aggressive debater. makes me wanna be more mindful of how i articulate myself in future

@vishwajeetohal9137 5 месяцев назад

I wouldn't say it's futile. In fact, I think being aggressive can be effective. Not necessarily very good, but effective. Especially against someone who isn't as smart as Jordan Peterson. 😂😂

@vampsekai 3 месяца назад

It is necessary to be able to be an agressive debater AND know how to deal with one yourself. Of course there are times you shouldn't be aggressive, but having all the skills under your belt.

@yj5172 5 лет назад

Peterson: "Hi" Interviewer: "So you're assuming I can speak English?"

@sininenblue9161 5 лет назад

The north is just lost Polar bears, seals, ice, water, a pole, it's a MESS

@shantanusingh5320 5 лет назад

Peterson: I am actually right though.

@apricotmadness4850 5 лет назад

PenisMcWhirtar How is Autism a sign of being lost?

@kierstanfaulks 5 лет назад

@*Black *Maple* shutup snowflake

@gemmaster9369 5 лет назад

Peterson: ohhh, so you really like Dogs??? Interviewer: oh Yeees. Peterson: so you agree that the Cats should be all killed?!!!!

@adamstaszewski9235 3 года назад

Jordan declaring, "gotcha" was actually a gracious way of breaking the tension by lightening it up a bit. He could have annihilated her and let her stew in her embarrassment.

@chiselcheswick5673 3 года назад

Great point. He pulled her out of a hole there i thought.

@Jayako12 3 года назад

He actually felt bad about not being able to refrain himself from saying that. He has explained several times that there he lost the opportunity to have an actual intellectual conversation based on that topic. He could have redirected the "debate" to what he pursues, logical expositions. Instead he himself admitted later that he lost his temper there and with it, the gateway to completely change the discussion.

@howielowis458 3 года назад

@@Jayako12 i really doubt that this conversation actually could have turned into an honest, intellectual debate. Not under these circumstances. Even if she started to understand and maybe even agree to what he was saying, which to an extent i think she started to do at that very moment, there is no way she would have abandoned her agenda while being on live TV. In a private conversation? Possibly, but not in this situation.

@wxxcable 3 года назад

Agreed. He’s absolutely a gentleman

@brunovaldez7986 3 года назад

Excellent point

@calebvallevand2824 5 месяцев назад

Nice! Really interesting. Thanks for the perspective, and helping folx uncover presuppositions in others' language. Just beginning my study of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) and learning to spot presuppositions among other "violations" in people's language. Nicely done here.

@magnus1383 6 месяцев назад

My sister used the "so you are saying..." method without the lead up, which did indeed piss me off. I just left though, so she was stuck being mad on her own. I didn't have the ability to salvage that anymore after how quickly she decided I was an enemy. I feel like she genuinely just did the most bad faith interpretation of me not liking something she did and saying so, so hopefully she moved from her usual cluelessness to actually thinking for once. She also did the common putting someone on the spot and demanding examples for a simple statement. Escalation seems to be her talent and it's getting hard to not let it rub off.

@elsabeleroux7896 3 месяца назад

I know exactly what you're talking about.

@ramonmaximiliano3557 3 года назад

Jordan: uh... this conversation is getting annoying Cathy: So you're saying talking with women is annoying

@SSJfraz 3 года назад

Yes.... as with all women.

@counsela9240 3 года назад

lol

@Amir-tv4nn 2 года назад

Name one person in this world who wants to talk to her? I bet she got divorced after this interview lol and she should. This woman needs mental help asap

@ryangamerguruji7500 Год назад

Yes

@stevemiller123 3 года назад

The level of patience Peterson has is just out of this world.

@zekehatcher2196 3 года назад

Yeah, when i argue with people, Ibget unpatient that they wont realize that they're wrong, or that im right, and they just keep babbling ao that they can somehow make themselves right, or make me wrong

@woutervanr 3 года назад

It's just common sence. He knows how visably getting angry makes you look and as psychology professor he knows exactly how anger works.

@replevideo6096 3 года назад

It really gives you the upper hand if you are laid back and patient when the other person is attacking you. It wrong foots them because they wanted to make you angry and it doesn't work. I had a boss do that when I was representing another worker's interest. I just sat back patiently and let him vent his anger until he ran out of steam. Then I calmly asked him if we could discuss the subject now he had got that off his chest. Needless to say I walked out of that room with everything I went in there to get, and the worker was delighted that I had won for him. If you lose your rag, you are going to lose the argument, and that boss knew that. So did Cathy Newman. If Jordan had lost his rag at any moment she would have made mincemeat out of him.

@catenaa4594 3 года назад

Yes being a woman myself I have to agree and I also would have to be tied to the chair!

@Adiudicium-1776 3 года назад

I could not agree more! I so wish I had his level of patience!

@user-gy6vq3gf9q 7 месяцев назад

Top analysis and explication! Thank you!

@mariablume1967 6 месяцев назад

It is very much about not being offended. Stay calm - let the person talk as he or she wants - find out if you want to use time and energy to respond. They will then discover, that they are not that important to you, when they behave like that😘

@Chamieiniibet 5 лет назад

I think that "gotcha" was intended to be more like ice-breaking, not humiliating. Kinda "stop attacking, let's laugh this off".

@lzzrdgrrl7379 5 лет назад

@John Galt But she did save her position by a strategy I'd call, 'taking the hit. She's a bit stronger by admitting she's taken damage and that allow you to like her a little bit......'>.......

@a.wilson4809 5 лет назад

Agreed. It contrasted so sharply in tone with the rest of the interview that it made him come across as a lot less combative. He gave her an exit out of a tough situation where his silence could have just forced her to change the subject or apologise for making him feel uncomfortable.

@tkyk4893 5 лет назад

I mean at the end of the day they're both professionals and should look out for each other every now and then despite their different views. I think Jordan momentarily kinda felt that empathy given it is her show. It would've been incredibly awkward if they both just kept silent while she takes the blow and tries to stutter her way back in. Props to Jordan for recognising that.

@wtfhowbizarre1946 4 года назад

If they'd stop hacking my phone that'd be great. They're damned malicious with hacking. who are they?

@kcis5940 4 года назад

I felt like that too

@dodieodie498 3 года назад

Jordan knows himself and he trusts to logic. That makes him comfortable in his own skin. He also has the patience of a saint.

@emmanuellelarocque9440 3 года назад

I always thought: people that won't let you talk, will twist your words ect, don't actually believe in their own arguments. Peterson knows that he's right so he'll just let his interlocutors talk until they imminently contradict themselves.

@dodieodie498 3 года назад

@@emmanuellelarocque9440 The narrator is right....it's conversational bullying. Sometimes overt, but often sneaky or veiled. They aren't there to listen to your point of view or learn something. It's like a battle for them. I see so much of that in RU-vid comments. I think most of us just react with anger and maybe get flustered and deny whatever accusation is being thrown. Jordan is very good at not allowing people to get a rise out of him. Instead, you can usually see them getting annoyed. It's very enjoyable to watch.

@nexpro6118 2 года назад

Jordan stays calm the majority of the time because he knows that he has stats and research to back his opinion. Which is why in all of his interviews and debates, he always asks the other person to present the evidence and they rarely ever do

@dodieodie498 2 года назад

@@nexpro6118 I think he has a sort of confidence in what he is saying because he has already thought it all over very thoroughly at some point. His business seems to be thinking and analyzing and trying to come to grips with how things are connected and how they work. And it is also instruction and enabling others to understand, which equips him to defend what he says. Even so, he will pause and consider, in case there are other possibilities, before he responds. The people he debates are seldom so prepared.

@nexpro6118 2 года назад

@@dodieodie498 very well said...and with that said, I think most people who debate with feelings and the sense of having a higher morally superiority just personally attack the other person because he and or she cannot rely on facts and stats.

@therandomnessnetwork1658 7 месяцев назад

So i was in court being grilled by the defense attorney, I was the only witness to the crime in question, I kept getting hit with the so you're saying thing repeatedly on stuff thats not true, it was kinda funny because i could almost feel him getting more and more frustrated every time i told him no and reitterated my actual point, these techniques 💯 work

@shirleyac12 5 месяцев назад

Well done .

@betqpublic9901 4 месяца назад

I had a head rn who would give me horrendous assignments then keep asking me if I was done Other rns started jumping in helping out knowing it was impossible to be done on time. Then I realized she just wanted to make me squirm . So I stopped explaining and just agreed with her. Your absolutely right , I should have had all my am care , categorizations , dressings and leg wraps on three by 10. She knew I didn't agree with her but by not making groveling or making excuses she had nowhere to go. She stopped doing it to me and shortly thereafter one of the other rns asked me how I got her to stop

@audiotap8332 6 лет назад

"It's been rather uncomfortable." That's an amazing line.

@Sweatykeyboard 6 лет назад

Followed by the 2 seconds long frowns face, followed by the smile, hahaha

@jeremywilson15147 6 лет назад

The change in body language really drove it home for sure.

@alfredgomez3906 6 лет назад

The smile originates at the upper lip area. It’s almost like a scowl. It says “I can’t stand you but I’m still going to be civil “. His smile is the most overt action to contempt for the interviewer.

@bayareajokester9456 6 лет назад

Peterson: "I like cats". Interviewer: "so you are saying that we should kill dogs"?

@mattbouler1439 6 лет назад

Abyssinia Empire hahahaha yep

@makeshiftplayer 6 лет назад

Abyssinia Empire politics in a nutshell

@Bubbles99718 6 лет назад

If u reversed that I would agree with it.

@CitizenAgim 6 лет назад

that sums it up

@nickdipaolofan5948 6 лет назад

Bingo!!! Peterson: Womens individual choices effect how much money they make Interviewer: So you are saying that you hate women and will actively try to keep them down financially and eliminate women's personal choices...................

@bradschneider1955 8 месяцев назад

Very nice. Thank you.

@user-uo3pb3rr4f 7 месяцев назад

not the first time ive seen peeterson handle these tactics, but your slowing it, annotating , and analysing is very edifying. thanks much

@steveelliott77 4 года назад

The “gotcha” was the best part of the conversation. Jordan showed he can keep his cool, be persuasive and beat her at her own game. The trifecta.

@nicolab2075 4 года назад

I thought the gotcha was actually him being very kind and helping her out of a floundering silence by making a joke of it. That he had indeed won the point was obvious to all, no need to do the gotcha on that. Does anyone agree with me on this?

@RandomCarrot2806 4 года назад

I think I agree with you. I know Jordan said that he regretted saying it because he thinks that if he hadn't he could have moved the discussion into something productive instead of it going back into being adversarial but as you say, the gotcha released the tension of her becoming speechless after she realized she wasn't making sense. It's hard to know what could have been if Jordan had let it go to an awkward silence while she regrouped.

@nicolab2075 4 года назад

@@RandomCarrot2806 That's interesting. Although her style was very confrontational, I'm not sure she'd have changed it. She didn't seem well prepared for his academic style, I suppose she's used to interviewing politicians, who run a mile if a journalist hints that they're being anti feminist

@tressmcdonagh9253 4 года назад

Go home girl twisted a twelve year old knows better love you Jordan her intellect was zero

@realm23x73 4 года назад

@@nicolab2075 excellent point. And edit, I definitely agree he's not usually ever as interested in owning anyone as others are, which is the point of the guy making the video I'm sure.

@thebookwasbetter3650 3 года назад

I liked it when he said "it was nice talking to you" at the end of the interview. The only untrue thing he said.

@TheFirstManticore 3 года назад

Well, it may have been uncomfortable, but for Peterson, that kind of conversation adds to his total understanding of humanity, so he is still glad that it happened.

@bobsapsford7526 3 года назад

Should of said nice of you talking at me.

@lesp315 3 года назад

He simply enjoyed toying with her and he let her know. I wish to be at his level. Maybe next life.

@RyaKey 3 года назад

I'm with Manticore on this one. The response could have been genuine, cause both of them left with an experience.

@dansanchez9251 3 года назад

I think Cathy got hot for the man

@m.d.d.3051 5 месяцев назад

Excellent video. Being someone who enjoys "uncomfortable" conversations/debate/discussions with those who don't agree with me, I've found that sometimes it just isn't worth trying to gain someone's respect. I will almost always start off from that basis - respect given will result in respect back - but I've found that with some people it doesn't matter. You can show them areas of agreement all day long, but their emotions will not allow them to recognize it. For as much of a supposedly reason driven world we supposedly inhabit, I have found emotions rule the day far more often than reason does. The phrase, "one cannot argue with emotion" comes to mind in these instances. Jordan's "gotcha" remark conveyed that perfectly. Kathy was EMOTIONALLY attached with her disagreement with Peterson. He disarmed her emotions by using logic to corner those emotions. Once cornered, she's embarrassed and wants to be let off the hook. He didn't do anything wrong by using that technique, because oftentimes when I'm watching him in one of these confrontational interviews, I don't ever see him trying to convince the interviewer. He's using the interviewer to illustrate the emotions behind their arguments to the audience.

@kinderleichtlerneneasypeas6885 5 месяцев назад

That' s really true...

@mal1cen1derland63 5 месяцев назад

In my experience even when one clarifies themselves the person twisting words will refuse to acknowledge it and continue the accusations out of insecurity! being defensive instead and wanting revenge which could result in the destruction of reputation, jobs, relationships ect. Due to my experiences the first time someone twists my words or gaslights I see them as a threat with the potential to destroy me and they get NO second chances! That's the end of it! Except with my mom and I really got work on that.

@dfsilversurfer 28 дней назад

exactly . after years of not standing up for myself by thinking i know the truth who cares what they believe iv suddenly realized that no one even my mum knows who i am. iv tried talking to her but to correct her with facts is like a personal attack or she uses against me or twists it meaning , to where i come out thinking i must be talking a different language so i clarify simplfy but they dont hear you and totally miss the point accusing me of stuff . So i give up. ... and then i get the ' you never talk to me ' Mothers! u cant win

@Grimblenork 2 года назад

I always felt the moment he said "gotcha" was more to spare her from the humiliating silence he had placed her in

@machuverigjummai4484 2 года назад

It's true

@nathanielfleku3416 2 года назад

I agree

@fyo1903 2 года назад

Indeed.

@AnkitSingh-cd7tw 2 года назад

like the way how this comment is worded in

@danzed2058 2 года назад

Exactly right !! Cos, you hear the awkward silence and then you're thinking, 'someone help here'...and than the true knight in armour Peterson comes to this woman's aide.

@kelvinrodriguezjr2184 3 года назад

"Winning" an argument is easy. Changing someone's mind is another story.

@asharnk 2 года назад

Do you think Kathy is of the kind whose mind you can change? Lol

@sonicpoot5692 2 года назад

Nope

@bluemcdaniel99 2 года назад

Then you gotta wonder is it worth that.

$@ceoofracism2178$

@ceoofracism2178 2 года назад

That is what free speech is about... I can silence one person but that doesn't mean that i won... I just silenced that person... I didn't actually won...

@nexpro6118 2 года назад

Winning an argument or debate is subjective. Each person will always say that they won the debate. Majority of people want there personal views and beliefs to just be fact without evidence.

@billiweishuhn4244 2 месяца назад

Wow!! I love the way you picked apart this interview. I learned a lot and I'm going to watched another of your clips.

@chadkent1241 8 месяцев назад

Great breakdown. Excellent

@gibbonbasher8171 4 года назад

Peterson: *takes a bite out of a sandwich* Newman: “So you’re saying Hitler should be resurrected?”

@mydickisunbelievablysmallb8132 4 года назад

*Laughs in sandwich*

@AnnabellaRedwood 4 года назад

That was outstanding. Well done you! 😀

@thedarkestowl4224 4 года назад

Yes. He should be. Only for the purpose of living alone with Newman on a deserted island. She has worked hard for it.

@Lovinia1 4 года назад

Uncle: *LUMBAGO* “So your saying the whole lemoyne chapter Is an unpleasant waste of time”

@brandonxiongd7031 4 года назад

Oscar Rasmussen 😂😂🤣

@adonisparts1343 4 года назад

I'm starting to think this was less of an "interview" and more of an interrogation.

@diatom333 3 года назад

just an attack on him really

@and1smax 3 года назад

@@diatom333 and a horribly backfired one

@harryshome4588 3 года назад

Stargate fan I see 👀

@Shungabali 3 года назад

and a very agressive one by the way

@sophiesjourney1551 3 года назад

I'm a journalist and I believe this is a very bad piece of journalism. The woman is clearly biased and is constantly attacking him.

@BestURLShortenerBioPageQRCode 7 месяцев назад

Thanks for the video. It's really useful in everyday life!

@janinebjorkman5540 4 месяца назад

Thank you for a terrific analysis and prioritising the attempt to have an honest constructive discussion, finding common ground, rather than triumph over the other person

@steedandersen 3 года назад

He deserved that "Gotcha" after tolerating her attacks.

@tommyodonovan3883 3 года назад

That was SWEET.

@aqua3418 3 года назад

He may have deserved it, but doing the same thing the other person does is never the right move when it comes to winning anyone over. It only is on their same level - humiliating and demoralizing them. It wasn't in good taste, but everyone makes mistakes. Overall, he still did an excellent job - certainly much better than many others do.

@CHIEF__ 3 года назад

I saw it as more of an ironic "gotcha" like he wasn't trying to do that, but he's happy he got her to see his side without belittling her. If he could've taken control of the interview back right there and said something like how he didn't actually want to have a "gotcha" moment, and he's happy she's seeing his side, it would've made him out to have taken the high road and still beat her.

@tommyodonovan3883 3 года назад

@@CHIEF__ Jordan was playing with her. He has treated 100's of women the carbon copy of *Katty,* the most telling part of the whole interview was when JP said; "I suspect that your unpleasantness has served YOU very well over the years" Katty's rep; "Yes.... YES it has in fact" JP was gentle with her, because he knows just how mentally fragile she truly IS.

@daquan99999 3 года назад

@@aqua3418 If I were Jordan, I don't want to win that woman over. So Gotcha all the way.

@DjShadowsound265 5 лет назад

Peterson: Good Bye Interviewer: so you're saying I asked you to leave?

@dannysmith697 5 лет назад

Ahahahaha

@ingenious5480 5 лет назад

😆

@wtfhowbizarre1946 4 года назад

Who is doing an interview？And what for？ This video is about How to keep your cool in an argument.

@edwintsang920 4 года назад

Andrew Dembegiotis best one yet

@tomaszkowalski7867 4 года назад

You don't even need to say anything. You are joging. So, you try to tell me I'm to fat and I need to lose weight?!

@CoachTMAC 5 месяцев назад

Five years ago ...... life has flown by. This video popped up again in my recommendations. I still like it as much as the first time. 👍👍

@angelicasoup638 5 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for uploading this video. I need to watch over and over and I can deal with whoever attacking me.

@marc4199 4 года назад

Notice how she asks a question, then talks over him when he tries to answer.

@Andy-ud1gd 4 года назад

Yes, but only in the entire interview.

@gordonlawrence1448 4 года назад

She is absolutely renowned for doing that as are most feminists as quite often they don't want to hear the answer as it will not fit with their agenda.

@robinkoci7227 4 года назад

My teacher does that as well, when were having an argument

@KKBash 4 года назад

@@robinkoci7227 That's just sad. If you are clearly wrong, it will come out in discussion. They seem afraid to be proven wrong. Show this to them. Re-evaluate your tactics. What you're doing makes your position look less correct because you're attempting to shut someone else out of the conversation, pre-emptively. Take a moment and THINK.

@lydia6379 4 года назад

That's exactly what my mom does...

@NextTimeTech 6 лет назад

This felt like a verbal game of chess

@TheChazz1225 6 лет назад

NextTimeTech but Cathy's playing with checkers

@raidthanfl 6 лет назад

It’s like a grand master vs a 3 year old

@AppleJuicePacks 6 лет назад

only if the players were magnus carlsen vs a toddler, im not trying to be offensive towards her but thats what it feels like.

@davidunoi7099 6 лет назад

it was more like a grandmaster teaching a first timer. "This? This is called a rook"

@FilthyManatee 6 лет назад

Cathy is probably pretty good at the verbal "game of chess", Jordan is just that much better. I would say Cathy is like a really good online chess player, thinks she is hot shit, then challenges a grand master.

@klazzera 6 месяцев назад

It's really easy to understand these bully tactics when I already do them myself and it's being defined with such a clarity. Now I know how to respond when I'm exposed to them. Great video💀

@jimram295 Месяц назад

This was an amazing awesome back and forth from these two. God Bless you for sharing this teaching.

@NewGen6597 4 года назад

She said "so your saying" over 20 times that interview.

@akshaykumarjha9136 4 года назад

over 75 times in the actual video!

@brwhizz3060 4 года назад

*you’re

@yongliao7014 4 года назад

Maybe they are trained to do so.

@speechfreedom7242 4 года назад

Libtards love this phrase, they absolutely do. I’ve encountered this illogical phrase countless times - whenever I try to get a point across, they just throw it at me.

@Rx7man 4 года назад

It's the tone in which they say it, clearly Newman was trying to entrap Peterson, but you could say the same thing in an ordinary conversation and it would be fine.. Newman was clearly looking for straw for her strawman though

@yvesm.8855 5 лет назад

Peterson: "I think..." Interviewer: "So you're assuming that I DON'T think?"

@castleberries 5 лет назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Poetry4Peace 5 лет назад

ahaahha😂☺️😪🧐😈

@narieee2543 5 лет назад

this is a good one hahaha

@percyharrison4414 5 лет назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@CGKA2020 Месяц назад

In the end, kudos to her for actually listening to what he's saying & then acknowledging his accurate point of view.

@Timeless8888 8 месяцев назад

Most of the time people aren’t even truly telling you what they think. They are telling you someone else’s views and opinions. An they don’t fully understand those views an opinions. So there debate turns into an arguments because it isn’t fact and logic that drive them. It’s there EMOTIONS that guide them.

@edwardsbaron3935 5 лет назад

Arguments aren't about using facts anymore. It's about who can whine the loudest.

@Rattattattatt 5 лет назад

depends on viewer criteria. I'm amazed at how many people use the above for theirs.

@biggyboris5540 5 лет назад

thats the difference between an argument and a debate

@shankCR7 5 лет назад

facts do win the convo but convo with halfwits, it doesn't work haha

@itsjohnnyyo1930 5 лет назад

Oh my god, yes woman do this a lot

@Gioyoji 5 лет назад

Lol if you let them whine louder

@gustafonseca2 3 года назад

My gosh! This man deserves an award after dealing with all the crazy talk without even being rude.

@36minutesago7 3 года назад

Oh so you don’t support the troops?

@M0butu 3 года назад

Oh so you are still beating your wife?

@alonelywalker6602 3 года назад

So women should put up with you harassing and offending them?

@gespenst6506 3 года назад

Oh, so you’re approaching him?

@HiBuddyyyyyy 3 года назад

@Loading Memes is that a Jojos reference?

@emory4258 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing this!

@federicozambrotta30 5 лет назад

“I like ketchup and don’t like mayonnaise” “So are you saying fast food restaurants should quit using mayonnaise?”

@pippipster6767 5 лет назад

Yes, I am saying that.

@crimedianb876 5 лет назад

@@pippipster6767 me too

@miazander 5 лет назад

lol

@Knighz 5 лет назад

No ketchup just sauce.

@ahmadfarhan4433 5 лет назад

So you are saying mayonnaise is a music instrument?

@rizu9955 3 года назад

im jealous that jordan can have fun in this kind of situation because he's just that good at speaking with people

@ash_1419 2 года назад

You can be too

@jout738 2 года назад

Yes he’s old and experienced. Young and unexperienced people would maybe get aggresive. Jordan just needed to always explain how it actually is and so it made her like complete fockibg clown, when she every single time went for reason misunderstand him.

@user-dr5nt2is7f 2 года назад

That too, but I think his confidence comes from his understanding of his logic. He fully knows what he's talking about and is intelligent enough to know what other person is talking about.

@jr3592 2 года назад

He did handle this interview brilliantly but he has later said that it had been extremely stressful for him to go through it, and that it took him a couple of days to recover emotionally from it. He is brave and smart, but human nevertheless.

@edwardsarhuda2595 2 года назад

Me too man.i had to master my art of being "extreme calm"

@yamahaevo 6 месяцев назад

One of the best conversation it the history.

@treadsoftly434 4 года назад

Kathy is overly aggressive and rude. She is an attacker and he knows it. It's very hard to listen to this bully. He has handled it very well.

@1SpudderR 4 года назад

Tread Softly ! I am perhaps not watching through your eyes! But he is sitting in a semi aggressive posture, indicating “He will be right, whatever” attitude! He should have strived well before he did to create equilibrium through both his posture, attitude and response to the inquirer with a communicative response not a rehearsed slap down. Nothing is improved about the Male strut through that Big brave Male attitude...to my mind he reduced his altitude and maybe should acquire some further pacification training? Male--Observer RDR

@swordsheldhigh7934 4 года назад

"overly agressive and rude"..... sounds like most far-right political commentators.

@colinkennedy 4 года назад

@@1SpudderR Jordan's "semi aggressive posture" doesn't justify her negative response. If she thought he was being aggressive, she still could have looked past his attitude and gone on to make the interview as pleasant as possible. But she didn't try to improve the interview, he did. That's why Jordan is in the right. Jordan could have handled it better, for sure, but I think you're reading into his posture a bit too much. Also, what does RDR mean?

@1SpudderR 4 года назад

Colin Kennedy Look.....Why does the Male need any sort of aggressive posture...unless he is subconsciously insecure, and the interviewer achieves maybe one of her goals.......Communication, which would have been declined from the outset........Because of his aggressive base attitude.....90 % Of Reading a person is from the visual perception awareness delivered to the subconscious.....and the receiver of that is unaware...ie their subconscious which then gets delivered into the Conscious transfer of attempted communication.......All because of this somebody’s! projected attitude from incorrect posture. Training seems to be required On his empathy, perhaps a good second starting point. RDR Keep guessing on what RDR means though?!

@colinkennedy 4 года назад

@@1SpudderR You are too far gone.

@shrug1250 3 года назад

Him: *breathes* Her: so you’re saying that we should enslaved oxygen to our own benefit?

@barrylast8655 3 года назад

@Apple Is Forever She knows that statment should be true. There aught to be a word limit law, on Most women. See how that would work. Lol...

@DutchElite98 3 года назад

Hahaha this is great

@dreadcthulhu5 3 года назад

@@barrylast8655 If that's true then it should also be on most humans who on average have the intelligence of a potato.

@CRColes 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for this. I'll definitely be paying closer attention when I engage in the future.

@tabithaormiston-smith590 6 месяцев назад

Absolutely fascinating! I'm subscribing to get more! Thank you for it.

@user-jc2uz3tl6n 5 лет назад

Peterson: I don’t like decorative pillows Cathy: So you’re saying all women should be enslaved?

@JarPanda 5 лет назад

I mean...

@trollemall7016 5 лет назад

Niŋin turdl已 "womens!" Seriously?

@samuelfranco6439 5 лет назад

Niŋin turdl已 Weird how his name includes "troll" but cant recognize "trolling"

@zm4522 5 лет назад

Why shouldn’t we enslave them ??

@NetiNeti-gm5bz 5 лет назад

Cathy and trolls will be a perfect marriage. Both same IQ

@Valdaur 5 лет назад

*Reads title of video* so you're saying that I already get embarrassed in arguments?

@jghifiversveiws8729 5 лет назад

Title of the video: Yes, yes I am.

@THEMATT222 5 лет назад

@@jghifiversveiws8729 , LOL

@THEMATT222 5 лет назад

@@jghifiversveiws8729 , LOL

@THEMATT222 5 лет назад

@@jghifiversveiws8729 , LOL

@THEMATT222 5 лет назад

@@jghifiversveiws8729 , LOL

@CocoaCyril 6 месяцев назад

Wow wow wow. I have new home work. Conversation is a skill like anything else. But because I have been speaking since I was 2 I thought I knew how. It is clear to me I don’t. Thanks for this video. Now let me get my notebook and learn these lessons. ❤

@renaldflores212 Месяц назад

Brilliant video. Thanks.🎉

@TusharBooks 5 лет назад

Peterson: "silence" Cathy : Are you implying that talking to a woman isn't worth your time?

@piergiorgiobenenati3698 5 лет назад

Good one

@Crick1952 5 лет назад

Legend27

@Volosous 5 лет назад

Peterson: **silence**

@PC-uh6hk 5 лет назад

I say that talking to women is a waste of time and even dangerous to men every day and I mean it, women know that they can lie about you and spread it all over town and a man can be arrested after having done nothing wrong and they say you can't hit a woman. Today's women are dangerous and they know it they use our judicial system like a club and you better be able to duck.

@Naaman05 5 лет назад

Ohhh my soul😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

@leestorey2764 3 года назад

He is a psychologist and is the hardest man to argue with, and her entire game plan was to try make him slip up with what he’s saying and get him to twist his words, it was a televised slaughter fest and she didn’t even come close

@philliptjackson 2 года назад

@Kevin Tewey No, that is not what he is saying... lol

@KEBIN-hypothermic 2 года назад

@@philliptjackson yep, we are catching it live in 4k the "so, what you're saying is .." trick. You implement the tips in the video correctly sir Phill

@bait5257 2 года назад

@@philliptjackson gottem

@travisborst528 2 года назад

Jordan peterson isn't a good debater, he's an excellent public speaker if you already agree with him tho... but as soon as he's on stage with any one that has experience with public debates he's made a fool of... like the debate with Matt dillihunty

@travisborst528 2 года назад

@Luc Germain it's actually not, for example let's look at what made him internet famous, his critique of Bill c13. The bill didn't say what he claimed it too... he was hyperbolic about the imitations than none of which came true, he's absolutly out of his depth when he talks about religion and atheism, his comments on lobsters arnt true in the way he describes it or relates it to how people interact... he constantly spews word salad, sounds smart but he doesn't actually back up most of what he says... there is a reason he's considered a joke now by most people familiar with him but not a follower...