First tip is perfect. I need to watch this everyday. My mouth gets me in trouble a lot & I need to be truthful, helpful, inspiring, necessary & kind when I speak. That would avoid a lot of pain in my life. Thanks for the video.
I always feel dumb especially talking during a group chat. I have a basketball group chat everyday I say stupid stuff and they call me out on it and it makes me mad but then I realized what I said was stupid and not thinking before I spoke and heard what they said
The fact that you looked this up on RU-vid says a lot, and I'm glad you wanted to learn how to think before you speak. I know I'm a stranger, but I'm proud of you. You made the right choice. :)
To stop overreacting I would just pause my mind and just say to myself … “i am in control of my own emotions” and usually you can stop Bc you can realize this on your own.
You know, everytime i watch these types of videos, I get inspired and really determined to change myself. But after 3 days that motivation is gone and I'm back to becoming a loser
Thank you, I keep saying stuff that is anoying other people, and is getting me in trouble at school. I just recently realized that it was what I was saying instead of them being jerks. I needed this, and even tho I have ocs tomorrow for calling someone a bastard I know what to do next time I want to say something.
Thank you so much! I have an impromptu speeech tomorrow and I watched 2 of your videos. Before watching these two videos, I felt super nervous. But upon seeing your extremely helpful tips, I've gained confidence. I was so disappointed to see that your channel only has 4k subs, I believe you deserve to have more than that!
one time during school, we had a high school senior come in to help teach us in chorus and he had been there for a while. that day, a teacher was supposed to come in and grade him on how he teaches. he didn’t end up coming and i asked the high school senior let’s call him mr a, if the teacher comming to grade him, let’s call him mr t, the same one as the intro to business teacher because (and this is the part where i didn’t think) my brother doesn’t like him and my cousin swore a lot while talking about him. i felt so bad and i almost balled my eyes out the second after i said it. i was never a bad kid but i don’t know what happened. i just said it. my teachers all looked at me and said “alright stop we can’t say that it’s not nice” i felt really awkward and REALLY bad. i was about to cry. even now i think about it and i just feel so bad. can someone tell me how to fix myself
Basically trying not to think is actually thinking so how do I keep not thinking about thinking about it? About what ? I need to stop smoking weed and try to do someonething with myslelf😂
Jeez, he talks too much! Was anything he said 'true', or 'helpful'? Did it 'inspire' me? Was it 'necessary' for him to spend over 5 minutes lecturing me about being kind? Only kidding. Great advice for people like me who puts my foot in it far too often.
I do so much mistakes but today I have learned the power of silence and thinking of a good response..... Also Listen I will practice today and never give up
I came here today because in my school there was a performance so my class and all the sections came there we were talking then principal mam said if you don't keep quiet I will make the boys and girls sit together I couldn't stop myself and said yes mam then she called me out and made me sit with the girls I was the only boy with the girls it was very embarrassing 😢
I am easily annoyed by many subject people used to speak about. Sometimes I bite myself on my tongue, sometimes my words just flew from my mouth. Sometimes I just want to insult people being stupid about that. I really try to stay calm but it is stronger than me. And sometimes I don't even care if I am going to insult someone. The problem is that this is my habit now so I unintentionally insult people I care about.
wished i was less confident so i wouldn't say bad things i don't believe just because they're funny. i also wish i wasn't reinforced by my friends laughing at the things i say.
I have a phobia like there are few bad words in my mind continuously going on sometimes and when there's important thing going on , they automatically generate in my mind. So if I think before I speak then the problem can be solved?? Pls tell me.
I’m trying to work on my impulsivity. It’s hard but mindfulness is key. I saved the think acronym and will put it my computer monitor at work to remind me, so I build this as lifelong habit - as much as possible. Thank you for sharing!
