3 Ways Women Need to Be Submissive In A Marriage 

You gotta pay the cost to be the boss.

I hope it works out. I have no idea women decide in their forties that sex is over, and expect their husband to go along with it.

I am glad Karyn could help you & your marriage!👍🥰

A DECADE????

That's insane. Should have left 10+ years ago instead of getting excited for the carrot on the stick

It takes a woman who doesn’t let her pride control the marriage. The worst kind ate devoted southern Baptist women!! Believe me I have seen it in every one of the SB marriages I know and their kids are super jacked up. Those women destroy everything they touch

sell everything, give her half, go to thailand, you're welcome

@oldludwigdrummer6844, thank you for being so open about the struggles in your marriage - you help other good men like you know they are not alone. Bless you.

Her and PsyHacks with Dr. O.T. are the right places to start. It sounds like something is wrong on her end and is causing issues in the relationship.

What’s stopping you from changing things? Or getting devorced?

Amen

Every weak Christian church always cites Ephesians 5:21 before 5:22 rather than putting it before 5:22, 6:1, and 6:5. It’s the end of a paragraph and man-wife, parent-child, master-servant relationships all require leadership/submission roles. No one ever prefaces “mutual submission” with in parenting relationships as it would be foolish to. Likewise it’s equally as foolish to think of husbands mutually submitting to their wives.

How about instead of using someone else's agenda like a holy book, you just work on being yourself? I think the mentality of insisting things need to be a certain way because of a book is entirely leading yourself into your own misery, fueled by false expectations. Whenever I hear this rhetoric it just reminds me of those guys like Elliot Roger who make those videos where they simply can't understand why women run away from them. I'm an Archaeologist and Anthropologist and reading this is crazy. The Bible is really simple and the Bible doesn't even necessarily dictate all that so many believe it does. People will find any means or justification to legitimize themselves. Then again this is what we get when people think they know more than they do about things. It's very helpful to read these different books in different formats and compilations so one may understand them to fullest and with the appropriate context. Without that you don't actually know what those books are saying, they were never designed to be read or written in contemporary vernacular such as English. Personally I think it's bizarre that anyone is fully aware of a great deceiver but still leads themselves into being played and deceived. 🍎🐍

@@michaelclark2458 So according to canon since you got all these quotes ready to go, what are we supposed to take away from women like the Virgin Mary and Mary Magdalena? What is their place? What is their role? Are you going to try and say that's different?

Women have taken out the word obey from the wedding vow. And they are living that everyday

sounds like rules straight from the handmaids tale if im gonna be honest

Ew but youdoyou 1. Woman may be better at math/finance 2. Mother may be better at parenting 3. Woman may be a dom

1. The woman may be better at math/finance. 2. The mother may be better at parenting. 3. The woman may be a dom.

@@JuniperGal-ek2pu preach

@@JuniperGal-ek2pu It just does not work! that is just too much resposability for a care free being. Women are not happy doing math for us, nor doing the parenting plan and defentily not happy about doming. (Exeptions are not rules) If you do not belive me find a men who put hes heel over your head wile intimating...

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That's how you know they haven't had enough babies put in em

Sorry, that this happens.

Thank you for sharing. Good for you to stick to your guns when your wife has a temper tantrum. That's a wonderful example of how good men become stronger in the face of their wife's woman ways.

Stand on you square brother, and don’t let her take you to the poor house!😃

Take charge. Ignore her protests. Lead. It works

@@Nnmtes that only works if the wife wants to submit. In my faith submission is completely voluntary. We see compelled submission as a form of abuse. We call it "unrighteous dominion.". For the first time in my marriage I've been standing up to her emasculation. 8 months ago I decided to start focusing on my own well being. I had been focusing on hers to the exclusion of my own. I've been cutting calories, exercising and lifting weights. I've slimmed down a few inches already. As a result I've become more assertive. I'm enforcing my boundaries for the first time and standing up to her. Among this and other changes she isn't really liking the new me. I feel divorce coming. She'll never submit to me and I'm refusing to submit to her.

In my experience, most "trad or Christian" women these days are just Feminists in sheep's clothing. The problem for you is you don't really have anymore big bargaining chips because you are already married w/ kids so she has you right where she wants you. The more you put your foot down the more respect she will gain for you. What we were taught, to bend over backwards to give them everything they want is exactly why they will lose respect for you.

I feel you brother, she needs to apologize, and you should try to work on changing the power dynamics in your relationship, if nothing works open the door and let her go!

They don’t like that part.

Christians already cherry pick verses anyway. Plus, I don’t think it literally means our today’s meaning of submit. I personally think it means being loyal.

@@JuniperGal-ek2pu - What it means is what the authors meant when they wrote it. The original language is Koine Greek and the word that we translate as "submit" is the Greek word "hupotasso". Here is the literal definition of hupotasso out of Strong's Concordance: hupotassó: to place or rank under, to subject, to obey Original Word: ὑποτάσσω Part of Speech: Verb Transliteration: hupotassó Phonetic Spelling: (hoop-ot-as'-so) Definition: to place or rank under, to subject, to obey Usage: I place under, subject to; I submit, put myself into subjection. To even better understand what the authors meant, hupotasso was a military term that (as shown above) means to "rank under". What the authors (The Apostle Paul and the Apostle Peter) were instructing New Testament wives to do was to consider themselves to be a lower rank (think military) than their husbands and to treat them accordingly. That is to obey every (legal) instruction they were given and to do it with all respect.

@@j.p.5716 lol you didn’t even sugar coat it. So wives were expected to obey every single instruction like a slave? Yeah, no. Not for me or really anyone for that matter 😅

@@JuniperGal-ek2pu - When you were living under the authority of your parents, did obeying them make you a slave? No. It just made you a good child. Does obeying your boss at work make you a slave? No. It just makes you a good employee. A wife choosing to obey her husband does not make her a slave either, just a good wife. All organizations have to have a leader and others that are under the authority of that leader. In marriage, God says that the husband is the leader. That "slave "nonsense" is just one of the (many) lies of feminism that hurts everyone.

Thank you, Steve. I appreciate your continued support very much.

A man needs to hold the line on certain things. It is our money. She gets to manage it, sort of… but what I did was, before we went house-hunting, make an agreement with her. We would pay off the mortgage as soon as reasonably doable. We would also do ALL other major purchases in cash, or at zero interest. Everything. Cars, furniture, appliances, home repairs, home upgrades. And I held her to that agreement. A couple times she went nuts over the compromises it entailed, but I held firm. And unlike virtually everyone else we know, we are long paid off on the mortgage. We have done major repairs, major room upgrades, purchased a handful of new cars including luxury BMWs, AND socked away a good nest egg. Because we stuck to the agreement. Because I held her to that agreement.

40% of American wives outearn their husbands, thanks very much.

@@TGP109What about the remaining 60%? Does it not count? I’m sure 60 is way greater than 40. I refuse to use statistics because, to me, relationships specifically marriage should not be about “equality” but “complementarity”. Starting with physiology, ladies got “warm holes” while men got “hot rods”. The key words are COMPLEMENT and AGREE on everything.

Don't ever marry. And you're shutting down because you don't feel safe with her.

On RU-vid -Casey Zaner - he's a man's dating & life coach. Between Karyn & Casey l am saving my 28yr marriage after I blew it then she almost blew it but l recovered & she is definitely working on her self now. After 10yrs of nosex its finally RE-happened twice this past weekend! Looking forward to more.

​@@Job.Well.Done_01Psy Hacks is where you want to go. Don't mistake his perspective for Chauvinism. It is of confidence and vetting women to find the good ones, so you know you and her are safe.

@calebw.8312, I appreciate your question. I don't currently have videos specifically for dating, but listen to your heart - it is telling you what to do. @smokingcrab2290 is spot on - you're shutting down because you don't feel safe with her.

Women get MS now. It's so common, it's suspicious

If she takes out the word "obey" from the wedding vows, it's a sign of how the marriage will go

@@Vid7872 exactly lol but even if it’s in there they will bait and switch once they are in the marriage because they are like children. Just make it clear it’s either obedience or the streets and be willing to let her go. A woman that doesn’t follow your leadership will make your life miserable and as a man no woman should be letting you do anything

@@etseredouard3146 It would be easier, if the laws weren't designed in favor of women. I bet if the women couldn't get alimony or child support or custody, they wouldn't want a divorce, and would be on their best behavior.

It has nothing to do with ''respect''-it has to do with lazy a*s husbands. Some men complain about being nagged but it's not nagging if you're not doing.

​@@nerychristianLmao most men couldn't last 6 months with sole custody of their kids with no outside help from female family members.

Elaborate 🙏🏼

@@ScriptureFirst Accountability is on men but assumed not on women as typical for supremacist mindsets void of humility

That’s the common lies told to men. Character is shown early in the relationship. When women go to work, they don’t check if their boss is a good leader, they know their roles, even when the company makes losses… imagine it is their husbands leading company, I would hear the same excuse: “he has to prove” First of all? Most of women fail with their behaviour and attitude to be taken seriously in the first place. It’s the audacity for me. Double standards are real here

@@Fitricson No, the problem is that most men "adjust" for women. Like your example about the work thing, women know the company will carry on regardless how they behave, and also they get an immediate reward for submitting (a paycheck). If men operated like a company their women will know that the men will simply move on if they don't fall in line. So gentlemen, live your life like a company, make no adjustments for women, that way there won't be an excuse to tolerate the nonsense

@@coffeeandgrind good behaviour is not spontaneous or “just come naturally”. A woman with integrity and respect knows her place from the beginning. Those men who choos these incapable women, are a reflection of their own decisions. Not capable to move with clear mind and logic. And still, a woman saying she can be romantically with a man without submission and respect, she is an immature person and would never be able to deal with a man that doesn’t tolerate disrespect. Most of the time, these women already got dumped by at least one of those men. No one should wait for them, when they want at the same time the complete package from the man on the table…

@@Fitricson so woman are beneath u

you're not nitpicking - but rather you're not understanding the meaning behind "submissive" - you're thinking of a sexual/dominance thing. Karyn was very clear in her definition and use of the word - perhaps you need to watch her full video instead of just this snippet to get a better context of the word. Very similar to when dancing - the man leads and the wife follows. She knows to follow because you're leading. If she goes her own way - you two will trip up and/or fall.

Why is submissive a dirty word? That’s part of the lie modern feminism has sown over time. We all practice submission, every day. Whether it be to your employer, government, law enforcement etc. Submission is not a bad thing, civilized society requires it. In the context of a marriage, it simply means a wife follows her husbands lead, and supports his decisions, assuming that he leads in a way that that is respectful of her and her desires.

@jimjohnson394, thank you for your comment. I understand where you are coming from. My definition of submissive is purposely not harsh. Submission means respecting your husband's opinions and decisions and not invalidating him. Thank you for giving us a great example of how a good man thinks in his marriage.

vocab really doesn’t matter, but i do agree that women submitting only because the have to is no better, a woman who doesn’t submit because they want to still isn’t a good wife.

@@andyjones3304 Uhm, because many men have used it as such?

I have seen it. And I find it to be interesting. I want to have a slave too. But I am not a male... Maybe I should be changed so I can be free like men are.

The bible says that the woman must submit to her husband. There is no such thing as equal partners. Someone will always have to lead and make the decisions.

Being submissive does not mean you are not equal. It is a voluntary following by your own want and need, for yourself. Being submissive is like someone asking if you want to go to the movies, and you say, "sure, whatever you want to do it fine by me" in a way that is happily following someone. Being submissive is not pitiful, we are submissive in many different ways, all of us, in every day life. Your boss, you are submissive to, if you let your partner decide what to eat, you are being submissive, if you are lawful, you submit yourself to always making sure you do not break those laws. Same thing with relationships. If you happily let someone lead you out of your own volition, that is being submissive. Being submissive is not unequal, weak, a doormat, or any of that. You are equal, you just like to follow. Being submissive has to come from you though, it is not about forcing someone to submit, that is abuse. You can still discuss things and have mutual agreements, that isn't exempt from being submissive. You can talk and say your mind, that is not exempt from submissiveness. It is about negotiating of how you are submissive and what you want to get out of it, for your partner, and for you too, if you don't have that, you are in an abusive relationship where one is not thinking of the other's wants and needs, but only taking from you. If you decide that your husband is to always have the last say in things, that is a negotiation by yourself that you should be happy with, for yourself. If not, then don't do it. But, sometimes, it is not always about us, to genuinely want to do what your partner wants to do, that is the heart of submission, and I call it, being a good partner. Even a dominant can have a submissive side, to me. That being, the want to please their partner. If you want to please your partner, make them happy, do something for them out of your own desire, that is being submissive. How is that pitiful??

Your complete inability and refusal to even consider the idea that a good man is able to lead his family is pitiful.

You are pitiful. Man-card REVOKED!

@@AiboCrazy Ok, so men and women are equally submissive before the law, but only women are to be submissive to their husbands. Whatever happened to people agreeing to what they wanted from life/marriage BEFORE GETTING MARRIED? Religious people know damn well what they mean by submissive, they aren't fooling anyone. There are enough cases of men leading their families off of financial cliffs, and worse to disregard this message.